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Planned or spontaneous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Life stuff allowing,.... Do you prefer a planned meet, where half the fun is in the build up and discussing desires,... or the excitement of spontaneous, not knowing what or who?

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

A bit of both. I love the build up end exchanging flirty txts. But did a dogging meet where Od set the whole thing up and we arrived and I didn’t have a clue who we were meeting. So it was definitely fucking a stranger (obv Od had vetted him and checked veris etc but a stranger for me) Freya

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Life stuff allowing,.... Do you prefer a planned meet, where half the fun is in the build up and discussing desires,... or the excitement of spontaneous, not knowing what or who?

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How about you guys?

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By *lue NoteMan
over a year ago

Chertsey


"Life stuff allowing,.... Do you prefer a planned meet, where half the fun is in the build up and discussing desires,... or the excitement of spontaneous, not knowing what or who?

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We've only had spontaneous meets and yet to meet anyone directly through fab

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We like spontaneity of ending up chatting to people we find we really like in clubs. For going further than that, we like to arrange a rendezvous with people we have already established a rapport with.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I am a planner in all aspects of my life as far as I can control it of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer being getting all hyped and worked up by someone I’ve been talking to for a while. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if I was to meet anyone planned would always be my preference. I just think you can get a feel for someone and what they like. Half the fun is in the build up and chase.

Also call me old fashioned if you like but I like to know that I get on with someone before I stick my pee pee in them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably fair to say most people on here have tried both - spontaneous get togethers tend to be pretty short lived as far as fulfilment is concerned, and I've stopped doing it for that reason. Self care & awareness.

Connected, longer term, ongoing with someone you actually enjoy the company of, is WAY more interesting and rewarding for all parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are good for different reasons but do prefer a time and place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It the excitement of spontaneous, not knowing what or who? Big turn on for me.

When it was safe I even had a couple of regulars that would call around with out messaging me before hand.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Always spontaneous for us which is why we prefer going to clubs.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I like both ways alone and q mix of the 2..so there is just enough chat.

Sometimes less chat is more for me

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Both I think x

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

It's always been spontaneous for me

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