FabSwingers.com forum: ANOTHER TIMEWASTER

By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Why is it when you make arrangements with a guy they let you down at the last minute

Been chatting nicely all week and working up the excitement then bang....nothing

No polite excuse....Really pisses me off at times

Maybe we on wrong site

Rant over

sorry

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And breathe...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"working up the excitement then bang...."

Probably hit the nail on the head there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure u won't wait long for another guy to take his place, but agree with you most guys shouldn't be on here hope u get a good guy for tonite might work out even better lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

what site is there that guarantees no timewasters??

look at your verification and selection process because in 3 years i can count on one hand the number of no shows i have had....i need a lot more hands to show the number of people who do show up

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

" but agree with you most guys shouldn't be on here

And I completely disagree...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I could say the same about women.... and couples....

I am going to a club instead..... I know I am going to have a good laugh with lovely people regardless.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problems with single guys! We chat on here, then on the phone, then meet in a neutral place face to face!

As yet (touch wood) we haven't been let down! There are quite a lot of decent single guys on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, if Perky and I were in the market for a single guy, we would only arrange a meet at a club as they are so unreliable (sorry to all the highly reliable ones, but you are a treasured minority).

At least at a club, if they don't show, then the night isn't wasted....

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Thats why we are now off to a club

Was just having a rant but im over it now

lol

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why we are now off to a club

Was just having a rant but im over it now

lol

xxxxx"

Don't blame you having a rant - meets can be damned hard to arrange (in reality) and when you've gone to all that trouble it's a right pain in the arse when you get a let-down.

Once bitten, twice shy.........?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Thats why we are now off to a club

Was just having a rant but im over it now

lol

xxxxx"
keep going up the a1(m)... junction 63...

then end up at club f and see ya in a couple of hours..... lol

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"Personally, if Perky and I were in the market for a single guy, we would only arrange a meet at a club as they are so unreliable (sorry to all the highly reliable ones, but you are a treasured minority).

At least at a club, if they don't show, then the night isn't wasted....

but unless sex between yourselves isnt great, it wouldnt be a wasted night anyway, being alone with each other.

dont mean it nasty, but when we have been stood up, we still have great sex together.

dont have to have anyone else there to make it worthwhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well just looked at your profile its his loss .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look at your profile,i'd say its his loss,pity i'm up here in Scotland as i'd happily meet up x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were let down by a single guy for the first time in three years!

Sending emails etc gave him our mobile number, the day of the meet nothing not a peep.

So we got ourselves ready, decided that if we hadn't heard from him by the time we were due to leave we were going to head to a club!

That's exactly what we did, had a great time

Oh then blocked him when we got home.

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Its never a wasted evening here guys where sex is concerned,,,its just that we like someone to share it with us occasionally

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

has anyone used the oh so comforting cliche yet?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"has anyone used the oh so comforting cliche yet?

Yes....twice

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"has anyone used the oh so comforting cliche yet?

Yes....twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" but agree with you most guys shouldn't be on here........."

Excuse me, I take exception to that generalised statement.

D'you want to know about some of the women on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"has anyone used the oh so comforting cliche yet?

Yes....twice

I'm still trying to work out how someone can lose something they'd already rejected..one day i'll nail it

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"has anyone used the oh so comforting cliche yet?

Yes....twice

I'm still trying to work out how someone can lose something they'd already rejected..one day i'll nail it"
the holy grail of the forums

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Almost got used to it now but pisses me off when I spend 4 hours getting ready and 'another 'car breakes down

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

i'd really like to know about the verification and selection process that will stop me having no shows and late cancellations....its getting to be a common occurrence.....one on friday and another today...though in their defence they both let me know they wouldnt be able to make it.....any hints and tips gladly received

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

" but agree with you most guys shouldn't be on here.........

Excuse me, I take exception to that generalised statement.

D'you want to know about some of the women on here??

women, or men pretending?

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

I cant wait to hear what excuse we get from our let down tonight

Thats if he dares to come on line

lol

I will be naming and shaming as i hate ignorance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be naming and shaming as i hate ignorance"

naming and shaming would show ignorance too.of site rules

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

why

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"why"
read the forum rules/site rules

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Well the lame excuses for last night where unreal but I,ll not post them on here as im sure no one is interetsed

Have a great peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on and get over it!! Plenty more fish in the sea!!

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

We have moved on hun

Luckily we have a life so nothing bothers us

Just thought it would be quite funny but no worries

have a a great everyonexxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least at a club, if they don't show, then the night isn't wasted....

but unless sex between yourselves isnt great, it wouldnt be a wasted night anyway, being alone with each other.

dont mean it nasty, but when we have been stood up, we still have great sex together.

dont have to have anyone else there to make it worthwhile."

That's what we meant actually. Perky and I have great sex anyway. If the guy doesn;t turn up, then it isn't arrangements wasted, cost of hotel room ete etc etc, and not only that, I am sure there would be plenty of other guys at a club who would be only too pleased to enjoy Perkys many charms in place of the 'no show'......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost got used to it now but pisses me off when I spend 4 hours getting ready and 'another 'car breakes down

such unreliable things cars, they always seem to break down as a guy is on the way.....

strange that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years on site and can't actually recall any no show's.. In fact this week we were able to sort a single guy and a single fem for the same evening and both duly turned up.

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By *oanlovesitMan
over a year ago

Brompton, Northallerton

Who ever it is def has no taste xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me, must be a charisma thing

lol

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've only had one no-show since I've been on Fab, very annoying when I was all dressed up and no-one to shag.....I've had a few cancellations for various reasons (have always received a text or message with a reason) and I've had to cancel once cos my pussy was ill (no, didn't have a dose, my actual cat was poorly

)....real life can and does get in the way and I don't consider cancellations as time wasters (unless it happens again, 2 strikes and you're out, unless I know you very well)......shame the OP has been let down, dust yourselves off and have a browse for a new victim....oops I meant meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I had one on Friday ummm having car trouble could'nt make it to the pub but could make it to mine afterwards I said thanks but no thanks lol. His loss though as I ended up having a fab old night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least at a club, if they don't show, then the night isn't wasted....

Very nice bod you got there perky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh I had one on Friday ummm having car trouble could'nt make it to the pub but could make it to mine afterwards I said thanks but no thanks lol. His loss though as I ended up having a fab old night x"

Well seeing as I know both you and the OP, maybe it could be something to do with folk worrying about meeting the stark raving bonkers! lol

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