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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it bad to have sexual interactions with work colleagues?

Ive slept with 2 colleagues now and Im talking to a third. Is this bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something about shitting where you eat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something about shitting where you eat..."

Yeah...that

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Sounds like it could trouble to me!

Do they know each other,

I suppose it depends how things ended with each one and if everything was above board.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Definitely not, I don't need drama at work, I'd never mix business with pleasure. Personally if it's a colleague they're off the table same as friends.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

You're quite popular ain't you OP

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends if things could get awkward or not.

Also need the think about the impact if things do turn to shit on the other people you work with.

Bitching and grumping around ain't good for anyones morale, including those putting up with it around them.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Depends, too many factors for a blanket yes or no.

It is more a case of the individuals involved, how they can handle the arrangement and whatever fallout there may be.

Generally though it is advised against for a reason since it is much harder to leave any conflict at the door during work hours. It will always worm its way in and cause chaos to the work force on some level if it exists.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends if things could get awkward or not.

Also need the think about the impact if things do turn to shit on the other people you work with.

Bitching and grumping around ain't good for anyones morale, including those putting up with it around them."

Well we all know each other from day 1 when the business opened. But I guess I will concentrate my efforts on Fab x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last partner at work ended badly. But we are on talking terms. Guess this is a wake up call

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

So long as you don’t mind being the centre of workplace gossip, you crack on.

Also, if things go tits up and you’ve slept with numerous colleagues and it causes an issue in work - think carefully as it’ll be more likely you they’ll give the elbow to as you’re the common denominator.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

A lot of workplaces have a "no nookie" rule because the fallout of people leaving and needing replacing after things go sour ain't worth the aggro or finances invested in training them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on workplace policy TBF but I wouldn’t chose to fraternise with colleagues because if you’re almost on the 3rd you’re either ace or a dick and they will not keep quiet about either

Each to their own

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

It'll bite you on the bum eventually. If it gets known about by management, you could be passed over on a promotion due to a reputation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My customers keep trying it with me but I hold back because they are regulars, but I think if they don’t care why do I

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"My customers keep trying it with me but I hold back because they are regulars, but I think if they don’t care why do I

Are they actually trying it or just being friendly?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Have you had any fall out yet?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I wouldn't have thought seeing numerous people in work was a good idea. Office politics can be a nightmare at the best of times.

Though it was work where me and M met each other. So it can work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mix business with pleasure. I have worked too hard in my career to risk losing my professional reputation over sex with a colleague.

Don't get me wrong I can see how easy it would be to happen, and I do enjoy a cheeky flirt but I wouldn't cross the line.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's said most people meet at work anyhow.. particularly now when it's a ready made bubble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was young working in pubs we were all sleeping with each other.

Good Times

Now I wouldn't because I'm not a fan of drama.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yes I have . Wish I hadn't.

The End

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

i'm loving this thread

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

OP are you studying your rota to match your college rota and have same days off and work all the time same shifts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it bad to have sexual interactions with work colleagues?

Ive slept with 2 colleagues now and Im talking to a third. Is this bad? "

Does talking to them necessarily lead to sex? I've talked to all of my colleagues but I've got no intention of fucking them.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I love my workmate but would never shag it.

Might get my cock stuck in the folding mechanism

#punbasesonblackanddeckerworkmate.

#notfunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something about shitting where you eat..."

This

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Tempting. Thing is, women talk,and when it turns to shit, your fucked. Nearly did once , and glad I didn't. It's going on at the moment in my workplace.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Could lead to problems - it is crossing invisible boundaries especially if you have to work with them in a situation of conflict or disagreement.

I have seen it become an issue for a friend of mine.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Is it bad to have sexual interactions with work colleagues?

Ive slept with 2 colleagues now and Im talking to a third. Is this bad? "

Done it. Twice. I don’t regret it but wish I hadn’t

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm married to my work colleague

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Go for it.

Anyone giving advice to a 30 year old, who has done it twice already, that they wouldn't do it is just harbouring a secret desire to fuck their workmates!

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

I think it depends, if it just a sexual urge, don't shit where you eat, but if it is real feelings that develop mutually then it can be very hard and not always wise to ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gets awkward if things go south, lemme tell you. Really awkward.

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By *r D and AngelCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

I was brought up with the old sayings "Never shit on your own doorstep" trust me these things always have a way of coming out... and it never ends well. Xxx

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Terrible idea when it goes tits up, great for sneaking for a bj at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it bad to have sexual interactions with work colleagues?

Ive slept with 2 colleagues now and Im talking to a third. Is this bad? "

Don't dip your meat where you make your bread

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"I love my workmate but would never shag it.

Might get my cock stuck in the folding mechanism

#punbasesonblackanddeckerworkmate.

#notfunny"

Wow tough crowd!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

My work have a no nooky policy for this exact reason, been too many implosions when things went bad

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N and I met at work in 1980. Here we are many years later. It isnt always a bad thing.

I'd probably advise against multiple affairs simply because it can make things awkward.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Something about shitting where you eat..."

Agree, Not a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you had any fall out yet?"

I did with both but got on good terms straight away

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I love my workmate but would never shag it.

Might get my cock stuck in the folding mechanism

#punbasesonblackanddeckerworkmate.

#notfunny

Wow tough crowd!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done this a few times now.. works fine if you can leave it at the door when you get too work.. had to leave my old job because I wanted to break it off with my manager

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"My work have a no nooky policy for this exact reason, been too many implosions when things went bad

Mr KC joined the company I work for after I'd already been employed there about 6yrs and we'd been married 8

years. How would that work? Would he be barred from applying to work at your place if I already worked there? Not sure that'd stand up in a tribunal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me

My ex Mrs was also my boss

That didn't end well - personally or professionally

So, for me, colleagues are off the menu, no matter how hot they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not for me

My ex Mrs was also my boss

That didn't end well - personally or professionally

So, for me, colleagues are off the menu, no matter how hot they are "

If I had the chance id so get with my boss. Shes very curvy but very sexy. She knows I check her out regularly lol

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We've both had flings with workmates (we were both sleeping with one of Dave's) and it's always been good - perhaps we've been lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My customers keep trying it with me but I hold back because they are regulars, but I think if they don’t care why do I

Are they actually trying it or just being friendly? "

No lol I’ve been told I could ride them like a horse I think it was just a little bit more than friendly and more but I just smile and keep it professional

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

If you’re in a hierarchy it’s bad. You could be accused by them or others of treating someone favourably or unfairly because of a romantic relationship. Many contracts don’t allow it or you have to disclose it and then not work in any any way with to the person that could lead to this. Interestingly more young people believe large companies are right to forbid it and we specifically cover it in training for conflict of interest now

If your both non managers it’s not so bad other than seeing them everyday when it’s over and if/when you become a manager of the ex that dumped you

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"My work have a no nooky policy for this exact reason, been too many implosions when things went bad

Mr KC joined the company I work for after I'd already been employed there about 6yrs and we'd been married 8

years. How would that work? Would he be barred from applying to work at your place if I already worked there? Not sure that'd stand up in a tribunal!"

Long term relationships he has no issue with, flings where it could be messy not so much, it's only recently as we lost a good member of staff as the other couldn't keep it in his pants and it wasn't nice to be around when it went tits up.

The general rule in the company is no relations are allowed to work in the same store full stop anyway, nepotism and all that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If you’re in a hierarchy it’s bad. You could be accused by them or others of treating someone favourably or unfairly because of a romantic relationship. Many contracts don’t allow it or you have to disclose it and then not work in any any way with to the person that could lead to this. Interestingly more young people believe large companies are right to forbid it and we specifically cover it in training for conflict of interest now

If your both non managers it’s not so bad other than seeing them everyday when it’s over and if/when you become a manager of the ex that dumped you

I'm a manager but I don't manage Mr KC or any direct line he's in. When he joined, we both had the same manager and she was on the interview panel (obviously I was not). They were well aware of how we were connected when he came to interview.

It's been brilliant actually. Although we're in different departments, his role supports mine so we work quite Close together often. Over summer, with student results, we were often huddled over the same computer working jointly. It's better fabulous to have a colleague at home whilst working from home too.

I often "call" the department he works in by shouting up the stairs

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