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"Or would this never happen cause men will always " Yes they can ! ![]() | |||
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"Yep, I have been friendzoned before" We can be friends... I like to play with my friends tho... Lu ![]() | |||
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"Just to clarify that’s men friend zoning women, I know it totally doesn’t happen. " You friendzoned me | |||
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"A major confusing factor here is that men will still sleep with women before and after friend zoning them Best to be up front with intentions to avoid hurt feelings ![]() What saying something like ‘Look love I’m gonna keep you as back up, but if it goes tits up with this hot woman then I’ll ping you!’ | |||
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"Just to clarify that’s men friend zoning women, I know it totally doesn’t happen. You friendzoned me" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes, I have friendzoned women on a number of occasions. I might be horny but I'm not desperate ![]() That’s a bit harsh on the women you’ve ‘friendzoned’ you could have been more diplomatic about it. | |||
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"A major confusing factor here is that men will still sleep with women before and after friend zoning them Best to be up front with intentions to avoid hurt feelings ![]() Love this. I wouldn't say that's friend zoning. From a female perspective that's called a fuck buddy if mutually agreed. Or should either male or female not have declared friend boundaries a player/one night stand/ or used to scratch an itch until either the male or female party finds something different/more or greener. ![]() | |||
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"Yes, I have friendzoned women on a number of occasions. I might be horny but I'm not desperate ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Or would this never happen cause men will always fuck anything that moves no matter what " ![]() | |||
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"I’m always friend zoned!! ![]() It’s the terms of the restraining order ![]() | |||
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"Can someone definitely define this for me, can't work it out." My understanding is that to be friend zoned is to be thought of as a friend but never as a sexual/romantic possibility or actuality. ![]() | |||
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"I’m always friend zoned!! ![]() ![]() Booooo! ![]() | |||
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"Can someone definitely define this for me, can't work it out." You know when women won’t have sex with you but laugh at your jokes, well it’s like that but the other way round. | |||
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"Can someone definitely define this for me, can't work it out. You know when women won’t have sex with you but laugh at your jokes, well it’s like that but the other way round." Yeah, that happens aaaaall of the time with me. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Can someone definitely define this for me, can't work it out. You know when women won’t have sex with you but laugh at your jokes, well it’s like that but the other way round." Wait women have sex with you and won't laugh at your jokes?!? | |||
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"Yup we sure can. The pretty but not 10s get it a lot. Or those with great personalities. I'm far from a 10 and get it often. Good to fuck but not to date ![]() Very much this for me too. I've a few friends who started off as potential relationships for me but it became clear it wasn't on their radar. It fizzles out and then they move into a relationship. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. Often I then get the attempts to reconnect. I tend not to allow them. | |||
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"Yes, I have friendzoned women on a number of occasions. I might be horny but I'm not desperate ![]() That's not a nice way to speak about your friends! I've had many meets where the sexual arrangements have ended, my decision btw except for one where it was mutually decided. Three are still considered friends, the mutually decided one, we are just enjoying our own space for now but sent each other Xmas cards. Where some friendships just fizzle out and there is no real contact once the sex ends, I guess there weren't really any strong foundations for it to be considered a friendship in the first place. Friendships these days are very transient but I put this down to the Internet age. Even friendships formed offline are seemingly more labour intensive requiring effort to maintain. Though there could be many factors such as age, living in London etc. Friendship can be considered a dirty word but I think it's value is so underestimated. If I had to choose to forego the sex in order to forge a strong healthy relationship, I've often chosen the latter. But if I fancied the pants off them and it was reciprocated, that kind of muddys the waters. That rarely happens though. | |||
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"Or would this never happen cause men will always " 100% women can be friend zoned. Sometimes you really do realise that someone is sooooo much better as a friend than anything else. No point ruining something good by putting your dick in it. | |||
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"Yup we sure can. The pretty but not 10s get it a lot. Or those with great personalities. I'm far from a 10 and get it often. Good to fuck but not to date ![]() All the time throughout life ![]() | |||
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"Yup we sure can. The pretty but not 10s get it a lot. Or those with great personalities. I'm far from a 10 and get it often. Good to fuck but not to date ![]() ![]() Says more about them than you flower... Lu ![]() | |||
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"... No point ruining something good by putting your dick in it. " Apple pie ![]() | |||
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"Yup we sure can. The pretty but not 10s get it a lot. Or those with great personalities. I'm far from a 10 and get it often. Good to fuck but not to date ![]() ![]() This is what put me off dating completely. And 1 night stands. Hence why I'm here. Regular fucks please | |||
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"... No point ruining something good by putting your dick in it. Apple pie ![]() That made me laugh ![]() | |||
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"Yup we sure can. The pretty but not 10s get it a lot. Or those with great personalities. I'm far from a 10 and get it often. Good to fuck but not to date ![]() ![]() ![]() Says you! Friendzoned me too ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yup we sure can. The pretty but not 10s get it a lot. Or those with great personalities. I'm far from a 10 and get it often. Good to fuck but not to date ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Not because I don't want to be seen in public with you...because I don't want to shag you! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes.. I seem to live in the friend zone " Same x | |||
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"I'm not sure that I fully believe in the friend zone, not matter who supposedly puts who there...I think it's just something that people say when they don't fancy someone because it's easier than telling them they don't fancy them. " But isn't that just it? Not fancying someone? | |||
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"Of course... Not all men will stick their dick in anything/anyone. Lu ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Can someone definitely define this for me, can't work it out. You know when women won’t have sex with you but laugh at your jokes, well it’s like that but the other way round. Wait women have sex with you and won't laugh at your jokes?!? " That confused me too! | |||
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"Of course... Not all men will stick their dick in anything/anyone. Lu ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That's not really a lovely way to talk about your friends | |||
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"Yup we sure can. The pretty but not 10s get it a lot. Or those with great personalities. I'm far from a 10 and get it often. Good to fuck but not to date ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You seem to manage not to be seen in public with me ![]() | |||
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"Of course... Not all men will stick their dick in anything/anyone. Lu ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() My apologise if that came across mean or rude ![]() | |||
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"Can someone definitely define this for me, can't work it out. You know when women won’t have sex with you but laugh at your jokes, well it’s like that but the other way round. Yeah, that happens aaaaall of the time with me. ![]() ![]() I feel bad. I've not actually been friend zoned before but thank you nice people of my inbox. It's just my poor sense of humour. ![]() | |||
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"I mean they can, I guess, but the whole concept of being 'friend zoned' is really negative and best avoided, IMO. Someone not being into you is not them putting you in a zone, or in fact doing anything at all to you. " That sounds dangerously close to logic and reason. | |||
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"Yup we sure can. The pretty but not 10s get it a lot. Or those with great personalities. I'm far from a 10 and get it often. Good to fuck but not to date ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() We took you to Tesco! ![]() | |||
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"I mean they can, I guess, but the whole concept of being 'friend zoned' is really negative and best avoided, IMO. Someone not being into you is not them putting you in a zone, or in fact doing anything at all to you. " I've always took friend zoning to mean consciously deciding not to sleep with someone regardless of whether you find them attractive, as they're more important to you as a friend. Still shit if they don't want to be in that zone, but a wee bit more positive! | |||
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"Or would this never happen cause men will always " I think it’s difficult. | |||
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"I always find this a really intriguing topic of conversation. If such a thing exists, and I’m not sure it does, what actually is the friend zone in your opinion?" Friend zone implies that one party is consciously spurning the advances of the other whether it is sexual or romantic in favour of a purely platonic relationship. That? | |||
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"Yes. I have a close friend that likes me more than I like her sexually. She did take that as a insult to begin with but now our friendship is worth more than just sex. I'm just not sexually attracted to her.She's not bad looking.Quite the opposite but she's just not for me that way. I guess if I had of acted on her advances then maybe we wouldn't have the friendship we have now as I would of felt like I just used her for a random fuck and she's worth more than that." It's good to know that you see women from Fab as worthless meaningless fucks. Your friend is so lucky | |||
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"Or would this never happen cause men will always " It has been known to happen. | |||
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"Yes. I have a close friend that likes me more than I like her sexually. She did take that as a insult to begin with but now our friendship is worth more than just sex. I'm just not sexually attracted to her.She's not bad looking.Quite the opposite but she's just not for me that way. I guess if I had of acted on her advances then maybe we wouldn't have the friendship we have now as I would of felt like I just used her for a random fuck and she's worth more than that. It's good to know that you see women from Fab as worthless meaningless fucks. Your friend is so lucky " It's good to know you jump to conclusions. The women I have had sex with from fab I'm still in touch with and class as friends. I'm not sexualy attracted to the person I was talking about so it would of been just a one off and I know that would of hurt her more than the truth.So don't pour scorn on someone you know nothing about as some actually use this for more than just a random one off. | |||
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"Yes. I have a close friend that likes me more than I like her sexually. She did take that as a insult to begin with but now our friendship is worth more than just sex. I'm just not sexually attracted to her.She's not bad looking.Quite the opposite but she's just not for me that way. I guess if I had of acted on her advances then maybe we wouldn't have the friendship we have now as I would of felt like I just used her for a random fuck and she's worth more than that. It's good to know that you see women from Fab as worthless meaningless fucks. Your friend is so lucky It's good to know you jump to conclusions. The women I have had sex with from fab I'm still in touch with and class as friends. I'm not sexualy attracted to the person I was talking about so it would of been just a one off and I know that would of hurt her more than the truth.So don't pour scorn on someone you know nothing about as some actually use this for more than just a random one off." I can tell from your attitude that you are one of the many men on Fab that think the women on here are worthless. Just by your tone of phrase. I'm not bothered if you think I'm jumping to conclusions to be honest and neither should you be. | |||
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"Yes they can i have several female friends that i have no sexual attraction to but think the world of. " But have any of them shown a sexual interest in you that you have rebuffed? | |||
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"Or would this never happen cause men will always " Definitely. Anyone can be and this man won't always, as you put it. We're not dogs. | |||
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