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By *obbobean OP   Man
over a year ago

dagenham

Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be so judgemental? People can describe themselves as they like. Some will be generally heterosexual but fancy the odd bit of cd fun. Others might in time come to see themselves differently.

The irony here is that it’s precisely because of judgmental attitudes like yours that so many men try to conceal their desires. But no men has to embrace a sexual identity on your say so. Whoever they fuck or want to fuck.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's such a broad category though. Yes some are men who cross dress for sexual kicks but there are many trans women who choose that category too and they are women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "HIS ARSE" "

His?

Fucking his?

Wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there in is no option for gynaesexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been here a while I believe the term used is FAB straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I really deplore about the OPs position is the idea that men are put in a “gotcha” position by this kind of thinking. That does nobody any good. Human desire is not neatly accommodated by any label that we have. There are gay men who have enjoyed sleeping with women and/or transgender men.

So leave off, eh?

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious "

That is extremely insensitive of you like it could be something that is heat of the moment or are admirers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here’s a radical idea. Why don’t we leave people alone and try to encourage the idea that it doesn’t really matter who you sleep with (or want to), and if you experiment you don’t have to change your sexuality passport?

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Here’s a radical idea. Why don’t we leave people alone and try to encourage the idea that it doesn’t really matter who you sleep with (or want to), and if you experiment you don’t have to change your sexuality passport?"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you care OP?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Labels...bloody labels..lables belong on your clothes lol

Maybe they arnt happy with sticking a lable themselves. Maybe they don't even know if they are bi or curious. I certainly don't understand why other people get so bothered about how someone esle chooses to identify/present themselves. I've had some happy experiences with women. But i would never class myself as bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious "

What business is it of yours who they will or will not meet if it’s not you? Focus on yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Labels...bloody labels..lables belong on your clothes lol

Maybe they arnt happy with sticking a lable themselves. Maybe they don't even know if they are bi or curious. I certainly don't understand why other people get so bothered about how someone esle chooses to identify/present themselves. I've had some happy experiences with women. But i would never class myself as bi. "

Exactly.

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By *heHungStudentMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Hage u considered they may have that option to include transexual women who for all importance are women yet they cant cherry pic female ts for examole but instead have to pick the enrire category

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By *heHungStudentMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Jesus i forgot how to spell during that lol

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious "

Get your point Rob but I can’t say it bothers me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own i suppose. If your into tv/ts your obviously attracted to female but enjoy the slippery sausage.

dont define as 'bi' but have had a amazing experience with a couple (and would again) and in the moment have gone that step further and am fond of certain sausages.

Im not attracted to guys but am open to play.

What am i? Just me i dont need a lable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own i suppose. If your into tv/ts your obviously attracted to female but enjoy the slippery sausage.

dont define as 'bi' but have had a amazing experience with a couple (and would again) and in the moment have gone that step further and am fond of certain sausages.

Im not attracted to guys but am open to play.

What am i? Just me i dont need a lable "

Label*

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Labels...bloody labels..lables belong on your clothes lol

Maybe they arnt happy with sticking a lable themselves. Maybe they don't even know if they are bi or curious. I certainly don't understand why other people get so bothered about how someone esle chooses to identify/present themselves. I've had some happy experiences with women. But i would never class myself as bi. "

This was going to write something similar myself, but this topic comes up practically weekly now.

Those who’ll happily label others I find, kick up a fuss if you decide to throw a label on them.

So Op just live and let live, the common adage is whatever goes on behind the curtains as long as it’s not hurting anyone, is their business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be that there not straight as you put it but think is ok with a tv or cd each to there own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious

Get your point Rob but I can’t say it bothers me at all. "

The only time I want to make other peoples sexuality my business is if I would like to get sexual with them. Any other time, I couldn't care less... I dunno, maybe I'm weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious

Get your point Rob but I can’t say it bothers me at all.

The only time I want to make other peoples sexuality my business is if I would like to get sexual with them. Any other time, I couldn't care less... I dunno, maybe I'm weird "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be so judgemental? People can describe themselves as they like. Some will be generally heterosexual but fancy the odd bit of cd fun. Others might in time come to see themselves differently.

The irony here is that it’s precisely because of judgmental attitudes like yours that so many men try to conceal their desires. But no men has to embrace a sexual identity on your say so. Whoever they fuck or want to fuck. "

“APPLAUSE” anyone can be anyone they chose and fuck who they want regardless of social profiling

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Because there in is no option for gynaesexual"

Learn something new every day. Just had to Google gynaesexual. It covers more than I thought but i just find it sad we have to have terms/boxes/labels at all really. And some people are so quick to place themselves or others in them. If you get what i mean..

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


" "HIS ARSE"

His?

Fucking his?

Wtf"

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious "

Who let the TERF in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there in is no option for gynaesexual

Learn something new every day. Just had to Google gynaesexual. It covers more than I thought but i just find it sad we have to have terms/boxes/labels at all really. And some people are so quick to place themselves or others in them. If you get what i mean.."

Totally get you, labels and terms are horse shit, I am straight as I get aroused by women but I’m not ever going to say that if I joined a couple or a club that things might or might not happen however that’s my/their call and it doesn’t need a description haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious

Who let the TERF in?"

TERF? Never heard of that

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By *ubeeStarrXoXTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious "

To me it comes across that you’re jealous OP that they won’t fuck your ass but will fuck trans, CD’s etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious

To me it comes across that you’re jealous OP that they won’t fuck your ass but will fuck trans, CD’s etc? "

Hahahaha

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


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TERF? Never heard of that "

Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminist. Probably doesn't apply to the OP now that I think about it. He's just a plain old bigot.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

To be honest I like bi sexual encounters to but would never put bi on my profile as I don’t want the label . I don’t want messages From single woman or couples looking for single woman as it’s not really what I’m looking for so yea I’m bi but only on my terms and when I want to be maybe it’s the same for these guys

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By *obbobean OP   Man
over a year ago

dagenham

As the OP I'm sorry if I have offended anyone, as that was definitely not my intention. It's just that it has happend in the past, once again yesterday and again today. I compile what I think is a well thought out meaningful message to a "Straight" guys profile, that states is willing to meet TV/TS's, CD'S etc. Obviously stating I have CD'd in the past and wondered if he would be up for a meet. I had included a few of the outfits I own aswel incase they ticked the owners fancy so to speak. Only to get a fairly rude answer back along the lines of " f**k off you weirdo can't you see I have STRAIGHT on my profile". Now give a guy a chance, I mean what did I do wrong? A simple no thanks not my type would of done. I even got a message of a guy in my inbox telling me to f**k off over to fabguys were my sort belong. I'm a site supporter over on guys, and as a bisexual guy a site supporter on here. The guy who inboxed me inviting me to f**k off over to fab guys has been a member on here

for the princely time off wait for it..... 3hrs. Now put that up against the say 8 or 9 years I've been a supporter of both sites. I think he had a nerve.

Anyway sorry again for any offence I may of caused, like I said it was not intended.

Take care and stay safe. Robbo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"As the OP I'm sorry if I have offended anyone, as that was definitely not my intention. It's just that it has happend in the past, once again yesterday and again today. I compile what I think is a well thought out meaningful message to a "Straight" guys profile, that states is willing to meet TV/TS's, CD'S etc. Obviously stating I have CD'd in the past and wondered if he would be up for a meet. I had included a few of the outfits I own aswel incase they ticked the owners fancy so to speak. Only to get a fairly rude answer back along the lines of " f**k off you weirdo can't you see I have STRAIGHT on my profile". Now give a guy a chance, I mean what did I do wrong? A simple no thanks not my type would of done. I even got a message of a guy in my inbox telling me to f**k off over to fabguys were my sort belong. I'm a site supporter over on guys, and as a bisexual guy a site supporter on here. The guy who inboxed me inviting me to f**k off over to fab guys has been a member on here

for the princely time off wait for it..... 3hrs. Now put that up against the say 8 or 9 years I've been a supporter of both sites. I think he had a nerve.

Anyway sorry again for any offence I may of caused, like I said it was not intended.

Take care and stay safe. Robbo x"

Well simply stick to guys who have bi on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the OP I'm sorry if I have offended anyone, as that was definitely not my intention. It's just that it has happend in the past, once again yesterday and again today. I compile what I think is a well thought out meaningful message to a "Straight" guys profile, that states is willing to meet TV/TS's, CD'S etc. Obviously stating I have CD'd in the past and wondered if he would be up for a meet. I had included a few of the outfits I own aswel incase they ticked the owners fancy so to speak. Only to get a fairly rude answer back along the lines of " f**k off you weirdo can't you see I have STRAIGHT on my profile". Now give a guy a chance, I mean what did I do wrong? A simple no thanks not my type would of done. I even got a message of a guy in my inbox telling me to f**k off over to fabguys were my sort belong. I'm a site supporter over on guys, and as a bisexual guy a site supporter on here. The guy who inboxed me inviting me to f**k off over to fab guys has been a member on here

for the princely time off wait for it..... 3hrs. Now put that up against the say 8 or 9 years I've been a supporter of both sites. I think he had a nerve.

Anyway sorry again for any offence I may of caused, like I said it was not intended.

Take care and stay safe. Robbo x"

Fair play and honourable to apologise and explain but yeah maybe pose the question a little more appropriate next opportunity haha

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Labels...bloody labels..lables belong on your clothes lol

Maybe they arnt happy with sticking a lable themselves. Maybe they don't even know if they are bi or curious. I certainly don't understand why other people get so bothered about how someone esle chooses to identify/present themselves. I've had some happy experiences with women. But i would never class myself as bi.

This was going to write something similar myself, but this topic comes up practically weekly now.

Those who’ll happily label others I find, kick up a fuss if you decide to throw a label on them.

So Op just live and let live, the common adage is whatever goes on behind the curtains as long as it’s not hurting anyone, is their business "

I've friends with many TV/CD. One experience was so amazing even tho we never actually met. Just got chatting and they shared their insecurities with me, A big thing itself for her, about would she be accepted, she was embarrassed to fully embrace how she wanted to live life, what other people would think if/when they foumd out. Turns out all she needed was someone to accept who she was but most importantly just say its ok. Your not a bad person for feeling that way, it's not wrong. But you can't expect anyone to accept you untill you can accept yourself. I was amazed at the way, with a few words of encouragmemt and some acceptance, how she just flourished into the amazing gal she is. It's something thsts stuck with me over time and experience I will never forget.

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By *obbobean OP   Man
over a year ago

dagenham

Treatformeat. You could have something there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious "

Alternatively guys, put whatever you're happy with

If you want to meet TV/TS but not masculine blokes, then great

Don't listen to grumpy bollocks

He's just in a grouch cos he's more Dick Emery than Courtney Act

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By *ucidityWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Why is it so many profiles of "straight" guys on here state they are not willing to meet guys but are willing to meet TV's, CD,s etc. Don't they realise that the TV's and the CD's hole is "HIS ARSE" and not a pussy. FFS guys just put bi curious "

It’s so saddening to read this. Sexuality is such a fluid, malleable thing as is gender. The coolest thing about it, is that nobody gets to define how you identify but you.

If it doesn’t concern you specifically, I wonder why you’d waste your time on it, let alone spend some time writing a post that’s rude and inconsiderate at best.

As if it’s not hard enough to be a bloke and be confident and openly deviate from the straight narrative...

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Because there in is no option for gynaesexual

Learn something new every day. Just had to Google gynaesexual. It covers more than I thought but i just find it sad we have to have terms/boxes/labels at all really. And some people are so quick to place themselves or others in them. If you get what i mean..

Totally get you, labels and terms are horse shit, I am straight as I get aroused by women but I’m not ever going to say that if I joined a couple or a club that things might or might not happen however that’s my/their call and it doesn’t need a description haha "

I make the point of not mentioning any ff or mff. Not as I'm emabaressd or anything like that. But if found mention it then it's seen as, you be done it before so will agsin. Truth is its never beem planned, always an " in the moment " kinda thing. It's not something I seek or look for or ever planned. When it's happened it just happened..as there where the mood has taken us. Just as you describe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much thinking about sexuality, assigning labels and concern over others perceptions... Let's have fun, enjoy the pleasure and give pleasure... Simples xx

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Do you like cut cock OP?

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As the OP I'm sorry if I have offended anyone, as that was definitely not my intention. It's just that it has happend in the past, once again yesterday and again today. I compile what I think is a well thought out meaningful message to a "Straight" guys profile, that states is willing to meet TV/TS's, CD'S etc. Obviously stating I have CD'd in the past and wondered if he would be up for a meet. I had included a few of the outfits I own aswel incase they ticked the owners fancy so to speak. Only to get a fairly rude answer back along the lines of " f**k off you weirdo can't you see I have STRAIGHT on my profile". Now give a guy a chance, I mean what did I do wrong? A simple no thanks not my type would of done. I even got a message of a guy in my inbox telling me to f**k off over to fabguys were my sort belong. I'm a site supporter over on guys, and as a bisexual guy a site supporter on here. The guy who inboxed me inviting me to f**k off over to fab guys has been a member on here

for the princely time off wait for it..... 3hrs. Now put that up against the say 8 or 9 years I've been a supporter of both sites. I think he had a nerve.

Anyway sorry again for any offence I may of caused, like I said it was not intended.

Take care and stay safe. Robbo x"

Why is it "obvious" that you have crossdressed in the past?

Also: your profile does not identify you as a crossdresser. There is not a single mention of it. A gynosexual is not going to be interested in the you that is presented here

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"As the OP I'm sorry if I have offended anyone, as that was definitely not my intention. It's just that it has happend in the past, once again yesterday and again today. I compile what I think is a well thought out meaningful message to a "Straight" guys profile, that states is willing to meet TV/TS's, CD'S etc. Obviously stating I have CD'd in the past and wondered if he would be up for a meet. I had included a few of the outfits I own aswel incase they ticked the owners fancy so to speak. Only to get a fairly rude answer back along the lines of " f**k off you weirdo can't you see I have STRAIGHT on my profile". Now give a guy a chance, I mean what did I do wrong? A simple no thanks not my type would of done. I even got a message of a guy in my inbox telling me to f**k off over to fabguys were my sort belong. I'm a site supporter over on guys, and as a bisexual guy a site supporter on here. The guy who inboxed me inviting me to f**k off over to fab guys has been a member on here

for the princely time off wait for it..... 3hrs. Now put that up against the say 8 or 9 years I've been a supporter of both sites. I think he had a nerve.

Anyway sorry again for any offence I may of caused, like I said it was not intended.

Take care and stay safe. Robbo x"

It's not okay for them to have been abusive to you but it's also a little disrespectful for you who has listed yourself as a man to approach someone listed as straight. Also I'm not sure what you being a site supporter or how long you have been so has to do with anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op but ( HIS ARSE ) I take offence to that as some off us are stuck in really odd places

Ie feel like we in the wrong body but no desire for a sexy change can be really hard to be honest

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

I get messages from "straight" guys all the time, TV's as well. Not unwelcome, just take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, probably best not to be messaging for meets at the moment anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from "straight" guys all the time, TV's as well. Not unwelcome, just take it as a compliment"

Noted

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Sorry op but ( HIS ARSE ) I take offence to that as some off us are stuck in really odd places

Ie feel like we in the wrong body but no desire for a sexy change can be really hard to be honest

"

I can't even begin to imagine . Sending hugs and support!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry op but ( HIS ARSE ) I take offence to that as some off us are stuck in really odd places

Ie feel like we in the wrong body but no desire for a sexy change can be really hard to be honest

I can't even begin to imagine . Sending hugs and support! "

Awww thank you so much means a lot x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Sorry op but ( HIS ARSE ) I take offence to that as some off us are stuck in really odd places

Ie feel like we in the wrong body but no desire for a sexy change can be really hard to be honest

I can't even begin to imagine . Sending hugs and support!

Awww thank you so much means a lot x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This topic somehow keeps re-emerging in different forms from different people with slight twists lol

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