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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Ok i have a few questions for the straight men. Not fab straight, straight straight.

Do you enjoy giving anal?

Do you enjoy recieving anal attention?

For those who have tried it, do you wish you did it sooner?

I ask because it sometimes baffles me that so many men love giving but never try recieving any sort of pleasure anally. Since this is where the prostate is, i would think they would be more inclined to try this and see what its all about.

If they then realise its not for them, then no problem. Is it narrow minded to want this but never try it? Or is it simply a matter of preferences?

Not looking to bash or insult at all here. Genuinely curious to know what men think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This should be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly do appreciate attention being paid to my ass, but also understand it isn’t for everyone so I don’t expect it during play. If it does something for the woman I’m playing with then win win in that case and obviously I’d return the favour to her lol

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Nope. Don't like anal either way. It doesn't do anything for my. Bums are exits, not entrances. There are custom-built holes for sex. I've never worked out why a different hole would be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op ur never going to find out who’s fab straight no guys ever going to say it

Hence why they have it set to straight the only way you would really know is if us lovely tv/ts open or mail box’s to yous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving and receiving. Discovering my p spot was revelatory. I want more of that and I wouldn't mind if it was the only focus

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Like all three and can’t remember the first time so I can’t say if I’d wish I’d done it earlier cuz it was a fair few years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like all three and can’t remember the first time so I can’t say if I’d wish I’d done it earlier cuz it was a fair few years ago "

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I'm phobic about anal would never do it and would never receive it even more so.

Often say to mate why would you when what your really after is around an inch away and why not just fuck guys too an ass is an ass surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actively pursue anal. It gives me less pleasure than 'normal' penetrative sex.

I've received strap on anal and anal with toys and although it was OK I have no real desire to pursue this.

I do like a fingering during a bj

I do like toys in my ass when I play solo. More for the enjoyment of penetration and stretching rather than 'in-out' friction which I find a bit irritating.

What does it all mean??

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I introduced a straight playfriend to a prostate massage and when I asked him why had he never had it before, he replied that no other women had wanted to do it to him.

They liked to rim him with fingers but wouldn't go any further. So I guess it all depends on how adventurous their sexual partners are to what they experience

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By *hilledGuerillaMan
over a year ago

In the monkey house

I enjoy giving and receiving anal attention and wish I had experienced it earlier. Still things I want to try as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actively pursue anal. It gives me less pleasure than 'normal' penetrative sex.

I've received strap on anal and anal with toys and although it was OK I have no real desire to pursue this.

I do like a fingering during a bj

I do like toys in my ass when I play solo. More for the enjoyment of penetration and stretching rather than 'in-out' friction which I find a bit irritating.

What does it all mean??

"

You like your ass played with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy anal play. Happy to give and receive. I don’t think it makes me bi or gay in any way.

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I introduced a straight playfriend to a prostate massage and when I asked him why had he never had it before, he replied that no other women had wanted to do it to him.

They liked to rim him with fingers but wouldn't go any further. So I guess it all depends on how adventurous their sexual partners are to what they experience

"

I think this is very much the case. Men, and even women not being adventurous or sharing rude opinions on any man who is interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

No

No

No

not that bothered about giving it unless the lady really enjoys it. I wouldn't miss it if I never did it again

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By *hilledGuerillaMan
over a year ago

In the monkey house

I was sceptical at first but got into it really quickly. Something special about a pokey bum blowjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has never interested me so no.

No.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

Was way more into anal before I had done it. Can take it or leave it now. If the woman in with wants it up there as she finds pleasure in it then happy to go with it.

As for my own bum fun, Love having it played with and wish I’d discovered it sooner. Best nosh I ever had was when a woman fingered my hole.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes to both, I enjoy it as part of a healthy and varied sex diet

It would have been good to do it earlier but then it would have been good to do everything earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actively pursue anal. It gives me less pleasure than 'normal' penetrative sex.

I've received strap on anal and anal with toys and although it was OK I have no real desire to pursue this.

I do like a fingering during a bj

I do like toys in my ass when I play solo. More for the enjoyment of penetration and stretching rather than 'in-out' friction which I find a bit irritating.

What does it all mean??

You like your ass played with "

Who needs counselling when you've got fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a wee bit unfair to say that it's because someone isn't adventurous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never given or received it, I don't think I've been willing to open myself up (hehe) to anyone to try it but it is something I would like to do at some point.

I do like anal play though such as rimming and having it done to me was odd but very pleasurable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a wee bit unfair to say that it's because someone isn't adventurous "

I’m adventurous but ain’t nobody going near mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been enjoying ass play for the last few years but I wish I had tried it sooner. I was afraid to try early on because mates had joked that a man who is willing to put things up his ass would eventually move from objects to cocks. Stupid notion that I eventually ignored and then bought a butt plug..or 3

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

I’ve never tried giving anal (never meet a woman who wants it) and won’t try receiving it either but I have had my prostate checked by a doctor and found it extremely painful and very uncomfortable

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm phobic about anal would never do it and would never receive it even more so.

Often say to mate why would you when what your really after is around an inch away and why not just fuck guys too an ass is an ass surely"

Why not just get blowjobs from guys too? A mouth is a mouth surely?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I'm possibly a walking contradiction (so nothing new there ) because I love rimming a woman, and giving her anal.of that what she likes, but don't like receiving anything there in return.

An ex really wanted to run me once, and I was willing to try it but the sensation really did nothing for me other than make me lose my erection and so it never occurred again

A different ex, almost 25 years ago, did also stick a finger up there during sex which wasn't necessarily unpleasant but, because I hadn't expected it, left me paranoid that I'd given her stinkfinger....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm phobic about anal would never do it and would never receive it even more so.

Often say to mate why would you when what your really after is around an inch away and why not just fuck guys too an ass is an ass surely"

No. That doesn’t make sense at all to me. It’s like when someone posted I like to be pegged by a woman does it make me gay or bi? Of course it doesn’t! It’s totally different. An arse (or ass) is not just an arse (or ass!)

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

Totally 100% straight. I have tried giving and receiving and not going to say it’s my favourite but not going to say I dislike either. When a man gets pegged they will enjoy asking as they really know the women pegging them. Think every man should atleast try it once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never given but I have experimented with a glass dildo in my arse, it’s different not entirely convinced as yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally 100% straight. I have tried giving and receiving and not going to say it’s my favourite but not going to say I dislike either. When a man gets pegged they will enjoy asking as they really know the women pegging them. Think every man should atleast try it once. "

Why?

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"Totally 100% straight. I have tried giving and receiving and not going to say it’s my favourite but not going to say I dislike either. When a man gets pegged they will enjoy asking as they really know the women pegging them. Think every man should atleast try it once.

Why? "

To say if they do like it or not. How can someone say they don’t like/enjoy it if never tried. But then I suppose on the other side there are things I won’t try and not willing to try either. Suppose I’m a hypocrite I guess

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I'm phobic about anal would never do it and would never receive it even more so.

Often say to mate why would you when what your really after is around an inch away and why not just fuck guys too an ass is an ass surely

Why not just get blowjobs from guys too? A mouth is a mouth surely? "
you may have seen I did write phobic it's not just that I wouldn't even the thought of any anal is almost a pabic

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm phobic about anal would never do it and would never receive it even more so.

Often say to mate why would you when what your really after is around an inch away and why not just fuck guys too an ass is an ass surely

Why not just get blowjobs from guys too? A mouth is a mouth surely? you may have seen I did write phobic it's not just that I wouldn't even the thought of any anal is almost a pabic"

I said blowjob.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Panic

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Maybe check what the word phobic means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you enjoy giving anal?

No

Do you enjoy recieving anal attention?

Yes orally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than happy to give anal and am fine with being rimmed or prostate massage, the latter being especially good in conjunction with a blowjob.

I have no desire whatsoever to be pegged.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Before I tried receiving anal sex, the thought it would get me angry. As if having a cock inside me was a the worst thing you could do. Only gay men do that, I am not gay.

After looking at several porn site in my mid teens, the thought of giving a woman anal sex was a brilliant thing to do. As it was a taboo subject.

It took me a long time to get my head round, me enjoying having a cock inside my bum. Now I enjoy the odd occasion that it happens, sometimes with very happy endings.

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I like my ass licked but haven’t tried anything else. I have had anal with a girlfriend a few times but she hated it.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I enjoy giving anal (rimming and penetration) as it's tight, taboo and shows a level of trust and intimacy between a man and a woman.

I have tried prostate play myself and with a partner but it doesn't seem to do anything for me. It's been fun trying though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy giving anal as it's a different sensation for me, and you have the whole taboo aspect that goes with it too.

I enjoy receiving some rimming or a finger if I'm in the mood, and sometimes it can be what tips me over the edge K and I have tried using toys on me as a build up to pegging but again, have to be in the mood, and the last time was... uh... quick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never tried giving anal but I have experienced anal play with plugs. I find when your prostate is massaged during sex it makes your orgasm a lot more enjoyable.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Straighter than that arrow Kevin Costner shot through that other arrow in Robin Hood, Prince of Thieves here.......

I enjoy giving anal, and have received good feedback about my technique/prowess I only give to those women who enjoy/want/ask for anal though

I do enjoy being rimmed, and have had my prostate worked with fingers and dildos to ejaculation, which is a most pleasant sensation, very different to a ‘normal’ orgasm through sex. I think it’s the kink aspect of a female doing this kind of play to me which ramps up the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight and love giving. Love rimming as its naughty. I love being rimmed, I don't mind a finger in me by the girl I'm with but I'm very tight. I'd try a toy but far too tight and hurts so a finger it is. It's nice, naughty and sexy. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleaned colon here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cleaned colon here "

With just a faint aroma of watermelon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cleaned colon here

With just a faint aroma of watermelon"

#obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy giving anal, and recently thanks to an incredible and very trusted lady friend have experiments with receiving anal play. Early days, but very much something to be explored further, and i can't wait for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm am fully straight and the thought of playing with another man does nothing for me in the slightest.

When it comes to giving a lady anal its about the different sensation. Its a little taboo, but the sphincter muscles are much stronger and really clamp around the cock, and unlike normal penetrative sex where you get more and more lubrication until sensation can be lost you only have the lubrication you have added, so sensation isn't lost.

In terms of prostate play I really enjoy it. Its again a very different sensation and the orgasm lasts much longer. I'm not going to deny myself that kind of pleasure just because it could be deemed to of crossed sexual boundaries.

Hope that helps x

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Personally I think assigning a correlation between anal play and sexuality is ridiculously erroneous

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By *amillMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I’ve given anal a handful of times and would love to do it more, but I often find a lot of women aren’t that into it which is fine.

In terms of receiving anal play, I’ve had a finger and been rimmed once, really enjoyed it actually and it made orgasms very intense. Again though, a lot of women I’ve been with haven’t always been up for that or another common issue is that they have long false nails and I don’t fancy getting my insides cut up

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

I've only ever given Anal once, although I've often slipped a cheeky finger in, but would very much like to try it again.

I've never had "Anal attention", but that's not to say I'm against it.

Prostate massage could be interesting..

I definitely don't like the idea of being pegged, or having more than a finger inserted.

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