FabSwingers.com forum: Not feeling great!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Feeling a bit pissed off today, all this just doesn’t seem to show any signs of ending!

Feel restricted and not able to do anything, I walk the dog to get out for an hour, but not much else.

Anyone around for a chat message me.

Thanks for listening

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm with ya dude, I'm just staying in bed atm dont want to do anything, it's not gonna be over for months maybe more and I'm a combination of sad, fucked off and fearful. I'm not much use but I'll chat to anyone .

There's people worse off than me I know

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am a bit like you. Walking dogs is the highlight of my day. Luckily i am still working but apart from that life is dismal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all pretty crap isn’t it? It’s so hard to look forward when the end seems a long way off x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"It’s all pretty crap isn’t it? It’s so hard to look forward when the end seems a long way off x"

And it is. Even with 1000's being vaccinated nothing will change for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all pretty crap isn’t it? It’s so hard to look forward when the end seems a long way off x

And it is. Even with 1000's being vaccinated nothing will change for a while."

And you can’t even book anything to look forward to not even a haircut let alone a holiday! X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's actually getting quite frightening isn't it.

As far as we're concerned it isn't too bad. We have each other and I only get on Mr N's nerves a bit

We were chatting today though, I said I feel as if months of my life are going past when we're at a stage where we should be making as much of it as possible.

We miss our kids, I miss my parents.

It's horrible.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyway op. Chat to us all in this thread.

Do you want positivity or someone to say "it's crap isn't it"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to focus on it more than I have to. Used to watch all the news but not so much now.

It's true we won't be on other side for a while but it is winter and I'd not be out much anyway.

Have a look at what it's changed for you and try replace it with something else, adaptation is your key, accept the days like this, they will happen it's a normal response to all this. Try a bit of mindfulness if it's your kind of thing x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"It’s all pretty crap isn’t it? It’s so hard to look forward when the end seems a long way off x"

Yes this exactly. Atm I wish I could just sleep for 6 months and fuck the world off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyway op. Chat to us all in this thread.

Do you want positivity or someone to say "it's crap isn't it"?"

Not sure what I’m after tbh

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Anyway op. Chat to us all in this thread.

Do you want positivity or someone to say "it's crap isn't it"?

Not sure what I’m after tbh"

^ This . And that's the problem I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count yourself lucky you got a dog

Wish I had a dog ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly does suck at the minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see any light at the end of the tunnel either. Want to book a holiday in this country, but feel reluctant to plan anything. It makes me wonder what is the situation in China now ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hear you, OP. It all feels a bit hopeless and endless.

I focus inwards and on my hobbies/community. All I can do.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

It's Incredibly difficult for everyone, I'm the same, dog walk is the best bit of the day, work, home, sleep too much or can't sleep, eat too much or can't face food.

Reach out to friends OP try to keep busy and chin up, it has to get better eventually x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Anyway op. Chat to us all in this thread.

Do you want positivity or someone to say "it's crap isn't it"?

Not sure what I’m after tbh"

Fair enough, I can understand that.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hope it helps to talk, OP.

We're all in this together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feeling a bit pissed off today, all this just doesn’t seem to show any signs of ending!

Feel restricted and not able to do anything, I walk the dog to get out for an hour, but not much else.

Anyone around for a chat message me.

Thanks for listening "

I think it’s getting to us all now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its horrendous,i hear you OP,

like everyone else here my motivation and energy is so low i want to just hibernate. or cry, eat lots of chocolate and then hibernate. this time of year is always crappy though because of lack of sunlight. i just try and tell myself it will all be ok by summer. (one must hope)

thamks for the thread OP and opportunity to hear from others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the replies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn the news off, don't read newspapers and delete social media.

It will make you feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn the news off, don't read newspapers and delete social media.

It will make you feel better

I recommend this, I haven’t watched the news in two years, it’s brilliant, who’s prime minister ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn the news off, don't read newspapers and delete social media.

It will make you feel better

This is pretty much what I do

I inform myself of the basics and get on with life

I also don't discuss things with people

There is more to life than the pandemic and brexit

I don't say that flippantly

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Turn the news off, don't read newspapers and delete social media.

It will make you feel better

I recommend this, I haven’t watched the news in two years, it’s brilliant, who’s prime minister ?! "

I've overheard people saying it's bozo or was it bojo,

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think the next few months will be the worse time being post Xmas and winter. I always hate this time of year anyway but usually focus on stuff I have planned to keep me going.

Hopefully it's just 1 long hard push though and then things will slowly start to get better for everyone

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

"Turn the news off, don't read newspapers and delete social media.

It will make you feel better

This is what I do, only allow myself to see one lot of the news daily as I can’t stomach more of it.

OP - could you do your dog walk with someone else, as even in the highest tier you can meet one person outside? I meet one of my siblings when they walk their dog and we just chat about inane stuff, but I always feel better afterwards.

I think it’s getting to everyone now. Especially when it’s dark and cold. Still, hopefully before we know it, things will begin to look more positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Count yourself lucky you got a dog

Wish I had a dog ........"

Why don't you get one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn the news off, don't read newspapers and delete social media.

It will make you feel better

Here here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah trying to stay clear of the news

Thanks all x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

We're on the final stretch, hopefully, few more months, think of it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah trying to stay clear of the news

Thanks all x"

I dont watch the news. Deppressing enough without listening to more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep positive and look to the future it’s the only way don’t dwell on what has been or what might be as that will just drag you down look onward and upward to a brighter future when this is all over and how you’ll never take your freedoms to do whatever whenever for granted

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