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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A bit of lady loving when this is all over. I’ve always struggled getting interest from ladies on here. Is it just me or do other bi ladies think the same?

Please note I mean when things are back to normal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too, share the goods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get plenty of interest from the ladies but it's normally for my quick wit And fabulous personality rather than my body unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup! I feel You!

I also find that a lot of ladies who list themselves as Bi are only interested in women when there's also a bloke in the room...

I miss women!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me too, share the goods

Haha. I think it’s similar to how men find it on here to be honest. Very rare I get a message from a woman or even find a local lady who doesn’t want a man involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup! I feel You!

I also find that a lot of ladies who list themselves as Bi are only interested in women when there's also a bloke in the room...

I miss women!

Yes I agree! I’m not interested in anyone’s man being involved in any way.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Flange picture as your avatar and you’ll be knee deep in pussy OP

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss the beauty, pleasure and company of a woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Flange picture as your avatar and you’ll be knee deep in pussy OP

Nah I’ll just be neck deep in more cock!

Especially with my pretty flange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make that fancy not miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie! "

That really needs to happen Nora!

Just need lockdown to bugger off and things to be safe once again and then I can sort a date out and hopefully before I sell the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie! "

And what party is this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too.. waving to all the bi women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie!

That really needs to happen Nora!

Just need lockdown to bugger off and things to be safe once again and then I can sort a date out and hopefully before I sell the house."

You can’t sell the house until it’s happened!!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie!

That really needs to happen Nora!

Just need lockdown to bugger off and things to be safe once again and then I can sort a date out and hopefully before I sell the house.

You can’t sell the house until it’s happened!!

Then it better happen before June as that's when I can put it up for sale

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie!

And what party is this?

The ladies only orgy weekender

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me too.. waving to all the bi women

Do you meet separately though? To be honest I’ve never contemplated messaging ladies from a couple as I just presume they come as a couple as such!

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"Me too, share the goods

Haha. I think it’s similar to how men find it on here to be honest. Very rare I get a message from a woman or even find a local lady who doesn’t want a man involved

Face pic on first message, no sky remotes in sight, thoughtful message but not over the top, funny but not taken the wrong way, read the profile but what it means not what it says. Then repeat and have thick skin.

You will get lots of empathy from the men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me too, share the goods

Haha. I think it’s similar to how men find it on here to be honest. Very rare I get a message from a woman or even find a local lady who doesn’t want a man involved

You will get lots of empathy from the men!

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By *_DirectorMan
over a year ago

Middle of somewhere

I’ll get in line .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie!

And what party is this?

The ladies only orgy weekender

Urrmmm I'm assuming my invite got lost in the post!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll get in line .....

Haha get behind all the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie!

And what party is this?

The ladies only orgy weekender

Urrmmm I'm assuming my invite got lost in the post!

it was on a ladies orgy post ages ago. I don’t forget things like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me too.. waving to all the bi women

Do you meet separately though? To be honest I’ve never contemplated messaging ladies from a couple as I just presume they come as a couple as such! "

Actually most of the ladies I have met for 1 on 1 in a private setting rather than a club have been ladies from couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me too, share the goods

Haha. I think it’s similar to how men find it on here to be honest. Very rare I get a message from a woman or even find a local lady who doesn’t want a man involved

I really appreciate this comment because it is hard to get attention, although current climate may be a contributing factor, even when the/my intentions are good with a little naughty.

Hope you get to find some hot ladies to satisfy your wants, post rona, and I can’t say I’m not envious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me too.. waving to all the bi women

Do you meet separately though? To be honest I’ve never contemplated messaging ladies from a couple as I just presume they come as a couple as such!

Actually most of the ladies I have met for 1 on 1 in a private setting rather than a club have been ladies from couples. "

Really? Perhaps that’s where I’m going wrong then! x

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I fancy finding myself a new female FWB at some point and also the clubs opening up again so I can go out and meet people and maybe find a few exciting scenarios to play out too

I’m still hoping for that party at yours Sophie!

And what party is this?

The ladies only orgy weekender

Urrmmm I'm assuming my invite got lost in the post!

Once we know everything is safe to do so then invites will be sent out post haste so don't worry, your name is on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me too.. waving to all the bi women

Do you meet separately though? To be honest I’ve never contemplated messaging ladies from a couple as I just presume they come as a couple as such! "

Yeah we come as a couple for the guys but I would meet alone with the ladies. Can't wait for some girl fun again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me too.. waving to all the bi women

Do you meet separately though? To be honest I’ve never contemplated messaging ladies from a couple as I just presume they come as a couple as such!

Actually most of the ladies I have met for 1 on 1 in a private setting rather than a club have been ladies from couples.

Really? Perhaps that’s where I’m going wrong then! x "

I understand why people dismissed the female of a couple because they assume that the male will somehow want to be involved but it isn't always the case. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me too.. waving to all the bi women

Do you meet separately though? To be honest I’ve never contemplated messaging ladies from a couple as I just presume they come as a couple as such!

Actually most of the ladies I have met for 1 on 1 in a private setting rather than a club have been ladies from couples.

Really? Perhaps that’s where I’m going wrong then! x

I understand why people dismissed the female of a couple because they assume that the male will somehow want to be involved but it isn't always the case. X"

I have couples blocked maybe I should unblock them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FF is high on my list.

Inked is more than happy for me to go alone to a ff meet(apart from 1st actual non sexual meet up) to make sure im safe. Lol. Its just finding it

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FF is high on my list.

Inked is more than happy for me to go alone to a ff meet(apart from 1st actual non sexual meet up) to make sure im safe. Lol. Its just finding it

Miss "

I totally understand why he would want come with you to the social but that is what is off putting when meeting a lady from a couple because the other lady will probably be on her own but is expected to meet up with both of you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"FF is high on my list.

Inked is more than happy for me to go alone to a ff meet(apart from 1st actual non sexual meet up) to make sure im safe. Lol. Its just finding it

Miss

Yes. I wouldn’t do that. I’d want a social too with just the lady. It’s only usually a drink or a coffee. Nothing unsafe about it. I wouldn’t meet anyone in a non public place anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FF is high on my list.

Inked is more than happy for me to go alone to a ff meet(apart from 1st actual non sexual meet up) to make sure im safe. Lol. Its just finding it

Miss

Oh no we wouldn't expect anyone to meet alone with us both ever. I bet that would be daunting for anyone especially a single lady. I suppose alot of single ladies dont have someone who they could bring with them to make sure they are ok too?

I can meet a lady alone for a coffee and a chat as long as inked knows where i am meeting through the day.

Suppose hes petrified ill get whisked away or something lmao. No chance, would bring me bk within mins cause i dont shut up

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's a lot more difficult to meet/talk to women in that particular way (or so I find anyway!). Stereotypes incoming...

Men are quite direct. If they want to have sex with you, it's fairly clear. Women are quite timid in coming forward, they might flirt but it's tricky to work out if they are interested in me in a sexual way or as a friend. I also find that those who do want to meet up with you do so in a view to have a threesome with their other half - if I want to find a couple that's easy enough but sometimes I want to meet a woman and a woman alone! I think that's all part of the joys of bisexuality though. When I was a lesbian I never found it difficult to meet women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FF is high on my list.

Inked is more than happy for me to go alone to a ff meet(apart from 1st actual non sexual meet up) to make sure im safe. Lol. Its just finding it

Miss

I can meet a lady alone for a coffee and a chat as long as inked knows where i am meeting through the day.

Suppose hes petrified ill get whisked away or something lmao. No chance, would bring me bk within mins cause i dont shut up

I do understand his concern and that's why is important before you meet up with anybody to make sure you have been as careful as you can be about who you are meeting.

It wasn't ment as a put down in any way it was just to be aware that could cause issues and why some women would not want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FF is high on my list.

Inked is more than happy for me to go alone to a ff meet(apart from 1st actual non sexual meet up) to make sure im safe. Lol. Its just finding it

Miss

I can meet a lady alone for a coffee and a chat as long as inked knows where i am meeting through the day.

Suppose hes petrified ill get whisked away or something lmao. No chance, would bring me bk within mins cause i dont shut up

I do understand his concern and that's why is important before you meet up with anybody to make sure you have been as careful as you can be about who you are meeting.

It wasn't ment as a put down in any way it was just to be aware that could cause issues and why some women would not want that.

Oh know i know it wasnt

It was some very good information. Its made me realise to maybe update our profile a little also so thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup! I feel You!

I also find that a lot of ladies who list themselves as Bi are only interested in women when there's also a bloke in the room...

I miss women!

Or playing with other fully bi cpls like we are after. Jen and myself have been bi all our lives. Its not just a show to impress the other partner. She has played with ladies on her own as a single just like i have with guys as a single. Its not done or to be done to impress each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FF is high on my list.

Inked is more than happy for me to go alone to a ff meet(apart from 1st actual non sexual meet up) to make sure im safe. Lol. Its just finding it

Miss

I can meet a lady alone for a coffee and a chat as long as inked knows where i am meeting through the day.

Suppose hes petrified ill get whisked away or something lmao. No chance, would bring me bk within mins cause i dont shut up

I do understand his concern and that's why is important before you meet up with anybody to make sure you have been as careful as you can be about who you are meeting.

It wasn't ment as a put down in any way it was just to be aware that could cause issues and why some women would not want that.

Oh know i know it wasnt

It was some very good information. Its made me realise to maybe update our profile a little also so thank you x

Glad to help.

Obviously this isn't appropriate at the moment but I have found that meeting women in clubs or parties is much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of lady loving when this is all over. I’ve always struggled getting interest from ladies on here. Is it just me or do other bi ladies think the same?

Please note I mean when things are back to normal!

Same here. I don't seem to appeal at all. I think it's because I've put bi curious rather than bi sexual. But on fab which one you use makes a massive difference to different people so it's a minefield when what it really says I'm into women either way.

Would love a female friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup! I feel You!

I also find that a lot of ladies who list themselves as Bi are only interested in women when there's also a bloke in the room...

I miss women!

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A bit of lady loving when this is all over. I’ve always struggled getting interest from ladies on here. Is it just me or do other bi ladies think the same?

Please note I mean when things are back to normal!

Would love a female friend.

Yes I put bicurious although I have had experience. Not sure which one to put really! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You e seen all of me

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Well you seem to have got that sorted out quite easily! (Male sympathy evaporated away)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never looked for women on my single profile, only ever looked as part of a couple.

I've had couples find me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When this is over there will be no gender that is safe from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You e seen all of me

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of lady loving when this is all over. I’ve always struggled getting interest from ladies on here. Is it just me or do other bi ladies think the same?

Please note I mean when things are back to normal!

I wouldn't say no to a bit of lady loving if there's any going

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By *hat_alt_coupleCouple
over a year ago

near you

We have come across a few but rarely get a reply from them or they show little interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When this is over there will be no gender that is safe from me

Haha. I do pity the poor person I meet when this is over. Although he seems happy with the fact I might break him

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"When this is over there will be no gender that is safe from me

Was feeling this forum was a little sexist until this post

lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"A bit of lady loving when this is all over. I’ve always struggled getting interest from ladies on here. Is it just me or do other bi ladies think the same?

Please note I mean when things are back to normal!

Nora, invite me round and I'll help you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of lady loving when this is all over. I’ve always struggled getting interest from ladies on here. Is it just me or do other bi ladies think the same?

Please note I mean when things are back to normal!

Would love a female friend.

Yes I put bicurious although I have had experience. Not sure which one to put really! x"

Same here, and have had some experience too. But read many things on here that suggest bi curious is the one you should use if you haven't done EVERYTHING with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have a fond memory of your orgy thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I still have a fond memory of your orgy thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi girl here who loves the ladies and gents in equal measure. You could say I’m a unicorn as couples are my favourite but I’ve not had girl on girl do for soooo long I need some of that too!!!

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