FabSwingers.com forum: Top 10 rejections

By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

How do you respond to an invite

Block, delete

Polite response

No profile recognition

Instant dic pic turn off

No profile picture

What's been your reason

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

God give me strength I delete

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Reason is they have no pics yet want to see mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like the dilemma tbh

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No pic

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It entirely depends on the invitation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know really, lucky if I get a message

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Sorry you've got balls not boobies although I had to change that to beaver as he did actually have man boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually just delete. Sometimes, if they have sent a nice polite message, I will send a a polite ‘no thanks’ message which is usually appreciated. If they have sent a FAF message and I reply then it usually results in abuse so it’s easier not to bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me a message so I can see what it feels like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pic no response

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

“ Decent first messages please”

Then can barely manage a misspelt grunt in theirs.

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By *riveroneMan
over a year ago

Hyde

Difficult one as a reply can give some people a green light to pester even if the reply is negative though some people are outright offensive with rejections as well I have always taken a polite sorry no thanks reply well and said 'OK no worries I'm going to block you now so I don't end up messaging again, good luck' however I did that once and ended up having a great chat with her which developed in to more as I wasn't being an arse

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My messages have dried up recently, especially since I added a new comment to my profile text.

But 9/10 messages are answered unless they come from a profile that has absolutely no effort with it, to me it indicates someone who’s not serious on this site.

Asking to meet just gets a ‘no’ if they then persist a block

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"My messages have dried up recently, especially since I added a new comment to my profile text.

But 9/10 messages are answered unless they come from a profile that has absolutely no effort with it, to me it indicates someone who’s not serious on this site.

Asking to meet just gets a ‘no’ if they then persist a block

You dont need me to say it but your profile text is very polite and interesting..if they don't understand it they have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the invite. If they’ve taken the time to send a decent message we will always reply politely and explain why it’s a no.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"My messages have dried up recently, especially since I added a new comment to my profile text.

But 9/10 messages are answered unless they come from a profile that has absolutely no effort with it, to me it indicates someone who’s not serious on this site.

Asking to meet just gets a ‘no’ if they then persist a block

You dont need me to say it but your profile text is very polite and interesting..if they don't understand it they have a problem "

Appreciate that, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always take the time to say No Thanks.

A second msg is a Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all first messages, even now. Depends on what they say as to how I respond.

I usually ask if they've read my profile and what I'm looking for. I already know the answer but some people make me laugh when they reply and we both smile so it's worth it.

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