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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't check those or friend requests unless the guy mentions it haha. Call me crazy but I prefer a hi instead lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re not alone. I don’t either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only send winks

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By *ddballs 45Man
over a year ago

Hull

I often wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi.

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By *ung_Irishman26Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

But surely if a guy just sends “hi” that’s just as useless haha?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha it's not that I don't want to check, it's just I never do, a hi catches my attention more. Wish the winking option was banned, again, my opinion lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never check winks either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people wink as it’s quick.

Often by the time you’ve written a polite message and sent it, the recipient has logged off.

And when they next log on, they received loads more messages and your polite one just gets ignored.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By *ninja000Man
over a year ago

Manchester

You're drop dead gorgeous, and I'd find myself tripping over my worms

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Idint really check them either tbh. Especially random friemd requests. Bugs me more tho the people who have maybe 1 profile pic and that's it, send an invite. I always point out the only benefit is extra pics as as they have none I won't accept it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really check mine either, but thats most likely because ive never got any to check.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I think a lot of people wink as it’s quick.

Often by the time you’ve written a polite message and sent it, the recipient has logged off.

And when they next log on, they received loads more messages and your polite one just gets ignored. "

Can't say for all women but i do read my messages. If you do get ignored all it means is " not for me" I've given up messaging back saying that as I then get told " i shouldn't judge with out talking" " why arnt I what your looking for" " why cant you give a regular guy a go" some csn get very precious. So it easy to say nothing most of the time.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I declare a public holiday if I ever get a wink! I use them a lot, very little response but as others have said it's quicker than writing out a nice polite friendly message and getting no response. However if I wink someone and they look at my profile then I'll probably follow it up with a message.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Hi ...you can wink me back if you like ..I'll do my best to ignore it

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Only when a thread directs me 2,

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I declare a public holiday if I ever get a wink! I use them a lot, very little response but as others have said it's quicker than writing out a nice polite friendly message and getting no response. However if I wink someone and they look at my profile then I'll probably follow it up with a message."

Thing is with that, alot of us women only view profiles in stealth mode. So you wouldn't know if we looked or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Winker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just say hi, if you have balls just say hi, if it's a no go from the lady move on. Again...my opinion and lots of hugs xx

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I like a wink!

(Unless it's from a toothless creepy person..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't respond to winks either, I'd much rather they messaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont really check mine either, but thats most likely because ive never got any to check. "

Just changed that

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I use winks all the time, I use them as a like and it saves any abuse if If they are not for me and I have to send a no thank you, I just delete the wink instead and they are none the wiser

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had good meets off the back of an initial wink, both ways.

Easier to sift than endless "Hi/How are you?" messages.

They work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't check those or friend requests unless the guy mentions it haha. Call me crazy but I prefer a hi instead lol x"

I like your pics. I like your tits. I think I might fancy you. Fancy a pump?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could work if people used them as a yes I'm interested in you signal. Saves all the wee shitty messages that girl hate anyway. And saves the guys like me who actually put bit of thought into a first message for it to only get pied anyway haha

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I don't check those or friend requests unless the guy mentions it haha. Call me crazy but I prefer a hi instead lol x

I like your pics. I like your tits. I think I might fancy you. Fancy a pump? "

Subtle...I like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say hi, if you have balls just say hi, if it's a no go from the lady move on. Again...my opinion and lots of hugs xx"

I think the issue with just saying hi is that women complain it's not original and men should try harder. I've started using winks because it's bit demoralising sending a lengthy, well thought-out message and it's either deleted or not read.

Now that's not to say I deserve a response all the time, but I'm just saying that from my experience, it's easy to give up and just send winks to see if there's a mutual interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it, I don't very often send the first message because I'm not confident but I will wink if I like the look of someone

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I dont so much get winks as I've got men filtered out on mine so what I get instead is they fab every single one of my pics to try and get my attention......which is never going to work

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By *HELONDONCOUPLECouple
over a year ago

london

We use winks so say hi and interested if we don’t get one back we know the answer

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

A few good meets have started from an initial wink

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