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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just wanted to know if most people see receiving a wink as a compliment ? Personally I don't go chucking winks out willy nilliy but I do hope the ones I do do are seen as a compliment to the recipients.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont look at them just mass delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Some people will compare them to you having dumped a dog poo through their letter box

Some people don't mind tham at all and see it as a cheeky flirt

Don't wink the ones that say they hate them on their profiles,its raises their blood pressure to a dangerous level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno

i dont look at my winks much but most who wink dont read profiles just wink and hope for the best lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wanted to know if most people see receiving a wink as a compliment ? Personally I don't go chucking winks out willy nilliy but I do hope the ones I do do are seen as a compliment to the recipients. "

LOL I was just about to say I don't know because you haven't sent me one and then on looking through them I found I was wrong..taken as a compliment

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I dont look at them just mass delete them"

I do exactly the same... Never look, and every so often I delete all

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain


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Don't wink the ones that say they hate them on their profiles,its raises their blood pressure to a dangerous level "
surely, those are the ones you wink at most? I do!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to think of them as invitations and if I like the look of the profile Ill chat

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


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Don't wink the ones that say they hate them on their profiles,its raises their blood pressure to a dangerous level surely, those are the ones you wink at most? I do!!"

Shhhhhh thats NOT what I was implying at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"dunno

i dont look at my winks much but most who wink dont read profiles just wink and hope for the best lol"

I must admit I do read people's profiles, hell that's one of the most enjoyable things of the site, and don't send messages or winks to people who have stated so on their profile can't really see the point in that. Thanks for the input

Now I'm just waiting for someone to say say I've sent them a wink after it specifically says not to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't wink the ones that say they hate them on their profiles,its raises their blood pressure to a dangerous level surely, those are the ones you wink at most? I do!!

Shhhhhh thats NOT what I was implying at all!"

lol sussed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see them as harmless flirting and if I like profile I send a wink back or a quick message.

I prefer a wink to an obviously copied and pasted message that's not personal at all.

The winks that always make me laugh are the ones from people already on my friends list always makes me laugh as they obviously forgot they already know us xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Don't wink the ones that say they hate them on their profiles,its raises their blood pressure to a dangerous level surely, those are the ones you wink at most? I do!!

Shhhhhh thats NOT what I was implying at all!"

Mmm now just wondering whether to send you 10 winks or a nice round dozen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to send out winks as I know it is not always well received, but I do like getting them, even if it is only rarely.

I said I do like them, ahem

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I love a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i must be ugly i never get them lol

or my wink received is not working hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who sends them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just got one thats made my day yippppiiiiiii lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a wink

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

harmless intitial flirt. cannot see why peeps get so het up. we usually take a shufty and wink back if we like.

you don't even need to look at or delete them as they don't get in your way at all.

peeps should chill a bit and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at everyone on here

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Oi Dave?

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I just had a wink, you know who you are and I love you for ever mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks I use them a lot it just shows interest without the message if I get a wink back then start messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, if I get a wink it's always appreciated and reciprocated ... not a proposal or anything ... just a 'hey there'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wanted to know if most people see receiving a wink as a compliment ? Personally I don't go chucking winks out willy nilliy but I do hope the ones I do do are seen as a compliment to the recipients. "

Honestly we hardly ever luck and have yet to meet anyone on the strength of one. Better than pestering with cut and paste messages though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i like what i see...i give it a wink.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Love a good wink now and again

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'll have a look now and then and will occasionally check out the profile if the name or picture catches my eye....if it holds my interest then I'll send a wink back as kinda an invite for them to message me, can't remember now if I've ever met as the result of an initial wink.....

Think I sent a charity wink to Pablo once when he was begging for one in the forums.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only get winked at by gay guys and TV`s (groans)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a wink and always send a message thanking whoever sent it as we think its good manners to acknowledge people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see them as laziness, if a guy is interested he will send a message, I never look at mine just bulk delete, same as with friends invites from someone I have never had contact with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see them as laziness, if a guy is interested he will send a message, I never look at mine just bulk delete, same as with friends invites from someone I have never had contact with"

I'm the same if someone can't be bothers to send an individual message then I mass delete too without really looking.

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