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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't understand it why people cannot read a simple profile layout. Somebody dsn me a message telling me how gorgeous I look that they enjoy my videos and because I don't reply back to them because clearly my profile says that I'm not looking for gay people or transvestites or any of the saw next minute I'm a ... well you can guess not very nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any of the sort. Hopefully you'll get the gist of my post

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By *hoebe56Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi im in sounds like fun

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

You can set your filters so men can’t message you.

But yes, many don’t read our profile but it is quite lengthy.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the thing with myself is I allow anyone to message me because they know the gist if they read my profile they can clearly see that I'm not interested in men or or men pretending to be winning or transvestites or any.. try and turn me into getting my willy sucked from a man it's not going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don’t but there are filters

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By *omSnowMan
over a year ago

Woking


"I don't understand it why people cannot read a simple profile layout. Somebody dsn me a message telling me how gorgeous I look that they enjoy my videos and because I don't reply back to them because clearly my profile says that I'm not looking for gay people or transvestites or any of the saw next minute I'm a ... well you can guess not very nice. "

....but you look like a gay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody that watches my videos they are not normal videos basically it's not me masturbating or anything they can talk about anything so I let anyone message me but it doesn't mean that I want to get my willy sucked by a Man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the thing with myself is I allow anyone to message me because they know the gist if they read my profile they can clearly see that I'm not interested in men or or men pretending to be winning or transvestites or any.. try and turn me into getting my willy sucked from a man it's not going to happen "

Are they mailing to say you're hot and they like your videos.... or are they asking to suck your cock?

I can't see any problem in people being nice. It doesn't automatically mean they want to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand it why people cannot read a simple profile layout. Somebody dsn me a message telling me how gorgeous I look that they enjoy my videos and because I don't reply back to them because clearly my profile says that I'm not looking for gay people or transvestites or any of the saw next minute I'm a ... well you can guess not very nice.

....but you look like a gay "

How can I look like a gay lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well the thing with myself is I allow anyone to message me because they know the gist if they read my profile they can clearly see that I'm not interested in men or or men pretending to be winning or transvestites or any.. try and turn me into getting my willy sucked from a man it's not going to happen

Are they mailing to say you're hot and they like your videos.... or are they asking to suck your cock?

I can't see any problem in people being nice. It doesn't automatically mean they want to fuck you."

No it's not that it's just that I received a message and they said you're sexy I like your videos and then because I wasn't replying back to them m.i. sent them one message saying I am not interested in that person and then of course the slaughtering came basically saying I'm a dick head I don't deserve to have any luck on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people don't read profiles, it's the part and parcel of Fab. Message filters are there to stop any unwanted messages or attention. It's easier to do this rather than make a point of telling everyone how 'straight' you are which a lot of people seem to do on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the thing with myself is I allow anyone to message me because they know the gist if they read my profile they can clearly see that I'm not interested in men or or men pretending to be winning or transvestites or any.. try and turn me into getting my willy sucked from a man it's not going to happen

Are they mailing to say you're hot and they like your videos.... or are they asking to suck your cock?

I can't see any problem in people being nice. It doesn't automatically mean they want to fuck you.

No it's not that it's just that I received a message and they said you're sexy I like your videos and then because I wasn't replying back to them m.i. sent them one message saying I am not interested in that person and then of course the slaughtering came basically saying I'm a dick head I don't deserve to have any luck on here"

Sounds like their original message was just being friendly. You assumed they wanted a shag.

Report abusive messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I received a compliment so I replied back saying thank you very much but I don't venture with transvestites. If you can please look what my profile States you will see that I'm not after that sort of thing and then of course the abusive message came

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of people don't read profiles, it's the part and parcel of Fab. Message filters are there to stop any unwanted messages or attention. It's easier to do this rather than make a point of telling everyone how 'straight' you are which a lot of people seem to do on here "

Well I class myself as a straight guy I've only ever had relationships with women and my profile is a lot different to a lot of men's on heee

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By *omSnowMan
over a year ago

Woking


"I don't understand it why people cannot read a simple profile layout. Somebody dsn me a message telling me how gorgeous I look that they enjoy my videos and because I don't reply back to them because clearly my profile says that I'm not looking for gay people or transvestites or any of the saw next minute I'm a ... well you can guess not very nice.

....but you look like a gay

How can I look like a gay lol"

Oh, come on mate it was a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately OP you only have 2 choices.

Put up with it

Or

Use message filters

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"A lot of people don't read profiles, it's the part and parcel of Fab. Message filters are there to stop any unwanted messages or attention. It's easier to do this rather than make a point of telling everyone how 'straight' you are which a lot of people seem to do on here

Well I class myself as a straight guy I've only ever had relationships with women and my profile is a lot different to a lot of men's on heee "

How is it different?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Message received, not interested delete block and move on. Learn from it and add filters to stop those predatory Bi, Gay Men and TVs on the site from messaging you, problem solved.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

To have everyone read profiles before contact is probably unrealistic, based on how many use the site.

You could have multiple check boxes that people must tick, before allowing messages, such as accepting they've read the profile, they fit the requirements of what the profile wants, etc. Or if a user doesn't have the site giving those benefits, when it's likely that many could lie to get beyond the barrier, we could make use of the features that we do have, to maximum effect. The site is more than a sex site, so people engage socially without it sexual intention. It thus doesn't have a universal ban on people making contact, it presumes that everyone will completely adhere to site terms and rules of conduct, including showing respect to others at all times, without exception.

If you are unable to use the site, its features and follow the terms that you've agreed to, then it's perhaps worth looking at your expectations and how you could improve things, so that you do. Message filters take a minute to adjust, to get the contact crudely as you want. That's a tiny effort to avoid messaging needlessly. Changing the world is a bigger step. Fab always welcomes suggestions for how to improve the site, so you may be able to improve things that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind the compliments I really don't but when I message them back and tell them that I'm not interested in in their kind that's when the nesti stuff comes and nobody needs any nasty messages anyone that reads my profile anyone that watches my videos all I try to do every day is to be kind and tell people to be kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind the compliments I really don't but when I message them back and tell them that I'm not interested in in their kind that's when the nesti stuff comes and nobody needs any nasty messages anyone that reads my profile anyone that watches my videos all I try to do every day is to be kind and tell people to be kind"

"You're not interested in their kind."

That comment would feel offensive to some people when they were just being nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't word it like that I just basically said look at my profile and then the nasty messages come out of nowhere are all I try to do is be nice to everyone even though I don't get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind the compliments I really don't but when I message them back and tell them that I'm not interested in in their kind that's when the nesti stuff comes and nobody needs any nasty messages anyone that reads my profile anyone that watches my videos all I try to do every day is to be kind and tell people to be kind

"You're not interested in their kind."

That comment would feel offensive to some people when they were just being nice."

How dare you point out hypocrisy!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I only read them if I like the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good read of a profile

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Well the thing with myself is I allow anyone to message me because they know the gist if they read my profile they can clearly see that I'm not interested in men or or men pretending to be winning or transvestites or any.. try and turn me into getting my willy sucked from a man it's not going to happen

Are they mailing to say you're hot and they like your videos.... or are they asking to suck your cock?

I can't see any problem in people being nice. It doesn't automatically mean they want to fuck you.

No it's not that it's just that I received a message and they said you're sexy I like your videos and then because I wasn't replying back to them m.i. sent them one message saying I am not interested in that person and then of course the slaughtering came basically saying I'm a dick head I don't deserve to have any luck on here"

Welcome to fab, where men will message anyone thats not got a filter preventing them doing so and many will get nasty with no reply....or worse, no thank you.

Don't let it get to you

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Loads of men don't read our profile. Then they get narked off when we say we don't meet single guys. It would make so much more sense to read the profile first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand it why people cannot read a simple profile layout. Somebody dsn me a message telling me how gorgeous I look that they enjoy my videos and because I don't reply back to them because clearly my profile says that I'm not looking for gay people or transvestites or any of the saw next minute I'm a ... well you can guess not very nice. "

You don’t reply to people’s messages, that’s not very kind is it ?!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I didn't word it like that I just basically said look at my profile and then the nasty messages come out of nowhere are all I try to do is be nice to everyone even though I don't get that"

A lot of women, for example, get horrific messages after rejecting men in particular. It's a terrible facet of how disgusting some people are. You are better to block them, whether or not you reply and reject.

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