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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This year has been tough in many ways for me and im sure most of you have had moments of uncertainties.

Today, im reflecting on the past 12mths, the good, the bad and the very bad moments.

I reached out to someone I thought had my back 100% but I was so wrong and I was totally ignored. That hurt. I've healing myself.

Wobbling a bit today but I can see how much stronger I am than this time last year.

If anyone is struggling today or in the future, please reach out. Dont suffer in silent.

Thanks for reading

Xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"This year has been tough in many ways for me and im sure most of you have had moments of uncertainties.

Today, im reflecting on the past 12mths, the good, the bad and the very bad moments.

I reached out to someone I thought had my back 100% but I was so wrong and I was totally ignored. That hurt. I've healing myself.

Wobbling a bit today but I can see how much stronger I am than this time last year.

If anyone is struggling today or in the future, please reach out. Dont suffer in silent.

Thanks for reading

Xx

"

Hello beautiful. This is a very sad read and I know exactly how that feels. It made me bitter and not want to ask for help again. But that's wrong. Not everyone will respond the same way. Be gentle to yourself and don't lose Hope.

Here's to a Happy healthy 2021!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This year has been tough in many ways for me and im sure most of you have had moments of uncertainties.

Today, im reflecting on the past 12mths, the good, the bad and the very bad moments.

I reached out to someone I thought had my back 100% but I was so wrong and I was totally ignored. That hurt. I've healing myself.

Wobbling a bit today but I can see how much stronger I am than this time last year.

If anyone is struggling today or in the future, please reach out. Dont suffer in silent.

Thanks for reading

Xx

Hello beautiful. This is a very sad read and I know exactly how that feels. It made me bitter and not want to ask for help again. But that's wrong. Not everyone will respond the same way. Be gentle to yourself and don't lose Hope.

Here's to a Happy healthy 2021!

Jo.Xx "

Thanks Jo.

It has made me be more reliant on myself and no one else. It will probably be the last time for me to open up to a person.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly has been a difficult year and I for one have taken quite a few knocks and I too am having a wobble today.

The hardest bit is knowing that 2021 is still going to be tough but hey what can we do.

I’m just gonna grit my teeth put a smile on my face and won’t let the fuckers grind me down. 2021 will be a year where I will take no shit and give no fucks (not literally of course, there is still hope )

I have a lot to be thankful for, my kids, my family, my friends and my health and that is what gets me through & gives me hope.

Love to everyone struggling. Chin up it will all come good in the end!

But as I reflect I still have a lot to be thankful for

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

This makes me sad ... don't rule anything out based on others ... there are more good people in the world than bad ... hopefully you will meet some of them next year.

I wish the best for you in 2021

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

Wishing both you ladies the best for 2021. It's going to be another tough year i feel.

Hugs to you op, Hope you find better someone you can trust, we are not all bad people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

It has made me be more reliant on myself and no one else. It will probably be the last time for me to open up to a person.

Xxx"

Feel the positives- you're looking after yourself. You are your own best friend.

I had the same this year. In the time that I was at my absolute lowest- and they knew this- people I thought were my friends, weren't. I haven't trusted anyone since and won't again.

I got me and you got you OP. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

It has made me be more reliant on myself and no one else. It will probably be the last time for me to open up to a person.

Xxx

Feel the positives- you're looking after yourself. You are your own best friend.

I had the same this year. In the time that I was at my absolute lowest- and they knew this- people I thought were my friends, weren't. I haven't trusted anyone since and won't again.

I got me and you got you OP. Xx"

Sending hugs to you both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...

It has made me be more reliant on myself and no one else. It will probably be the last time for me to open up to a person.

Xxx

Feel the positives- you're looking after yourself. You are your own best friend.

I had the same this year. In the time that I was at my absolute lowest- and they knew this- people I thought were my friends, weren't. I haven't trusted anyone since and won't again.

I got me and you got you OP. Xx"

Thank you.

I'm here if you ever need me.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This year has been tough in many ways for me and im sure most of you have had moments of uncertainties.

Today, im reflecting on the past 12mths, the good, the bad and the very bad moments.

I reached out to someone I thought had my back 100% but I was so wrong and I was totally ignored. That hurt. I've healing myself.

Wobbling a bit today but I can see how much stronger I am than this time last year.

If anyone is struggling today or in the future, please reach out. Dont suffer in silent.

Thanks for reading

Xx

Hello beautiful. This is a very sad read and I know exactly how that feels. It made me bitter and not want to ask for help again. But that's wrong. Not everyone will respond the same way. Be gentle to yourself and don't lose Hope.

Here's to a Happy healthy 2021!

Jo.Xx "

Afternoon OP, Jo's words are. spot on but I can relate to how you're feeling. This year has taught me a lot about myself and who I trust. Even when we get burned we can't resist touching the fire, it's human nature. It hurts though. There genuinely are some diamonds in this world equally there are some awful people. I hope the new year reveals your diamond.

Here's to 2021 being a year of shiny stones, learning to love ourselves and happiness xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This year has been tough in many ways for me and im sure most of you have had moments of uncertainties.

Today, im reflecting on the past 12mths, the good, the bad and the very bad moments.

I reached out to someone I thought had my back 100% but I was so wrong and I was totally ignored. That hurt. I've healing myself.

Wobbling a bit today but I can see how much stronger I am than this time last year.

If anyone is struggling today or in the future, please reach out. Dont suffer in silent.

Thanks for reading

Xx

Hello beautiful. This is a very sad read and I know exactly how that feels. It made me bitter and not want to ask for help again. But that's wrong. Not everyone will respond the same way. Be gentle to yourself and don't lose Hope.

Here's to a Happy healthy 2021!

Jo.Xx

Afternoon OP, Jo's words are. spot on but I can relate to how you're feeling. This year has taught me a lot about myself and who I trust. Even when we get burned we can't resist touching the fire, it's human nature. It hurts though. There genuinely are some diamonds in this world equally there are some awful people. I hope the new year reveals your diamond.

Here's to 2021 being a year of shiny stones, learning to love ourselves and happiness xx "

For sure there are diamonds but it takes a bit of mining to dig them out. I’m blessed that I know a few I also think your New Year wish is a lovely one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This year has been tough in many ways for me and im sure most of you have had moments of uncertainties.

Today, im reflecting on the past 12mths, the good, the bad and the very bad moments.

I reached out to someone I thought had my back 100% but I was so wrong and I was totally ignored. That hurt. I've healing myself.

Wobbling a bit today but I can see how much stronger I am than this time last year.

If anyone is struggling today or in the future, please reach out. Dont suffer in silent.

Thanks for reading

Xx

Hello beautiful. This is a very sad read and I know exactly how that feels. It made me bitter and not want to ask for help again. But that's wrong. Not everyone will respond the same way. Be gentle to yourself and don't lose Hope.

Here's to a Happy healthy 2021!

Jo.Xx

Afternoon OP, Jo's words are. spot on but I can relate to how you're feeling. This year has taught me a lot about myself and who I trust. Even when we get burned we can't resist touching the fire, it's human nature. It hurts though. There genuinely are some diamonds in this world equally there are some awful people. I hope the new year reveals your diamond.

Here's to 2021 being a year of shiny stones, learning to love ourselves and happiness xx

For sure there are diamonds but it takes a bit of mining to dig them out. I’m blessed that I know a few I also think your New Year wish is a lovely one "

Aww thank you Doc It does indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This year has been tough in many ways for me and im sure most of you have had moments of uncertainties.

Today, im reflecting on the past 12mths, the good, the bad and the very bad moments.

I reached out to someone I thought had my back 100% but I was so wrong and I was totally ignored. That hurt. I've healing myself.

Wobbling a bit today but I can see how much stronger I am than this time last year.

If anyone is struggling today or in the future, please reach out. Dont suffer in silent.

Thanks for reading

Xx

Hello beautiful. This is a very sad read and I know exactly how that feels. It made me bitter and not want to ask for help again. But that's wrong. Not everyone will respond the same way. Be gentle to yourself and don't lose Hope.

Here's to a Happy healthy 2021!

Jo.Xx

Afternoon OP, Jo's words are. spot on but I can relate to how you're feeling. This year has taught me a lot about myself and who I trust. Even when we get burned we can't resist touching the fire, it's human nature. It hurts though. There genuinely are some diamonds in this world equally there are some awful people. I hope the new year reveals your diamond.

Here's to 2021 being a year of shiny stones, learning to love ourselves and happiness xx "

Thank hun.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

It has made me be more reliant on myself and no one else. It will probably be the last time for me to open up to a person.

Xxx

Feel the positives- you're looking after yourself. You are your own best friend.

I had the same this year. In the time that I was at my absolute lowest- and they knew this- people I thought were my friends, weren't. I haven't trusted anyone since and won't again.

I got me and you got you OP. Xx

Sending hugs to you both "

Hugs to you and OP and anyone else who needs one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope 2021 is full of positives and brings much needed delight and pleasure to everyone, especially you!

And as for having a wobble...there are plenty of us who are partial to wobbly bits!

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