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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

More times then most on here when you get talking to someone and they sound promising that they'll be coming to meet you soon. Chances are its a lie or it just never happens.

What has been your biggest anti-climax on here?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife."

Ouch! That has to hurt!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Ouch! That has to hurt!

Sure does.

Needless to say I can't see myself trusting another human with my heart in a relationship capacity.

Busted me big time and has put me on a trajectory of crazy cat lady. I'm just missing the cats.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ouch! That has to hurt!

Thats an understatement.

I hope this is something you've had time to heal from?

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By *xhot_chocolatexMan
over a year ago

brighton/eastbourne/basingstoke

Some people are just fucking cowards. So sorry to hear that - sends hugs and compassion x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A meeting with someone whom I got on great with online, but in person there just wasn't that chemistry. Plus they wanted my autograph

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting with someone, then they announced they cut their crusts off bread before eating it

He was also exiled into an eternity of darkness

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By *xhot_chocolatexMan
over a year ago

brighton/eastbourne/basingstoke

I’ve had people suddenly ghost me. It’s such a let down.

I’ve also turned up to a meet before and the girl was about 4 stone heavier than her pictures suggested.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

Bloody hell!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I was chatting with someone, then they announced they cut their crusts off bread before eating it

He was also exiled into an eternity of darkness

If you don’t eat your crusts, you’ll never grow up to be a big strong boy...that’s what my mother said

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

Bloody hell!

Also, why didn't I think about that?

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By *xhot_chocolatexMan
over a year ago

brighton/eastbourne/basingstoke

Fucking hell. That’s fucking intense. Glad you got out of that one !

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I had many times people slide in dms talk about meeting then when the day comes they ghost.

Happened 13-24 times can’t remember exactly but more thanks a few for sure.

I also had a lot of couple dm me saying they okay with cuckhold and the close to time they ask if I can suck or be a bottom.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

This is why I don't have sexual chats anymore with anyone bar my friends on here, bored of quick 2/3 days of fake friendship conversation for his self gratification then he's off onto the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life is full of false hopes.....One day maybe ...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anticlimax for me has to be the dishonesty and deception on here.

Like... Saying there are no 'others' when there clearly is.

Or saying they are into certain things and then it becomes evident that was just said to impress and they aren't into them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was chatting with someone, then they announced they cut their crusts off bread before eating it

He was also exiled into an eternity of darkness

If you don’t eat your crusts, you’ll never grow up to be a big strong boy...that’s what my mother said

This is..

#notfakenews

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable. "

And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.

That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

That is bloody awful.

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.

And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.

That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown."

Sorry to hear hope your Better now , people can be cruel sometimes

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Planning a group hot tub/cabin party... then covid.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.

And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.

That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown.

Sorry to hear hope your Better now , people can be cruel sometimes "

Yeah I'm sound ta, just a cynical bitch who's like an FBI agent with anyone that I may consider spending time with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.

And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.

That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown."

I dont

Im just as cynical. And i have bloody good reason to be

Thinking youre the centre of someones universe and realising youre actually just a convenience

Its not nice

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Anticlimax for me has to be the dishonesty and deception on here.

Like... Saying there are no 'others' when there clearly is.

Or saying they are into certain things and then it becomes evident that was just said to impress and they aren't into them at all. "

Oh this!

Tell me you're talking to other people for crying out loud. Be honest. I'd far rather know about it than have my trust dented a little more each time!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss

Obviously didn't look at all the pics...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss

Obviously didn't look at all the pics..."

Oh he did I'm sure, but thought you were into Dalek role play

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I get false hopes everyday, it gets hard and by the time I decide to knock one out it goes flaccid

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss

Obviously didn't look at all the pics...

Oh he did I'm sure, but thought you were into Dalek role play

I have considered incorporating it into fancy dress, but then I remember I'm about as creative as a flea

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss

Obviously didn't look at all the pics...

Oh he did I'm sure, but thought you were into Dalek role play

I have considered incorporating it into fancy dress, but then I remember I'm about as creative as a flea

sink plunger and some silver spray paint

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss

Obviously didn't look at all the pics...

Oh he did I'm sure, but thought you were into Dalek role play

I have considered incorporating it into fancy dress, but then I remember I'm about as creative as a flea

Get loads of egg boxes

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.

And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.

That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown.

I dont

Im just as cynical. And i have bloody good reason to be

Thinking youre the centre of someones universe and realising youre actually just a convenience

Its not nice"

Makes ya feel like pond scum don't it.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Chatting for weeks on here having a good laugh only to find out when you meet in person he as the personality of a front door

. Fabs an anti climax get used to it take it for what it is x

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.

Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Far too many times to mention on dating sites and such, I'm pretty jaded now and until they've actually been on my doorstep I don't believe it to be true

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I tell people, when we start talking, that me replying doesn't mean we will definitely meet.

I need to talk a fair while before I'm sure I want to be naked with someone.

I really don't like being constantly asked when we're meeting for coffee, when I'm trying to get a feel for someone.

And I don't engage in sex talk from the beginning. That might come later, but it rarely happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

What were your hopes when you met him?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.

Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?! "

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right lesson in love No1

If dicksplash can't answer the phone at 8pm in the evening to say hi it's because he's with another bird..the one he hadn't told you about .

You should try it and any excuse why he can't say hi wotsyaface bla bla bla you know ya wasting time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sucks ass, what a cnut

wanted his cake and to get to eat it too

But on a brighter note I and many others around the forums think you’re pretty amazing

And I too am on the lookout for a kitten(s)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

What were your hopes when you met him?"

I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt

I could be wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was chatting with someone, then they announced they cut their crusts off bread before eating it

He was also exiled into an eternity of darkness

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.

Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?!

Sorry

It wasn't you! Not sure who you blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

You’ve had some right old bad times eh

But we’re not all cnuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

What a twat he is

Bang out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.

And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.

That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown.

I dont

Im just as cynical. And i have bloody good reason to be

Thinking youre the centre of someones universe and realising youre actually just a convenience

Its not nice

Makes ya feel like pond scum don't it. "

Holy crap. I didn’t know about this one. I’m so sorry. Sending another massive hug xxxx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

You’ve had some right old bad times eh

But we’re not all cnuts

The details may differ from person to person but being taken for a cunt, used and lied to are an extremely common narrative on here.

It's incredibly disappointing.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

What were your hopes when you met him?

I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt

I could be wrong though"

It was as I was wanting to explore the world of kink, the dynamics etc. Yes, I was looking to push boundaries and learn about myself, but the very least I didn't just hope for, but expected, was it to be done with respect and care. The whole "best interests" thing, and that's not meaning for him and his wallet.

Yeah I chose badly. Did I choose? Was I coerced with lies? Both.

I was hoping to build my confidence.

I'm not sharing my experiences as a woe is me, but as an example that people can be vile. If it makes one person think twice and trust their instinct instead of trying to push themselves because they're a little lost, then that'll do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

What were your hopes when you met him?

I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt

I could be wrong though"

I think I asked the question really badly. Seeing some responses here, I guess I'm wondering what foundations people place their hopes on for them then to become false hopes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

I’m so sorry peach

, that is truly terrible.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.

Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?!

Sorry

It wasn't you! Not sure who you blocked! "

Twas a joke

Anyway, it was your lovely OH I met for a social soooooooo long ago now

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By *exy studMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

What were your hopes when you met him?

I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt

I could be wrong though

Yeah I chose badly. Did I choose? Was I coerced with lies? Both.

I was hoping to build my confidence.

He should be strung up by his balls. Hope you don't tar us all with the same brush there is some honest men out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a couple chat to you, Ask you to meet UP for some fun.

Meet up had bit of fun.

Then told after we don't Usally meet single guys and it was a mistake,and a one off.

They only meet me because I was good to talk to and sounded decent.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.

Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?!

Sorry

It wasn't you! Not sure who you blocked!

Twas a joke

Anyway, it was your lovely OH I met for a social soooooooo long ago now

Seems like a lifetime ago!

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

What were your hopes when you met him?

I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt

I could be wrong though

Yeah I chose badly. Did I choose? Was I coerced with lies? Both.

I was hoping to build my confidence.

Actually until you posted this, I was pretty concerned for you. I now see that you have at least learned from past mistakes. Hey we all have quite a few of those!

There will always be predators looking for the vulnerable to use and abuse. If your story makes a few of those vulnerable ones a bit less automatically trusting then I am glad you shared it.

I am not at all glad that you have had such shitty experiences though!!!

Nobody should ever be treated in such a way if we lived in a perfect world

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.

and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.

I'm like dude no,

A) I don't wanna

B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger

C) no

D) get fucked mate

Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me

"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out

What were your hopes when you met him?

I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt

I could be wrong though

Yeah I chose badly. Did I choose? Was I coerced with lies? Both.

I was hoping to build my confidence.

Actually until you posted this, I was pretty concerned for you. I now see that you have at least learned from past mistakes. Hey we all have quite a few of those!

There will always be predators looking for the vulnerable to use and abuse. If your story makes a few of those vulnerable ones a bit less automatically trusting then I am glad you shared it.

I am not at all glad that you have had such shitty experiences though!!!

Nobody should ever be treated in such a way if we lived in a perfect world "

My main mistakes have been having faith in other people. It's a sad state of affairs when that's a mistake, when basic hopes and expectations aren't even considered as normal human behaviour to some.... well, loads.

It does make me wonder how many people of both genders have been treated appallingly and simply left the site not saying a word, blaming themselves.

I bet it's far more than we can comprehend.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.

Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?!

Sorry

It wasn't you! Not sure who you blocked!

Twas a joke

Anyway, it was your lovely OH I met for a social soooooooo long ago now

Seems like a lifetime ago! "

I think it was....

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By *quirt1810Woman
over a year ago

Boston

Am I being naive, I thought the idea of this site was because it’s the one place we can be honest about our sexuality.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Am I being naive, I thought the idea of this site was because it’s the one place we can be honest about our sexuality. "

And some will use that honesty against you.

Some will be no more than fantasists.

Some will be outright liars.

And some will be diamonds in the rough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is tough. You have to be quite emotionally resilient and, sadly, treat every approach with caution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww hugs your way just had a similar experience, only I invested a year with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More times then most on here when you get talking to someone and they sound promising that they'll be coming to meet you soon. Chances are its a lie or it just never happens.

What has been your biggest anti-climax on here? "
I chst to countlesd people on here and nothing ever comes of it. Even before covid

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