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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!

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By *idcotlad2020Man
over a year ago

didcot


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!"

Team up with another guy - two lots of hands are better than one - trust me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Wait, women can orgasm?

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Some can be very hard to make cum but with the wright training they can come faster than the new year fireworks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This'll be interesting

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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago

London

A vibrating car seat works, apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bookmarking this thread to see the mens tips.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Don't be afraid to ask her what feels good for her

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Don't be afraid to ask her what feels good for her "

I can't hear what she's saying - her thighs are squashed against my ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!"

You still don't know how? ?

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By *idcotlad2020Man
over a year ago

didcot


"Don't be afraid to ask her what feels good for her "

What does ? X x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Use your nose

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Slow down. Be more gentle. Listen to her. Her words, her vocalisations, her body. Don't just go from 0 to 100 and think faster faster, harder harder, right off the bat. Talk to her about what she likes, what she doesn't like. And then actually listen to and believe what she tells you. Yes, even if it's stuff like "I don't enjoy oral" or "I don't like direct clitoral contact." She knows what she's talking about.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I'm bookmarking this thread to see the mens tips. "

Yes, you’ll probably learn a thing or two from us experts

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Firstly get her attention once you gain that rest should follow through that too can be the tricky part.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Heard of a thing called foreplay? It involves more than just getting a blowjob you know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay is key! It's all about the build, try not to rush into it with the mind set of wham bam thank you ma'am lol.

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By *nholy TrinityCouple (MM)
over a year ago

leeds/york

No idea but did find an interesting thing out the other day- if you tweak the left nipple and the clitoris at the same time she’ll take a screenshot

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"No idea but did find an interesting thing out the other day- if you tweak the left nipple and the clitoris at the same time she’ll take a screenshot "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!"

Firstly, get to know her, mental stimulation is so important.

During the get to know eachother process you will start to know what her dos and don'ts are.

Secondly, pay attention to her. No zoning out or getting bored, but in the graft. It's enjoyable. My favourite thing to do is go down on a woman. You learn so much. The way the body moves when they are enjoying something, and if you have your ears open moaning is a very good indication.

Do not be selfish.

Men are easy, repetitive motion = a sticky mess for us.

It's definitely not that way with a woman. Their sensitive areas move with time and you can't stay in the same place for too long. Mix it up a bit.

Ladies I really hope I have not just made a fool of myself. Please tell me if I have.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Don't be afraid to ask her what feels good for her

I can't hear what she's saying - her thighs are squashed against my ears. "

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!

Firstly, get to know her, mental stimulation is so important.

During the get to know eachother process you will start to know what her dos and don'ts are.

Secondly, pay attention to her. No zoning out or getting bored, but in the graft. It's enjoyable. My favourite thing to do is go down on a woman. You learn so much. The way the body moves when they are enjoying something, and if you have your ears open moaning is a very good indication.

Do not be selfish.

Men are easy, repetitive motion = a sticky mess for us.

It's definitely not that way with a woman. Their sensitive areas move with time and you can't stay in the same place for too long. Mix it up a bit.

Ladies I really hope I have not just made a fool of myself. Please tell me if I have. "

Nope

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'm bookmarking this thread to see the mens tips. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!

Firstly, get to know her, mental stimulation is so important.

During the get to know eachother process you will start to know what her dos and don'ts are.

Secondly, pay attention to her. No zoning out or getting bored, but in the graft. It's enjoyable. My favourite thing to do is go down on a woman. You learn so much. The way the body moves when they are enjoying something, and if you have your ears open moaning is a very good indication.

Do not be selfish.

Men are easy, repetitive motion = a sticky mess for us.

It's definitely not that way with a woman. Their sensitive areas move with time and you can't stay in the same place for too long. Mix it up a bit.

Ladies I really hope I have not just made a fool of myself. Please tell me if I have.

Nope "

I really hope thats not a bad nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral and rimming. They produce Two kinds of epic orgasms. A genius can generate a simultaneous double orgasm. A master of his art multiple ones.

hand jobs lack finesse for me and no chance from direct penetration.

She comes first is a good book to read if you’re really new to this.

I wish I could start a school to teach men how to truly pleasure women to oral orgasm. It is all much slower paced and sensual than most ever imagine. That or have my own pet oral giver lol. Haven’t had an orgasm in forever in the hands of a man- so depressing. Nothing gives me greater joy.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the woman! Communication and open chat is the key to orgasms

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By *od-ZillaMan
over a year ago

Truro

Actually do the washing up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!

Firstly, get to know her, mental stimulation is so important.

During the get to know eachother process you will start to know what her dos and don'ts are.

Secondly, pay attention to her. No zoning out or getting bored, but in the graft. It's enjoyable. My favourite thing to do is go down on a woman. You learn so much. The way the body moves when they are enjoying something, and if you have your ears open moaning is a very good indication.

Do not be selfish.

It's definitely not that way with a woman. Their sensitive areas move with time and you can't stay in the same place for too long. Mix it up a bit. "

^^Pretty darn effective in my experience

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!

Firstly, get to know her, mental stimulation is so important.

During the get to know eachother process you will start to know what her dos and don'ts are.

Secondly, pay attention to her. No zoning out or getting bored, but in the graft. It's enjoyable. My favourite thing to do is go down on a woman. You learn so much. The way the body moves when they are enjoying something, and if you have your ears open moaning is a very good indication.

Do not be selfish.

Men are easy, repetitive motion = a sticky mess for us.

It's definitely not that way with a woman. Their sensitive areas move with time and you can't stay in the same place for too long. Mix it up a bit.

Ladies I really hope I have not just made a fool of myself. Please tell me if I have.

Nope

I really hope thats not a bad nope. "
it's a good nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!

Firstly, get to know her, mental stimulation is so important.

During the get to know eachother process you will start to know what her dos and don'ts are.

Secondly, pay attention to her. No zoning out or getting bored, but in the graft. It's enjoyable. My favourite thing to do is go down on a woman. You learn so much. The way the body moves when they are enjoying something, and if you have your ears open moaning is a very good indication.

Do not be selfish.

Men are easy, repetitive motion = a sticky mess for us.

It's definitely not that way with a woman. Their sensitive areas move with time and you can't stay in the same place for too long. Mix it up a bit.

Ladies I really hope I have not just made a fool of myself. Please tell me if I have.

Nope

I really hope thats not a bad nope. it's a good nope "

Well I am very glad you think so.

Hopefully you'll think the same when it comes down to it.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

its all in the wrist action

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends on the woman! Communication and open chat is the key to orgasms "

I'll make sure to ask are you there there yet every 10 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subscribe to her only fans and give her your bank details

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It depends on the woman! Communication and open chat is the key to orgasms "

Are you there yet?

Are you there yet?

Are you there yet?

Are you there yet?......

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"It depends on the woman! Communication and open chat is the key to orgasms

I'll make sure to ask are you there there yet every 10 seconds "

That's a sure fire way to success, Morningstar

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Win the Euromillions jackpot

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Buy her some shoes.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Buy her some shoes. "

And chocolate.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Buy her some shoes.

And chocolate. "

And gin

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Gentlemen, there isn't a correct answer except "all women are individuals, great them as such"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

*treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un"

And some Barry White music

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un

And some Barry White music"

Barry White! The soundtrack to my youth.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Slow down. Be more gentle. Listen to her. Her words, her vocalisations, her body. Don't just go from 0 to 100 and think faster faster, harder harder, right off the bat. Talk to her about what she likes, what she doesn't like. And then actually listen to and believe what she tells you. Yes, even if it's stuff like "I don't enjoy oral" or "I don't like direct clitoral contact." She knows what she's talking about."

This is all very accurate.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un"

Sometimes I feel like the only woman in the world who hates rabbit vibrators and wands.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un

Sometimes I feel like the only woman in the world who hates rabbit vibrators and wands."

Nope, not just you. No vibrator has ever done much. The wand feels okay but I couldn't orgasm using it.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un

Sometimes I feel like the only woman in the world who hates rabbit vibrators and wands.

Nope, not just you. No vibrator has ever done much. The wand feels okay but I couldn't orgasm using it. "

For me it either does nothing or hurts. Like post orgasm torture type pain. If someone came at me with one I'd be likely to kick them off .

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un

Sometimes I feel like the only woman in the world who hates rabbit vibrators and wands.

Nope, not just you. No vibrator has ever done much. The wand feels okay but I couldn't orgasm using it.

For me it either does nothing or hurts. Like post orgasm torture type pain. If someone came at me with one I'd be likely to kick them off . "

I think we with nerve issues are special

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un

Sometimes I feel like the only woman in the world who hates rabbit vibrators and wands.

Nope, not just you. No vibrator has ever done much. The wand feels okay but I couldn't orgasm using it.

For me it either does nothing or hurts. Like post orgasm torture type pain. If someone came at me with one I'd be likely to kick them off .

I think we with nerve issues are special "

Maybe so

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"This is all very accurate."

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By *pice-meWoman
over a year ago

Home

Talk to each other and explore every part of each other. I love the anticipation by teasing for a few hours such as messaging while at work or gentle touches while making tea etc.. often men get it wrong by jumping in wanting sex and women often like the long game and lots of touching. Quickies are okay sometimes but may only cause a fake orgasm.. (although fake is not what anyone wants)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult one to answer. We’re all so different. I read things on here and think that definitely wouldn’t work for me. Communication and familiarity is the key for me. That’s why one offs don’t work for me. I’m not easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tips are, no kissing, go in dry, no foreplay and fuck like a jackhammer on steroids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Wait, women can orgasm? "

It's all lies..isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes "

Nice pics

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics "

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

"

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though "

Ouch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

Ouch!! "

I was trying to be nice . Must try harder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

Ouch!! "

Damn, I'll go and sit in the corner now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

Ouch!!

Damn, I'll go and sit in the corner now "

. I’ll have another look and see what happens

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

Ouch!!

Damn, I'll go and sit in the corner now "

Theres an empty stool by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make a woman orgasm is give her a credit card with no limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

Ouch!!

Damn, I'll go and sit in the corner now

Theres an empty stool by me "

I'll go to work instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

Ouch!!

Damn, I'll go and sit in the corner now

. I’ll have another look and see what happens "

Don't be back tracking now.

The hurt is done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

Ouch!!

Damn, I'll go and sit in the corner now

. I’ll have another look and see what happens

Don't be back tracking now.

The hurt is done "

I’m crap at being nice. I’ll go back to being the bitch everyone knows and loves

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"What works for one woman might not work for another.

Talk and touch so you can find out what the lady likes

Nice pics

Thanks, if I'd have know I could make you orgasm through some selfies I'd have bombarded your inbox ages ago

. They didn’t quite do that. Nice though

Ouch!!

Damn, I'll go and sit in the corner now

. I’ll have another look and see what happens

Don't be back tracking now.

The hurt is done "

I'm hurt you can't even be arsed to say good morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the woman! Communication and open chat is the key to orgasms

I'll make sure to ask are you there there yet every 10 seconds "

That’s when I’d smack you one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I multi orgasm just being licked out

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

As she gets near to it, that moment when it either peaks or goes flat, gently slide a finger or play with her ass, that sends most in to a frenzy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send them a picture of me

problem sorted

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Show her your Pokemon care collection that’s works 100% of the time

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

You need to engage her mind as well as her body.

We are complex creatures (but it is worth it)

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm. All women are different but if showing her your pokemon collection or leaving her in the room with a glass of wine and a vibrator doesn’t work then try one or more of these:

Foreplay - don’t go straight for the prize or even the prize areas - enjoy her body. Light touches close to prize areas - side of the boobs, across the nipples, hip bone towards pubic bone.

Oral - this is not a Turner & Hooch moment so go gently. If you are struggling with technique, try drawing the alphabet over her clit with your tongue. The ladies on here will no doubt come back and tell us whether a flat tongue or the tip works best for them.

G-Spot - for a stronger orgasm and when well lubricated, try gently putting one or two fingers inside with your palm facing upwards. Reaching up behind the pubic bone there is a gorgeous spongy area which is ripe for massage in a repetitive ‘come this way’ motion. That seems to do the trick.

I am sure the ladies on here will come back and correct me of add detail.

Failing that now that you have used up the “ask the audience’, phone a friend (I am always keen to help - within reasonable travel distance of course - lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow down. Be more gentle. Listen to her. Her words, her vocalisations, her body. Don't just go from 0 to 100 and think faster faster, harder harder, right off the bat. Talk to her about what she likes, what she doesn't like. And then actually listen to and believe what she tells you. Yes, even if it's stuff like "I don't enjoy oral" or "I don't like direct clitoral contact." She knows what she's talking about."

This

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

It's impossible.

We're all liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give her what she wants. Watch out for how she's acting, if she's being shy and coy then I would be slow and tender with my lovemaking whereas if she's tearing at my belt and jeans to get me undressed quickly then I would aim to be passionate, handsy and using hard strokes.

Plenty of kissing and strong eye contact to keep her attention on how horny she's making me which should hopefully help keep her horn.

Watch out for queues. You might do something that particularly works wonders for her but might not have worked for someone else. Everyone's different and every new time having sex is different, stay fluid and look out for her tells that you're doing things right.

Talking before hand, setting the scene say and casually chatting about things you like in the bedroom should hopefully start the ball rolling.

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By *allumUKMan
over a year ago

KingsLynn

Show her a big bank balance and tell her she can spend what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely like her and ask her what she likes!

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By *ike1469Man
over a year ago

torquay


"Wait, women can orgasm? "

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By *oly1965Man
over a year ago

colchester

Take your time .tease and kiss her gently and massage .listen to her

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Go to an experienced sex therapist for advice. I (Luke) did that several years ago and several women have said it was the best 200 quid I ever spent! I'm inclined to agree with them.

I can recommendaa therapist if that would be helpful.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"You need to engage her mind as well as her body.

We are complex creatures (but it is worth it) "

You're not wrong there

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Bookmarked.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

As a woman who struggles with orgasms..... I'm here for the advice.

Move along and act like I'm not here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I’m of no help. I don’t have a clue

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Actually do the washing up... "
take the bins out

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By *ookMan
over a year ago

london

It’s a long ( and secret) path to travel. Listen carefully men

Buy her chips ... or let her eat some of yours when she’s said she doesn’t want any...and wine.... lots of wine. let her watch what she wants on tv... wash up... build up to a big night by applying a splash of kouros or aramis for men and buying some new pants. Manscape not landscape.... did I mention I’m divorced btw?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

If she says don't stop.... don't stop

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I’ve always used the trick of stirring to the left three times and heating to 30 degrees. Never failed yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow down. Be more gentle. Listen to her. Her words, her vocalisations, her body. Don't just go from 0 to 100 and think faster faster, harder harder, right off the bat. Talk to her about what she likes, what she doesn't like. And then actually listen to and believe what she tells you. Yes, even if it's stuff like "I don't enjoy oral" or "I don't like direct clitoral contact." She knows what she's talking about."

Excellent advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice cup of tea helps.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Licking around her clit

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Have you tried turning her off.. and on again

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Have you tried turning her off.. and on again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give her your credit card

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon


"Wait, women can orgasm? "

Surprise surprise its not only men who have orgasms

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her to put her chips down first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait, women can orgasm?

Surprise surprise its not only men who have orgasms "

You’re kidding right?

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

Turn up the heating, plug in wand, open lube, leave the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!"

Spit on her fanny, dick straight in, pump as hard and as fast as you can. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't MAKE a woman orgasm. You can HELP her, but you can't MAKE her.

Don't fixate on it. It's not a challenge that has to be met.

Don't make her feel like she's failed if she doesn't. Neither of you have.

Some women have psychological or physical reasons why they don't orgasm.

Help her to relax and trust you.

Don't go in all guns blazing. Work your way down. Kissing, gentle strokes, softly spoken words telling her how amazing she looks, feels, smells, moves etc.

When you get to her genitals, be gentle. Take your time. Build up the feelings. Watch her closely. Listen to her breathing, her moans of pleasure. Watch how her body moves.

Some ladies are like me. With the right stimulation, I can feel amazing in every part of my body. Tears in the eyes, lump in the throat, feeling like I'm floating. Yet no big O. Nothing's going wrong, nobody is failing, it's just how I am. I might gush instead, but I might have everything going on inside. I know I can't be the only one like it.

In a nutshell, be gentle, be attentive, do what you see makes her feel good and don't worry about the end result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi guy I'm used to sucking cock and when I perform oral on a woman I suck her clit like I would suck a cock. Afterall the clit is like a tiny cock. I find that this gives them great orgasms. Start to suck gently and only increase the pressure if the lady can take it. Some find it too intense so easy off and edge her instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the lady and listen as strangely we are all different

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By *leasure zoneCouple (MM)
over a year ago

oxford

Sensual awareness

We love giving pleasure and no woman is the same and often a woman responds differently at different times

Listen to her and her body - look out for the signs that she is enjoying something - often it can be the smallest thing

Ask her how she pleasures herself

It’s not hard it just takes effort and thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasms are like opinions. Mine is really important but I don’t care if others have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi guy I'm used to sucking cock and when I perform oral on a woman I suck her clit like I would suck a cock. Afterall the clit is like a tiny cock. I find that this gives them great orgasms. Start to suck gently and only increase the pressure if the lady can take it. Some find it too intense so easy off and edge her instead. "

Not everyone likes this, we are all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handbags, shoes, sparkly things and cake.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Give her what she wants. Watch out for how she's acting, if she's being shy and coy then I would be slow and tender with my lovemaking whereas if she's tearing at my belt and jeans to get me undressed quickly then I would aim to be passionate, handsy and using hard strokes.

Plenty of kissing and strong eye contact to keep her attention on how horny she's making me which should hopefully help keep her horn.

Watch out for queues. You might do something that particularly works wonders for her but might not have worked for someone else. Everyone's different and every new time having sex is different, stay fluid and look out for her tells that you're doing things right.

Talking before hand, setting the scene say and casually chatting about things you like in the bedroom should hopefully start the ball rolling. "

See I'm the clawing at your pants to get them off type but I find hard strokes too much. I find passionate doesn't have to mean hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You women sound like hard work!

Maybe I should stick to eating cheesecakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You women sound like hard work!

Maybe I should stick to eating cheesecakes "

No, you feed us the cheesecake

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
over a year ago

Cambs


"No idea but did find an interesting thing out the other day- if you tweak the left nipple and the clitoris at the same time she’ll take a screenshot "

That's the problem!!

It's like the old PlayStation, secret codes you have to engage for special moves

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Op you ever hear of the Buddy System, maybe someone close by could let you tag along, sit, watch, take pointers, or Tips,

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

In the mean time, learn the Jaws theme on a piano, and play it over and over as fast as you can,,, eventually you 2 can have magic fingers,

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"You can't MAKE a woman orgasm. You can HELP her, but you can't MAKE her.

Don't fixate on it. It's not a challenge that has to be met.

Don't make her feel like she's failed if she doesn't. Neither of you have.

Some women have psychological or physical reasons why they don't orgasm.

Help her to relax and trust you.

Don't go in all guns blazing. Work your way down. Kissing, gentle strokes, softly spoken words telling her how amazing she looks, feels, smells, moves etc.

When you get to her genitals, be gentle. Take your time. Build up the feelings. Watch her closely. Listen to her breathing, her moans of pleasure. Watch how her body moves.

Some ladies are like me. With the right stimulation, I can feel amazing in every part of my body. Tears in the eyes, lump in the throat, feeling like I'm floating. Yet no big O. Nothing's going wrong, nobody is failing, it's just how I am. I might gush instead, but I might have everything going on inside. I know I can't be the only one like it.

In a nutshell, be gentle, be attentive, do what you see makes her feel good and don't worry about the end result. "

This is a wonderful reply. Don't see it as the destination and feel you've failed if she doesn't get there. I enjoy a wide range of sexual play which will never make me orgasm - it's not a prerequisite for great sex

Mrs kf x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the telly on and switch to your favourite show. Leave the lady in peace in a nice warm bedroom with a glass of something, cold, expensive and fizzy and a rabbit vibrator. Jobs a good un

Sometimes I feel like the only woman in the world who hates rabbit vibrators and wands."

I can assure you you're not the only at all. I'm with you on that one.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Just let me get on top, I will do it myself

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By *ookMan
over a year ago

london

To me ...Kissing is important... be a master kisser. Short fingernails, amazing personal hygiene and the ability to listen whilst feeding them cheesecake

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By *omino51Man
over a year ago

loughborough

Wake her up. ??

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Just get them to look at my awesome , incredible body .

Should do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whisper gently in her ear Gala bingo is going to be free for a month after Covid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasm? What's one of those?

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Communication, respecting understanding and adhering to what is said and unsaid otherwise become like a business deal lol

We do ask what they want, like dislike as it is mutual as it might pique our interest

But once relaxed in mind and body then more likely. Overall the experience key.

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By *unguy30Man
over a year ago

London

Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A, normally works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Book marked.

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By *elightfulharmonyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"You can't MAKE a woman orgasm. You can HELP her, but you can't MAKE her.

Don't fixate on it. It's not a challenge that has to be met.

Don't make her feel like she's failed if she doesn't. Neither of you have.

Some women have psychological or physical reasons why they don't orgasm.

Help her to relax and trust you.

Don't go in all guns blazing. Work your way down. Kissing, gentle strokes, softly spoken words telling her how amazing she looks, feels, smells, moves etc.

When you get to her genitals, be gentle. Take your time. Build up the feelings. Watch her closely. Listen to her breathing, her moans of pleasure. Watch how her body moves.

Some ladies are like me. With the right stimulation, I can feel amazing in every part of my body. Tears in the eyes, lump in the throat, feeling like I'm floating. Yet no big O. Nothing's going wrong, nobody is failing, it's just how I am. I might gush instead, but I might have everything going on inside. I know I can't be the only one like it.

In a nutshell, be gentle, be attentive, do what you see makes her feel good and don't worry about the end result. "

Sorry haven’t figured out how to make my comment stand out. Hopefully I will not chicken out in sending this after writing

I can so relate to this! One of the reasons I’m on this journey feel like there is something wrong with me and don’t want to feel like a challenge to be concurred

After starting out so late in my life exploring my body off and on 4 yrs ago (yes so late in life!) I’m yet to make myself cum as I’ve found out from a recent fwb I’ve met everything super sensitive down there. Although credit to him, he has made me squirt/gush.

I wonder how I’m suppose to tell the guy what I like if I don’t know myself So yes I agree with your advice for OP about the trust and listening to her breathing, her moans of pleasure and watching her body move. Be patient don’t rush it! I think I need to have a rethink on my approach and get out of my own head as I’ve only had one big O back in my early 20’s and that took some work luckily the guy could keep up

Not liking these pointless replies though! He asked a genuine question which is nice to know their are guys out there willing to look into pleasing a lady rather than rushing into satisfy himself. She’s going to be a lucky lady OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just let me get on top, I will do it myself "

I can do it myself but I just relish being told to kick back and enjoy being spoilt rotten. That the pleasure is theirs and then seeing them really enjoy it too. That bringing you to orgasm alone might be enough. I say “enough” because if I tally up the total number of men’s orgasms vs my own over the years, the figure is so inequitable I despair.

Also I noticed i orgasm a lot faster & bigger at certain times of the month vs others. For ladies on here worth tracking your period cycle and figuring out when you’re most sensual. It really does vary. Same for how wet, horny I am etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foreplay is key! It's all about the build, try not to rush into it with the mind set of wham bam thank you ma'am lol."

Yes it really is.. I love long teasing sessions of for play, getting each other so wound up and sweaty that actual penetration last a few minutes to climax

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Take her to Greggs and tell her she can pick whatever she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't MAKE a woman orgasm. You can HELP her, but you can't MAKE her.

Don't fixate on it. It's not a challenge that has to be met.

Don't make her feel like she's failed if she doesn't. Neither of you have.

Some women have psychological or physical reasons why they don't orgasm.

Help her to relax and trust you.

Don't go in all guns blazing. Work your way down. Kissing, gentle strokes, softly spoken words telling her how amazing she looks, feels, smells, moves etc.

When you get to her genitals, be gentle. Take your time. Build up the feelings. Watch her closely. Listen to her breathing, her moans of pleasure. Watch how her body moves.

Some ladies are like me. With the right stimulation, I can feel amazing in every part of my body. Tears in the eyes, lump in the throat, feeling like I'm floating. Yet no big O. Nothing's going wrong, nobody is failing, it's just how I am. I might gush instead, but I might have everything going on inside. I know I can't be the only one like it.

In a nutshell, be gentle, be attentive, do what you see makes her feel good and don't worry about the end result.

Sorry haven’t figured out how to make my comment stand out. Hopefully I will not chicken out in sending this after writing

I can so relate to this! One of the reasons I’m on this journey feel like there is something wrong with me and don’t want to feel like a challenge to be concurred

After starting out so late in my life exploring my body off and on 4 yrs ago (yes so late in life!) I’m yet to make myself cum as I’ve found out from a recent fwb I’ve met everything super sensitive down there. Although credit to him, he has made me squirt/gush.

I wonder how I’m suppose to tell the guy what I like if I don’t know myself So yes I agree with your advice for OP about the trust and listening to her breathing, her moans of pleasure and watching her body move. Be patient don’t rush it! I think I need to have a rethink on my approach and get out of my own head as I’ve only had one big O back in my early 20’s and that took some work luckily the guy could keep up

Not liking these pointless replies though! He asked a genuine question which is nice to know their are guys out there willing to look into pleasing a lady rather than rushing into satisfy himself. She’s going to be a lucky lady OP x"

Well done for being brave enough to hit send. I'm like you and can gush with the right stimulation.

Feel free to PM me if you'd like to talk any time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't MAKE a woman orgasm. You can HELP her, but you can't MAKE her.

Don't fixate on it. It's not a challenge that has to be met.

Don't make her feel like she's failed if she doesn't. Neither of you have.

Some women have psychological or physical reasons why they don't orgasm.

Help her to relax and trust you.

Don't go in all guns blazing. Work your way down. Kissing, gentle strokes, softly spoken words telling her how amazing she looks, feels, smells, moves etc.

When you get to her genitals, be gentle. Take your time. Build up the feelings. Watch her closely. Listen to her breathing, her moans of pleasure. Watch how her body moves.

Some ladies are like me. With the right stimulation, I can feel amazing in every part of my body. Tears in the eyes, lump in the throat, feeling like I'm floating. Yet no big O. Nothing's going wrong, nobody is failing, it's just how I am. I might gush instead, but I might have everything going on inside. I know I can't be the only one like it.

In a nutshell, be gentle, be attentive, do what you see makes her feel good and don't worry about the end result.

This is a wonderful reply. Don't see it as the destination and feel you've failed if she doesn't get there. I enjoy a wide range of sexual play which will never make me orgasm - it's not a prerequisite for great sex

Mrs kf x"

If you feel really good during sexual play, that's what matters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow down. Be more gentle. Listen to her. Her words, her vocalisations, her body. Don't just go from 0 to 100 and think faster faster, harder harder, right off the bat. Talk to her about what she likes, what she doesn't like. And then actually listen to and believe what she tells you. Yes, even if it's stuff like "I don't enjoy oral" or "I don't like direct clitoral contact." She knows what she's talking about."
This.. I find the slower and more gentle/sensual of passion the multiple amount of times that I orgasm more

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!"

Speak to my husband

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be attentive and in touch with her reactions. Adjust accordingly and NEVER give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!"

Ask, and if you don’t like giving a woman pleasure orally then start there, it’s amazing for both parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice glass of wine and Haagen Daas ice cream works every time x

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"A nice glass of wine and Haagen Daas ice cream works every time x"

No way! That's too easy and seems like a trap to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be best if you lie there and wank whilst I do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give her chocolate.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"This.. I find the slower and more gentle/sensual of passion the multiple amount of times that I orgasm more "

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Each and every female would be different because each button pressed stimulates differently so it's a learning curve on any individual female

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Turn up

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I prefer not to make a woman fo anything

I'm very happy to assist them upon their journey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF YOU WANT TO MAKE EM CUM USE FREDDYS THUMB. LOL

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I need tips! And no, no that kind of tips, I already have one of those!"

Communicate with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 way, it has to be a Tuesday at 11.52 pm, a crescent moon and 14 degrees in Mongolia, then slip your balaclava in to some socks and throw it at her, works every time

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By *rive u crazyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It could sound funny but don't laugh, he could a problem for other girls. At least he wants to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think it comes with practice know where abouts inside her on even her skin in aces can be sensitive to arousal, if not getting anywhere like that then just ask her what she likes and how she likes it. Communication is key.

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By *ig red22Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Its not something that can b taught

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"I'm bookmarking this thread to see the mens tips. "

And they actually have worked it out then I’ll be booking their tips

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Chandler from friends had it down....that episode was hilarious

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Nobody can make me do anything but you're welcome to help.

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By *arry1991Man
over a year ago

north west & shropshire

That’s y it’s nice to chat to 1 another get to no what each like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread has made me pretty horny lol. Several of you guys clearly know what you're doing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread has made me pretty horny lol. Several of you guys clearly know what you're doing! "

They can talk the talk, but can they walk the walk.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Ther'es no simple answer really as I think it takes something slightly different for every woman, it is the ultimate gratification when you do and makes you feel you did your job. Going from my own experience only far more women prefer gentle for a build up and more so with tongue and finger or a combination and aound the area as well as directly in contact, taking your time can help make it more intense too, nothing better than the feeling of thighs clamping your head, I love to acheive it and would feel like you need to finish level 1 before moving on to level2. I reckon you have to have a special cock if you think going straight in will do it, tongue and fingers, some might prefer toys?

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over a year ago

To be totally honest I don’t think it would take much in this present time!

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over a year ago


"To be totally honest I don’t think it would take much in this present time!"

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over a year ago


"To be totally honest I don’t think it would take much in this present time!"

What if I flicked your nose until you sneezed?

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over a year ago


"To be totally honest I don’t think it would take much in this present time!

What if I flicked your nose until you sneezed?"

That would just be annoying Sam

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over a year ago


"To be totally honest I don’t think it would take much in this present time!

What if I flicked your nose until you sneezed?

That would just be annoying Sam "

Welcome to a night with me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"To be totally honest I don’t think it would take much in this present time!

What if I flicked your nose until you sneezed?

That would just be annoying Sam

Welcome to a night with me "

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over a year ago

Stir together some desiccated coconut with condensed milk and a drop of vanilla extract. Pour into the base of a square silicon baking mould or clingfilm lined baking tin. Chill for several hours in the fridge, or an hour in the freezer usually works.

Cut small bars out of the set coconut block that are about 3cm across and 6-7cm long. Line them up on a wire rack over a plastic tray or clean work surface.

Melt milk chocolate until it's completely smooth. Pour it over the lined up bars in a continuous stream so that ample chocolate covers each coconut bar and it dribbles down the sides. Level it with a skewer so that it's perfectly clean.

Use the same skewer (or the back of a knife) to create 3 parallel lines on each bar, moving swiftly between them to create the iconic markings on top of the bars.

Leave them to chill then shove one up her arse and one up her fanny. That's bounty work.

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over a year ago

^^

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over a year ago

Spend more than two minutes between my legs before expecting a half an hour blow job, that would be a good start.

Slow, just with the tip of the tongue, not just hard and fast,. Don’t clamp your mouth over the whole pussy, let the air get at it, make it more sensitive. Slip a finger or two in and gentle curl upwards.

Not bloody in and out so rough and fast.

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By *tuBoabMan
over a year ago

Bothwell Glasgow

Ummm maybe ask her what makes her cum then do tbat.......

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Hmm. All women are different but if showing her your pokemon collection or leaving her in the room with a glass of wine and a vibrator doesn’t work then try one or more of these:

Foreplay - don’t go straight for the prize or even the prize areas - enjoy her body. Light touches close to prize areas - side of the boobs, across the nipples, hip bone towards pubic bone.

Oral - this is not a Turner & Hooch moment so go gently. If you are struggling with technique, try drawing the alphabet over her clit with your tongue. The ladies on here will no doubt come back and tell us whether a flat tongue or the tip works best for them.

G-Spot - for a stronger orgasm and when well lubricated, try gently putting one or two fingers inside with your palm facing upwards. Reaching up behind the pubic bone there is a gorgeous spongy area which is ripe for massage in a repetitive ‘come this way’ motion. That seems to do the trick.

I am sure the ladies on here will come back and correct me of add detail.

Failing that now that you have used up the “ask the audience’, phone a friend (I am always keen to help - within reasonable travel distance of course - lol)"

This sounds along the right lines for me..

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Stop getting tips from pint movies, and just because one women liked it doesn’t mean the next will. If she says she doesn’t like something don’t say well I’ve never had any complaints before, unfortunately too many fake orgasms so give some men more confidence that they know what their doing

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Wash up or do the hoovering.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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"Hmm. All women are different but if showing her your pokemon collection or leaving her in the room with a glass of wine and a vibrator doesn’t work then try one or more of these:

Foreplay - don’t go straight for the prize or even the prize areas - enjoy her body. Light touches close to prize areas - side of the boobs, across the nipples, hip bone towards pubic bone.

Oral - this is not a Turner & Hooch moment so go gently. If you are struggling with technique, try drawing the alphabet over her clit with your tongue. The ladies on here will no doubt come back and tell us whether a flat tongue or the tip works best for them.

G-Spot - for a stronger orgasm and when well lubricated, try gently putting one or two fingers inside with your palm facing upwards. Reaching up behind the pubic bone there is a gorgeous spongy area which is ripe for massage in a repetitive ‘come this way’ motion. That seems to do the trick.

I am sure the ladies on here will come back and correct me of add detail.

Failing that now that you have used up the “ask the audience’, phone a friend (I am always keen to help - within reasonable travel distance of course - lol)"

This

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