FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else losing the will

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who else is mega fed up and just want to go to the middle of a field and just fucking scream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

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By *ima7893Man
over a year ago

Cardiff (Home) / London (Work)

Couldn’t agree more. Fed up. 10th month of working from home. No social life. No sex. It’s bloody awful.

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

Would love to work from home for a while, no days off since the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you on this one today, works been a killer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you work it in to your daily allowed exercise?

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

yuo totally agree, fed up with it all.

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I can't wait to be out of self isolation so that I can go to the park and scream!

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

"With you on this one today, works been a killer

Me too, I think the novelty wore off a long time ago and not looking forward to working from home next week

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I have worked throughout. I long for the sunshine though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm back in the office (was never furloughed) and my social life was dwindling anyway - apart from not being able to meet women not much has changed for me.

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

I am with you. Working from home for nearly 11 month now, social life is limited to phone and camera, no sex and now work becomes more crappy than usual.

Either scream and shout or curl together in bed, hide under the blanket and cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it’s getting tougher. I’m finding this lockdown harder than the last one.

Hugs to anyone who needs one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am trying to find the positives, but not sure there are many at the moment.

A scream sounds good.

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By *urious786Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’m loving not having to go out in the cold first thing in a morning. But Finding it harder to keep the kids entertained. in first lock down the weather was ok so we could spend lots of time in the garden and go see sunsets on the beach

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It is a lot tougher! Certainly testing everyone’s resolve I think!

I’m working but it’s been the longest week ever. The cold weather isn’t helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I think a few close to me are. I felt the brunt of it earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 24 days time, I will not have left my property for a year and I haven't spoken to another person face-to-face (or mask-to-mask) for 7 months. I'm loving it, but I do feel empathy for those who live in small apartments - it must be tough.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I'd like to go to the middle of the field and lie there looking up at a warm summer sky. Just the bees buzzing around and birds flying through the warm air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else is mega fed up and just want to go to the middle of a field and just fucking scream. "

Yurp, need to get back to work

never would I have imagined saying that before haha

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

Spring coming will help

Light is good

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I think we just have to accept it's all a bit shit at the moment. And just make the best of it.

Do something everyday that you enjoy and that you're 'allowed' to do, and try not to focus on the things you can't do right now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unfortuantely I'm not even working, I got made redundant not long before Christmas. I am very very bored of sitting around doing sweet fa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be quite happy to doit in the middle of the street. So fecking bored now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep me too. My whole life is just hanging in the balance. Not knowing what to do and whether to hide up a corner, or commit bloody murder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep me too. My whole life is just hanging in the balance. Not knowing what to do and whether to hide up a corner, or commit bloody murder. "

I'll help you get rid of the body if you want. Gives me something to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massively fed up. Social life is shit and no kinky fun makes me a horrible bastard!

There's gonna be some disgraceful orgies when we are all allowed to meet again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep me too. My whole life is just hanging in the balance. Not knowing what to do and whether to hide up a corner, or commit bloody murder.

I'll help you get rid of the body if you want. Gives me something to do. "
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Haha, are you a good shot too. I can pay

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By *0astMan
over a year ago

Discovering

Yes very, and when you need help there is none available or told you don’t qualify...... Slowly watching everything I’ve worked for for the last 15 years slide away, no matter how much you adapt or diversity and now items I use can’t be imported into the Uk because the manufacturers have decided they no longer ship to us....... and guess why.....

I keep wondering what must have been going through the minds of those who took part in the gun power plot in 1605.

Oh the joys of modern life, no social life, no sex, what is sex ? !!!! I forget.....

Rant over ——- these are not the droids you are looking for ..... moving on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep me too. My whole life is just hanging in the balance. Not knowing what to do and whether to hide up a corner, or commit bloody murder.

I'll help you get rid of the body if you want. Gives me something to do. .

Haha, are you a good shot too. I can pay

I was a crack shit with a spud gun when I was a kid. Do these kills convert?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep me too. My whole life is just hanging in the balance. Not knowing what to do and whether to hide up a corner, or commit bloody murder.

I'll help you get rid of the body if you want. Gives me something to do. .

Haha, are you a good shot too. I can pay

I was a crack shit with a spud gun when I was a kid. Do these kills convert? "

Yeah I’ll take that as my first offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep me too. My whole life is just hanging in the balance. Not knowing what to do and whether to hide up a corner, or commit bloody murder.

I'll help you get rid of the body if you want. Gives me something to do. .

Haha, are you a good shot too. I can pay

I was a crack shit with a spud gun when I was a kid. Do these kills convert?

Yeah I’ll take that as my first offer.

Awesome. We will spud them to death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any single person being forced to stay home could always cite section 5 of the universal declaration on human rights. Solitary confinement is commonly deemed as torture or punishment and the section 5 states no one shall be subjected to such...forget the exact wording..so you could try legal action against the government for committing mass torture.....or just go the middle of a field (make sure its a local field) and scream...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Time to go walking, getting fresh air and a little exercise and appreciating a hot chocolate on my return - simple pleasures have become important again.

I wake up not expecting anything so most days I am pleasantly surprised that I am quite happy byt the time I go to bed. Obviously not happy as in normal times but still really happy I am well, have a roof over my head and that hot chocolate to look forward to.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Who else is mega fed up and just want to go to the middle of a field and just fucking scream. "

More than a couple times I’ve had that feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Time to go walking, getting fresh air and a little exercise and appreciating a hot chocolate on my return - simple pleasures have become important again.

Well this was just lovely to read.

I definitely need some of your motivation to be out in the cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else is mega fed up and just want to go to the middle of a field and just fucking scream. "

This is a weekly ritual here in our village after the sacrifice.

We paint our faces, strip naked, scream, dance naked under the moonlight and have an orgy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here. Really struggled at times this week, but have got a bit of a sex drive back today so that's a sign I'm less anxious at least

Hugs and love to anyone who needs it right now. There is light at the end of the tunnel. x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Very tough times for all. Thankfully my job can not be done from home but i am in desperate need of a holiday.x

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Every single day

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Hell yeah fed up to the back teeth with all of this. If we are all honesty let's face it on one has a life at the moment work, home, sleep do the same again next day. Boring as fuck with very little sign of any change soon, despite what government are saying.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I found the first one harder as I couldn't see the endgame. That's not to say I'm enjoying this one though.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Time to go walking, getting fresh air and a little exercise and appreciating a hot chocolate on my return - simple pleasures have become important again.

Well this was just lovely to read.

I definitely need some of your motivation to be out in the cold. "
Hey, it is not easy especially on a day like today, to motivate myself, I was cold before I grabbed my coat and even colder when I went outside - it took 10 minutes of brisk walking to warm up - but it got better bit by bit and half an hour later I was really pleased with myself. Perhaps we should set up a virtual walking group with a reward chocolate at the the end on here?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Who else is mega fed up and just want to go to the middle of a field and just fucking scream. "

As long as its local and you don't take a warm drink with you.. You'll be OK.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Yes it is shit, very worrying times for some and the uncertainty of when etc is stressful but it will pass..

Get into a routine, keep busy and get out in the fresh air ..

Nature is a great thing to lose oneself in..

Stay strong, much love ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Time to go walking, getting fresh air and a little exercise and appreciating a hot chocolate on my return - simple pleasures have become important again.

Well this was just lovely to read.

I definitely need some of your motivation to be out in the cold. Hey, it is not easy especially on a day like today, to motivate myself, I was cold before I grabbed my coat and even colder when I went outside - it took 10 minutes of brisk walking to warm up - but it got better bit by bit and half an hour later I was really pleased with myself. Perhaps we should set up a virtual walking group with a reward chocolate at the the end on here?

Omg this sounds like a great idea. Get a group of us together virtually for a bit of light competition. I like this a lot.

The Fab Strollers. Lol. Think this new website of ours can catch on.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Forget screaming - I'd go into the middle of a field and fuck right now!!!!!

Disclaimer - I'm not a covidiot before I get pounced on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes very, and when you need help there is none available or told you don’t qualify...... Slowly watching everything I’ve worked for for the last 15 years slide away, no matter how much you adapt or diversity and now items I use can’t be imported into the Uk because the manufacturers have decided they no longer ship to us....... and guess why.....

I keep wondering what must have been going through the minds of those who took part in the gun power plot in 1605.

Oh the joys of modern life, no social life, no sex, what is sex ? !!!! I forget.....

Rant over ——- these are not the droids you are looking for ..... moving on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forget screaming - I'd go into the middle of a field and fuck right now!!!!!

Disclaimer - I'm not a covidiot before I get pounced on"

Wouldn't we all. It's been too long now.

I do feel like my performance would even let the field down. Lol.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Forget screaming - I'd go into the middle of a field and fuck right now!!!!!

Disclaimer - I'm not a covidiot before I get pounced on

Wouldn't we all. It's been too long now.

I do feel like my performance would even let the field down. Lol. "

The first one may - but the encore would be amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else is mega fed up and just want to go to the middle of a field and just fucking scream. "

Just a little or maybe just curl up for a nap. I'd be happy with either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forget screaming - I'd go into the middle of a field and fuck right now!!!!!

Disclaimer - I'm not a covidiot before I get pounced on

Wouldn't we all. It's been too long now.

I do feel like my performance would even let the field down. Lol.

The first one may - but the encore would be amazing xx"

Oh don't you know it, this will be the only time ever that the encore will be better than the first act. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drive and I don't live near a nice walking area. My legs aren't in good condition. If someone could take me to the middle of a field,with the sun shining. I would lie down,look up at the sky and cry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't drive and I don't live near a nice walking area. My legs aren't in good condition. If someone could take me to the middle of a field,with the sun shining. I would lie down,look up at the sky and cry. "

Oh noooo I am so sorry. If it was the middle of the summer I would happily say yes.

Also sometimes crying is a good thing. Let it all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough times OP and I think most are with you, hard for so many. If ever there was a time for self care - of every kind, then its now.

Darkest before dawn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll join you in the field.

Not had a great week, had a few disappointments along the way. Getting the same feelings I had many, many years ago when I had a depressive slump, only worse. Lockdown is really tough this time around, and winter doesn't help.

If this is what we have to do to live, lay me down with the dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit that I'm sick of my own company now - and I like being on my own

I just want to go out!

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

Got to confess to having a couple of wobbles along the way. We've somehow held it together, but we want our old lives back asap!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have to admit that I'm sick of my own company now - and I like being on my own

I just want to go out!"

I'm exactly the same. I've always been quite good at entertaining myself. But now I'm just fed up with it. Would very much like to go to the pub and have s bit of a laugh with someone who isn't in my head. Ahaha.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

"I think we just have to accept it's all a bit shit at the moment. And just make the best of it.

Do something everyday that you enjoy and that you're 'allowed' to do, and try not to focus on the things you can't do right now. "

I can't think of anything I enjoy that I'm allowed to do. In no particular order the things I enjoy are:

Sex

Riding motorcycles for pleasure

The beach

Going to a club, having a drink.

Swimming

Watching live cricket

Going to gigs and festivals.

Etc etc.

I know these are first world problems and there's a lot of people worse of than me but I would give almost anything to be able to do any of the above right now.

Please don't say go for a walk, run or cycle. I hate running, it's too cold for walking and I used my push bike twice during the first lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more worried about the longer term - without meaning to be a doomsayer, I think realistically this year will be a write off too.

They need to hurry and vaccinate the most vulnerable as I doubt people will go another summer under these conditions.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

No not really!

What are you fed up about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been pretty miserable this week too, which isn't really like me. Trying hard to just shake it off. I think it's a pretty widespread feeling at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we just have to accept it's all a bit shit at the moment. And just make the best of it.

Do something everyday that you enjoy and that you're 'allowed' to do, and try not to focus on the things you can't do right now.

I can't think of anything I enjoy that I'm allowed to do. In no particular order the things I enjoy are:

Sex

Riding motorcycles for pleasure

The beach

Going to a club, having a drink.

Swimming

Watching live cricket

Going to gigs and festivals.

Etc etc.

I know these are first world problems and there's a lot of people worse of than me but I would give almost anything to be able to do any of the above right now.

Please don't say go for a walk, run or cycle. I hate running, it's too cold for walking and I used my push bike twice during the first lockdown. "

I fear that one more pointless freezing walk may push me over the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you aren't alone

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

OP you're not wrong I'd say nearly everyone would.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

"No not really!

What are you fed up about?"

Stuck at home, either furloghed or working. Not allowed to go out except for exercise, it's bloody cold or wet if you did go out. There's a pandemic been going on for nearly a year.

I think there good enough reasons to feel a little fed up.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Have a scream into a pillow. Hot bath. Hot chocolate with all the trimmings. Just sit in silence and breathe.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"you aren't alone

Sorry... but QUAAAAAACK!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sad hearing that there are so many people feeling this way

If anyone is needing an ear or a shoulder feel free to pm me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I would, but we aren't allowed out of our area and we don't have fields.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depression,when you don't get joy from anything.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Be kind to yourself and eachother. It's bloody tough for many people. But we will come through it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depression,when you don't get joy from anything."

Yes that is true - but this is a pretty joyless situation.

I'm not depressed I'm just fed up.

The 'be positive ' mantra isn't helping anymore - there's only so much time people can spend alone.

It's not healthy.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Who else is mega fed up and just want to go to the middle of a field and just fucking scream. "

What you need to do is look at Smiley Face Guy's head in the bath photo - so happy!.

Oh, wait.

Noooo! If Smiley Face Guy has lost the plot, we're all doomed!!!!!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like there's no enjoyment in life right now

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing has changed for me, worked and still working all the way through on the front line.

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