FabSwingers.com forum: Dealing with no sex due to lockdown

By *sm2020 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Women how have you dealt with no meets or regular sex during lockdown?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I ignore the urge it goes away.

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By *sm2020 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

"When I ignore the urge it goes away."

Find it hard to ignore?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Women how have you dealt with no meets or regular sex during lockdown?"

I have a wand.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

The subtle approach

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"When I ignore the urge it goes away.

Find it hard to ignore? "

Rarely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady wanks

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Easily got better things to worry about than lack of sex

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Easily got better things to worry about than lack of sex"

God, so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 'dealing' with it, because unlike alot of sad, selfish men on here I can restrain myself like an adult

I have a moral responsibility to my fellow humans

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By *sm2020 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

"Im 'dealing' with it, because unlike alot of sad, selfish men on here I can restrain myself like an adult

I have a moral responsibility to my fellow humans"
love this

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By *sm2020 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Toys, abstinence, some fun chats to tick me over.

Its been a roller coaster since March really.

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By *sm2020 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

"Toys, abstinence, some fun chats to tick me over.

Its been a roller coaster since March really."

Absolutely

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's been hard but I've learnt to turn that energy to other tings work money building for the future got a massive house refurb 150 k luvin life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !

How absolutely awful for you

It must be truly dreadful to be bored

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By *sm2020 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !

How absolutely awful for you

It must be truly dreadful to be bored"

Haha god yes

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !

Find other things to do, thinking constantly about what you can't have rather than what you can will only lead to mental stress and sadness.

Find things to do that make you happy

Good luck

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Sex is important to me but it's a nice feeling that when things calm down it will be flowing trust me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !

Find other things to do, thinking constantly about what you can't have rather than what you can will only lead to mental stress and sadness.

Find things to do that make you happy

Good luck"

If this had happened 15-20 years ago we would have been in a much worse position. There's so much content, things we can do and learn, connect with others.

In some ways we're lucky. It's much easier to distract ourselves.

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By *sm2020 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !

Find other things to do, thinking constantly about what you can't have rather than what you can will only lead to mental stress and sadness.

Find things to do that make you happy

So true

Good luck

If this had happened 15-20 years ago we would have been in a much worse position. There's so much content, things we can do and learn, connect with others.

In some ways we're lucky. It's much easier to distract ourselves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !

Find other things to do, thinking constantly about what you can't have rather than what you can will only lead to mental stress and sadness.

Find things to do that make you happy

Good luck

If this had happened 15-20 years ago we would have been in a much worse position. There's so much content, things we can do and learn, connect with others.

In some ways we're lucky. It's much easier to distract ourselves."

Indeed

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By *ussieboyMan
over a year ago

harrow

So many things you can do to get through not having sex. Webcam is good, toys I recently bought a latex vagina and it’s better than a wank.

I think it’s not so much the pleasure but the excitement that’s hard to go without. Not having any luck on here either??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have toys and wands hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend a fair bit of time here and generally trying to distract myself.

Not going to lie and say that it’s been easy but for everything that others have had to forgo to keep their communities safe, this is a minor one in comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God why has everything gotta get so political haha

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"Women how have you dealt with no meets or regular sex during lockdown?

I have a wand. "

Oh a potter fan

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

Don’t know about my wife but I’m really struggling and we haven’t had sex for over 14 months now it’s seems the norm for us where we go a whole year o more without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God why has everything gotta get so political haha"

How is a thread about sex toys political?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God why has everything gotta get so political haha

How is a thread about sex toys political?"

When people yet again bring up how selfish everyone is even when they have mentioned meeting...dragging covid into it just to have a dig

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont care if i never have sex again i just want to hold hold and cuddle my partner and smell him

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

My wand has become my best friend

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

It's just sex. Jeez.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God why has everything gotta get so political haha"

Interesting comment. Due to your comment, I was curious and read through the thread, which I would suggest you ought to do before posting random comments.

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By *osebud6688Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

By utilising a treasure chest of toys but I’m starting to get a bit fed up now.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I went about 3 years without sex at the end of my marriage, so in comparison this has been pretty easy.

I just focused my energy into something productive, and occasionally had a wank.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Alcohol is your friend in times like these. On a serious note though, there have been periods where I've gone up to 48 hours without speaking a word to anyone. That's a weird realisation I've just had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy op you wait this is going to go on for a long time no clubs will be open for a long time which is a shame

But I've saved a fortune and got a life so it's easy having a break for a while and no stress so win win for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women how have you dealt with no meets or regular sex during lockdown?"

Wanking

Like most I guess

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God why has everything gotta get so political haha

How is a thread about sex toys political?

When people yet again bring up how selfish everyone is even when they have mentioned meeting...dragging covid into it just to have a dig

I dont see how that is 'political'

Its a fact

There are quite a few selfish people out there

Many on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that....

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

My wand well second one, first just stopped working for some reason

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that.... "

Same, was married & for the last four years no intimacy at all, going without sex was bearable, can orgasm by myself but actual human intimacy is hard to go without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that.... "

Totally this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that....

Same, was married & for the last four years no intimacy at all, going without sex was bearable, can orgasm by myself but actual human intimacy is hard to go without."

It was 3 years for me, by the end of my last significant relationship. One can get used to doing without sex, but the kissing/touching and general close physical contact and intimacy is the thing that I really struggled doing without - just as I am now. My last LTR really helped me develop a focus on what’s really important, in pursuit of amazing connections - that is: intimate/sensual always wins.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Im 'dealing' with it, because unlike alot of sad, selfish men on here I can restrain myself like an adult

I have a moral responsibility to my fellow humans"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can handle not having sex.

I miss the intimacy of being with someone, the hugs, kisses, laughter and chat etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that....

Same, was married & for the last four years no intimacy at all, going without sex was bearable, can orgasm by myself but actual human intimacy is hard to go without."

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that....

Same, was married & for the last four years no intimacy at all, going without sex was bearable, can orgasm by myself but actual human intimacy is hard to go without.

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.

Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.

What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.

Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.

What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs. "

Schools are essential. Pubs aren’t. Case Closed.

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.

Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.

What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs.

Schools are essential. Pubs aren’t. Case Closed. "

An 800 pupil high school with over 100 staff, multiple visitors is the perfect breeding ground for the new virus, which seems to enjoy the younger population.

If as a society we can take that level of risk the open the fucking pubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.

Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.

What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs.

Schools are essential. Pubs aren’t. Case Closed.

An 800 pupil high school with over 100 staff, multiple visitors is the perfect breeding ground for the new virus, which seems to enjoy the younger population.

If as a society we can take that level of risk the open the fucking pubs. "

So let me get this straight: you think it’s ok to put your need to have a sociable alcoholic drink ahead of people’s need to be as safe as possible? That your need to have a drink is as great as a child’s need to have an education?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.

Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.

What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs.

Schools are essential. Pubs aren’t. Case Closed.

An 800 pupil high school with over 100 staff, multiple visitors is the perfect breeding ground for the new virus, which seems to enjoy the younger population.

If as a society we can take that level of risk the open the fucking pubs. "

Hospitals are really high risk too. Lots of vulnerable people, lots of germs, lots of contacts. Let's close them, because obviously we're only considering risk, not benefit.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I invest my energy into other fulfilling endeavours.

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