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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love your honest opinion on if size does matter... come across quite a few profiles where women have mentioned they had a few meets where the size was big but not really of any use to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite suction dildo is 9"

Just sayin

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Nope, too big can be far too painful to indulge in some of my favourite positions.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I’ve yet to play with one bigger than my husband’s and his doesn’t hurt me, it hits the right spots.

You’ll never get a definitive answer, some women will love them, some won’t, and some men just won’t be a good lover with or without a monster cock. Technique is very important.

Lou x

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

A girthy 6 to 8 is perfect for me,

anything above is too uncomfortable and anything below doesn't quite hit the spot for me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve yet to play with one bigger than my husband’s and his doesn’t hurt me, it hits the right spots.

You’ll never get a definitive answer, some women will love them, some won’t, and some men just won’t be a good lover with or without a monster cock. Technique is very important.

Yes I agree with that all about technique leaves them surprised I should say

Lou x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A girthy 6 to 8 is perfect for me,

anything above is too uncomfortable and anything below doesn't quite hit the spot for me x "

Ok nice for me to fit in that category

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, too big can be far too painful to indulge in some of my favourite positions. "

What’s ur ideal size

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

It matters.

Ideally I want something between ouch and is it in yet.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Some women like big willies. Some like small ones. Some are a fan of the in between ones.

Some women like fat willies, some women like thin ones.

Some women don't like willies.

Some men like willies. And for this, see the first two points above.

There really isn't ever a definitive answer, never will be, as people are all different and like different things.

And I googled for you.....

Average penis size:

There are no average length figures for teenagers because people grow at different rates.

Most men's penises are somewhere around 9cm (3.75in) long when not erect, but it's normal for them to be shorter or longer than this. Some things can make your penis temporarily smaller, such as swimming or being cold.

Research has found the average erect penis size varies from around 13cm to 18cm (5in to 7in). You cannot make your penis larger or smaller with exercises or medication.

There is large variation in the angle of an erect penis. Some erect penises point straight up, others straight down. Some have a slight bend to the left or right. There is no right shape. If you have a more significant bend in your penis that may cause you pain or difficulty having sex, see your GP. Sometimes, these can be symptoms of Peyronie's disease.

Each penis is unique and boys develop at different ages and rates. During puberty, usually between the ages of 11 and 18, the penis and testicles develop more rapidly, although the penis doesn't stop growing until the age of 21.

Men unsatisfied:

Regardless of actual size, many men are still unhappy with the size of their manhood.

A study based on the results of an internet-based survey of more than 50,000 men and women revealed that 45% of men would like a larger penis. The report by Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield, concluded that excessive concerns about penis size were higher among men with average-sized penises than men with small ones.

What women think:

Professor Wylie's report also found differences between what women and men think. A much higher percentage of women (85%) were satis?ed with their partner's penis size than the percentage of men (55%) who were satis?ed with their own penis size.

According to Professor Wylie, the issue of attractiveness to women is complex. However, most studies suggest that penis size is much lower down the list of priorities for women than such issues as a man's personality and grooming.

Professor Wylie says: "It may come as a surprise to some young men, but most women have very little interest in the size of their penis and that's been shown in numerous studies over time."

He says research shows that when it comes to sex, women are much more interested in whether you are romantic, tender and sensitive to their needs and desires than your penis size.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It matters.

Ideally I want something between ouch and is it in yet."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some women like big willies. Some like small ones. Some are a fan of the in between ones.

Some women like fat willies, some women like thin ones.

Some women don't like willies.

Some men like willies. And for this, see the first two points above.

There really isn't ever a definitive answer, never will be, as people are all different and like different things.

And I googled for you.....

Average penis size:

There are no average length figures for teenagers because people grow at different rates.

Most men's penises are somewhere around 9cm (3.75in) long when not erect, but it's normal for them to be shorter or longer than this. Some things can make your penis temporarily smaller, such as swimming or being cold.

Research has found the average erect penis size varies from around 13cm to 18cm (5in to 7in). You cannot make your penis larger or smaller with exercises or medication.

There is large variation in the angle of an erect penis. Some erect penises point straight up, others straight down. Some have a slight bend to the left or right. There is no right shape. If you have a more significant bend in your penis that may cause you pain or difficulty having sex, see your GP. Sometimes, these can be symptoms of Peyronie's disease.

Each penis is unique and boys develop at different ages and rates. During puberty, usually between the ages of 11 and 18, the penis and testicles develop more rapidly, although the penis doesn't stop growing until the age of 21.

Men unsatisfied:

Regardless of actual size, many men are still unhappy with the size of their manhood.

A study based on the results of an internet-based survey of more than 50,000 men and women revealed that 45% of men would like a larger penis. The report by Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield, concluded that excessive concerns about penis size were higher among men with average-sized penises than men with small ones.

What women think:

Professor Wylie's report also found differences between what women and men think. A much higher percentage of women (85%) were satis?ed with their partner's penis size than the percentage of men (55%) who were satis?ed with their own penis size.

According to Professor Wylie, the issue of attractiveness to women is complex. However, most studies suggest that penis size is much lower down the list of priorities for women than such issues as a man's personality and grooming.

Professor Wylie says: "It may come as a surprise to some young men, but most women have very little interest in the size of their penis and that's been shown in numerous studies over time."

He says research shows that when it comes to sex, women are much more interested in whether you are romantic, tender and sensitive to their needs and desires than your penis size."

Wel damn that’s a big response and I appreciate your google search aha x

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"A girthy 6 to 8 is perfect for me,

anything above is too uncomfortable and anything below doesn't quite hit the spot for me x "

What she said

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Thank goodness somebody has asked this question. It's hardly ever brought up.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Yes size matters

That is NOT saying bigger is better.

It needs to be like baby bears porridge ......... Right in the middle.

Average length and on the porky side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A girthy 6 to 8 is perfect for me,

anything above is too uncomfortable and anything below doesn't quite hit the spot for me x

What she said "

Nice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes size matters

That is NOT saying bigger is better.

It needs to be like baby bears porridge ......... Right in the middle.

Average length and on the porky side.

Haha I like how u put it

Baby bears porridge

"

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Thank goodness somebody has asked this question. It's hardly ever brought up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all shapes and sizes I have category’s

Under 4 inches then would only be a suck witch would only happen in a club setting as I don’t do blow and go

5-6 inches better be up for a full weekend off fun as I can handle that all weekend

7-8 inches grate for a full night and next morning

9+ perfect for a couple off hours fun do like the challenge but after couple off hours I will get sore so don’t be disappointed if I ask you to stop

To be honest as long as it fits in ur good to go

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Thank goodness somebody has asked this question. It's hardly ever brought up. "

Henceforth I shall be helpful and paste the research whenever I see the question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank goodness somebody has asked this question. It's hardly ever brought up.

Henceforth I shall be helpful and paste the research whenever I see the question."

Fair play

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

For me it depends more on my mood and desire than a one size fits all approach. Some positions or moods are better with a larger cock, some are better with a smaller. I like to have my cake and eat it, that’s why I’m here

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it depends more on my mood and desire than a one size fits all approach. Some positions or moods are better with a larger cock, some are better with a smaller. I like to have my cake and eat it, that’s why I’m here "

Haha nice enjoy it x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Prefer to establish if the general attraction (which isn't based on someone's genitals) is there and if we can hold a conversation, before going over someone's size.

If someone ticks all my boxes, cock size isn't a big deal. Although not keen on VVWE who go at it at full force straight away. Usually that's their selling point and opening message anyway, so quite happy to stay well away from them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters somewhat but no good having a big one that doesn't really work so would rather have an average one that does.

Also it's not just that a man who knows how to please in other ways goes higher up in the ranking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prefer to establish if the general attraction (which isn't based on someone's genitals) is there and if we can hold a conversation, before going over someone's size.

If someone ticks all my boxes, cock size isn't a big deal. Although not keen on VVWE who go at it at full force straight away. Usually that's their selling point and opening message anyway, so quite happy to stay well away from them x

"

Yup I totally get that shame to say not a lot of women in my opinion seek mental attraction as this site is full of photos where everything is on display so people’s mind be made up already

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It matters somewhat but no good having a big one that doesn't really work so would rather have an average one that does.

Also it's not just that a man who knows how to please in other ways goes higher up in the ranking "

Definitely agree with u on that

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes and no.

I've had some large cocks where men don't know how to use them at all, yet others who know how to use it very well.

I have generally found that men in the average size category seem to know how to use what the have well, and some even lower on the scale can surprise you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and no.

I've had some large cocks where men don't know how to use them at all, yet others who know how to use it very well.

I have generally found that men in the average size category seem to know how to use what the have well, and some even lower on the scale can surprise you.

"

Interesting

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not going to go into too much anatomical detail but I don't particularly enjoy well endowed men in some positions, much like Lily. I'd prefer a Goldicock, not too big or small, perfectly angled to hit a certain spot and one that gets hard instantly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not going to go into too much anatomical detail but I don't particularly enjoy well endowed men in some positions, much like Lily. I'd prefer a Goldicock, not too big or small, perfectly angled to hit a certain spot and one that gets hard instantly."

Nice still don’t give a size indicator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me. My fanny is short and wide like a tuna can. I won't have a go with anything over about 6" long.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It matters to me. My fanny is short and wide like a tuna can. I won't have a go with anything over about 6" long. "

Short n wide like a tuna can... that’s one way to put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does not really matter as long as you listen to your partner and a sexy mind is the best tool for a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size has never been part of any of my discussions, even from a teenager

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Size has never been part of any of my discussions, even from a teenager "

Love the photos x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size has never been part of any of my discussions, even from a teenager

Love the photos x"

Thank you kindly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even know, just know I’m scared of big ones

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"It matters.

Ideally I want something between ouch and is it in yet."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t even know, just know I’m scared of big ones "

Aha don’t be scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girthy 6 to 8 is perfect for me,

anything above is too uncomfortable and anything below doesn't quite hit the spot for me x

What she said "

This x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"I don’t even know, just know I’m scared of big ones "

You and me both

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