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By *leemasseur OP   Man
over a year ago

scarborough

why is it someone wants to meet but wont share a face pic? but willing to meet..

is it because

a. they have a face for radio

b. do they meet with a pillownslip over the head to keep animosity

the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy so surely a exchange is a better thing and to avoid dissapointment when a hook up happens and ya find ya not attracted to em

baffles me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"why is it someone wants to meet but wont share a face pic? but willing to meet..

is it because

a. they have a face for radio

b. do they meet with a pillownslip over the head to keep animosity

the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy so surely a exchange is a better thing and to avoid dissapointment when a hook up happens and ya find ya not attracted to em

baffles me"

I have never sent a pic to anyone.

I webcam.

Yes I know it's not 100 per cent secure but it's better than leaving my pic with a total stranger

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy "

I hold a very different opinion to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet someone without seeing their face! Would you op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy

I hold a very different opinion to that "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows?

I'd never meet someone without knowing what they look like.

If they don't look like their pics, I'd leave.

Honesty counts for a lot in my book.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be an ecumenical matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never sent my photo out as I prefer to do smoke signals in the evening sky, that way they can’t screenshot my mug through a telescope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it someone wants to meet but wont share a face pic? but willing to meet..

is it because

a. they have a face for radio

b. do they meet with a pillownslip over the head to keep animosity

the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy so surely a exchange is a better thing and to avoid dissapointment when a hook up happens and ya find ya not attracted to em

baffles me

I have never sent a pic to anyone.

I webcam.

Yes I know it's not 100 per cent secure but it's better than leaving my pic with a total stranger"

But if you tick the automatic deleted box on the pics doesn't it work?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Had someone once of pof would not show me his face but kept asking to meet few years back I said no way he kept asking said we could meet such and such place and if I didnt like then walk away! I would never meet without first seeing a face pic x

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I wouldn’t meet or engage in conversation ( this doesn’t apply to chats springing from forum’s posts ) with someone whose face I’m not attracted to

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Chances are they’re not really planning to meet you, just a fantasist.

We would definitely exchange face pics before agreeing to meet but they would be ‘clean’ pics, we would not send anything incriminating if they were to get into the wrong hands.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy

I hold a very different opinion to that "
. Definitely agree

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By *leemasseur OP   Man
over a year ago

scarborough


"I wouldn’t meet someone without seeing their face! Would you op?"

I have on the very rare occasion mostly turned out to be complelty why i always go for face option

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because they arent who they say they are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with

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By *leemasseur OP   Man
over a year ago

scarborough

only if your a site supporter i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a couple a while ago and they were pushing for a meet

I asked for a face pic (sent mine attached to the message).

I was told that they don't give out face pic's. I said no to the meeting without seeing them first. They didn't talk to me after that

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By *leemasseur OP   Man
over a year ago

scarborough


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with "

i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would send a face picture of myself but not on this site

I would have to have to be talking through what’s app or something else I trust a little more

It’s a trust thing for some

Some definitely have a face for radio but I feel like you can tell who

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

A photo, once sent, it is no longer your property. You can tick whichever box you want but the other person can take a photo with another phone, the pic can be leaked, anything can happen. Some people on Fab have the kind of job where they cannot risk it, especially as sexual women are not allowed to engage in casual sex without people passing judgement. It can ruin a reputation at work or a whole career, easily.

Meeting someone is not a contract to fuck! If you don't like their face in person, you don't have to have sex with them! And with today's society I wouldn't be too suprised if some photos aren't 100% accurate in all cases

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"why is it someone wants to meet but wont share a face pic? but willing to meet..

is it because

a. they have a face for radio

b. do they meet with a pillownslip over the head to keep animosity

the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy so surely a exchange is a better thing and to avoid dissapointment when a hook up happens and ya find ya not attracted to em

baffles me

I have never sent a pic to anyone.

I webcam.

Yes I know it's not 100 per cent secure but it's better than leaving my pic with a total stranger

But if you tick the automatic deleted box on the pics doesn't it work?"

Eh ...... stop that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with "

Agree with that, always women too!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I wouldn’t meet or engage in conversation ( this doesn’t apply to chats springing from forum’s posts ) with someone whose face I’m not attracted to "

I have

Would

do.........

I'm having a good old chat. I'd never meet for sex though with seeing them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who on earth would meet up with someone without seeing what they actually look like?! Bizarre.

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By *leemasseur OP   Man
over a year ago

scarborough


"A photo, once sent, it is no longer your property. You can tick whichever box you want but the other person can take a photo with another phone, the pic can be leaked, anything can happen. Some people on Fab have the kind of job where they cannot risk it, especially as sexual women are not allowed to engage in casual sex without people passing judgement. It can ruin a reputation at work or a whole career, easily.

Meeting someone is not a contract to fuck! If you don't like their face in person, you don't have to have sex with them! And with today's society I wouldn't be too suprised if some photos aren't 100% accurate in all cases "

well said.when its put like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not blind date!

Urgh

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I only tend to send face pics to those I plan to meet. Once we establish we are interested in the same things from here.

Wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't provide a face pic, even though I always do a social first.

Many men send a face pic and demand one back veey early in a convo. Thats a no from me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think if your requirements don't match you're not compatible. So if you want a face picture but they aren't happy to send one you aren't fulfilling a basic requirement for each other and have luckily found out very early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with

Agree with that, always women too! "

Whoever said that fucking bravo I wish there was a clap emoji you king

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with "

Why even give them enough thought to trouble you?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with

Agree with that, always women too! "

Or are they

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"This is not blind date!

Urgh "

So Mary ....... you chose number 3.

The unemployed , one legged onion farmer from ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with

Agree with that, always women too!

Or are they "

Hahaha!!!

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Tbh I can't see the problem with sending a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with

Agree with that, always women too!

Or are they

Hahaha!!!"

I don't have this issue, I have a filter active so only people with public pictures can message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with

Agree with that, always women too!

Or are they "

I'm not a women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with

Agree with that, always women too!

Or are they

I'm not a women "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be an ecumenical matter "

Feck! Drink! Girls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy

I hold a very different opinion to that

Me too"

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be an ecumenical matter

Feck! Drink! Girls!"

Careful now!

Down with this sort of thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is no ''safe way to send a pic or cam both can be copied cams are so easy to record yet people think they are safe ... if you want to meet people then you have to send a face pic i only send one when im totally sure i want to ..my rule is if you message me first you send the pic first if i message you then ill send first...

i would never meet anyone blind ... best way to send a face pic is to send just a face pic no naked body attached that way its just a face pic and what can they do with that ... nothing its just a boring face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is no ''safe way to send a pic or cam both can be copied cams are so easy to record yet people think they are safe ... if you want to meet people then you have to send a face pic i only send one when im totally sure i want to ..my rule is if you message me first you send the pic first if i message you then ill send first...

i would never meet anyone blind ... best way to send a face pic is to send just a face pic no naked body attached that way its just a face pic and what can they do with that ... nothing its just a boring face pic"

Exactly and I bet most of us have a FB profile with our face on. So it's online to be copied anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only tend to send face pics to those I plan to meet. Once we establish we are interested in the same things from here.

Wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't provide a face pic, even though I always do a social first.

Many men send a face pic and demand one back veey early in a convo. Thats a no from me"

I’m exactly the same as this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is no ''safe way to send a pic or cam both can be copied cams are so easy to record yet people think they are safe ... if you want to meet people then you have to send a face pic i only send one when im totally sure i want to ..my rule is if you message me first you send the pic first if i message you then ill send first...

i would never meet anyone blind ... best way to send a face pic is to send just a face pic no naked body attached that way its just a face pic and what can they do with that ... nothing its just a boring face pic"

x

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Anybody can provide a face pic. Might not be the face pic of the person your meeting though.

I would probably want a 'proof pic' by return. If I was to get to the point that it looked like we were likely to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww a pillowslip sounds so much nicer than a pillow case.

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