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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

in the past i have chatted to some bi guys on fab who are married or have a gf.they dont know about their partner's lifestyle at all. The thing i dont get is in some cases the bi men will not meet other women on fab because they claim that if they do they are cheating on their partner at home. But they are ok if they meet another man.and feel that isnt cheating?.but if the partner did find out that her man had been meeting another man behind her back woudnt that be 100 times worse for her knowing that rather than he been meeting another female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it worse?

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.

At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.

At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer."
really? I hadnt thought of it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I have seen you around here for many years and I am aware that, on more than one occasion, you have publically stated that your ex husband is gay

You seem to have some trouble understanding, processing and accepting this, to the degree where I believe it has damaged you deeply

Do these threads help you?

If they do, then great

If, however, you feel you can't get over this, then maybe look at some help in processing things

The amount of bi guys here (who are often encouraged to state they are married) must be like salt in an open wound if that wound is still open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.

At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer. really? I hadnt thought of it that way."

Obviously I would still be devastated because cheating is cheating. I would also be hurt that they didn't feel they could tell me about this side of them but I think I would be more understanding.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If I found out my partner was cheating, the gender of the other person is irrelevant. It's thw dishonesty that hurts.

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By *lymDrewMan
over a year ago

plymouth


"in the past i have chatted to some bi guys on fab who are married or have a gf.they dont know about their partner's lifestyle at all. The thing i dont get is in some cases the bi men will not meet other women on fab because they claim that if they do they are cheating on their partner at home. But they are ok if they meet another man.and feel that isnt cheating?.but if the partner did find out that her man had been meeting another man behind her back woudnt that be 100 times worse for her knowing that rather than he been meeting another female?"

You direct your question at all bi guys... Why not all unfaithful people? Surely unfaithful people have more chance of answering your question than a faithful bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is cheating. The gender should not come in to it. Id be gone if i was cheated on as there would be no second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi and so is my partner. Id never cheat on her as she gives me more than i could ever want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.

At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer."

I’m confused, you have a anus , mouth , and could buy a strap on dildo......

What can’t you offer to a bi man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I found out my partner was cheating, the gender of the other person is irrelevant. It's thw dishonesty that hurts. "

This, gender or sexuality is not a mitigating factor. If they cheated then that is cheating regardless.

Mr HH

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

sorry disturbing the thread i have lost my pants

Has anyone found them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I have seen you around here for many years and I am aware that, on more than one occasion, you have publically stated that your ex husband is gay

You seem to have some trouble understanding, processing and accepting this, to the degree where I believe it has damaged you deeply

Do these threads help you?

If they do, then great

If, however, you feel you can't get over this, then maybe look at some help in processing things

The amount of bi guys here (who are often encouraged to state they are married) must be like salt in an open wound if that wound is still open"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they openly came came out it would be classed as 'brave' not 'cheating'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry disturbing the thread i have lost my pants

Has anyone found them "

Are they the yellow pants with green dots on? Ifs I have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.

At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer.

I’m confused, you have a anus , mouth , and could buy a strap on dildo......

What can’t you offer to a bi man?"

Very ignorant comment that!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Op from your previous posts you do seem to have a issue with bi men in general .Also wife’s from couple’s being jealous and insecure and not letting there husbands have fun while they are sleeping there way through fab.

Cheating is cheating regardless of who it is with I would feel exactly the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 05/01/21 15:30:06]"

Sperm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 05/01/21 15:30:06]"

I saw that!!

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over a year ago


"[Cock removed by poster at 05/01/21 15:30:06]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Cock removed by swinofthekingers at 05/01/21 15:30:06]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in the past i have chatted to some bi guys on fab who are married or have a gf.they dont know about their partner's lifestyle at all. The thing i dont get is in some cases the bi men will not meet other women on fab because they claim that if they do they are cheating on their partner at home. But they are ok if they meet another man.and feel that isnt cheating?.but if the partner did find out that her man had been meeting another man behind her back woudnt that be 100 times worse for her knowing that rather than he been meeting another female?"

Why would it be worse ?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.

At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer.

I’m confused, you have a anus , mouth , and could buy a strap on dildo......

What can’t you offer to a bi man?"

Because genitals are the only thing that affect someones sexuality.......

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"sorry disturbing the thread i have lost my pants

Has anyone found them

Are they the yellow pants with green dots on? Ifs I have them "

No, mine they have floral theme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I have seen you around here for many years and I am aware that, on more than one occasion, you have publically stated that your ex husband is gay

You seem to have some trouble understanding, processing and accepting this, to the degree where I believe it has damaged you deeply

Do these threads help you?

If they do, then great

If, however, you feel you can't get over this, then maybe look at some help in processing things

The amount of bi guys here (who are often encouraged to state they are married) must be like salt in an open wound if that wound is still open"

^^^^^^^^^^ loving this post!!!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry disturbing the thread i have lost my pants

Has anyone found them

Are they the yellow pants with green dots on? Ifs I have them

No, mine they have floral theme "

Oh ok, I have curtains like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Cock removed by swinofthekingers at 05/01/21 15:30:06]

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"sorry disturbing the thread i have lost my pants

Has anyone found them

Are they the yellow pants with green dots on? Ifs I have them

No, mine they have floral theme

Oh ok, I have curtains like that "

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"OP, I have seen you around here for many years and I am aware that, on more than one occasion, you have publically stated that your ex husband is gay

You seem to have some trouble understanding, processing and accepting this, to the degree where I believe it has damaged you deeply

Do these threads help you?

If they do, then great

If, however, you feel you can't get over this, then maybe look at some help in processing things

The amount of bi guys here (who are often encouraged to state they are married) must be like salt in an open wound if that wound is still open"

Better than anything I could have written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never be with someone who couldn't be totally honest about themselves with me... It does nothing good for a relationship

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Either way a cheats a cheat if a guy as bisexual tendencies and is in a loving marriage why can he not express them to his wife ? My partner did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op from your previous posts you do seem to have a issue with bi men in general .Also wife’s from couple’s being jealous and insecure and not letting there husbands have fun while they are sleeping there way through fab.

Cheating is cheating regardless of who it is with I would feel exactly the same way."

Agree totally

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

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