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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m looking for a friendship as well as the fun side, I want to have a laugh and enjoy the company of a woman but it’s proving to be difficult.

Is this JUST a place for sex? Am I looking in the wrong place for what I want?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's possible to find here, yes. Getting connections can be challenging, particularly as a guy. (And particularly during a pandemic, it's much quieter)

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No hun friendships do develop xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is full of all sorts OP.

It's a traditional swingers site for those who swing, it has singles for NSA fun, it has others looking for more.

It's possible to find someone for friendship and more yes, but it'll take a bit time and patience to find that person.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"No hun friendships do develop xx"

I second that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"No hun friendships do develop xx

I second that "

We third (and fourth?) that

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"No hun friendships do develop xx

I second that "

Xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"No hun friendships do develop xx

I second that

We third (and fourth?) that "

x

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Definitely the right place, just unfortunately now is certainly not the right time (for actually meeting at least)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time "

Could not have said it better.

Well I could, I could have put the apostrophe in the first word

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've been looking for that for years on here. Yet to find anyone who wants to come out of the bedroom to have a friendship, along with the benefits.

I live in hope.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I’m looking for a friendship as well as the fun side, I want to have a laugh and enjoy the company of a woman but it’s proving to be difficult.

Is this JUST a place for sex? Am I looking in the wrong place for what I want? "

Hello

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"No hun friendships do develop xx

I second that

We third (and fourth?) that

x"

Me too x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"No hun friendships do develop xx

I second that

We third (and fourth?) that

x

Me too x "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time

Could not have said it better.

Well I could, I could have put the apostrophe in the first word "

There's always one member of the grammar police on hand to shove an unwary victim of autocarrot up against the wall and slap an apostrophe round his/her face

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

There are friendships to be made here OP and maybe in ways you wouldn't expect.

Welcome to the forum x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time

Could not have said it better.

Well I could, I could have put the apostrophe in the first word

There's always one member of the grammar police on hand to shove an unwary victim of autocarrot up against the wall and slap an apostrophe round his/her face "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time

Could not have said it better.

Well I could, I could have put the apostrophe in the first word

There's always one member of the grammar police on hand to shove an unwary victim of autocarrot up against the wall and slap an apostrophe round his/her face "

Only coz it was Grumpy

I didn't spot it til I was putting the full stop on my first sentence so it was an even better gift!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

There are some amazing friendships to be found here OP.

And as all we can do at the moment is develop those friendships, nurture them and believe that plans and hopes for the future will come true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a friendship or two start from here works well. Means good open chat too even if it’s just friendship it’s something in common for the reasons we come here in the first place.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I've developed some great friendships through this site. Whether any of them will develop into the "with benefits" variety I have no idea. A bit immaterial at the moment anyway. If/when something like normal interaction with others becomes possible again, who knows what might happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope not. I am here for the same thing.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I'm not marriage material, seemingly not fuck material... I'm low on Fab friendships... Doesn't look good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's all that should be on offer atm anyway?

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By *rientalsexytvjjTV/TS
over a year ago

London, Bournemouth


"I’m looking for a friendship as well as the fun side, I want to have a laugh and enjoy the company of a woman but it’s proving to be difficult.

Is this JUST a place for sex? Am I looking in the wrong place for what I want? "

well I met some who turn out to be good friends and even romance...how open minded are u? hope to hear from u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met some fantastic people on here, some of whom will be friends for life .

You will find it.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time

Could not have said it better.

Well I could, I could have put the apostrophe in the first word

There's always one member of the grammar police on hand to shove an unwary victim of autocarrot up against the wall and slap an apostrophe round his/her face "

When you say "apostrophe", do you mean cock? Because I'm ok with that.

E

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By *NA TeamCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We’ve made friends on here and some of them have now been friends for years

Think it’s just a difficult time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear ya, guys on this are terrible for staying on touch, when they do it's like 6 months later. As if they'd forgotten I exist. I don't want to join a normal dating website because they either want girlfriends or marriage proposals. I been on a few fuck buddy websites, but their not great as most men on it are old or unattractive. Found fab from an ex fuck buddy, figured someone would be in the same boat at me. It's like finding a needle in a haystack no matter what site I use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No OP, you're not in the wrong place. Friendships can and do form on this site. Don't give up

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve made some real friendships on here, what I love is that they are opened minded and non judgemental.

Don’t get me wrong, most messages from folk are “want a shag”, but I’ve found some excellent guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not on the wrong site at all. I have made and met some amazing friends through Fab

Don't give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find it helpful if your profile said more about non sex things you are interested in or looking for, which someone can relate to as a potential friend. Hope you don't mind my blunt suggestion. Sometimes it's neither the place or time, it's the way we approach things. X

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I’m looking for a friendship as well as the fun side, I want to have a laugh and enjoy the company of a woman but it’s proving to be difficult.

Is this JUST a place for sex? Am I looking in the wrong place for what I want? "

This place is way better for friends than it is for sex.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Finding someone compatible can take a long time even as a woman on here. Stick with it, as they say, you have to be in it, to win it

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

OP i have built new connections with a few couples and ladies since the lockdown. Although i haven't met them in person for obvious reasons, we communicate regularly and hopefully i will meet my new friends when lockdown is lifted. Im still in contact with a lady who i regularly play with and she has become a good friend since the lockdown .

It can be done, just a case of thinking outside the box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m looking for a friendship as well as the fun side, I want to have a laugh and enjoy the company of a woman but it’s proving to be difficult.

Is this JUST a place for sex? Am I looking in the wrong place for what I want?

This place is way better for friends than it is for sex. "

Love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even I am not expecting miracles on here after 5 weeks wrong time and situation at the mo

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s definitely possible to find friendship on here. I’ve met some lovely people who are now friends.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I met a lovely lady. We started chatting in first lockdown. We were never naughty friends but have a mutual interest in walking. We’ve had some great days out together up in the Yorkshire Dales walking. It can be done.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time

Could not have said it better.

Well I could, I could have put the apostrophe in the first word

There's always one member of the grammar police on hand to shove an unwary victim of autocarrot up against the wall and slap an apostrophe round his/her face

When you say "apostrophe", do you mean cock? Because I'm ok with that.

E"

Just saw this E! If you saw Princess Peach's cock, you'd probably choose the apostrophe

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time

Could not have said it better.

Well I could, I could have put the apostrophe in the first word

There's always one member of the grammar police on hand to shove an unwary victim of autocarrot up against the wall and slap an apostrophe round his/her face

When you say "apostrophe", do you mean cock? Because I'm ok with that.

E

Just saw this E! If you saw Princess Peach's cock, you'd probably choose the apostrophe "

Ohhhhhh, we both imagined she has a soft and delicate fangina.

#morethanabitdissapointed

We want to hug her, she's lovely.

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a a whole lot of people that just want quick and frequent sex with nothing more than a “hello” first. I have a couple of friends from here though and that’s been good.

Always open to a few more though

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"I’m looking for a friendship as well as the fun side, I want to have a laugh and enjoy the company of a woman but it’s proving to be difficult.

Is this JUST a place for sex? Am I looking in the wrong place for what I want? "

Jyst be yourself bud. As a returning user like myself, it can be a bit difficult to stand out.. especially for guys but just persevere. Friendships can form over time. Just gotta keep trying

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Its not the wrong place .

It's just the wrong time

Could not have said it better.

Well I could, I could have put the apostrophe in the first word

There's always one member of the grammar police on hand to shove an unwary victim of autocarrot up against the wall and slap an apostrophe round his/her face

When you say "apostrophe", do you mean cock? Because I'm ok with that.

E

Just saw this E! If you saw Princess Peach's cock, you'd probably choose the apostrophe

Ohhhhhh, we both imagined she has a soft and delicate fangina.

#morethanabitdissapointed

We want to hug her, she's lovely.

E"

I believe she has a fangina (smoothness level unknown) but she also is in possession of a jolly large member (portable) that may well make your toes curl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more difficult but can happen. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that mate! Appreciate it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh

Nice

Smooth - hope it worked

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’ve made friends here both with benefits and without, keeping an open mind helps because your own wants and needs will fluctuate from time to time. Good luck!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not at all I look for fwb I'm not into one offs I'm sure u will find one! For when meets are allowed ! Have found a couple of fwb over my 3 years here good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just this post alone has made me see the upside! Seeing a different side to fab and really liking it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Patience is needed. And an open mind.

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By *allenMan
over a year ago

Thatcham

I’d be happy to find some new friends on here.

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