FabSwingers.com forum: Time to give up?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on fabs for a while, and met no one! any way to get out there? is there something wrong with me lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the news on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant meet a pandemic

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"Cant meet a pandemic "

That pretty much answers you OP.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Been on fabs for a while, and met no one! any way to get out there? is there something wrong with me lol?

The 6 months that you’ve been a member have been scuppered by covid.

Some will still meet, but most won’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt there is anything one with you but you have only been on fab for 6 months.

You joined in the middle of a pandemic where we should not mix with others and when we do its socially distanced.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Been on for 6 months during a 6 month long pandemic and counting...

No id day you're right where you should be OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined during pandemic..still pandemic..the majority are not meeting.

But guess some will. This site takes time. It's not automatic shag site... it's a swingers site.

Good luck op..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet during a pandemic and I dont tend to talk to those who joined during either

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Go clubbing when they open

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah fair one guys ! you're right.

- Thanks for the feedback!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Putting aside the pandemic (which is the obvious reason for your lack of meets OP) and turning it around a little - what do *you* think might be the problem?

Everything is within your control to get the best possible experience from the site (regardless of the pandemic which may have changed things but doesn't stop you making connections) so what would *you* change about the way you approach the site to improve your experience of it?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"is there something wrong with me lol?

Clearly yes if you don't understand why people aren't meeting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Joined during pandemic..still pandemic..the majority are not meeting.

But guess some will. This site takes time. It's not automatic shag site... it's a swingers site.

Good luck op.. "

Yes, even without the pandemic, some people aren't successful for more than six months.

Things are a lot quieter than when there's not a pandemic going on, and a subset of us still using the site aren't meeting because of the risk and restrictions.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Joined during pandemic..still pandemic..the majority are not meeting.

But guess some will. This site takes time. It's not automatic shag site... it's a swingers site.

Good luck op.. "

This exactly. Did you come here expecting sex on tap OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Alright guys,

I never said sex on tap? not about that at all.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Alright guys,

I never said sex on tap? not about that at all. "

Ok, apologies if I've read your original post wrong. So what did you mean?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Been on fabs for a while, and met no one! any way to get out there? is there something wrong with me lol?

There is nothing wrong with you but have you considered variety of photos ? You have eight hairy cock pics, one of your pants and nothing else.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m given up with live let alone fab

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"Been on fabs for a while, and met no one! any way to get out there? is there something wrong with me lol?

6 months isn't a long time at all, especially if you take into account what everyone has gone through in 2020. Covid doesn't disappear when you have a Fab meet.

It took me well over a year before I got my first meet (on my previous profile)

Just remember that being on here doesn't guarantee shit. You will get a hell of a lot of knock backs and this site will definitely test your mental resolve.

Stick at it and just remember NOT to take it too personally otherwise you will end up going down a slippery slope.

Just be yourself. Keep searching, keep messaging and whatever happens happens but im telling you that not all guys have a good success rate on here. Most struggle just like you

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I’m given up with live let alone fab "

If you really feel that way, please talk to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m given up with live let alone fab

If you really feel that way, please talk to someone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a lot of people out there thinking because they are on a sex site girls we'll meet at the drop of a hat when clearly there is a pandemic going on a most people on here are sensible and sticking by the rules unfortunately some of people are not sticking by the rules

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think there is a lot of people out there thinking because they are on a sex site girls we'll meet at the drop of a hat"

This isn't a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a lifestyle, it's not all about getting laid. Perhaps if quick one night stands is what you're after then this might be the wrong place for you. Try having a bit of a laugh on the forums and making connections that way, and going to arranged socials and clubs when Covid eventually sods off!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There could be many, many reasons why you have not had the meets you are looking for OP, not least the global pandemic of a killer virus.

If you invest a little time into the site, got to know people through the forums and chatrooms, then you will perhaps get the meets you want at some point in the future. Sometimes you've got to play the long game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there is a lot of people out there thinking because they are on a sex site girls we'll meet at the drop of a hat when clearly there is a pandemic going on a most people on here are sensible and sticking by the rules unfortunately some of people are not sticking by the rules"

This is a swinging site saint Simon and to be fair the clue is in the name of the site!!!!!

Op use this down time to nurture some friendships to help in your hunt for cunt when things go back to semi normal.!!

Best of luck op.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It can take a good while to get to know people. When i first joined it was at least 35 minutes before i first had ladies knocking on my front door, and I'm goddamn gorgeous

Meanwhile, in the real universe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can take a good while to get to know people. When i first joined it was at least 35 minutes before i first had ladies knocking on my front door, and I'm goddamn gorgeous

Meanwhile, in the real universe..."

I know, right

Ive been here years and still no offers

Im starting to go all wrinkly

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"It can take a good while to get to know people. When i first joined it was at least 35 minutes before i first had ladies knocking on my front door, and I'm goddamn gorgeous

Meanwhile, in the real universe...

I know, right

Ive been here years and still no offers

Im starting to go all wrinkly"

Have you tried getting out of the bath?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The best thing for your satisfaction is to create realistic expectations for yourself. You won't be disappointed if you get it right.

Single new men here take months or a year or 2 to get established, in normal times. OPs post is recurrent every year.

But it's not a normal year. People are not meeting their friends here so strangers have no chance with them.

I don't know how you communicate with others and if people are put off by an assumption of meeting.

Few guessed we'd have this mess today. But we have it. Take a decision on how you will continue, take a break, change things etc. I couldn't even say I understood how you look, after checking. That's an essential thing for me to know about a potential partner. Consider if you have missed some basic things about what prospective partners expect. You're a single man amongst many, so those who work best at things will get better results, at the right times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Covid and not meeting aside...

Your profile does not stand out at all I’m afraid. A handful of pics of your cock, one line about being VWE, and about 3 or 4 lines (once you remove the Sydney Uni drivel).

Interaction takes a little effort in life. That goes for on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t expect anything in less than a year, even without the pandemic. This isn’t somewhere you can just rock up and get laid, unless you’ve got boobs.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

To be honest before the pandemic was hard enough ,Now no one is meeting of cause it's impossible.

After the pandemic it should get easier so just need a lot of patience

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By *ob longMan
over a year ago

Swansea

It's hard for single guys and now with covid no chance

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

When I feel this way about fab, I take a break for a few months.

It's a nice place, but can be devastating for self-esteem, at least for me. So I highly recommend a fab break if you feel like "giving up"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm sure u are fine just hang on in there make some friends maybe cam with peeps for now? Good luck x

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