FabSwingers.com forum: Reported

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Twice!

Once because I forgot to say I was looking for fun in the future.

Second time, because some guy asked me "how much" for the 100th time and I replied with some random number.

Honestly this site is either cliques of old out of touch people,or a man who doesn't value the women on here. Really upset and annoyed. Literally 5% women and 95% guys, as are all dating sites, and now I'm made to feel like shit because of the unending and idiocary of guys on here?

Please give me another warning, honestly what the fuck?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Its a crazy world atm. Hopefully it will be a better place when this current 'situation' is over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked all messages.

There really isn't any point to them right now.

I'm just in forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wrote a role play scenario via inbox and was banned from sending messages for a few hours for using “offensive” words the whole point was it was a fantasy a role. Iv also had a warning for naming and shaming once a fake profile of my pics and I got warned !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really pissed off cos I did nothing wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Co I'd has nothing to do with this inanity

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Im sure some people just message to induce and argument.

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By *raesolaMan
over a year ago

leigh

Absolutely ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first report, bit unfair. The second you kinda should've reported him the first time he wanted to pay you and blocked him. We do.

Unfortunately the site is what it is. Vastly different from a few years ago. Try to use the filters to your advantage. Our block list is vast because it's just easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The first report, bit unfair. The second you kinda should've reported him the first time he wanted to pay you and blocked him. We do.

Unfortunately the site is what it is. Vastly different from a few years ago. Try to use the filters to your advantage. Our block list is vast because it's just easier.

This. My blocklist is ever growing because there are too many fuckwits lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Literally all I want is a mfm and get so many random guys saying they can be great solo. I politely decline and I'm the one reported?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Surely ladies should have a little more protection here, due to the inane discrepancy of m vs f?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely will be more men than women here it's just Nature order lol but i agree there's many assholes and fakes here unfortunately !

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd suggest hanging around the forums for a while, find a couple of guys that aren't arseholes and chat to them.

See I'd they want to meet up after the lockdown is lifted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd suggest hanging around the forums for a while, find a couple of guys that aren't arseholes and chat to them.

See I'd they want to meet up after the lockdown is lifted. "

I'd agree with this sage advice OP. There are nice chaps about and plenty of morons, much like off-site.

Simply ignore and block those that offend you. Be ruthless, there are plenty of men to choose from, as you've said and certainly avoid posting threads like this. Unfortunately, there could be another 'report' headed your way for this but learn from it and come back the wiser for it. Don't let the 'thought police' put you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely ladies should have a little more protection here, due to the inane discrepancy of m vs f? "

What protection?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Learn from being a normal person? Really? Covid is literally so over hyped it's stupid. But fine I sti k with it. Now sex sites start trying to do the right thing? Is that really in their remit? I'm vaccinated because of my job, is that an option here? No. Is any preference allowed here? (anything not male dominated) no. Anal? In what way? No option for mfm except hoping you can find 2 straight guys? Who is running this place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Learn from being a normal person? Really? Covid is literally so over hyped it's stupid. But fine I sti k with it. Now sex sites start trying to do the right thing? Is that really in their remit? I'm vaccinated because of my job, is that an option here? No. Is any preference allowed here? (anything not male dominated) no. Anal? In what way? No option for mfm except hoping you can find 2 straight guys? Who is running this place? "

Even vaccinated you can still catch it and pass it on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish people knew how science worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now sex sites start trying to do the right thing? Is that really in their remit? "

Yes.

They follow the law and government guidelines.

Hope that clears it up for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish people knew how science worked "

We do.

It's public knowledge on how the vaccines work.

The vaccine doesn't stop you catching Covid and passing it on.

It stops you getting serious symptoms.

Pretty simple to understand really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's so not true, it's funny. But you do you :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd really love an explanation, just so you can school me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's so not true, it's funny. But you do you :p"

Ahh ok

So the scientists and professionals are wrong then.

Any chance of your source to prove otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are the.. Person disputing what I said, let us see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are the.. Person disputing what I said, let us see? "

I'm case you haven't noticed, I said its public knowledge that the vaccine only reduces your sumptoms, you can still catch Covid and pass it on.

This is common knowledge ever since the vaccine was produced.

If you are saying it's not, then prove it.

But he warned

Some whack job on YouTube spouting crap conspiracy theories against the sage evidence, the medical journals, the approval by all the standards agencies better hold some weight.

So what's your source?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah didn't think so

G'night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are asking me for sources and stating 'this is public knowledge' where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are asking me for sources and stating 'this is public knowledge' where?"

Sage documents

Standards agencies

Vaccine trial papers

Sorry but I'm not gonna waste my time with a Covid denier

Adiós

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love your use of the word 'sage' though even if wholly incorrect (sage advice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love your use of the word 'sage' though even if wholly incorrect (sage advice) "

I hope you don't pass on Covid to your loved ones.

I remember you from another thread denying Covid.

Let's hope your actions don't put a loved one in hospital

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All these accusations and knowledge with zero proof. Bet you love the magical world you live in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Madam....look me squarely in the eye when I tell you this....Covid kills.

A friend of mine died from Covid on Sunday. He went into the hospital on Christmas Day with symptoms and died from the complications that followed thereafter last Sunday.

It kills and being vaccinated does not prevent your passing it on. You are protected from it, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Literally no answers just more non sequitur x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had the vaccine because i work in care, I watched 30% of my residents die. You think I do t k ow what it can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally no answers just more non sequitur x"

Still waiting for your source that says the vaccine stops you getting Covid........

Good luck finding one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What your thoughts are on Covid is irrelevant to your thread. Throwing insults around also doesn't help your cause. I'm not coming back to this thread. Fire away with your insults. It's water off a duck's back to me. You are not worth any more of my time. I wish you luck. Please just endure you do not kill anyone by passing the virus because of your misguided attitude to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Literally no answers just more non sequitur x

Still waiting for your source that says the vaccine stops you getting Covid........

Good luck finding one

The answer is. Nobody knows. So stop pretending it does or does not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What your thoughts are on Covid is irrelevant to your thread. Throwing insults around also doesn't help your cause. I'm not coming back to this thread. Fire away with your insults. It's water off a duck's back to me. You are not worth any more of my time. I wish you luck. Please just endure you do not kill anyone by passing the virus because of your misguided attitude to it."

Ensure

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

I don't think Covid is over hyped .. up to 80,000 people have died from it and that's increasing . So overhyped ? Nope

You have a bit if a cheek suggesting meets when the whole country has and is doing their best not to have them don't you think ?

Though ,as you say that may not be your intention just what you implied) inferred in your post .

You also refer to male dominated ? Yet according to your profile you are ' owned'! Isn't that much the same thing ? So it's likely the make has actually written the profile not the female ?

Just thinking out loud ..stay safe and don't meet anyone ..just like the rest of us are doing

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I love your use of the word 'sage' though even if wholly incorrect (sage advice) "

You realise she was talking about documents from the Scientific Advisory Group for Emergencies (SAGE), and not “sage advice” meaning “Sound, intelligent advice, especially coming from a wise or experienced person”?

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Dont mind me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn't deny anything, please stop being so internal with how you take offence. Maybe you could read a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't deny anything, please stop being so internal with how you take offence. Maybe you could read a little. "

So you see no harm in calling me 'sir' on 3 occasions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will report for the slightest indiscretion that doesn't suit their narrative.

If you feel you've done nothing wrong then try not to let it get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love your use of the word 'sage' though even if wholly incorrect (sage advice)

I was told of this woman's rant getting beyond insulting and have come back to see for myself.

Thank you for pointing out what triggered her rant about Covid, which was clearly irrelevant. Now I see it was her poor use of the English language that triggered it. Thank you for educating her but she seems oblivious to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love your use of the word 'sage' though even if wholly incorrect (sage advice) "

sage, not SAGE or vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not denying anything, still don't see a source. So funny sir"

Right.....here it is.....the defence of utter and complete morons who fall back on name calling and insults when they can't argue their case. Yes, I am calling you a moron and it is worth the ban I shall be getting for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't deny anything, please stop being so internal with how you take offence. Maybe you could read a little.

So you see no harm in calling me 'sir' on 3 occasions?"

Obviously not cos I mentioned it a few times to give you opportunity to correct what you meant or apologise.

All my life I've put up with bigotts, here it's no different.

They exist, as you have shown.

To be honest, I don't give a fuck anymore what people think of me, I'm passed that, what I am upset up however, is that the attitudes of bigotts is still prevent within a society that's supposed to be all inclusive.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It's funny, if I report someone for teying to meet now all that happens is that I am blocked from seeing their profile again, but they arent banned. Go figure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it ironic that on a forum post about being reported, there are behaviours displayed that actually warrant being reported rather than the reasons given for being reported in the first place,

Mr HH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You possibly have been messaged by men who would be genuinely interested in arranging or taking part in this fantasy of yours but you may of disregard their message and not replied.

However with how you have displayed yourself on the forum, it would seem that most people have had a lucky escape from meeting up with a bigoted Covid denying conspiracy theorist that doesn’t have the required intellectual capacity to offer anything of interest other that some risky sex.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Not denying anything, still don't see a source. So funny sir

Do you not see how ironic your post is?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Really pissed off cos I did nothing wrong "

Admin won't know that you are joking when you ask for money. It is best not to ask at all

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Not that stupid that a cousin of mine and very good friend have been hospitalised and close to death with it, and a very good friend's sister died yesterday with it.

You may not feel unwell at all with it, if you caught it, but you might pass it on to someone it kills.

You may not value your health, but have some thought for others.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Literally all I want is a mfm and get so many random guys saying they can be great solo. I politely decline and I'm the one reported? "

Yes, probably because meets are not allowed on the site at the moment because we are in the middle of a pandemic

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

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By *ninja000Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Wish there was a popcorn emoji right now

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

OK lets finish this now

What the thread proves is people are reported and if the report is verified they are given warnings, just like Admin have been advising all along

At least we now know they do indeed do something about reports

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has made me laugh. Firstly. Block single guys and look for MM. How much more protection do you want?

Secondly, I think we can all see by your attitude and behaviour that maybe there is a high potential you deserved some warnings.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Can people also remember there are thousands of profiles that use the site every day. If Admin don't know someone is breaking rules they won't be able to look at it, so rather than keep complaining about nothing being done, please help Admin by reporting

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