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"I am following greg doucette and on his latest video https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=80emzW0VBY8 he is talking about it and it was interesting. I am a mindful eater. I just couldnt eat wihout knowing how much I am eating and if I didnt know how much calories. I would eat a small portion of it and if we had a party I would be mindful how much I would have and have little of everything "Both After years of study, I intuitively know the macros for almost everything  | |||
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I try to eat wholefoods and rarely buy crap - I just eat too much of it.
And I love wine 
Far too much wine.
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"I'm completely aware that my portion sizes are way off
I try to eat wholefoods and rarely buy crap - I just eat too much of it.
And I love wine
Far too much wine.
I think I'd rather be fat than give up wine "Absofuckinlutely   | |||
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"I did keto in the summer and learned to be more intuitive about what I ate and when to stop. I never calorie count, but I no longer mindlessly eat crap just because it's there." Wasn't he, Inspector Clouseau man servant? | |||
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome " We really can be awful people | |||
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people " Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration | |||
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration " I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up  
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration " That sounds exhausting
A mate of mines partner was a body builder and they never went out for dinner and they had separate food at home etc ..
According to him food was for function not for pleasure.
It used to wear her down.
It wasn't just the food issue- everything revolved around his physique.
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up
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There is nothing more tedious than chicken and broccoli and looking in the mirror at 'gainz '
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up
Oh dear
There is nothing more tedious than chicken and broccoli and looking in the mirror at 'gainz '
"A d*unk can be pretty tedious
And perhaps a mindful eater can eat and drink anything they wish
Perhaps their father died from a heart attack at 53
Perhaps making stereotype insults and daft assumptions is rather insulting? | |||
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"I’m generally super healthy and mindful, although I do allow myself some chocolate every day. I don’t count calories, and if I go out I don’t think about it. For me it’s getting a balance between being healthy and enjoying my food." That is good and same here. I also allow myself some chokolate. I follow the flexible dieting approach | |||
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"I’m generally super healthy and mindful, although I do allow myself some chocolate every day. I don’t count calories, and if I go out I don’t think about it. For me it’s getting a balance between being healthy and enjoying my food.That is good and same here. I also allow myself some chokolate. I follow the flexible dieting approach "
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up
Oh dear
There is nothing more tedious than chicken and broccoli and looking in the mirror at 'gainz '
A d*unk can be pretty tedious
And perhaps a mindful eater can eat and drink anything they wish
Perhaps their father died from a heart attack at 53
Perhaps making stereotype insults and daft assumptions is rather insulting?"I can't speak for others, but his was just all about his body and how he looked, nothing to do with family health issues Holidays were booked around gyms in the town which would again be analysed for weeks before we could book a hotel If eating out, we could look at 7-10 menus and there was nothing on them he wanted to eat He would only drink bottled water or black coffee, nothing else It got to the stage that the only place we could eat, without an argument, was Nandos - grilled chicken & salad without dressing was safe Oh, and the only time in 7 years I saw him 'let his hair down' was tuna & olive pizza WITHOUT cheese To top it all off he was one of those hangry types so was a complete cunt if he got hungry, but still wouldn't compromise on where and what he ate, so just got hangrier and hangrier til we found somewhere This behaviour got worse over time, like an obsession he couldn't let go of It was the main reason we parted ways | |||
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"I’m generally super healthy and mindful, although I do allow myself some chocolate every day. I don’t count calories, and if I go out I don’t think about it. For me it’s getting a balance between being healthy and enjoying my food.That is good and same here. I also allow myself some chokolate. I follow the flexible dieting approach
Sounds a reasonable non tedious approach shag "Ty pal and yes, it is a very easy approach too, enjoy all the foods you like, it is all about calories in v calories out | |||
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up
Oh dear
There is nothing more tedious than chicken and broccoli and looking in the mirror at 'gainz '
A d*unk can be pretty tedious
And perhaps a mindful eater can eat and drink anything they wish
Perhaps their father died from a heart attack at 53
Perhaps making stereotype insults and daft assumptions is rather insulting?
I can't speak for others, but his was just all about his body and how he looked, nothing to do with family health issues
Holidays were booked around gyms in the town which would again be analysed for weeks before we could book a hotel
If eating out, we could look at 7-10 menus and there was nothing on them he wanted to eat
He would only drink bottled water or black coffee, nothing else
It got to the stage that the only place we could eat, without an argument, was Nandos - grilled chicken & salad without dressing was safe
Oh, and the only time in 7 years I saw him 'let his hair down' was tuna & olive pizza WITHOUT cheese
To top it all off he was one of those hangry types so was a complete cunt if he got hungry, but still wouldn't compromise on where and what he ate, so just got hangrier and hangrier til we found somewhere
This behaviour got worse over time, like an obsession he couldn't let go of
It was the main reason we parted ways"Gosh imagine if a lady suggested all men of a certain ethnicity were vile based upon the experience of a vile individual ??? It would be as equally ridiculous if I commented negatively upon all people who enjoy an alcoholic beverage based upon the experience of my friend who was beaten by her d*unk bf ??? It would just be wrong | |||
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"I’m generally super healthy and mindful, although I do allow myself some chocolate every day. I don’t count calories, and if I go out I don’t think about it. For me it’s getting a balance between being healthy and enjoying my food." I totally agree with that.....gives you a healthier mind that way aswell....so you feel better all round | |||
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"I did keto in the summer and learned to be more intuitive about what I ate and when to stop. I never calorie count, but I no longer mindlessly eat crap just because it's there." I’ve looked at that Keto...what’s it like?..worth it?...I dine Herbalife a few years ago felt and looked loads better but lost bit to much weight especially in the face someone asked me if I was ok...so stopped I do it occasionally now but not as much as then | |||
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"I did keto in the summer and learned to be more intuitive about what I ate and when to stop. I never calorie count, but I no longer mindlessly eat crap just because it's there. I’ve looked at that Keto...what’s it like?..worth it?...I dine Herbalife a few years ago felt and looked loads better but lost bit to much weight especially in the face someone asked me if I was ok...so stopped I do it occasionally now but not as much as then " My take on keto is really it's both needless potentially counterproductive and a dramatic omission of imprtatant nutrients and fiber for any person wanting health and to reduce body fat down to 10 12 percent If the devil catches your mind and one wants to dip sub 8 percent keto may for a short period be necessary however only imo with a full understanding of the implications | |||
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"I did keto in the summer and learned to be more intuitive about what I ate and when to stop. I never calorie count, but I no longer mindlessly eat crap just because it's there. I’ve looked at that Keto...what’s it like?..worth it?...I dine Herbalife a few years ago felt and looked loads better but lost bit to much weight especially in the face someone asked me if I was ok...so stopped I do it occasionally now but not as much as then " I lost weight very quickly because it's easy to underestimate how much fat you actually need to consume. I didn't do it for weight loss but for IBS and food intolerances, the weight loss was a happy bonus. Once I was content with my weight I added beans, pulses, fruit and root veg back into my diet so I'm not technically on keto anymore, just no starch or sugar. I've never felt better, much more energised and clear-headed, no anxiety, no bloatedness. I even stopped farting! I ate lots of chocolate over Christmas and felt terrible, so I'm back to low-carbing again. | |||
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up
Oh dear
There is nothing more tedious than chicken and broccoli and looking in the mirror at 'gainz '
A d*unk can be pretty tedious
And perhaps a mindful eater can eat and drink anything they wish
Perhaps their father died from a heart attack at 53
Perhaps making stereotype insults and daft assumptions is rather insulting?
I can't speak for others, but his was just all about his body and how he looked, nothing to do with family health issues
Holidays were booked around gyms in the town which would again be analysed for weeks before we could book a hotel
If eating out, we could look at 7-10 menus and there was nothing on them he wanted to eat
He would only drink bottled water or black coffee, nothing else
It got to the stage that the only place we could eat, without an argument, was Nandos - grilled chicken & salad without dressing was safe
Oh, and the only time in 7 years I saw him 'let his hair down' was tuna & olive pizza WITHOUT cheese
To top it all off he was one of those hangry types so was a complete cunt if he got hungry, but still wouldn't compromise on where and what he ate, so just got hangrier and hangrier til we found somewhere
This behaviour got worse over time, like an obsession he couldn't let go of
It was the main reason we parted ways
Gosh imagine if a lady suggested all men of a certain ethnicity were vile based upon the experience of a vile individual ???
It would be as equally ridiculous if I commented negatively upon all people who enjoy an alcoholic beverage based upon the experience of my friend who was beaten by her d*unk bf ???
It would just be wrong
"Who said all? Who said vile? This was my experience I'm not saying it is anyone elses I think my opening statement was 'he' was tiresome His behaviour was obsessive & excessive, something I gave examples of That became my reality I didn't once tar all mindful eaters with the same brush | |||
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up
Oh dear
There is nothing more tedious than chicken and broccoli and looking in the mirror at 'gainz '
A d*unk can be pretty tedious
And perhaps a mindful eater can eat and drink anything they wish
Perhaps their father died from a heart attack at 53
Perhaps making stereotype insults and daft assumptions is rather insulting?
I can't speak for others, but his was just all about his body and how he looked, nothing to do with family health issues
Holidays were booked around gyms in the town which would again be analysed for weeks before we could book a hotel
If eating out, we could look at 7-10 menus and there was nothing on them he wanted to eat
He would only drink bottled water or black coffee, nothing else
It got to the stage that the only place we could eat, without an argument, was Nandos - grilled chicken & salad without dressing was safe
Oh, and the only time in 7 years I saw him 'let his hair down' was tuna & olive pizza WITHOUT cheese
To top it all off he was one of those hangry types so was a complete cunt if he got hungry, but still wouldn't compromise on where and what he ate, so just got hangrier and hangrier til we found somewhere
This behaviour got worse over time, like an obsession he couldn't let go of
It was the main reason we parted ways
Gosh imagine if a lady suggested all men of a certain ethnicity were vile based upon the experience of a vile individual ???
It would be as equally ridiculous if I commented negatively upon all people who enjoy an alcoholic beverage based upon the experience of my friend who was beaten by her d*unk bf ???
It would just be wrong
Who said all?
Who said vile?
This was my experience
I'm not saying it is anyone elses
I think my opening statement was 'he' was tiresome
His behaviour was obsessive & excessive, something I gave examples of
That became my reality
I didn't once tar all mindful eaters with the same brush"You most certainly did not this is true | |||
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up
Oh dear
There is nothing more tedious than chicken and broccoli and looking in the mirror at 'gainz '
A d*unk can be pretty tedious
And perhaps a mindful eater can eat and drink anything they wish
Perhaps their father died from a heart attack at 53
Perhaps making stereotype insults and daft assumptions is rather insulting?"OK Brah
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"I’m pretty gung ho with my eating. I eat what I want, when I want. Mostly healthy, but my portion sizes are way off. I used to be a snacker also but I’ve lost interest in chocolate etc this past year. If I denied myself something or limited it, I know I would want it more, so it would be self defeating." | |||
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"I am following greg doucette and on his latest video https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=80emzW0VBY8 he is talking about it and it was interesting. I am a mindful eater. I just couldnt eat wihout knowing how much I am eating and if I didnt know how much calories. I would eat a small portion of it and if we had a party I would be mindful how much I would have and have little of everything
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After years of study, I intuitively know the macros for almost everything "That is good and same here, sometimes for fun I guess before I weigh a thing and my guessing comes very close too of how much it should weigh as well | |||
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"I used to date a mindful eater He was fkin tiresome We really can be awful people Oh he wasn't awful He just made meal prep and eating out a nightmare to the degree it became tiresome Just chill out for 5 minutes Relax Not everything needs analysing and then re-analysing He was so obsessive, we once fell out cos I suggested he had a mental illness That was mean of me, but he just wore me down to the point of frustration I find it amusing that humanity tends to suggest a mindful eater should labelled Tedious with a psychological illness Yet a person hinting they could be addicted to a legal drug "I could not give up wine" gets the thumbs up
Oh dear
There is nothing more tedious than chicken and broccoli and looking in the mirror at 'gainz '
A d*unk can be pretty tedious
And perhaps a mindful eater can eat and drink anything they wish
Perhaps their father died from a heart attack at 53
Perhaps making stereotype insults and daft assumptions is rather insulting?
OK Brah
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"I eat what I like because I know I will burn it off, something to do with metabolism or some shit, also my fridge is in the shed so I know that walking there and back will burn whatever I eat off. " I also tend to eat exactly what I want exactly whenever I want it x Apart from xmas some times I eat a sprout
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"I eat what I like because I know I will burn it off, something to do with metabolism or some shit, also my fridge is in the shed so I know that walking there and back will burn whatever I eat off. " For example What I wanted tonight was 640 calories Beef goulash with added bell peppers and chilli lots of garlic, quinoa,buckwheat,cauliflower black pudding olive oil and egg 40 carbs 45 protein 34 fat 5 g saturated Gosh I'm tedious | |||
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"I eat what I like because I know I will burn it off, something to do with metabolism or some shit, also my fridge is in the shed so I know that walking there and back will burn whatever I eat off. For example What I wanted tonight was 640 calories Beef goulash with added bell peppers and chilli lots of garlic, quinoa,buckwheat,cauliflower black pudding olive oil and egg 40 carbs 45 protein 34 fat 5 g saturated Gosh I'm tedious "Do you have a goal or is this a lifestyle thing? Do you eat out? How do you manage it if you do eat out? Contrary to what I said up there, I am mindful of what I eat - I need to as I am diabetic I am not, however, scientific about it I just know what's good and what's bad and try to balance both out The guy I was talking about earlier just never gave himself a break. He was on top of everything 24/7 So, I guess there are varying levels of awareness / mindfulness? | |||
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"I eat what I like because I know I will burn it off, something to do with metabolism or some shit, also my fridge is in the shed so I know that walking there and back will burn whatever I eat off. For example What I wanted tonight was 640 calories Beef goulash with added bell peppers and chilli lots of garlic, quinoa,buckwheat,cauliflower black pudding olive oil and egg 40 carbs 45 protein 34 fat 5 g saturated Gosh I'm tedious
Do you have a goal or is this a lifestyle thing?
Do you eat out?
How do you manage it if you do eat out?
Contrary to what I said up there, I am mindful of what I eat - I need to as I am diabetic
I am not, however, scientific about it
I just know what's good and what's bad and try to balance both out
The guy I was talking about earlier just never gave himself a break. He was on top of everything 24/7
So, I guess there are varying levels of awareness / mindfulness? "Mainly lifestyle punctuated with goals I can eat anywhere . I generally prefer to cook my own food as it's usually more tasty, fresh, cheaper,contains less colourings, salt, msg, sugar burned hydrogenated oils and and obviously nutrients than out But honestly my beef burgers in a sourdough bun with my habanero chilli sauce pretty much blows any commercially bought burger out the water on all counts flavour and health | |||
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