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Give it a rest for a while

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By *r blue eyes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

Do people find that after a while nothing seems to

happen , I know that nobody is meeting at the moment but there’s no messaging or chat , is it best to give it a rest for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play in the forums.

It increases your profile traffic which in turn can lead to messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people find that after a while nothing seems to

happen , I know that nobody is meeting at the moment but there’s no messaging or chat , is it best to give it a rest for a while."

If you are not enjoying being on fab then I’d suggest taking a short break but if it fills a part of your life that is currently missing then crack on.

Stay safe op and best of luck.

T

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I am all for taking breaks from fab, I think that's a healthy way to use it! I know it is for me, anyway. I often go away for a month or two, then come back if I feel like it

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By *r blue eyes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

It’s not that I don’t enjoy it but when there’s no response what’s the point

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

It’s a strange time anyway right now, I’d usually suggest you try a group social. That’s out the question for now with the pandemic.

Why don’t you just stay for the forums, it tends to get men noticed. Especially if they come across well.

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I would probably add the fact that couples and females get an awful lot of messages (so yours needs to stand out) the poor quality of messages and number of fakes had increased dramatically on the site.

Add to this the Covid restrictions which means the majority are not meeting and may not want to reply.

The last point I would add is you have no idea what is happening in their life. Their life might be busy, it may be sad, they could be worried about something or plain and simple you are not their type (at that moment).

So if you factor in all of the above it’s a wonder anyone replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not that I don’t enjoy it but when there’s no response what’s the point "

Answered your own question there.

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By *r blue eyes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

Think u r right my membership pass is nearly up it’s probably time to go , retire gracefully

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Missing so much due to the pandemic but the forums keep me alive and kicking and always make me smile.x

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have been here for 6yrs without a break but only recently started coming in forums it has helped. But I do sometimes go a week not coming on line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only just ventured onto the forums - before that I did feel similarly disheartened.

However being more activate on the forums and getting more profile traffic and messages as a response seems to fill the empty void that we are all missing lately

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