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By *ustforfun49 OP   Man
over a year ago

chesterfield

I'm bi curious and when it's safe to meet again I would like to meet a couple for a mmf because I think this would be the best way for my first bi experience or would it be better to meet a single bi male for my first bi experience what do you all think

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over a year ago


"I'm bi curious and when it's safe to meet again I would like to meet a couple for a mmf because I think this would be the best way for my first bi experience or would it be better to meet a single bi male for my first bi experience what do you all think "

I think you're the best person to answer that question.

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By *ustforfun49 OP   Man
over a year ago

chesterfield


"I'm bi curious and when it's safe to meet again I would like to meet a couple for a mmf because I think this would be the best way for my first bi experience or would it be better to meet a single bi male for my first bi experience what do you all think

I think you're the best person to answer that question."

Just looking for a bit of advice from people who have done it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As Jim says only you can decide that one OP - what I would say is that you will probably find it harder to meet a couple than another single guy but you shouldn't compromise just because it's "easier" do what you're most comfortable with - perhaps go along to a bi night at a club where you can be around bisexual male activity without any pressure to indulge to see where your comfort lies with it.

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By *ustforfun49 OP   Man
over a year ago

chesterfield


"As Jim says only you can decide that one OP - what I would say is that you will probably find it harder to meet a couple than another single guy but you shouldn't compromise just because it's "easier" do what you're most comfortable with - perhaps go along to a bi night at a club where you can be around bisexual male activity without any pressure to indulge to see where your comfort lies with it."

What was your first time like

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm bi curious and when it's safe to meet again I would like to meet a couple for a mmf because I think this would be the best way for my first bi experience or would it be better to meet a single bi male for my first bi experience what do you all think

I think you're the best person to answer that question.

Just looking for a bit of advice from people who have done it "

Yes but what others have done won't necessarily be what's best for you - it has to be about your own comfort levels.

There are certainly guys out there who won't pressure you and will be happy to go at your pace so I wouldn't rule out one on one with a guy - just go with what you are comfortable with and as I said maybe go to a club first to see how comfortable you are being in the presence of that kind of thing

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By *ustforfun49 OP   Man
over a year ago

chesterfield


"I'm bi curious and when it's safe to meet again I would like to meet a couple for a mmf because I think this would be the best way for my first bi experience or would it be better to meet a single bi male for my first bi experience what do you all think

I think you're the best person to answer that question.

Just looking for a bit of advice from people who have done it

Yes but what others have done won't necessarily be what's best for you - it has to be about your own comfort levels.

There are certainly guys out there who won't pressure you and will be happy to go at your pace so I wouldn't rule out one on one with a guy - just go with what you are comfortable with and as I said maybe go to a club first to see how comfortable you are being in the presence of that kind of thing "

Never been to a club before I'm a bit nervous about going to one

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm bi curious and when it's safe to meet again I would like to meet a couple for a mmf because I think this would be the best way for my first bi experience or would it be better to meet a single bi male for my first bi experience what do you all think

I think you're the best person to answer that question.

Just looking for a bit of advice from people who have done it

Yes but what others have done won't necessarily be what's best for you - it has to be about your own comfort levels.

There are certainly guys out there who won't pressure you and will be happy to go at your pace so I wouldn't rule out one on one with a guy - just go with what you are comfortable with and as I said maybe go to a club first to see how comfortable you are being in the presence of that kind of thing

Never been to a club before I'm a bit nervous about going to one "

They can be nerve wracking but Bi Nights are usually pretty welcoming and more relaxed - at least the ones I've been to have been - you just have to treat them as being like going for a night at the pub

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By *ustforfun49 OP   Man
over a year ago

chesterfield


"I'm bi curious and when it's safe to meet again I would like to meet a couple for a mmf because I think this would be the best way for my first bi experience or would it be better to meet a single bi male for my first bi experience what do you all think

I think you're the best person to answer that question.

Just looking for a bit of advice from people who have done it

Yes but what others have done won't necessarily be what's best for you - it has to be about your own comfort levels.

There are certainly guys out there who won't pressure you and will be happy to go at your pace so I wouldn't rule out one on one with a guy - just go with what you are comfortable with and as I said maybe go to a club first to see how comfortable you are being in the presence of that kind of thing

Never been to a club before I'm a bit nervous about going to one

They can be nerve wracking but Bi Nights are usually pretty welcoming and more relaxed - at least the ones I've been to have been - you just have to treat them as being like going for a night at the pub"

Ok when it's safe to do so I will go to one I think there is one in Sheffield which is the closest to me

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

London

It’s always nerve racking meeting for the first time, socially, to play, going to a club... (at least it is for me!) Add in to that an intention to explore something new - and from your post I’m guessing that it’s a big step (as it is for many guys), so don’t worry that it feels daunting. That’s only to be expected.

The advantage of a club or social meeting is that you can feel ‘safer’ - nothing will necessarily happen and it will maybe take away some of the initial nerves. My experience of most bi-nights is that they’re friendly and non-pressured. You’ll be in the vicinity of male-male sex action but can see how you feel before exploring further. Sadly though, we’re all going to be waiting some time for clubs to be up again as they were.

Meanwhile you could use the forums, chat and messaging to connect with couples and singles who might be compatible with you. If you’ve made a good connection beforehand then that first face to face meeting will be a big less scary - though it probably should still make your stomach tingle a bit!

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By *ustforfun49 OP   Man
over a year ago

chesterfield


"It’s always nerve racking meeting for the first time, socially, to play, going to a club... (at least it is for me!) Add in to that an intention to explore something new - and from your post I’m guessing that it’s a big step (as it is for many guys), so don’t worry that it feels daunting. That’s only to be expected.

The advantage of a club or social meeting is that you can feel ‘safer’ - nothing will necessarily happen and it will maybe take away some of the initial nerves. My experience of most bi-nights is that they’re friendly and non-pressured. You’ll be in the vicinity of male-male sex action but can see how you feel before exploring further. Sadly though, we’re all going to be waiting some time for clubs to be up again as they were.

Meanwhile you could use the forums, chat and messaging to connect with couples and singles who might be compatible with you. If you’ve made a good connection beforehand then that first face to face meeting will be a big less scary - though it probably should still make your stomach tingle a bit!"

Thanks for that that's what I'm trying to do but I can't find anyone on here who is near to me to chat to couples or singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s always nerve racking meeting for the first time, socially, to play, going to a club... (at least it is for me!) Add in to that an intention to explore something new - and from your post I’m guessing that it’s a big step (as it is for many guys), so don’t worry that it feels daunting. That’s only to be expected.

The advantage of a club or social meeting is that you can feel ‘safer’ - nothing will necessarily happen and it will maybe take away some of the initial nerves. My experience of most bi-nights is that they’re friendly and non-pressured. You’ll be in the vicinity of male-male sex action but can see how you feel before exploring further. Sadly though, we’re all going to be waiting some time for clubs to be up again as they were.

Meanwhile you could use the forums, chat and messaging to connect with couples and singles who might be compatible with you. If you’ve made a good connection beforehand then that first face to face meeting will be a big less scary - though it probably should still make your stomach tingle a bit!

Thanks for that that's what I'm trying to do but I can't find anyone on here who is near to me to chat to couples or singles. "

I think alot of people are loathe to enter into protracted chats atm, as no one really knows how things will pan out with covid

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By *ustforfun49 OP   Man
over a year ago

chesterfield


"It’s always nerve racking meeting for the first time, socially, to play, going to a club... (at least it is for me!) Add in to that an intention to explore something new - and from your post I’m guessing that it’s a big step (as it is for many guys), so don’t worry that it feels daunting. That’s only to be expected.

The advantage of a club or social meeting is that you can feel ‘safer’ - nothing will necessarily happen and it will maybe take away some of the initial nerves. My experience of most bi-nights is that they’re friendly and non-pressured. You’ll be in the vicinity of male-male sex action but can see how you feel before exploring further. Sadly though, we’re all going to be waiting some time for clubs to be up again as they were.

Meanwhile you could use the forums, chat and messaging to connect with couples and singles who might be compatible with you. If you’ve made a good connection beforehand then that first face to face meeting will be a big less scary - though it probably should still make your stomach tingle a bit!

Thanks for that that's what I'm trying to do but I can't find anyone on here who is near to me to chat to couples or singles.

I think alot of people are loathe to enter into protracted chats atm, as no one really knows how things will pan out with covid"

Yeah that's true but it would be nice to chat with someone who knows what's it's like to meet another bi male or bi couple for the first time.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The problem you may also have OP is if you make the chat all about the "experience" as in what it was like the first time - people will suspect you're just looking for sex chat.

Now some single guys will probably relish the opportunity for sex chat, but I'd suggest they may not be the right type for you, as they'll probably disappear as soon as they have got their rocks off.

Maybe try chatting to people normally, take your time getting to know them - no harm in mentioning that you're inexperienced and looking to explore, but let that come out naturally rather than making it, and what their experiences are the focus of your conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a single male will be easier to arrange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll be extremely lucky if you are able to meet up with a bi couple. It's much easier to hook up with another bi or gay guy or Tgirl. Also how 'bi' do you want to be.. Is it oral only or do you want to get fucked by another man or fuck another man. I think you should join fabguys and get some experience with a guy so you know what you're doing. I'm sure there will be plenty of guys on there willing to help you. Then if you ever are lucky enough to meet a bi couple you will have something to offer them rather than expect them to induct you.

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over a year ago

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By *mart bearMan
over a year ago

SW


"I'm bi curious and when it's safe to meet again I would like to meet a couple for a mmf because I think this would be the best way for my first bi experience or would it be better to meet a single bi male for my first bi experience what do you all think "

My first bi experience was with a bi married couple! Loved it, and the encouragement from the F made it all the more horny! We started gently and there was never any pressure but soon I was gagging on her hubby’s cock and loving it!

Good luck x

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By *ad-HunterMan
over a year ago

near Watford / hemel / St Albans

Extremely rare to find THAT couple and even when you do theres that thought of what on earth is she thinking About me ?. I'm Bi and I've met a few 1st timers couples and single males and I've had meets where guys wanna just take it a step at a time .. from just wanking together, sucking , spooning to extreme fucking and light bdsm all in stages .

My biggest hurdle was and is to accommodate safely so it's a hotel or theirs.

And that Bi night experience? Well just to walk in the door at some places can be stressful

So I'd say.... ( in my experience ) hunt a guy for 1 on 1 who you can take it a step at a time with or itll be a blur .

There's plenty on here or on fabguys too .

But just go at your pace and let them know the score . Let it be an enjoyable experience all the way .

Just sorry I'm not nearer or I'd maybe help .

My thing is the younger lad from 18 upwards and they're often keen to please .

Hope this helps .... Rob

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

It all depends on what you want to get out of it. I’ve had mmf, mtvf, mm, mtv, mtvtv, the list goes on, but never had the nerve to go to a club.

As said in previous you need to find what you want, what gets you going as you can tell not one size fits all.

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