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"Yes I have. But I won't allow it to happen again. Yes and that ended with her wanting to be with someone else Not since and never again single Pringle forever haha " I am staying single now (with regular fucking when allowed) | |||
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"Yes I have. But I won't allow it to happen again. Yes and that ended with her wanting to be with someone else Not since and never again single Pringle forever haha I am staying single now (with regular fucking when allowed) " Same here, so much easier but boring as shit at the moment | |||
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"I havent been in a relationship so wouldnt say I have been in love that way, but I have fallen for some of the one nighters I have met and liked them alot " That is very sad shag very sad indeed. Yes I’ve been in love and luckily I still am in love !! T | |||
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"I fell for him as soon as I saw him! I have loved him ever since then. Jo.Xx " | |||
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"I fell for him as soon as I saw him! I have loved him ever since then. Jo.Xx " Aw you 2 | |||
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"Yes I have and yes i will again, when the right person comes along , I find it sad that a few have said never again , take that chance not everyone the same " I’m one of the ones to say never again not because I believe everyone is the same but the ones I have loved since have never been reciprocated so I’ve not been proven wrong haha, and I’m not getting any younger Ps I adore the fact that a lot here are still in love with each other | |||
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"I think we can choose how we label falling in love. I have now chosen to call it infatuation if it isn’t reciprocated. Falling in love if it is mutual. I also put a time boundary on it, in the sense that sufficient time needs to have evolved for the depth of mutual connection to be profound enough to call love. So a brief intense period of getting the feels, that peters out quite quickly I call it mutual infatuation. If only I or the other person feels it I call it infatuation and if it develops into something more lasting but still has that depth of intensity as I say we fell in love. Therefore I think that happened twice. " (clap) | |||
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"I havent been in a relationship so wouldnt say I have been in love that way, but I have fallen for some of the one nighters I have met and liked them alot " Yes since 1986 still together now and I love her even more now than ever before. | |||
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"I've felt love quite a few times and willingly give it to all of my closest male and female friends In love no never. I doubt I'll ever drop that guard" I said exactly the same thing...and got hit completely out of the blue. It taught me I was capable and it is out there and yes at the time worth the risk of letting someone in...would I again? Only if it’s not by choice...that for me is the tell. | |||
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"This heart is firmly closed and it's going to take someone mighty special to open it up again." Been there, done that, got the T-shirt... When you do meet that someone mighty special all bets are off! | |||
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"Yes I have and it can be the most wonderful feeling ever or the worst feeling " Agreed 3 times. Best feeling in the world when it happens. Worst feeling in the world when it ends. | |||
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"I havent been in a relationship so wouldnt say I have been in love that way, but I have fallen for some of the one nighters I have met and liked them alot That is very sad shag very sad indeed. Yes I’ve been in love and luckily I still am in love !! T" That is good. I have chosen the single life and I like it | |||
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"I've thought I was a couple of times In retrospect, I loved them, but wasn't in love This one now is the real deal " This!!! xx | |||
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"The first time, many many years ago, and brought with it highs and lows, the worst of which was her death. That still echos through almost every aspect of my life, and has caused me more than a few issues. Anything in the decades since then has been misguided, and misinterpreted by me, such that I now know and accept that it wasn't love. And this was brought home to me when I met someone, and very rapidly and uncontrollably found myself well and truly in love. It can happen when you least expect it, and I'm not convinced it's controllable either. I was quite satisfied in my own mind that I was truly emotionally locked down. I'd met the perfect storm. " Condolences friend | |||
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"I think we can choose how we label falling in love. I have now chosen to call it infatuation if it isn’t reciprocated. Falling in love if it is mutual. I also put a time boundary on it, in the sense that sufficient time needs to have evolved for the depth of mutual connection to be profound enough to call love. So a brief intense period of getting the feels, that peters out quite quickly I call it mutual infatuation. If only I or the other person feels it I call it infatuation and if it develops into something more lasting but still has that depth of intensity as I say we fell in love. Therefore I think that happened twice. " I like this. | |||
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"Yes I have. But I won't allow it to happen again. " Wouldn’t advise that , love generously even if you get hurt, it’s worth it | |||
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"Yes. It’s wonderful when it happens but my goodness it hurts when it ends" Yep sure does. But until i met jen i can say i honestly say what i thought was love was a shame. She is the most honest and loving woman i have ever been with and with no agenda. But as said above it does hurt when it ends. But lovely when it starts also | |||
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"This heart is firmly closed and it's going to take someone mighty special to open it up again. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt... When you do meet that someone mighty special all bets are off!" Honestly I don't think I will, I'm at peace with the fact I may be alone for the rest of my life | |||
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"Yes I have. But I won't allow it to happen again. Wouldn’t advise that , love generously even if you get hurt, it’s worth it " Agreed | |||
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"Proper deep love, twice. Infatuation, quite a few more times. " Same. Although perhaps not the infatuation described above, more a silly crush sort of thing. | |||
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"Yes. It’s wonderful when it happens but my goodness it hurts when it ends" Oh my word yes! I vow never again. I have been in head over heels love and when that ends....wow. | |||
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"Tis better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. I believe that's how the saying goes anyway Very much agree with this train of thought." Yes, tis better to have loved and lost a short woman than never to have loved a tall | |||
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"Tis better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. I believe that's how the saying goes anyway Very much agree with this train of thought. Yes, tis better to have loved and lost a short woman than never to have loved a tall " | |||
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"Yes I have at school we was in a relationship for 2,1/2 years and 1 day she wasn't at the bus stop as she usually was,I found out later that day her mum got offered a job in America and left the country the next-day ,she never even said bye to me and not seen her since. " it is like a film plot | |||
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"I fell for him as soon as I saw him! I have loved him ever since then. Jo.Xx Aw you 2 " I still keep on falling! Jo.Xx | |||
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"Been on love before, bout was nothing like what I have with my amazing lady. Fell he'd over heals for her as soon as I saw her and the first date was like something out of a film. To find her was worth all the pain I went through previously. " The first date with jenny lasted 9hrs.i thought she might not like me but 9hrs later she said she did not want to leave. Most amazing woman i met except my late mother. | |||
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"Been on love before, bout was nothing like what I have with my amazing lady. Fell he'd over heals for her as soon as I saw her and the first date was like something out of a film. To find her was worth all the pain I went through previously. The first date with jenny lasted 9hrs.i thought she might not like me but 9hrs later she said she did not want to leave. Most amazing woman i met except my late mother." What a great story .... happiness to both of u | |||
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"Been on love before, bout was nothing like what I have with my amazing lady. Fell he'd over heals for her as soon as I saw her and the first date was like something out of a film. To find her was worth all the pain I went through previously. The first date with jenny lasted 9hrs.i thought she might not like me but 9hrs later she said she did not want to leave. Most amazing woman i met except my late mother. What a great story .... happiness to both of u " Thank you x | |||
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"Yes. It’s wonderful when it happens but my goodness it hurts when it ends" Exactly this but it does come with life lessons the next relationship I’m in I’m not going to wear my heart on my sleeve | |||
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"Yes. It’s wonderful when it happens but my goodness it hurts when it ends" The highs you feel when you are in love are comparable to the lows you suffer when it ends. It hurts so so very much and something genuinely breaks inside you (call it your heart or anything else). I have had my heart broken and it feels like a part of you has died. Still feel that way. | |||
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"Yes. It’s wonderful when it happens but my goodness it hurts when it ends The highs you feel when you are in love are comparable to the lows you suffer when it ends. It hurts so so very much and something genuinely breaks inside you (call it your heart or anything else). I have had my heart broken and it feels like a part of you has died. Still feel that way." That’s why I’m never going to risk getting that close to anyone again, for me the highs aren’t worth the inevitable agony. | |||
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"That’s why I’m never going to risk getting that close to anyone again, for me the highs aren’t worth the inevitable agony." The take away from that is you think it is avoidable? Keep the door firmly shut. Make the chamber of your emotions airtight, so nothing gets in or out. Locked down, more than we are right now or ever can be. Then they come along, put some C4 around the door frame, trigger the fuse, blow the door to shit taking some masonry with it, and then before the dust has settled standing before you in the place you never thought they could get to is the most life-changing person you've ever met, and your heart beats to a different rhythm. Just curious how you'd avoid that. | |||
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"Yes. It’s wonderful when it happens but my goodness it hurts when it ends" This. I have been and it really does hurt when it's over especially when you have to end it for your own wellbeing. | |||
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"Yes. It’s wonderful when it happens but my goodness it hurts when it ends The highs you feel when you are in love are comparable to the lows you suffer when it ends. It hurts so so very much and something genuinely breaks inside you (call it your heart or anything else). I have had my heart broken and it feels like a part of you has died. Still feel that way." In some ways it’s worse than someone dying, they are still there just not with you. The difference is normally you heal a few years later you say thank fuck I didn’t end up with that one. | |||
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"That’s why I’m never going to risk getting that close to anyone again, for me the highs aren’t worth the inevitable agony. The take away from that is you think it is avoidable? Keep the door firmly shut. Make the chamber of your emotions airtight, so nothing gets in or out. Locked down, more than we are right now or ever can be. Then they come along, put some C4 around the door frame, trigger the fuse, blow the door to shit taking some masonry with it, and then before the dust has settled standing before you in the place you never thought they could get to is the most life-changing person you've ever met, and your heart beats to a different rhythm. Just curious how you'd avoid that." I’m demiromantic, meaning I can’t “fall in love” unless I feel a deep connection with someone. Hence why I’m 42 and only been in love once. I didn’t think it could or would ever happen, so that connection snuck up on me and by the time I knew what was happening it was too late. So yes, I think I can avoid it, it just means keeping people at a bit more of a distance. Which, to avoid feeling like I want to die when it ends, is worth doing. | |||
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"Have been and still are 36 years on. For it to work you have to have honesty and communication along with being able to give and take. You only get out what you put in." Jesus if i had got out what I put in, it would be Christmas every day | |||
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"Yes I have and it can be the most wonderful feeling ever or the worst feeling " Correct | |||
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"Have been and still are 36 years on. For it to work you have to have honesty and communication along with being able to give and take. You only get out what you put in. Jesus if i had got out what I put in, it would be Christmas every day" I would have felt like the Queen of England. For every ounce of energy I put into my marriage he put 0 lol. | |||
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"Have been and still are 36 years on. For it to work you have to have honesty and communication along with being able to give and take. You only get out what you put in. Jesus if i had got out what I put in, it would be Christmas every day I would have felt like the Queen of England. For every ounce of energy I put into my marriage he put 0 lol." That was my point, you both have to be as involved at all levels. So many of our friends just can't see it sadly. | |||
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"I havent been in a relationship so wouldnt say I have been in love that way, but I have fallen for some of the one nighters I have met and liked them alot " Aw shag I'm happy to report i have loved deeply and had that love reciprocated twice and we are still close friends ? | |||
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