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Humiliation and degrading

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey

How many of you fabs like to be on the receiving end of some humiliation or degrading by a Dom or Domme?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a theme with your threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No thank you

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It's not for me!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

It's a common /popular kink but not one I think works without a really good knowledge of someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a common /popular kink but not one I think works without a really good knowledge of someone."

Exactly this, I love the roleplay of being humiliated by a woman, but it can’t just be anyone, I have to know her well and for her to know a lot about me and what parts of humiliation turn me on.

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By *imonwhite1Man
over a year ago

Oldbury

Love to be degraded and humiliated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh. Me me!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Hey

How many of you fabs like to be on the receiving end of some humiliation or degrading by a Dom or Domme? "

Like it. Fuck no.

Find it so arousing I can't even describe. Yep, but if that wasn't the case it wouldn't be humiliation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *ntimateExperience21Man
over a year ago

Dublin, Louth, Meath, Kildare


"Hey

How many of you fabs like to be on the receiving end of some humiliation or degrading by a Dom or Domme?

Like it. Fuck no.

Find it so arousing I can't even describe. Yep, but if that wasn't the case it wouldn't be humiliation."

What’s the most degrading or humiliating act you have had performed on you the Ladyjayne?

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

If i liked it it would have worked very well. Its supposed to be humiliating

Its something i do partake in with the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t think of anything worse .

Everyone is always trying to bully you and try to make u look and feel like shit . 24/7 for life since u a kid .

Is the last and worse thing I could think off .

I need exactly the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

No way in any shape or form. I don't ever want to be called derogatory names, nor do I ever want to do that to others.

I just don't get any of it.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Have done it a few times.

But always with someone where there's 100% trust.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Absolutely not.

No way in any shape or form. I don't ever want to be called derogatory names, nor do I ever want to do that to others.

I just don't get any of it. "

Me neither. I couldn’t do it

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I've done it with a few people who are really into that sort of play. TBH I found it difficult to do. I felt awful afterwards and it really hit a nerve, especially with the sub female.

I played with her alongside her Dom, and despite knowing them very well and knowing the solid relationship they have, there were a few occasions I wanted to smack him in the mouth.

It does take trust, as sometimes some words will trigger suppressed reactions.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If you’re not into it, then it’s difficult to describe why it is a turn on for some of us. Also there’s different types of humiliating situations that can be part of that play, and it is play.

I have indulged in a few especially at fetish clubs, with a previous partner and a couple of people who didn’t know me personally. As long as you have boundaries set up prior to play then it’s no different to any other sexual kink. For example I won’t have anyone spitting on me or other bodily fluids, others will.

It’s play but once it stops, it should stop. You’re being humiliated to scratch an itch but that shouldn’t turn into an injury.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need anyone else to do it for me

I am fully versed and fully capable of doing it to myself

I am outwardly confident and well aware of my self worth 90% of the time, but when the demons creep in...

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"If you’re not into it, then it’s difficult to describe why it is a turn on for some of us. Also there’s different types of humiliating situations that can be part of that play, and it is play.

I have indulged in a few especially at fetish clubs, with a previous partner and a couple of people who didn’t know me personally. As long as you have boundaries set up prior to play then it’s no different to any other sexual kink. For example I won’t have anyone spitting on me or other bodily fluids, others will.

It’s play but once it stops, it should stop. You’re being humiliated to scratch an itch but that shouldn’t turn into an injury. "

Agreed it is hard to explain to people why it’s enjoyable for me personally.

It definitely does need clear boundaries and limits and once the fun stops stop

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Hey

How many of you fabs like to be on the receiving end of some humiliation or degrading by a Dom or Domme?

Like it. Fuck no.

Find it so arousing I can't even describe. Yep, but if that wasn't the case it wouldn't be humiliation.

What’s the most degrading or humiliating act you have had performed on you the Ladyjayne?"

Yeah that's not something I share with someone I am not in a relationship with.

Humiliation is extremely subjective and personal and not something I share with friends let alone strangers.

The things someone finds humiliating or degrading give you an insight into someones personality, their weaknesses or indeed the adversity they have overcome. Not everyone wants to share that with the world.

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By *aughtySubMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes please!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Yes Mr here (sub)

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By *issyVikkiTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Co.Antrim


"Hey

How many of you fabs like to be on the receiving end of some humiliation or degrading by a Dom or Domme? "

Me me me me ☺

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I love it.

Happy to be the dominant player giving the instructions, but also happy to be submissive and get given the instructions - depends on my mood and the other person I am with and what they want too.

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By *aytime78Man
51 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I can take some bants but I give it back na not for me and if it were another bloke id end up chinning him tbf

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By *aveJones76Man
50 weeks ago

Rotherham

Each to their own, but I love it and have done so since my early 20s. Been in a couple of relationships where my partners got involved and my now wife does. Most of the humiliation is directed at me little cock, but there has been plenty of other stuff too.

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