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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble

What do you think about being called this in a message ? Do any woman actually accept this as a compliment? Have to say it doesn’t work for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only in the bedroom

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Only in the bedroom

"

Lol when your better acquainted you mean ?

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Not right, But in the heat of the moment some women may like it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some it's a great pet name but in messages when you haven't met its just a boundary crosser and an instant red flag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if i can call them a gorgeous gigolo in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only in the bedroom

Lol when your better acquainted you mean ? "

Yeah.

There's a time and place for this, but I don't think it's in every day life or messages.

I don't mind being called a slut in bed, but that's all.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a good word in any context

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"For some it's a great pet name but in messages when you haven't met its just a boundary crosser and an instant red flag"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a term that i am not easy with . I know some like it but not for me

There are better sexier words

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its not for me

I only use those types of words with friends who would not be offended by it

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

If I said it to Rosie when she is concentrating on something other than sex I would get a clump, however in sex time its slut slut slut

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What do you think about being called this in a message ? Do any woman actually accept this as a compliment? Have to say it doesn’t work for me x"

Nor me, ever.

I know some women like it but probably best to check your audience first.

I also dislike messages that start "does she" followed by one of a number of crudely described and unlikely sexual practices

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

i'm slut and proud of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term that i am not easy with . I know some like it but not for me

There are better sexier words "

Cock sucking cum whore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t use the term. I’m not a fan of degrading language.

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine


"For some it's a great pet name but in messages when you haven't met its just a boundary crosser and an instant red flag"

Spot on once you are closer its ok in bed

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?

I’m like “great thanks “ delete block

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

Nah not a term I’d use.

I could just imagine being pushed away & kicked in the bollox

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London


"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?

I’m like “great thanks “ delete block "

Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term that i am not easy with . I know some like it but not for me

There are better sexier words

Cock sucking cum whore?"
widgie tasting ejaculate lover ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?

I’m like “great thanks “ delete block

Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow "

Oh yes.

And worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?

I’m like “great thanks “ delete block

Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow "

That's nothing. We once had a message in very broken English from a man demanding to be breast fed by Mrs dark

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine


"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?

I’m like “great thanks “ delete block "

Its overfamiliar cocky ignorance

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?

I’m like “great thanks “ delete block

Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow

That's nothing. We once had a message in very broken English from a man demanding to be breast fed by Mrs dark"

Did he ask nicely though or did he call her a slut ?

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?

I’m like “great thanks “ delete block

Its overfamiliar cocky ignorance "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as an opening message no, but after a connection and knowledge has been established then behind the bedroom walls hell yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, it's no a big fat nope for me. Even in the bedroom I'd hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?

I’m like “great thanks “ delete block

Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow

That's nothing. We once had a message in very broken English from a man demanding to be breast fed by Mrs dark

Did he ask nicely though or did he call her a slut ? "

No manners at all lol.

We have friends with all kinds of weird and wonderful fetishes but if you want your fetish to be taken seriously and respected then you need to be respectful when presenting it to someone.

Had he chatted for a bit and then mentioned it we would have politely declined and said not our kink

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"For some it's a great pet name but in messages when you haven't met its just a boundary crosser and an instant red flag

Spot on once you are closer its ok in bed "

Agreed! Or when my husband is trying to woo me .

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But anyway slut is just someone who enjoys sex, the word has had a massive negative stigma attached to it for years.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, I wouldn't enjoy it because it conjures up a certain image for me and it's not very... well sexy sounding.

Definitely not on a first message, probably best if you refrain from calling anyone something other than their name on a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For someone I know well and know that it will go down well, yes. As an opener, God no I wouldn't do it to a stranger in person so I wouldn't send it in a first message either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For someone I know well and know that it will go down well, yes. As an opener, God no I wouldn't do it to a stranger in person so I wouldn't send it in a first message either."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some it's a great pet name but in messages when you haven't met its just a boundary crosser and an instant red flag"

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Context is everything ... we respond well to good communication (erotic or horny is good, rude or careless not on).

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't like the word, and certainly would not entertain anyone who thought it appropriate to address me as such.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Lol imagine someone approaching you in a pub and saying “ hello sexy sexy slut”

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What dare I say

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Only if she’s suggested that she’d like it.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

We had a message the other day, all it said was " cunty slut."

Obviously Frisky was devastated that we are in lockdown and she couldn't jump on the guy straight away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im on here dont mind, if someone shouted it at me in tescos i wouldn't appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...instant "not a chance" from me.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Maths teacher used to hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

RIP Mr Smithers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think about being called this in a message ? Do any woman actually accept this as a compliment? Have to say it doesn’t work for me x"

If directed at me, I'd be questioning the senders sanity

Or eyesight

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've had ladies ask me to call them this (& others) during certain conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some it's a great pet name but in messages when you haven't met its just a boundary crosser and an instant red flag"

Totally this. Once consent is given then yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's another reclaimed word - a bit like queer in that sense.

Using it to a stranger is bizarre and crossing boundaries - a huge amount of people on here need to learn about boundaries and consent.

It depends wholly on your relationship with a person, and using it without consent just makes you look like a twerp. Education.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's another reclaimed word - a bit like queer in that sense.

Using it to a stranger is bizarre and crossing boundaries - a huge amount of people on here need to learn about boundaries and consent.

It depends wholly on your relationship with a person, and using it without consent just makes you look like a twerp. Education."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the moment endearing, but not untrue either lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a message would be straight delete...time n place maybe

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I don't like the word slut. Sexy bitch would be so much better, but only if said in the bedroom.

Call me a bitch in public and I'd walk away from you and that would be it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the word slut. Sexy bitch would be so much better, but only if said in the bedroom.

Call me a bitch in public and I'd walk away from you and that would be it.

Mrs"

Which interestingly I could never and would never call anyone. Bitch (to me) is an awful thing to call someone. A bit like prick. Urgh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the word slut. Sexy bitch would be so much better, but only if said in the bedroom.

Call me a bitch in public and I'd walk away from you and that would be it.

Mrs

Which interestingly I could never and would never call anyone. Bitch (to me) is an awful thing to call someone. A bit like prick. Urgh."

All those words are humiliating to me but maybe its meant to be part of the experience? Verbal masochism? I had numerous men trying to convince me to their favourite word whether that be a cunt, slut, whatever else they came up with..you can't change someone else meaning of it and dress it up as liberating and positive if they don't feel it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the word slut. Sexy bitch would be so much better, but only if said in the bedroom.

Call me a bitch in public and I'd walk away from you and that would be it.

Mrs

Which interestingly I could never and would never call anyone. Bitch (to me) is an awful thing to call someone. A bit like prick. Urgh.

All those words are humiliating to me but maybe its meant to be part of the experience? Verbal masochism? I had numerous men trying to convince me to their favourite word whether that be a cunt, slut, whatever else they came up with..you can't change someone else meaning of it and dress it up as liberating and positive if they don't feel it.."

Absolutely. There's a time and a place for all sorts of things, but I get in trouble on the forums if I start discussing them in any detail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some feminists have reclaimed the word slut and use it to mean a sexually liberated woman.

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