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By *ountrylad19 OP   Man
over a year ago

travel all over with work x

Right so winks, they’re a weird one! I wink to show someone I’m interested and to message or wink back and I’ll message them! How does everyone else use them? X

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I treat them as if they were likes.

I wink, If they wink back then I message and the same in reverse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless we're taking part in a forum game, we ignore winks...

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t use them at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just mass delete them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I use them if someone says they don't like winks because my maturity levels are clearly high and surprisingly they quite often reply with a wink.

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By *ountrylad19 OP   Man
over a year ago

travel all over with work x

I feel like they’re underrated! I always send winks on profiles I like the look of instead of a message but feel it gets overlooked

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

It's very satisfying to receive a nice wink...

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Some see them as lazy but I’ve had a few good experiences all started by a cheeky wink some don’t respond but some do I see it as they have seen something that they like

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By *lla_eastWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don’t use them at all "

Likewise

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

yes I only wink to show interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

I use them similar to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take a wink as an invitation to message if I receive one usually.

Occasionally I'll send one if I'm not too sure if I fit the criteria, although usually I just wade in and send a message. If it's ignored, no harm no foul

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By *ountrylad19 OP   Man
over a year ago

travel all over with work x


"I'll take a wink as an invitation to message if I receive one usually.

Occasionally I'll send one if I'm not too sure if I fit the criteria, although usually I just wade in and send a message. If it's ignored, no harm no foul "

Just like myself!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I ignore winks tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally ignore them as well.

In my experience, if someone winks me and I message them off the back of it, they never respond.

Winks are pretty pointless really.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I always look at who has winked me and if I like their profile I will wink or message back, I sometimes wink first see if anything comes of it sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't, I've had some great experiences that have started with a simple wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I treat them as if they were likes.

I wink, If they wink back then I message and the same in reverse "

We’re the same , works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of the blue friend adds are just as pointless.

I get loads of friend adds, almost always from couples - they never speak to you though. Again, pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I treat them as if they were likes.

I wink, If they wink back then I message and the same in reverse

We’re the same , works for us "

That’s how I use them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of winkers about.

That's for sure!

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

We'll look but the response won't always give the sender any clearer idea if we're interested if they didn't read our profile first.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'll wink if there's no mention of winks will be ignored on their profile,but I doubt they get noticed because women must receive so many.

Not as an alternative to a nice message but you never know who might actually be going through all their winks

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I like them and use them too. I suspect that some women get thousands though.

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I use winks to gauge whether to message someone if I get a responding wink I do

Or if it’s a part of a forum game/fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll wink if there's no mention of winks will be ignored on their profile,but I doubt they get noticed because women must receive so many.

Not as an alternative to a nice message but you never know who might actually be going through all their winks

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All their winks...for the first year on here I assumed my wink shower thing was broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For guys I guess being winked at is like getting a message off a woman (pretty much non-existent!). If a woman winks (rarely happens) and I like the look of her profile I then message her. I've had a couple of winks off women/couples though which I've responded to and then heard nothing back. Bit strange if you ask me why they'd bother if they don't want to chat.

For women they're probably inconsequential because they get that many messages they can pick and choose who they converse with. A wink probably just looks like the guy is too lazy to send a message. But if you're a guy who is fed up of having messages ignored/deleted without them being read you can probably see why guys might take the less painful ignore option of a quick wink.

I think that makes sense.

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