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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

The big decision to be made is, would you rather have.

One year of bad sex

Or

Five years of no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I get back to you on four years time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad sex is better than no sex. I've had years of both in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put up with either tbh.

Lu

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Can I get back to you on four years time "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 3 years too goooo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Wouldn't put up with either tbh.

Lu "

A fair point, but you can't help who you fall in love with sometimes.

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"

Wouldn't put up with either tbh.

Lu "

It's one or the other Lu, no sitting on the fence

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By *hilledGuerillaMan
over a year ago

In the monkey house

Done the 5 years of no sex, I look forward to the year of bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 5 years without. Masturbation is meditation

I would rather not have memories than bad ones if this makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wouldn't put up with either tbh.

Lu

A fair point, but you can't help who you fall in love with sometimes."

Love isn't always enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wouldn't put up with either tbh.

Lu

It's one or the other Lu, no sitting on the fence "

Sounds like sitting on the fence wpuld be more fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think 5 years without. Masturbation is meditation

I would rather not have memories than bad ones if this makes sense? "

I took bad sex to mean not very satisfactory. Rather than bad memories. I have fond memories of some bad sex I've had. Purely because of the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think 5 years without. Masturbation is meditation

I would rather not have memories than bad ones if this makes sense?

I took bad sex to mean not very satisfactory. Rather than bad memories. I have fond memories of some bad sex I've had. Purely because of the person."

I wasn't sure about the meaning of bad here. I went with my own interpretation.

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"

Wouldn't put up with either tbh.

Lu

It's one or the other Lu, no sitting on the fence

Sounds like sitting on the fence wpuld be more fun! "

kinky

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I'm tempted with the year of bad sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years no sex starting now.

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"5 years no sex starting now. "

Lol I'd only have 4 to go if I started last jan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it wouldn't be bad all the time. Communication, practice and better understanding of the person would surely improve it. Assuming the other person was receptive.

If not then I'd rather go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How bad are we talking?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I had 2 years of bad sex followed by nearly 5 years of no sex in my last relationship.

Honestly, couldn't say which was worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had 2 years of bad sex followed by nearly 5 years of no sex in my last relationship.

Honestly, couldn't say which was worse."

I think a sexless relationship is worse than being a sexless single.

And I'd rather be a sexless single than have bad sex.

I think

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I had 2 years of bad sex followed by nearly 5 years of no sex in my last relationship.

Honestly, couldn't say which was worse.

I think a sexless relationship is worse than being a sexless single.

And I'd rather be a sexless single than have bad sex.

I think "

Once again, I totally agree.

It chips away at you every day. Being single and sexless is more of a choice.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ni such thing as bad sex....there is always room for improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I have virtually no sex, I wouldn’t swap the occasional moments of good sex for more bad sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constant bad sex would just be depressing and kill your libido off altogether. I'd much rather not have sex at all if it's going to be bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad sex can become good sex. If its bad for you it must be for the other person too... id take the bad and work on it to be mind blowing

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve come to realise that so long as they have a cock I can suck then there is no bad sex, because (worst case scenario) I can just please myself with their cock.

So, bad sex please. Because I’ve had enough of no sex now and I just want a good knobbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a hard one. Obviously, in the real world, I wouldn't take either. For the purposes of a hypothetical question though, if I knew there was an end point one year away I'd probably grin and bear the bad sex to get to the good stuff faster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve come to realise that so long as they have a cock I can suck then there is no bad sex, because (worst case scenario) I can just please myself with their cock.

So, bad sex please. Because I’ve had enough of no sex now and I just want a good knobbing "

'A good knobbing'

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"That's a hard one. Obviously, in the real world, I wouldn't take either. For the purposes of a hypothetical question though, if I knew there was an end point one year away I'd probably grin and bear the bad sex to get to the good stuff faster. "

Exactly, and make up for it in year two

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