FabSwingers.com forum: Married guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Opinions on being married on here without the other halves knowledge, I don’t need a tirade of abuse, but just wondering if any females or anyone for that matter can relate. After all we all have our reasons for being on here. Don’t we lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most will hate you.

Just get on with it in your own way and let the others do their thing. It's best not to ask for this sort of opinion on the forums

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I am clear on my profile that i don't do married men it is both an ethical thing in that i don't intentionally hurt people but also self preservation as i do not need to get involved with that kind of drama.

Some may not care but I'm guessing your pool will be small.

HTH

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My advice would be put it on your profile and dont harp on about it. Thiae that will meet married guys then know and those that dont can pass you by. Starting threads on it never goes well

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

None of my business

But 5 married men contacted me this week etc I declined.

You got married for a reason now honour that yeah and I know it's not that cut and dry but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey we don’t judge and all have reasons too but yes be honest upfront from off, put in profile too.

I made found some married are nicer but everyone is nicer when trying there best ha

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

What boudoir-belle said. (Lmao at her profile referencing cars and tyre kicking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually prefer married men

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

No if you're dishonest to your other half you are definitely going to be lie To everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is plenty of married women on this site and they don’t get judged as harshly as married men. How hypocritical..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a general Fab rule, okay for women not for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and no my wife doesn’t know I’m on here. I love her, and want to stay married however she went off any sort of sex around 5 years ago. A fwb situation I feel is fine as long as both parties are fully aware.

Personally I don’t think anyone should judge on here. It’s simple, do what pleases both parties, if it’s not for you, pass on by, no need for nastiness x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No if you're dishonest to your other half you are definitely going to be lie To everyone else"

Really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is plenty of married women on this site and they don’t get judged as harshly as married men. How hypocritical.."

fab law..

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"What boudoir-belle said. (Lmao at her profile referencing cars and tyre kicking.

That made me laugh too

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

I wouldn't like it personally (on our profile) appreciate the honesty though, would be helpful if this was on your profile. X

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Opinions on being married on here without the other halves knowledge, I don’t need a tirade of abuse, but just wondering if any females or anyone for that matter can relate. After all we all have our reasons for being on here. Don’t we lol? "

Be honest! State it on your profile. Take any ‘no’ replies on the chin and move on. Don’t take your home life into fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest! State it on your profile. Take any ‘no’ replies on the chin and move on. Don’t take your home life into fab life"

Well said. Clearly state on profile so everyone knows where they stand

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I feel that married men are just here for the sex whereas i want to enjoy clubs, parties and large socials with my fab friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am married and no my wife doesn’t know I’m on here. I love her, and want to stay married however she went off any sort of sex around 5 years ago. A fwb situation I feel is fine as long as both parties are fully aware.

Personally I don’t think anyone should judge on here. It’s simple, do what pleases both parties, if it’s not for you, pass on by, no need for nastiness x"

I agree. But i think it should be on the profile of the married person so those who do not want to meet married know and can pass them by. There are plenty of married women playing away on here and agree the men get it harder off the ladies. You never see women having a go at another married woman on here playing away thats for sure. Just be honest from the start and keep it on your profile. Plenty of married women also playing away will meet you i expect. John.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel that married men are just here for the sex whereas i want to enjoy clubs, parties and large socials with my fab friends. "

And that’s absolutely fine, each unto their own .

Have fun

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

I am married , we have been together over 30 happy years and this adds to it. Mrs knows alway when I meet and we then enjoy one another all the more

We will meet together socially at times and are very open

I can understand people not wanting to meet married guys who wives don’t know but if all up front is it not better than a possible cheating guy ?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I feel that married men are just here for the sex whereas i want to enjoy clubs, parties and large socials with my fab friends.

And that’s absolutely fine, each unto their own .

Have fun

I do

I have nothing against married men being on here i just feel that i would feel on edge meeting one in case we were spotted by someone he knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel that married men are just here for the sex whereas i want to enjoy clubs, parties and large socials with my fab friends.

And that’s absolutely fine, each unto their own .

Have fun

I do

I have nothing against married men being on here i just feel that i would feel on edge meeting one in case we were spotted by someone he knew. "

Yes I get that, I would never meet anyone within 10 miles of my home town.

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