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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one?" Pronk. Verb, to leap in the air with an arched back and stiff legs. | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one?" Call me naive: "FemBoys". | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one? Pronk. Verb, to leap in the air with an arched back and stiff legs. Oh right. I’m off to give that a go ![]() I tried it, but I’ve put my back out. | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one? Pronk. Verb, to leap in the air with an arched back and stiff legs. Oh right. I’m off to give that a go ![]() Watch out for cramp | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one? Pronk. Verb, to leap in the air with an arched back and stiff legs. Oh right. I’m off to give that a go ![]() Hmmm not as easy as it sounds especially when you trip over the dog ![]() | |||
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"gynesexual is what’s it’s called , I am gynesexual because I only like femininity as a whole femboys, trans women, women’s yeah but a sub category of bi but also men being repulsed by masculinity(sexually) Any other guys think they fit in know your not alone " I've not given much thought to look up other orientations, but I have now and it's definitely opened up my mind a bit. Kudos ![]() | |||
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"gynesexual is what’s it’s called , I am gynesexual because I only like femininity as a whole femboys, trans women, women’s yeah but a sub category of bi but also men being repulsed by masculinity(sexually) Any other guys think they fit in know your not alone I've not given much thought to look up other orientations, but I have now and it's definitely opened up my mind a bit. Kudos ![]() Glad it helped someone | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one? Call me naive: "FemBoys"." Men/teens that are very feminine and close to trans but don’t identify as girls | |||
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"Agree Op I find femboys very sexy as well. It’s weird as I don’t find the majority of Tgirls sexy I suppose it’s the hint of maleness about them intermingled with feminine features ![]() Exactly many t-girls aren’t very feminine due to most just CD and not Truly wanting to become a girl. It’s hard to say I don’t want to invalidate anyone due to assumptions tho | |||
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"Never new this orientation existed and I’m here for it!!! " Haha it’s not new it’s been for a while tbh I was geting frustrated because I don’t like men or dicks on there own I only like it on a girl. So I searched and found the term and it helped me feel more confident in my self tbh | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one? Pronk. Verb, to leap in the air with an arched back and stiff legs." Ha! I taught you pronk!! | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today." What was the other one ? | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one? Pronk. Verb, to leap in the air with an arched back and stiff legs." Beg pardon. | |||
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"Love this word! You sir are an educator! ![]() Thanks ![]() | |||
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"That’s two new words I’ve learnt today. What was the other one ?" I think femboy is it | |||
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"Never new this orientation existed and I’m here for it!!! Haha it’s not new it’s been for a while tbh I was geting frustrated because I don’t like men or dicks on there own I only like it on a girl. So I searched and found the term and it helped me feel more confident in my self tbh " It's good you are feeling more confident Dash. Everyone has sexual preferences so never feel ashamed or anything. Be proud of yourself ![]() | |||
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"Never new this orientation existed and I’m here for it!!! Haha it’s not new it’s been for a while tbh I was geting frustrated because I don’t like men or dicks on there own I only like it on a girl. So I searched and found the term and it helped me feel more confident in my self tbh It's good you are feeling more confident Dash. Everyone has sexual preferences so never feel ashamed or anything. Be proud of yourself ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Never new this orientation existed and I’m here for it!!! Haha it’s not new it’s been for a while tbh I was geting frustrated because I don’t like men or dicks on there own I only like it on a girl. So I searched and found the term and it helped me feel more confident in my self tbh It's good you are feeling more confident Dash. Everyone has sexual preferences so never feel ashamed or anything. Be proud of yourself ![]() ![]() Yes I think I understand. You feel as though you have 'found yourself' as there's an identity for it etc? | |||
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"Never new this orientation existed and I’m here for it!!! Haha it’s not new it’s been for a while tbh I was geting frustrated because I don’t like men or dicks on there own I only like it on a girl. So I searched and found the term and it helped me feel more confident in my self tbh It's good you are feeling more confident Dash. Everyone has sexual preferences so never feel ashamed or anything. Be proud of yourself ![]() ![]() To a sense like a missing piece and it helped a lot with my imposter syndrome where I feel like a lieing when I say am bi, it also gave me peace of mind in general Plus a lot less shame when looking at cute trans (used to think am gay and was raised in a Christian house so I was sad when I looked at a fem guy and found him attractive) | |||
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"Sorry for my wall of text , hoping that opening will at least help others do so because men and women can be gynesexual and had conversations with “lesbians” who like femboys it open my Eyes " It's very honest of you and thanks for sharing with the aim of helping others. You're a good guy ![]() | |||
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"Just because someone is sissy or call themselves a femboy, or transvestite or cross dresser, does not take away the fact they are male and it is still gay sex. Nor calling masculinity ‘repulsive’ makes you any straighter. Gay sex is gay sex, it is on the bi spectrum. Also a penis is the epitome of a man, even if on a guy that decides to dress up for you. It definitely does not make someone straight purely because they prefer a penis on what appears a female image. Ironically such men are more homophobic than actual real fully straight men, there is a deep confusion and denial going on in such individuals. " Go be homophobic somewhere else pls ![]() | |||
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"Just because someone is sissy or call themselves a femboy, or transvestite or cross dresser, does not take away the fact they are male and it is still gay sex. Nor calling masculinity ‘repulsive’ makes you any straighter. Gay sex is gay sex, it is on the bi spectrum. Also a penis is the epitome of a man, even if on a guy that decides to dress up for you. It definitely does not make someone straight purely because they prefer a penis on what appears a female image. Ironically such men are more homophobic than actual real fully straight men, there is a deep confusion and denial going on in such individuals. " Plus you can read the room. Are trying to tell me what everyone know? And who is saying am straight? No one is lieing to anyone . And tbh your part of the problem why people don’t open up. | |||
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"Just because someone is sissy or call themselves a femboy, or transvestite or cross dresser, does not take away the fact they are male and it is still gay sex. Nor calling masculinity ‘repulsive’ makes you any straighter. Gay sex is gay sex, it is on the bi spectrum. Also a penis is the epitome of a man, even if on a guy that decides to dress up for you. It definitely does not make someone straight purely because they prefer a penis on what appears a female image. Ironically such men are more homophobic than actual real fully straight men, there is a deep confusion and denial going on in such individuals. Plus you can read the room. Are trying to tell me what everyone know? And who is saying am straight? No one is lieing to anyone . And tbh your part of the problem why people don’t open up." Ah after reading your bio is see just cos your not into it your trying to tell me some hard “facts” to change my mind about my own preference | |||
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"Why would I try to change your mind? I don’t care about your preference, but do care about you being in denial about the reality of the sex you are having like so many confused and in denial people on here. It is enforcing delusion on this site and it does have a knock on effect." No one is in denial and we are not confused you are trying to change your preference by telling us that , you don’t like femboys or cd move on not need to send hate | |||
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" but do care about you being in denial about the reality of the sex you are having like so many confused and in denial people on here. " Not everything is as you say. There's so many sexual preferences and identities. It's not for us to to say 'you're definitely this, or definitely that' Everyone can identify as they see fit and we should not judge them for it. ![]() | |||
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"I’m confused by this.. when I’m a boy I’m a boy and I’m not that into men although being attractive to men is still exciting but when I’m dressed I feel and try hard to be totally femme and I’m soo attracted to men in all ways .. what does this make me? " It makes you, you ![]() | |||
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"I’m confused by this.. when I’m a boy I’m a boy and I’m not that into men although being attractive to men is still exciting but when I’m dressed I feel and try hard to be totally femme and I’m soo attracted to men in all ways .. what does this make me? " You just a normal Tv haha You have a boy mode so you feel and act straight so naturally your not attracted to men , but in girl mode you are and that is fine but you don’t seem to be gynesexual. Am sorry if that didn’t help | |||
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"OP this is a great post and some interesting responses " Glad you enjoyed it haha | |||
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"Great post! New word learnt ![]() Thanks man hope all well | |||
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"So, polyamorous gynesexual here then ![]() Hahha love it ![]() | |||
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"So, polyamorous gynesexual here then ![]() Beautiful polyamorous gynesexual Tv/Part-time angle(pics) | |||
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"Why would I try to change your mind? I don’t care about your preference, but do care about you being in denial about the reality of the sex you are having like so many confused and in denial people on here. It is enforcing delusion on this site and it does have a knock on effect." Having read the thread, the OP isn’t in denial about the sex he is having. If anything he is being very specific about who he is attracted to. As a masculine bisexual male, I know that the OP is not going to be sexually attracted to me and therefore I know not to waste my time filling his inbox with dick pics and FAF messages. The terms androsexuality and gynesexuality describe attraction that is about who someone is attracted to, rather than gender. People should feel they can identify in anyway they feel comfortable without being judged by people, especially people who don’t know them. ![]() | |||
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"So, polyamorous gynesexual here then ![]() Well thankyou OP ![]() | |||
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"Why would I try to change your mind? I don’t care about your preference, but do care about you being in denial about the reality of the sex you are having like so many confused and in denial people on here. It is enforcing delusion on this site and it does have a knock on effect. Having read the thread, the OP isn’t in denial about the sex he is having. If anything he is being very specific about who he is attracted to. As a masculine bisexual male, I know that the OP is not going to be sexually attracted to me and therefore I know not to waste my time filling his inbox with dick pics and FAF messages. The terms androsexuality and gynesexuality describe attraction that is about who someone is attracted to, rather than gender. People should feel they can identify in anyway they feel comfortable without being judged by people, especially people who don’t know them. ![]() Thanks I appreciate it a lot , am the way you put it is perfect thanks you. Your pics are great as well hope you 2 get some great meets this year | |||
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"gynesexual is what’s it’s called , I am gynesexual because I only like femininity as a whole femboys, trans women, women’s yeah but a sub category of bi but also men being repulsed by masculinity(sexually) Any other guys think they fit in know your not alone " This ...I like the way you summarised this ![]() | |||
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"Just because someone is sissy or call themselves a femboy, or transvestite or cross dresser, does not take away the fact they are male and it is still gay sex. Nor calling masculinity ‘repulsive’ makes you any straighter. Gay sex is gay sex, it is on the bi spectrum. Also a penis is the epitome of a man, even if on a guy that decides to dress up for you. It definitely does not make someone straight purely because they prefer a penis on what appears a female image. Ironically such men are more homophobic than actual real fully straight men, there is a deep confusion and denial going on in such individuals. Go be homophobic somewhere else pls ![]() "Put downs" like this annoy me. It has now got to the point where people are afraid/rebuked for having a differing view, thus stifling debate and heralding a flurry of virtual signalling responses and name calling. | |||
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"Just because someone is sissy or call themselves a femboy, or transvestite or cross dresser, does not take away the fact they are male and it is still gay sex. Nor calling masculinity ‘repulsive’ makes you any straighter. Gay sex is gay sex, it is on the bi spectrum. Also a penis is the epitome of a man, even if on a guy that decides to dress up for you. It definitely does not make someone straight purely because they prefer a penis on what appears a female image. Ironically such men are more homophobic than actual real fully straight men, there is a deep confusion and denial going on in such individuals. " The OP didn't deny he is having sex with another male. He specifically said that it is a sub-category of bisexuality. Gynesexual just narrows it down to a specific group of male that they are attracted too. I thank you the OP for introducing that word in fabs. . However I do understand why you are offended (The word "repulsive" used) and I do think it is a bit too strong of a word to be used. I wonder how people will feel if they use that word to describe group of people they are not attracted to (eg repulsed by skin colour, body shape etc). Based on that I understand why you use the word "homophobic" as how others will use the word racist or body shaming etc. | |||
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"Just because someone is sissy or call themselves a femboy, or transvestite or cross dresser, does not take away the fact they are male and it is still gay sex. Nor calling masculinity ‘repulsive’ makes you any straighter. Gay sex is gay sex, it is on the bi spectrum. Also a penis is the epitome of a man, even if on a guy that decides to dress up for you. It definitely does not make someone straight purely because they prefer a penis on what appears a female image. Ironically such men are more homophobic than actual real fully straight men, there is a deep confusion and denial going on in such individuals. The OP didn't deny he is having sex with another male. He specifically said that it is a sub-category of bisexuality. Gynesexual just narrows it down to a specific group of male that they are attracted too. I thank you the OP for introducing that word in fabs. . However I do understand why you are offended (The word "repulsive" used) and I do think it is a bit too strong of a word to be used. I wonder how people will feel if they use that word to describe group of people they are not attracted to (eg repulsed by skin colour, body shape etc). Based on that I understand why you use the word "homophobic" as how others will use the word racist or body shaming etc. " I see here I have gone wrong thanks for point it out to me am sorry to be rude to anyone due to using that word | |||
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"Just because someone is sissy or call themselves a femboy, or transvestite or cross dresser, does not take away the fact they are male and it is still gay sex. Nor calling masculinity ‘repulsive’ makes you any straighter. Gay sex is gay sex, it is on the bi spectrum. Also a penis is the epitome of a man, even if on a guy that decides to dress up for you. It definitely does not make someone straight purely because they prefer a penis on what appears a female image. Ironically such men are more homophobic than actual real fully straight men, there is a deep confusion and denial going on in such individuals. Go be homophobic somewhere else pls ![]() Happens a lot I need to improve in communication thanks for insight | |||
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" I see here I have gone wrong thanks for point it out to me am sorry to be rude to anyone due to using that word " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not heard that word before . I put advert on fabguys last week for what I described as Nancy Boys and it got deleted. I'm keen to hook up with feminine sounding and acting men but the admin didn't seem to think Nancy Boy is an acceptable description. What about Mincing Faggot. ? If you fit these descriptions please get in touch. " I think they are both offensive / insulting / aggressive They are terms I would associate with the 1970's I think 'fem boys' might be more acceptable Or better still, spell out the type of guy you find attractive | |||
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"Not heard that word before . I put advert on fabguys last week for what I described as Nancy Boys and it got deleted. I'm keen to hook up with feminine sounding and acting men but the admin didn't seem to think Nancy Boy is an acceptable description. What about Mincing Faggot. ? If you fit these descriptions please get in touch. " Why not try asking for what you want in a nice manner, like feminine guys etc, it's not just what you say, it's how you say it... | |||
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"Not heard that word before . I put advert on fabguys last week for what I described as Nancy Boys and it got deleted. I'm keen to hook up with feminine sounding and acting men but the admin didn't seem to think Nancy Boy is an acceptable description. What about Mincing Faggot. ? If you fit these descriptions please get in touch. " And you thought you'd go ahead and give them a go on here instead. Nob | |||
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" I see here I have gone wrong thanks for point it out to me am sorry to be rude to anyone due to using that word ![]() ![]() It is breathtaking, i wish more people were accountable | |||
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"Op. One of the more interesting posts of late. An interesting read. I hope you see past some of the more judgmental folk on here. Tbf, on the whole there is more openness here than most places online. ![]() Thanks for that last year help me think a bit more about myself and accepting myself but I been a bit cold to other and even harsh without knowing so Atm am tryhard to learn what am doing wrong. | |||
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"I've only skimmed the thread because to be honest I find all of these sexual identity posts exhausting. Educational but exhausting. Why can't everyone just fancy who they fancy without labelling it. To be honest I think all of this sexuality spectrum stuff is over analysed. " Sorry to hear , but it’s mainly due to people needing a name so they can feel like other are going through the same thing and it helped me so I wanted to see anyone else feel the same | |||
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"I've only skimmed the thread because to be honest I find all of these sexual identity posts exhausting. Educational but exhausting. Why can't everyone just fancy who they fancy without labelling it. To be honest I think all of this sexuality spectrum stuff is over analysed. Sorry to hear , but it’s mainly due to people needing a name so they can feel like other are going through the same thing and it helped me so I wanted to see anyone else feel the same" Good for you x But I see it as there are a lot of people that are in the closet on Fab and meet trans etc .. or need a woman present to deny their bisexuality. | |||
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"Not heard that word before . I put advert on fabguys last week for what I described as Nancy Boys and it got deleted. I'm keen to hook up with feminine sounding and acting men but the admin didn't seem to think Nancy Boy is an acceptable description. What about Mincing Faggot. ? If you fit these descriptions please get in touch. " Most people will find those terms offensive so you should bear that in mind. I know people who would absolutely ROCK and totally own the term mincing faggot though. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've only skimmed the thread because to be honest I find all of these sexual identity posts exhausting. Educational but exhausting. Why can't everyone just fancy who they fancy without labelling it. To be honest I think all of this sexuality spectrum stuff is over analysed. Sorry to hear , but it’s mainly due to people needing a name so they can feel like other are going through the same thing and it helped me so I wanted to see anyone else feel the same Good for you x But I see it as there are a lot of people that are in the closet on Fab and meet trans etc .. or need a woman present to deny their bisexuality. " On the labelling front, yes it can be seen as identifying pigeon hole mentality but it does aid in quicker communication. And being in the “closet” is simply another label. OP seems to have been in a closet for a while and happier now for better understanding of what he is about. | |||
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"I've only skimmed the thread because to be honest I find all of these sexual identity posts exhausting. Educational but exhausting. Why can't everyone just fancy who they fancy without labelling it. To be honest I think all of this sexuality spectrum stuff is over analysed. Sorry to hear , but it’s mainly due to people needing a name so they can feel like other are going through the same thing and it helped me so I wanted to see anyone else feel the same Good for you x But I see it as there are a lot of people that are in the closet on Fab and meet trans etc .. or need a woman present to deny their bisexuality. On the labelling front, yes it can be seen as identifying pigeon hole mentality but it does aid in quicker communication. And being in the “closet” is simply another label. OP seems to have been in a closet for a while and happier now for better understanding of what he is about. " Sorry but ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not heard that word before . I put advert on fabguys last week for what I described as Nancy Boys and it got deleted. I'm keen to hook up with feminine sounding and acting men but the admin didn't seem to think Nancy Boy is an acceptable description. What about Mincing Faggot. ? If you fit these descriptions please get in touch. Most people will find those terms offensive so you should bear that in mind. I know people who would absolutely ROCK and totally own the term mincing faggot though. ![]() ![]() Agree totally with this. I quite like to be humiliated to a certain extent with the right partner. However it’s not words I would particularly enjoy seeing on a forum post or just anyone throwing it at me either. In the right circumstances and person I’d get off on it, but not here. ![]() | |||
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"Not heard that word before . I put advert on fabguys last week for what I described as Nancy Boys and it got deleted. I'm keen to hook up with feminine sounding and acting men but the admin didn't seem to think Nancy Boy is an acceptable description. What about Mincing Faggot. ? If you fit these descriptions please get in touch. Most people will find those terms offensive so you should bear that in mind. I know people who would absolutely ROCK and totally own the term mincing faggot though. ![]() ![]() ![]() My mates wouldn't see the term as humiliation. They'd be a camp as fuck, outrageously over the top mincing faggot. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not heard that word before . I put advert on fabguys last week for what I described as Nancy Boys and it got deleted. I'm keen to hook up with feminine sounding and acting men but the admin didn't seem to think Nancy Boy is an acceptable description. What about Mincing Faggot. ? If you fit these descriptions please get in touch. Most people will find those terms offensive so you should bear that in mind. I know people who would absolutely ROCK and totally own the term mincing faggot though. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know a few and definitely one I work with ![]() | |||
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