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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

or so it seems.

i ften joke with guys i know that i am one of the last normal girls left. i dont get all hung up on them, definately dont do the bunny boiler thing etc

however i think this is working against me! not for the first time has it turned out that a guy i liked has managed to find himself with someone else

so guys.....do you secretly like a bit of bunny boiler?

Obviously these are guys i met on dating sites and not off here - i can keep my hormones in check enough to just shag lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nice girls finish last... treat them mean keep them keen........

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

you do know that the ones that say they dont do the bunny boiler thing are mostly in denial

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

i dont think guys do like bunny boilers they tend to run. you will find your mr right leanne. just have to kiss a few frogs first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im terrible, if i like a guy i let him know.

I believe there is someone out there for everyone and that good things come to those who wait. It also happens when you least expect it

Im just an epic fail when it comes to men lol... good enough to shag, im an 'amazing' girl... but not worth anymore

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"you do know that the ones that say they dont do the bunny boiler thing are mostly in denial "

or just better at hiding their tracks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

You don't need to have bunny boiler tendancies to let someone know that you're interested or like them

Maybe you're coming across as though you don't need anyone at all and they can sense that so back away and feel that they're not wanted at all

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Nice girls finish last... treat them mean keep them keen........ "

treat me mean and I'll fuck off.....

I don't attest to that saying... mind games are the worst thing a woman can do.....you'll case off the nice ones

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Anyone for a bowl of rabbit stew?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to know the secrets on how to hold a good man and keep him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know if I am a nice girl or not, however, I know that because I so blooming difficult to live with, I am destined to be alone.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Nice girls finish last... treat them mean keep them keen........

treat me mean and I'll fuck off.....

I don't attest to that saying... mind games are the worst thing a woman can do.....you'll case off the nice ones "

I was joking... I can't treat men mean I am crap at relationships I get it completely wrong most of the time...

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I would love to know the secrets on how to hold a good man and keep him x"

A roomy cellar, shackles, remember to feed them and don't forget to empty the bucket occasionally.....works for me

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have zero time for mind games, manipulation and all the other game playing to meet guys or girls.

Sex is great, I love it..... but dignity, self respect & integrity, I find are better.

I also hope people find their true loves in life....

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I would love to know the secrets on how to hold a good man and keep him x"

...Hold him with a firm grip and tie him to the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to know the secrets on how to hold a good man and keep him x"

...... a sheet of MDF and no-nails glue worked for my auntie Ethel.

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By *orsetandheelsWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Ladies, it should about whether HE is good enough for YOU!

Be yourself, enjoy yourself and radiate happiness and the right guy who is worthy will find you.

Lxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been similar but ended up with guys that I really didn't want to be with; one who was cheating on me. I see now I was desperate for someone to love me, be with me and be like all the other women I saw and I didn't want to be left on the shelf so to speak, in reality, whilst being on my own isn't great, I see too many marriages that just aren't great. I just need to learn to relax and have fun, after all they say there is someone out there for everyone but I am not changing myself just to please someone else

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"i dont think guys do like bunny boilers they tend to run. you will find your mr right leanne. just have to kiss a few frogs first"

Rivet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think guys do like bunny boilers they tend to run. you will find your mr right leanne. just have to kiss a few frogs first

Rivet "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

apologies for the self serving thread...guess i am just a bit emotionally vulnerable this week...normal service will be resumed shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think guys do like bunny boilers they tend to run. you will find your mr right leanne. just have to kiss a few frogs first

Rivet "

Aussie kisses for you id say

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"i dont think guys do like bunny boilers they tend to run. you will find your mr right leanne. just have to kiss a few frogs first

Rivet

Aussie kisses for you id say "

Rivet rivet rivet lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You will all find the right guy when you least expect it i had to wait until i was 41

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live by the saying that it is better to be on my own than with the wrong person.

This is soooooooooooo true!

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"apologies for the self serving thread...guess i am just a bit emotionally vulnerable this week...normal service will be resumed shortly "

Cheer up miss, get ya smiley face on for Monday...21 again? lol x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"apologies for the self serving thread...guess i am just a bit emotionally vulnerable this week...normal service will be resumed shortly

Cheer up miss, get ya smiley face on for Monday...21 again? lol x "

i aint been 21 first time round yet...not mentally anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice girls finish last... treat them mean keep them keen........

treat me mean and I'll fuck off.....

I don't attest to that saying... mind games are the worst thing a woman can do.....you'll case off the nice ones "

True. If you play, or carry too much baggage, most men will turn & leave. Sex has never been more freely available to men & women, & most will not play any sort of game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like to play games when it comes to affairs of the heart.

If I like someone, he'll know about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im terrible, if i like a guy i let him know.

I believe there is someone out there for everyone and that good things come to those who wait. It also happens when you least expect it

Im just an epic fail when it comes to men lol... good enough to shag, im an 'amazing' girl... but not worth anymore"

I too believe there is someone for everyone. It can happen when you least expect, but not sure about the waiting though. Sometimes it is best to make a move, rather than let an opportunity slip by. 'Not worth anymore', far from it. I know enough from your posts, that (if I were 20 years younger) I would crawl over broken glass to get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us are looking, and some of us are not.

Im definately NOT looking for "the one"

cant be bothered with all the bs anymore

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

i used to feel like you then a friend came up with the engenious idea of re_iewing the type i went for and i did maybe re_iew the type of bloke you always go for on meets or that appeal to you socially and change the type you go for and see how it goes i did and ive been married to my exact opposite for 17 yrs now still baffels me but i love my friend ... i married him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SO you say you're one of those like to play;

-Hard to get

-Want to stay single and see who takes your fancy

Sorry but I'd friendzone you quick or just stop talking to you. Plenty of other fish around and hey, they can be normal as well.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"SO you say you're one of those like to play;

-Hard to get

-Want to stay single and see who takes your fancy

Sorry but I'd friendzone you quick or just stop talking to you. Plenty of other fish around and hey, they can be normal as well.

"

never said that at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SO you say you're one of those like to play;

-Hard to get

-Want to stay single and see who takes your fancy

Sorry but I'd friendzone you quick or just stop talking to you. Plenty of other fish around and hey, they can be normal as well.

never said that at all "

.

I do not believe that was directed at you, however, I could be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i ften joke with guys i know that i am one of the last normal girls left. i dont get all hung up on them, definately dont do the bunny boiler thing etc

"

This tells me that I haven't mis-read it I'm afraid.

How do you joke with these guys? I've had this done to me and the woman came across a bit, how do I put this nicely.

A bit aloof or ahead of herself.

I didn't really take notice of her after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

.

I do not believe that was directed at you, however, I could be wrong. "

Im not being nasty :O

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

Love this thread!

Good to know there are others out there who feel the same way sometimes!

Although its not a nice feeling!

As people always tell me "he's out there somewhere you'll find him one day" blah blah blah lol

xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

i ften joke with guys i know that i am one of the last normal girls left. i dont get all hung up on them, definately dont do the bunny boiler thing etc

This tells me that I haven't mis-read it I'm afraid.

How do you joke with these guys? I've had this done to me and the woman came across a bit, how do I put this nicely.

A bit aloof or ahead of herself.

I didn't really take notice of her after that. "

ahhh ok, you are summizing...

i certainy dont feel i am aloof or ahead of myself. i dont run other women down or mock them. i just dont act like the women i have heard stories about.

I am not playing hard to get but i am i guess guilty of playing my cards close to my chest for fear of embarassment etc

Maybe i should be a bit more forward..i'm working on it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I have a bit of a dilemma myself, in that the current objection of my affection is an "untouchable" for a number of reasons.

Not sure if he is aware that I have a huge gooey soft spot for him, however, it is apparent to those who know me well.

Nothing will happen, however, it is good to have wishes and dreams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im terrible, if i like a guy i let him know.

I believe there is someone out there for everyone and that good things come to those who wait. It also happens when you least expect it

Im just an epic fail when it comes to men lol... good enough to shag, im an

'amazing' girl... but not worth anymore"

K ???????!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I have a bit of a dilemma myself, in that the current objection of my affection is an "untouchable" for a number of reasons.

Not sure if he is aware that I have a huge gooey soft spot for him, however, it is apparent to those who know me well.

Nothing will happen, however, it is good to have wishes and dreams.

"

If its apparent to friends, hes probably aware. Nothing wrong with it. Guessing he is probably partnered. I have fantasised about one of my best friends gf (now wife) for 25 years. would never have done anything, ut often think of what might have been...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to know the secrets on how to hold a good man and keep him x"

It's easy shazza, put food in his stomach and your mouth round his cock, it's worked for 32 years!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im terrible, if i like a guy i let him know.

I believe there is someone out there for everyone and that good things come to those who wait. It also happens when you least expect it

Im just an epic fail when it comes to men lol... good enough to shag, im an 'amazing' girl... but not worth anymore"

There have been many times in the last few years that I have felt like this, but now I have come to realise that if the men I see only think I'm 'amazing' to shag ,even if I have wanted more then they are the ones that are not worth it, not me. I am happy with having fun and friends right now and enjoying it with no expectations.... and if someone special happens to come along then great , but I'm not actively seeking him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too believe there is someone for everyone, and have never said never never.

However, I am not actively seeking that special someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm reading this thread and thinking wow sounds just like me at some posts. Me thinks me needs to take notice and make some changes

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