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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody got any terrible fab dates to share? The funnier the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

April 29th is particularly bad. Stay alert OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple once and they were disingenuous with their pics.....

Let’s just say the camera took off 20 years....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my verifications are tales of terrible meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All my verifications are tales of terrible meets.

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Lies , lies , lies

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By *HELONDONCOUPLECouple
over a year ago

london

Yes met a couple who’s pictures were taken 25 years before I was gobsmacked, didn’t even speak to them turned my back and watched footie in a pub while the mrs spoke to them unreal and a waste of my time, still to this day I don’t know why they do it

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Travelled 20miles to meet a 6ft 2 hunk of 47 who turned out to be a 5ft8 60+ man. Said hello and goodbye in the same breath.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I once met someone to go clubbing with. They were very boring, so I pretended to leave the club, they walked me half to my car and then I ducked back around and went back into the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on as a single woman I met a guy who was supposed to be 5 years younger but looked at least 10 years older than me. He hadn't bothered to shave (definitely wasn't designer stubble) and terrible teeth. He then started talking about his mate who had a Thai bride! I took an 'emergency ' call and legged it!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"April 29th is particularly bad. Stay alert OP"

February 30th is worse.

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By *dgar500Man
over a year ago

truro

There all better than mine. Haven’t had a single date COVID struck lockdown.

Hopefully one day soon I can get naughty

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Yea. Had a chicken burger and a few vodkas. Got really bad reflux and vomited it all up in the bathroom.

Lucky for me he had fallen asleep when I returned to the bedroom

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By *dgar500Man
over a year ago

truro


"Yea. Had a chicken burger and a few vodkas. Got really bad reflux and vomited it all up in the bathroom.

Lucky for me he had fallen asleep when I returned to the bedroom "

Haha that’s hilarious!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged to meet a woman off here who looked really nice on her pics. But when we met in a pub she was not 38 but was infact 58. She was also 7st at least bigger. Its the deceit hate the most in them cases. I just said hello and that you are not the same person you made out you were and just left.

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By *evilmademedoitMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Travelled 20miles to meet a 6ft 2 hunk of 47 who turned out to be a 5ft8 60+ man. Said hello and goodbye in the same breath."

You promised you wouldn’t ever mention this. And for the record I only claim to be 6ft1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Arranged to meet a woman off here who looked really nice on her pics. But when we met in a pub she was not 38 but was infact 58. She was also 7st at least bigger. Its the deceit hate the most in them cases. I just said hello and that you are not the same person you made out you were and just left. "

Don't understand why people lie when theyre gonna get found out! Nonsense to me!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Been lucky so far and never had a bad one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been lucky so far and never had a bad one "

Awww youre lucky. Pleased though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god a thread with my name on it!

Ok... been on here years and i threw a few mad orgies in my time. Mixed too wven though i am a lezza ,.. one was my mate took a lady and her husband up to my room at one party..they was gone ages. Long story short, they dp her and unknown to them at them time she err... how can i say in a forum? Shat the bed?? And the waff of turd came with her down the stairs when they were finished!! New bedding too i was fuming, slept on my couch that night after kick out.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Meet a woman for a drink who turned out to be so incredibly shy in person (although not in messages!) that she didn’t speak just opened and closed her mouth like a fish which was so incredibly off putting. Nowt happened as couldn’t find the chemistry...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh god a thread with my name on it!

Ok... been on here years and i threw a few mad orgies in my time. Mixed too wven though i am a lezza ,.. one was my mate took a lady and her husband up to my room at one party..they was gone ages. Long story short, they dp her and unknown to them at them time she err... how can i say in a forum? Shat the bed?? And the waff of turd came with her down the stairs when they were finished!! New bedding too i was fuming, slept on my couch that night after kick out. "

Haha thats epic!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arranged to meet a woman off here who looked really nice on her pics. But when we met in a pub she was not 38 but was infact 58. She was also 7st at least bigger. Its the deceit hate the most in them cases. I just said hello and that you are not the same person you made out you were and just left.

Don't understand why people lie when theyre gonna get found out! Nonsense to me!!"

If she had looked 58 it would hsve been something. I recon she was older than that even.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god a thread with my name on it!

Ok... been on here years and i threw a few mad orgies in my time. Mixed too wven though i am a lezza ,.. one was my mate took a lady and her husband up to my room at one party..they was gone ages. Long story short, they dp her and unknown to them at them time she err... how can i say in a forum? Shat the bed?? And the waff of turd came with her down the stairs when they were finished!! New bedding too i was fuming, slept on my couch that night after kick out.

Haha thats epic!!!!!"

I cut that short but she was so stinking i was gipping had to ask my friend what happened oh i was fumung, he thought my fury made the night, she left 30 minutes later. My bloody satin bedding ruined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a party years ago, I was super excited but also terrified as it was my first time. Everyone was really nice and I'd pulled out all the stops so was feeling pretty glam. It was so smokey though as everyone was smoking inside, the combination of that and nerves started to make me feel really unwell. A couple came over to say hi and as I opened my mouth to say it back a HUGE retchy belch came out instead, right in their faces. My boyfriend grabbed my arm and pulled me into a toilet ASAP as he knew I was about to throw up. When we came out totally dishevelled about 20mins later everyone was cheering us and winking like we'd been going at it when in reality he'd been dunking my face in a sink of cold water to stop me spewing on an unsuspecting guest . Pretty unsexy night, we just got pizza and went home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a party years ago, I was super excited but also terrified as it was my first time. Everyone was really nice and I'd pulled out all the stops so was feeling pretty glam. It was so smokey though as everyone was smoking inside, the combination of that and nerves started to make me feel really unwell. A couple came over to say hi and as I opened my mouth to say it back a HUGE retchy belch came out instead, right in their faces. My boyfriend grabbed my arm and pulled me into a toilet ASAP as he knew I was about to throw up. When we came out totally dishevelled about 20mins later everyone was cheering us and winking like we'd been going at it when in reality he'd been dunking my face in a sink of cold water to stop me spewing on an unsuspecting guest . Pretty unsexy night, we just got pizza and went home. "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my verifications last year were crap, I'd say about 4 guys fucked me then straight after asked to get verified...literally right after we fucked. I wanted to slap their faces off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my verifications last year were crap, I'd say about 4 guys fucked me then straight after asked to get verified...literally right after we fucked. I wanted to slap their faces off "

You should have!!

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By *SATCMan
over a year ago

Essex

Chatting to this lady on Badoo got on well I'm quite new to online dating prefer face to face, The eat got cheap was on so ask if she'd like to book a table somewhere. She booked a table at a restaurant iv never heard of. She sent the postcode ended up being 126 miles away lol

This was the second date I'd been on after the split up from wife. I was still up for going my balls needed emptying

Drove 126 miles to find out she lied about a lot including her age she wasn't 37 she was 57.

The meal was nice and I learnt to ask where they're from and not to go be filtered pictures. Fucking filters lol

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Most of my verifications last year were crap, I'd say about 4 guys fucked me then straight after asked to get verified...literally right after we fucked. I wanted to slap their faces off "

Ive had so many socials where I’ve made it clear that was all for that night and they kept pushing and pressuring which then stops me wanting it to go further

I also had one social last year and was at work the next day and my phone kept going off and there must have been 10 or 15 demands for a veri, just constantly one after another and getting more ranty because I wasn’t stopping my work and going on fab to sort it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my verifications last year were crap, I'd say about 4 guys fucked me then straight after asked to get verified...literally right after we fucked. I wanted to slap their faces off

Ive had so many socials where I’ve made it clear that was all for that night and they kept pushing and pressuring which then stops me wanting it to go further

I also had one social last year and was at work the next day and my phone kept going off and there must have been 10 or 15 demands for a veri, just constantly one after another and getting more ranty because I wasn’t stopping my work and going on fab to sort it out. "

Did it change your opinion of what you would have given them had they not pursued you for one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys shouldn't ask at all in my opinion. Let the ladies decide. Some of us think verifications are like scout badges. Not important to me who thinks you fuck well or look nice on cam. Guess it's ok one or two if it's on your profile for proof your real but if you have to keep asking, I won't bother with you. Most veris on my profile I regret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the accounts I've been really lucky... But I do chat quite a lot first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys shouldn't ask at all in my opinion. Let the ladies decide. Some of us think verifications are like scout badges. Not important to me who thinks you fuck well or look nice on cam. Guess it's ok one or two if it's on your profile for proof your real but if you have to keep asking, I won't bother with you. Most veris on my profile I regret. "

You're quite right, it does seem rather untoward to ask for one. However, as a single man, the only way to be verified is by meeting in person. Perhaps they feel it would give them more credibility and increase their chances for more 'meet's.

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By *SATCMan
over a year ago

Essex

I'm yet to have a fab date. This lockdown hasn't helped lol

Inbox if interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then a man should make that clear before thinking I'd remotely do that. Several times they pursuaded me that they weren't into verifications and just wanted a fuck buddy. Not only they fucked me then fucked off, they lied about wanting to be regular and not after fucking all of fab.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Most of my verifications last year were crap, I'd say about 4 guys fucked me then straight after asked to get verified...literally right after we fucked. I wanted to slap their faces off

Ive had so many socials where I’ve made it clear that was all for that night and they kept pushing and pressuring which then stops me wanting it to go further

I also had one social last year and was at work the next day and my phone kept going off and there must have been 10 or 15 demands for a veri, just constantly one after another and getting more ranty because I wasn’t stopping my work and going on fab to sort it out.

Did it change your opinion of what you would have given them had they not pursued you for one?"

I’ve had socials where I’ve thought about either bringing them home or we have talked about a second meet to go further and then they have dropped me off and either acted like pigs when I’ve tried to get out of the car, tried to follow me upto mine or just sat outside for ages to give me time to change my mind while messaging pressurising and begging texts. Those same guys usually say how I come across as super shy because I tell them I like socials first before thinking about sex. To me it’s an insult. They say shy and mean a prude because I choose what works for me and not for them.

As soon as that happens I loose all interest in taking things further

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Then a man should make that clear before thinking I'd remotely do that. Several times they pursuaded me that they weren't into verifications and just wanted a fuck buddy. Not only they fucked me then fucked off, they lied about wanting to be regular and not after fucking all of fab. "

Oh I’ve had that a lot!

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By *ack69erMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I met a girl in Leeds. As per usual, I always go down on a girl to give their pussy a good licking even on a first date or meet etc which does surprise a lot of girls.

On the first lick, I could not believe how foul her pussy tasted, it was disgusting and stunk to heavens high. In fact it was that disgusting, I had to give it a couple of more licks to convince myself, it really was disgusting, and sure as hell, it really was stinking, minging and manky, so I gave up before I was sick and just shagged her. I don't even think a can of Jeyes fluid would have made it smell and taste any sweeter.

Next night when I was home, I went for a night on town and the taste and smell of her pussy was still in my mind. Halfway through my second pint, I raced outside and chucked up with the thought of licking that manky fanny and went home.

Thankfully, in all my life I have never encountered such a foul tasting fanny again and stopped my desire to satisfy every girl I can by licking their sweet tasting pussy till they come as many times as I can make them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the men I do talk to have verifications already, just greedy in my opinion to ask more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was a newbie last year, I definitely learned my lesson to not jump in the sharks tank anymore xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also the men I do talk to have verifications already, just greedy in my opinion to ask more lol"

Like how some people like to collect 'Friends' on a rather popular social media site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a girl in Leeds. As per usual, I always go down on a girl to give their pussy a good licking even on a first date or meet etc which does surprise a lot of girls.

On the first lick, I could not believe how foul her pussy tasted, it was disgusting and stunk to heavens high. In fact it was that disgusting, I had to give it a couple of more licks to convince myself, it really was disgusting, and sure as hell, it really was stinking, minging and manky, so I gave up before I was sick and just shagged her. I don't even think a can of Jeyes fluid would have made it smell and taste any sweeter.

Next night when I was home, I went for a night on town and the taste and smell of her pussy was still in my mind. Halfway through my second pint, I raced outside and chucked up with the thought of licking that manky fanny and went home.

Thankfully, in all my life I have never encountered such a foul tasting fanny again and stopped my desire to satisfy every girl I can by licking their sweet tasting pussy till they come as many times as I can make them. "

What a nice person. She might not have known she had an infection. Did you tell her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I was a newbie last year, I definitely learned my lesson to not jump in the sharks tank anymore xx"

That's the attitude. We learn from our mistakes. I wish you well with your future meetings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my verifications last year were crap, I'd say about 4 guys fucked me then straight after asked to get verified...literally right after we fucked. I wanted to slap their faces off

Ive had so many socials where I’ve made it clear that was all for that night and they kept pushing and pressuring which then stops me wanting it to go further

I also had one social last year and was at work the next day and my phone kept going off and there must have been 10 or 15 demands for a veri, just constantly one after another and getting more ranty because I wasn’t stopping my work and going on fab to sort it out.

Did it change your opinion of what you would have given them had they not pursued you for one?

I’ve had socials where I’ve thought about either bringing them home or we have talked about a second meet to go further and then they have dropped me off and either acted like pigs when I’ve tried to get out of the car, tried to follow me upto mine or just sat outside for ages to give me time to change my mind while messaging pressurising and begging texts. Those same guys usually say how I come across as super shy because I tell them I like socials first before thinking about sex. To me it’s an insult. They say shy and mean a prude because I choose what works for me and not for them.

As soon as that happens I loose all interest in taking things further"

I thought boys left this sort of behaviour behind with school days!! I'm not surprised you'd lose interest after that.

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I once agreed to meet a couple at a hotel near where I used to live . When I got there the female was a bit d*unk and I thought this might not be the best idea , we go to the room and she downs a bottle of white wine in one go, becomes really aggressive .

and demands I pound her

I'm like god she's far too d*unk , so I make my excuses ,her hubby thanks me for doing the right thing and she promptly falls asleep as I was leaving ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few bad ones.

First was when I was very new to swinging I was only 22 and had a older Dom FWB. We was meant to go to a party the previous week but due to roadworks we couldn’t get there. The following week they invited us round, normally we would always do socials but as we hadn’t got to their party we decided to go. Well as soon as we walked in I said no to my fwb the guy was very old and not someone that I would want. He was interested in the lady though. Despite my protests some how we ended up in their hot tub. The old guy kept trying to touch me and I kept saying no. Then suddenly I saw a curtain move and someone in the upstairs window. So I said whose in your house? They went oh our teenagers are here. I forgot about my manners told them that’s disgusting have meets while children home and demanded to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few bad ones.

First was when I was very new to swinging I was only 22 and had a older Dom FWB. We was meant to go to a party the previous week but due to roadworks we couldn’t get there. The following week they invited us round, normally we would always do socials but as we hadn’t got to their party we decided to go. Well as soon as we walked in I said no to my fwb the guy was very old and not someone that I would want. He was interested in the lady though. Despite my protests some how we ended up in their hot tub. The old guy kept trying to touch me and I kept saying no. Then suddenly I saw a curtain move and someone in the upstairs window. So I said whose in your house? They went oh our teenagers are here. I forgot about my manners told them that’s disgusting have meets while children home and demanded to leave "

Anyone who fucks with their kids in the house is disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was invited to a woman's home.

I didnt go through the door and reported her to social services.

She obviously had issues and no child should live in those conditions.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Too many to mention.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Most of my verifications last year were crap, I'd say about 4 guys fucked me then straight after asked to get verified...literally right after we fucked. I wanted to slap their faces off

Ive had so many socials where I’ve made it clear that was all for that night and they kept pushing and pressuring which then stops me wanting it to go further

I also had one social last year and was at work the next day and my phone kept going off and there must have been 10 or 15 demands for a veri, just constantly one after another and getting more ranty because I wasn’t stopping my work and going on fab to sort it out.

Did it change your opinion of what you would have given them had they not pursued you for one?

I’ve had socials where I’ve thought about either bringing them home or we have talked about a second meet to go further and then they have dropped me off and either acted like pigs when I’ve tried to get out of the car, tried to follow me upto mine or just sat outside for ages to give me time to change my mind while messaging pressurising and begging texts. Those same guys usually say how I come across as super shy because I tell them I like socials first before thinking about sex. To me it’s an insult. They say shy and mean a prude because I choose what works for me and not for them.

As soon as that happens I loose all interest in taking things further"

I'd rather be shy than a total fuckwit than all of them

There must be some right dickheads around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a dating disaster, more a what could have been.

Got chatting to a lady on a dating site who lived around 1.5 hours from me. Turns out she had been in an abusive relationship and was trying to recover from that. We chatted a lot and video called a few times, got on really well. Something spooked her and she decided she maybe wasn't ready to date.so it fizzled out.

I was ok with it due to distance but a little gutted for us both, her moreso that some Narrcasistic idiot had made her life hell and she was still struggling.

As an aside, my son and his mum moved not far from where this lady was from. Who knows what may have happened.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not really a dating disaster, more a what could have been.

Got chatting to a lady on a dating site who lived around 1.5 hours from me. Turns out she had been in an abusive relationship and was trying to recover from that. We chatted a lot and video called a few times, got on really well. Something spooked her and she decided she maybe wasn't ready to date.so it fizzled out.

I was ok with it due to distance but a little gutted for us both, her moreso that some Narrcasistic idiot had made her life hell and she was still struggling.

As an aside, my son and his mum moved not far from where this lady was from. Who knows what may have happened. "

Some of those 'what might have beens' stick more in your head than actual meets.

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Met with a couple who seemed to be nice and chilled out, went back to their hotel room and started having ourselves some fun, I looked over at the husband who wasn't looking too happy, his face started to get red and he got pretty angry pretty fast, he started freaking out about the whole situation shouting at me to stop touching his wife and got pretty aggressive, his wife was apologising and trying to calm him down whilst I gathered my things and left the room. Was pretty scary at the time but thinking back I always laugh at the image of me running around the room with a bonner trying not to get my ass kicked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met with a couple who seemed to be nice and chilled out, went back to their hotel room and started having ourselves some fun, I looked over at the husband who wasn't looking too happy, his face started to get red and he got pretty angry pretty fast, he started freaking out about the whole situation shouting at me to stop touching his wife and got pretty aggressive, his wife was apologising and trying to calm him down whilst I gathered my things and left the room. Was pretty scary at the time but thinking back I always laugh at the image of me running around the room with a bonner trying not to get my ass kicked."

No cpl knows how they will react to their first meet. But him taking it out on you was out of order. All he had to say was stop i cannot do this and you would have stopped playing. Sounds like they had not really talked this through enough or he was going through with it to please his mrs who wanted other guys to fuck her.

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Guys shouldn't ask at all in my opinion. Let the ladies decide. Some of us think verifications are like scout badges. Not important to me who thinks you fuck well or look nice on cam. Guess it's ok one or two if it's on your profile for proof your real but if you have to keep asking, I won't bother with you. Most veris on my profile I regret. "
i totally agree with you. Veris are not a good system.. i stopped giving them well before cv19 struck and i never ask for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agreed to a coffee and chat. Had swapped pics, when he walked into coffee shop and I stood up to say hi. He looked me up and down, says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out of coffee shop.

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By *9089Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Been lucky so far and never had a bad one "

It will happen I am sure, the law of averages will apply at some point. My profile is the truth, I am ancient and past it

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"agreed to a coffee and chat. Had swapped pics, when he walked into coffee shop and I stood up to say hi. He looked me up and down, says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out of coffee shop."

You are gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"agreed to a coffee and chat. Had swapped pics, when he walked into coffee shop and I stood up to say hi. He looked me up and down, says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out of coffee shop.

You are gorgeous x"

Thank you xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"agreed to a coffee and chat. Had swapped pics, when he walked into coffee shop and I stood up to say hi. He looked me up and down, says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out of coffee shop."

I've had one similar from a dating site, picked me up, got in and no less than 100 yards down the road he pulled over and went 'yeah you're not doing it for me' don't think I've got out of a car and walked home faster

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By *9089Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"agreed to a coffee and chat. Had swapped pics, when he walked into coffee shop and I stood up to say hi. He looked me up and down, says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out of coffee shop.

I've had one similar from a dating site, picked me up, got in and no less than 100 yards down the road he pulled over and went 'yeah you're not doing it for me' don't think I've got out of a car and walked home faster"

His loss, you look good to me

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I met a chap at Asda for a coffee, all went well until we walked to the car park and he told me he had another date the day after and he would then decide which one of us he wanted, we had been chatting weeks. I told him in no uncertain terms I’m not having that and told him to get lost, he then raised his fist at me so I told him to go ahead and hit me, my finger was on my dial pad for 999. He ran away. I was shook up and really upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a chap at Asda for a coffee, all went well until we walked to the car park and he told me he had another date the day after and he would then decide which one of us he wanted, we had been chatting weeks. I told him in no uncertain terms I’m not having that and told him to get lost, he then raised his fist at me so I told him to go ahead and hit me, my finger was on my dial pad for 999. He ran away. I was shook up and really upset. "

That's awful. Hope you are ok now. X

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn


"I met a girl in Leeds. As per usual, I always go down on a girl to give their pussy a good licking even on a first date or meet etc which does surprise a lot of girls.

On the first lick, I could not believe how foul her pussy tasted, it was disgusting and stunk to heavens high. In fact it was that disgusting, I had to give it a couple of more licks to convince myself, it really was disgusting, and sure as hell, it really was stinking, minging and manky, so I gave up before I was sick and just shagged her. I don't even think a can of Jeyes fluid would have made it smell and taste any sweeter.

Next night when I was home, I went for a night on town and the taste and smell of her pussy was still in my mind. Halfway through my second pint, I raced outside and chucked up with the thought of licking that manky fanny and went home.

Thankfully, in all my life I have never encountered such a foul tasting fanny again and stopped my desire to satisfy every girl I can by licking their sweet tasting pussy till they come as many times as I can make them. "

Yet you still fucked her!

That's vile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing happened to me, not on fab but another website, he was edging me to go back to his hotel room for a shag. I wasn't feeling it and wanted to go home, but he was very persistent and I walked off only for him to grab my arm very firmly and said to me he travelled all the way from Birmingham to get rejected, there were people around watching us, thank God he let go or I would of definitely punched the guy!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Same thing happened to me, not on fab but another website, he was edging me to go back to his hotel room for a shag. I wasn't feeling it and wanted to go home, but he was very persistent and I walked off only for him to grab my arm very firmly and said to me he travelled all the way from Birmingham to get rejected, there were people around watching us, thank God he let go or I would of definitely punched the guy!"

It’s horrible when guys turn nasty on women, proves what wimps they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, whatever happened to being a gentlemen nowadays.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Been lucky so far and never had a bad one

It will happen I am sure, the law of averages will apply at some point. My profile is the truth, I am ancient and past it"

I am very selective on who I met and where I meet them and always make it crystal clear that the 1st meet will never involve any play.

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By *9089Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Been lucky so far and never had a bad one

It will happen I am sure, the law of averages will apply at some point. My profile is the truth, I am ancient and past it

I am very selective on who I met and where I meet them and always make it crystal clear that the 1st meet will never involve any play. "

Sensible approach for all concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"agreed to a coffee and chat. Had swapped pics, when he walked into coffee shop and I stood up to say hi. He looked me up and down, says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out of coffee shop."

His loss as you look great. There are so e horrible buggers around both men&women alike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been lucky so far and never had a bad one

It will happen I am sure, the law of averages will apply at some point. My profile is the truth, I am ancient and past it

I am very selective on who I met and where I meet them and always make it crystal clear that the 1st meet will never involve any play. "

I do the same. If they start hinting at trying to persuade me to shag then I just don't meet them ever. If they can't accept a "no" before we've even met then they definitely can't be trusted in person.

Someone on here once gave a tip of how they always say no to something before they meet, to see how that person reacts. Good tip.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Been lucky so far and never had a bad one

It will happen I am sure, the law of averages will apply at some point. My profile is the truth, I am ancient and past it

I am very selective on who I met and where I meet them and always make it crystal clear that the 1st meet will never involve any play.

I do the same. If they start hinting at trying to persuade me to shag then I just don't meet them ever. If they can't accept a "no" before we've even met then they definitely can't be trusted in person.

Someone on here once gave a tip of how they always say no to something before they meet, to see how that person reacts. Good tip. "

I had a 3 rule social on my last profile update. I got abuse. Why do men on here think it’s instashag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been lucky so far and never had a bad one

It will happen I am sure, the law of averages will apply at some point. My profile is the truth, I am ancient and past it

I am very selective on who I met and where I meet them and always make it crystal clear that the 1st meet will never involve any play.

I do the same. If they start hinting at trying to persuade me to shag then I just don't meet them ever. If they can't accept a "no" before we've even met then they definitely can't be trusted in person.

Someone on here once gave a tip of how they always say no to something before they meet, to see how that person reacts. Good tip.

I had a 3 rule social on my last profile update. I got abuse. Why do men on here think it’s instashag?"

Probably because they've seen Swinger porn and assume swingers fuck anyone who asks.

If they are abusive with me for any reason I know we aren't compatible so I see it as a lucky escape I won't be meeting them.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Been lucky so far and never had a bad one

It will happen I am sure, the law of averages will apply at some point. My profile is the truth, I am ancient and past it

I am very selective on who I met and where I meet them and always make it crystal clear that the 1st meet will never involve any play.

I do the same. If they start hinting at trying to persuade me to shag then I just don't meet them ever. If they can't accept a "no" before we've even met then they definitely can't be trusted in person.

Someone on here once gave a tip of how they always say no to something before they meet, to see how that person reacts. Good tip.

I had a 3 rule social on my last profile update. I got abuse. Why do men on here think it’s instashag?

Probably because they've seen Swinger porn and assume swingers fuck anyone who asks.

If they are abusive with me for any reason I know we aren't compatible so I see it as a lucky escape I won't be meeting them. "

It shows how little intelligence some guys on here have. Low intelligence is a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really a dating disaster, more a what could have been.

Got chatting to a lady on a dating site who lived around 1.5 hours from me. Turns out she had been in an abusive relationship and was trying to recover from that. We chatted a lot and video called a few times, got on really well. Something spooked her and she decided she maybe wasn't ready to date.so it fizzled out.

I was ok with it due to distance but a little gutted for us both, her moreso that some Narrcasistic idiot had made her life hell and she was still struggling.

As an aside, my son and his mum moved not far from where this lady was from. Who knows what may have happened.

Some of those 'what might have beens' stick more in your head than actual meets."

The ones who ‘got away’

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