FabSwingers.com forum: Mental health

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Since the admins are all over this forum. How does hiding people's verifications help anything or anyone in any way interms mental health. Surely if people were able to publish then they may get through to be able to chat to others alot easier if others can see their decent from their verifications being public. Also how does two people that have met verify each other. If new people can't verify until they been verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since the admins are all over this forum. How does hiding people's verifications help anything or anyone in any way interms mental health. Surely if people were able to publish then they may get through to be able to chat to others alot easier if others can see their decent from their verifications being public. Also how does two people that have met verify each other. If new people can't verify until they been verified. "

Your first veri needs to be from a verified person

Two unverified people can't verify each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly. So needs addressing as two unverified people can meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. So needs addressing as two unverified people can meet."

Send a suggestion to admin from the contact us page, but I don't think it's too priority, given Covid n all and staying at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has got to be up there as the most novel way to help mental health

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm missing your point.

I chat to people all the time and my entire profile is hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. So needs addressing as two unverified people can meet."

They can

I assume the measure is in place to stop one person setting up separate accounts and one account verifying the other

AFAIK, if you go on cam, you can get verified that way, allowing you to verify others

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"This has got to be up there as the most novel way to help mental health "

Isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some off us hade them like I do because

I respect others privacy

Who I meet is my business not everyone on the sites

Plus also can spoil meeting people if say I meet someone

Who someone else dose not like then they may be inclined not to meet me

Even if it was years ago

For experience

Started to hide mine back in 2017 after one couple keep getting pestered from some a nother tv/ts who had seen they had meet me

They contact me asking me to undisply they verifies from my profile and also at the same time kind off muck me getting a nother meet from them

Even though it wasn’t my fault or had anything to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat with quite a few people, have no veris, not sure they actually mean much in all fairness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also OP, you appear to be verified

Meet verifications can be made now, but won't be shown publically until Admin deem it acceptable to do so

They have to demonstrate some commercial responsibility and can't afford to promote people meeting for casual sex right now

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Exactly. So needs addressing as two unverified people can meet."

One or both of them can get cam verified then can meet verify each other. Having said that, no one should currently be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This has got to be up there as the most novel way to help mental health

Isn't it!"

Of course you get through as a female. Blokes will message anything. Is more directed at blokes on here where most the mental health is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I am verified. But I still can't work out the benefits of hiding people's verifications. But can see the damage it could do. When genuine people can't get through to even basic chat as have nothing to prove they genuine on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has got to be up there as the most novel way to help mental health

Isn't it!

Of course you get through as a female. Blokes will message anything. Is more directed at blokes on here where most the mental health is"

I'm a bloke

If my mental health was suffering, the last place I'd look to remedy it would be on here

Also, there may be other reasons people aren't communicating with you - a lack of photos, little info on the profile, a relatively new account

Certainly in the forums if you make 'radical' statements, they get noticed and purely by making them, you can lose a lot of interest

I think you are opening a battle that will only serve to alienate existing users and perhaps get you a forum ban too

It's a battle you won't win

Your time is much better spent making your image here more visible, more interesting and less contraversial

Settle in quietly and politely and see if your luck changes

You are not going to make friends by challenging site rules and trying to get physical meets right now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is not a personal thing. I'm fine just flagging issues I see. And you can't speak for others who don't get through

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We’re not verified, we’ve met someone from here but from an old profile (we became a little disillusioned and decided to leave for a while). We could ask them to verify us again but we haven’t and have no intention to as we don’t want to contact them again.

We’ve also had social meets but they were also unverified so neither of us could verify each other.

In short, yes it might be nice to get verified but in the grand scheme of things it’s not worrying us, we’ve still managed to meet people and chat to people without being verified. If it was really beneficial to get verified we’d go on cams, I’m sure the people struggling without veris could do that too.

As for your mental health, there’s better help out there than hooking up with strangers, if anything the rejection and disappointment from some of the people on here could be very harmful to your mental health. If you’re really struggling, seek professional help.

Lou x

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