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Good/attractive profile vs Bad/unattractive profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What makes a good or bad profile?

I’ve met and spoke to some amazing people, my FWB being one, who’s profile have silhouettes and vague to no write up, however some profiles with the whole works and essay style profiles seem to be less talkative hence my question or interested.

My profile is who I am but I do fear it’s too much, ideas/points welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your profile "

Thank you, that’s really uplifting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile, made me realise I need to update mine... I like that it’s to the point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good profile, made me realise I need to update mine... I like that it’s to the point "

Thanks and that was what I hoped it would come across like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good profile that gives a clear indication about yourself.

My profile is deliberately shit to reduce the amount of messages I get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a good profile that gives a clear indication about yourself.

My profile is deliberately shit to reduce the amount of messages I get "

As long as it has the desired effect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the general consensus is that a good profile includes teasing pics that leave you wanting to see more and a good profile write up with clear points. Yours is really good for that OP.

Some people have a write up to rival war and peace and that's not for me unfortunately as it's almost like you need to jump through hoops just to message them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suppose the general consensus is that a good profile includes teasing pics that leave you wanting to see more and a good profile write up with clear points. Yours is really good for that OP.

Some people have a write up to rival war and peace and that's not for me unfortunately as it's almost like you need to jump through hoops just to message them..."

Agreed and thank you, I said on another post I made that some profile write ups are so restrictive even mother Theresa wouldn’t get a response lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good or bad profile?

I’ve met and spoke to some amazing people, my FWB being one, who’s profile have silhouettes and vague to no write up, however some profiles with the whole works and essay style profiles seem to be less talkative hence my question or interested.

My profile is who I am but I do fear it’s too much, ideas/points welcome "

Good job op. Your bio is easily read and your likes and dislikes in short form make it easy to scan if thats what the reader prefers. Also, your pics are good too, I get the feel of a fun personality from them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What makes a good or bad profile?

I’ve met and spoke to some amazing people, my FWB being one, who’s profile have silhouettes and vague to no write up, however some profiles with the whole works and essay style profiles seem to be less talkative hence my question or interested.

My profile is who I am but I do fear it’s too much, ideas/points welcome

Good job op. Your bio is easily read and your likes and dislikes in short form make it easy to scan if thats what the reader prefers. Also, your pics are good too, I get the feel of a fun personality from them "

Thanks and what I was hoping for, but I’m crap at taking pics of myself so need to try harder for 2021

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also, you look a bit like Tom varndell haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And also, you look a bit like Tom varndell haha"

Who’s Tom Varndell haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly Leicester tigers rugby player, thought you’d know because you have a rugby shirt on in your pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And also, you look a bit like Tom varndell haha"

Just found out, thanks but I’ve a nicely paid for dad bod, trim and looked after but not chiselled lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exactly Leicester tigers rugby player, thought you’d know because you have a rugby shirt on in your pics "

Ps I like rugby but only follow international really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a profile that gives a bit of information about the person and what they are looking for.

You wouldn't think that but for some is.

I like your profile OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a profile that gives a bit of information about the person and what they are looking for.

You wouldn't think that but for some is.

I like your profile OP. "

That makes sense and thank you, appreciated

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If its attracting the people you are looking for then its a great profile, if not then change it. What works for one may not work for another

I change mine all the time and the types of people who message differ depending on the context I put in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its attracting the people you are looking for then its a great profile, if not then change it. What works for one may not work for another

I change mine all the time and the types of people who message differ depending on the context I put in "

Very valid and interesting, once rona has gone maybe I will have to look into that changing of context

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Looks alright to me. I 5hink nearly all women here read a profile before deciding if they want to reply. Also works the other way round. When im checking out people, even if the pics get my attention the profile needs to tell me something about them so I have something to message about..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks alright to me. I 5hink nearly all women here read a profile before deciding if they want to reply. Also works the other way round. When im checking out people, even if the pics get my attention the profile needs to tell me something about them so I have something to message about.."

I agree and do the same, I won’t message if I don’t feel I fit what the profile/person wants x

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Well hornygeny...i might just have to rethink mine....what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well hornygeny...i might just have to rethink mine....what do you think?"

From my perspective, if it was a woman’s profile, I’d be wanting to know a little more

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Good profile OP

I’ve updated mine over the years to suit what I wanted and was looking for at the time. Now it’s short and straight to the point and with a variety of pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good profile OP

I’ve updated mine over the years to suit what I wanted and was looking for at the time. Now it’s short and straight to the point and with a variety of pics

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Thank you and yours says exactly what’s what with some naughty pics, perfik

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