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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few weeks ago I posted about new people joining but being forced to leave due to being hounded,disrespected and generally mobbed by people.

Since then I’ve chatted to 4 more who have since left because of the fact that it’s quite simply become a bad cattle market.

But hey, as long as admin keep making money.

Who cares ?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Ruh-roh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or it could be that most of the massive influx of new profiles are likely catfish who have no intention of meeting or even being single

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"A few weeks ago I posted about new people joining but being forced to leave due to being hounded,disrespected and generally mobbed by people.

Since then I’ve chatted to 4 more who have since left because of the fact that it’s quite simply become a bad cattle market.

But hey, as long as admin keep making money.

Who cares ? "

Not all members pay. And those who leave quickly usually don’t pay and aren’t always ‘genuine’, lots of females or couples who are really men, they will set up new profiles constantly after getting called out for being fake.

If people are genuinely being hounded and disrespected they can use their filters, block people, report people etc.

That’s the joy of t’internet, we have the power to ignore, delete, switch off etc. If things are really getting to us.

Lou x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Resistance is futile.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"A few weeks ago I posted about new people joining but being forced to leave due to being hounded,disrespected and generally mobbed by people.

Since then I’ve chatted to 4 more who have since left because of the fact that it’s quite simply become a bad cattle market.

But hey, as long as admin keep making money.

Who cares ? "

The gimps sleeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty sure administrators are volunteers. When I was chasing them for help once they apologised and said the delay was because they were normal users who were voluntarily administrators

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always going to be a influx of new members around Christmas time as not everyone has gone back to work and they are looking for that little thrill. It doesn't help that many of us are in tier 4 so fab is a form of socialising for some, even if it does seem annoying to a few.

Having said that there is a guy near me that joins each week! . Same name and photos, but after a few days he's gone again. Never will understand that!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Point them in the direction of their message filters and block and report buttons.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"A few weeks ago I posted about new people joining but being forced to leave due to being hounded,disrespected and generally mobbed by people.

Since then I’ve chatted to 4 more who have since left because of the fact that it’s quite simply become a bad cattle market.

But hey, as long as admin keep making money.

Who cares ? "

Ohhh true true true

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

People join, discover that no one is meeting as we all want to live long enough to eat our Christmas chocolate and so they leave.

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
over a year ago

Cambs


"People join, discover that no one is meeting as we all want to live long enough to eat our Christmas chocolate and so they leave. "

You haven't eaten all your Christmas chocolate yet

what's wrong with you should be gone by boxing day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People join, discover that no one is meeting as we all want to live long enough to eat our Christmas chocolate and so they leave.

You haven't eaten all your Christmas chocolate yet

what's wrong with you should be gone by boxing day lol "

I think I'd be dead or having my stomach pumped for attempting that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"There's always going to be a influx of new members around Christmas time as not everyone has gone back to work and they are looking for that little thrill. It doesn't help that many of us are in tier 4 so fab is a form of socialising for some, even if it does seem annoying to a few.

Having said that there is a guy near me that joins each week! . Same name and photos, but after a few days he's gone again. Never will understand that! "

I think the swingers doc was on over as again, which may have pointed a few into this direction

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I won't be renewing my membership when it runs out, unfortunately the cons out weigh the pros at the moment,

So many guys who ruin it and don't get that swinging is not about anonymous sex and give you abuse when you don't want to meet someone who's just sent a dick pic 5 mins ago in the middle of a global pandemic x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"People join, discover that no one is meeting as we all want to live long enough to eat our Christmas chocolate and so they leave.

You haven't eaten all your Christmas chocolate yet

what's wrong with you should be gone by boxing day lol "

It normally sees us through to Easter

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"People join, discover that no one is meeting as we all want to live long enough to eat our Christmas chocolate and so they leave. "

Definitely this. It’s about priorities.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I won't be renewing my membership when it runs out, unfortunately the cons out weigh the pros at the moment,

So many guys who ruin it and don't get that swinging is not about anonymous sex and give you abuse when you don't want to meet someone who's just sent a dick pic 5 mins ago in the middle of a global pandemic x"

I simply do not get this ??

No need to renew to remain,

No need for any cons just block everyone and enjoy the bits you hopefully like for example : forums, perving profiles. Maybe you could discover an amazing , articulate, funny attractive rare man and send him a message if you feel he is suitable obviously this will require you to read profiles but then you are in control

I have absolutely zero idea why some complain about messages from idiots when there are facilities and options that can avoid the alleged problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's always going to be a influx of new members around Christmas time as not everyone has gone back to work and they are looking for that little thrill. It doesn't help that many of us are in tier 4 so fab is a form of socialising for some, even if it does seem annoying to a few.

Having said that there is a guy near me that joins each week! . Same name and photos, but after a few days he's gone again. Never will understand that! "

So many leave and rejoin constantly, never really understood why!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Of the 10 newbies I spoke to last month 9 are still here and 1 has taken a temporary break due to bursitis. They co uldn't speak highly enough of the site, especially the forum lounge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During the time between joining Fab and finding the forums the only negative thing for me would have been a lack of matches with local women, and a lack of responses from those I felt would have made a good match. Any crap I've got during my time here, and it wouldn't be much, has been quickly forgotten about and the block button is my friend

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"During the time between joining Fab and finding the forums the only negative thing for me would have been a lack of matches with local women, and a lack of responses from those I felt would have made a good match. Any crap I've got during my time here, and it wouldn't be much, has been quickly forgotten about and the block button is my friend "

Hey stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"During the time between joining Fab and finding the forums the only negative thing for me would have been a lack of matches with local women, and a lack of responses from those I felt would have made a good match. Any crap I've got during my time here, and it wouldn't be much, has been quickly forgotten about and the block button is my friend

Hey stranger "

Hey sweetness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It did seem to be a different place 3....almost four years ago. Definitely harder to break the ice this time around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few weeks ago I posted about new people joining but being forced to leave due to being hounded,disrespected and generally mobbed by people.

Since then I’ve chatted to 4 more who have since left because of the fact that it’s quite simply become a bad cattle market.

But hey, as long as admin keep making money.

Who cares ? "

Well I guess it does cost money to keep the site running?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few weeks ago I posted about new people joining but being forced to leave due to being hounded,disrespected and generally mobbed by people.

Since then I’ve chatted to 4 more who have since left because of the fact that it’s quite simply become a bad cattle market.

But hey, as long as admin keep making money.

Who cares ? "

Fab can be quite overwhelming to start with takes you a good 2 years to desensitised to things

For people starting out filters are ur best bet

And also join and straight hide the profile and set it up properly and wait to you get off the 5 day new tag pages

As that’s how they pray on people if watch the newly joined pages

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"I won't be renewing my membership when it runs out, unfortunately the cons out weigh the pros at the moment,

So many guys who ruin it and don't get that swinging is not about anonymous sex and give you abuse when you don't want to meet someone who's just sent a dick pic 5 mins ago in the middle of a global pandemic x

I simply do not get this ??

No need to renew to remain,

No need for any cons just block everyone and enjoy the bits you hopefully like for example : forums, perving profiles. Maybe you could discover an amazing , articulate, funny attractive rare man and send him a message if you feel he is suitable obviously this will require you to read profiles but then you are in control

I have absolutely zero idea why some complain about messages from idiots when there are facilities and options that can avoid the alleged problem "

Try being a single female on here then you will see what I mean, the filters just don't cut it its draining.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"I won't be renewing my membership when it runs out, unfortunately the cons out weigh the pros at the moment,

So many guys who ruin it and don't get that swinging is not about anonymous sex and give you abuse when you don't want to meet someone who's just sent a dick pic 5 mins ago in the middle of a global pandemic x"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you get friendly with anyone like this, the best advice may be to use filters to block everyone from messaging them. Problems largely solved, if it exists

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I won't be renewing my membership when it runs out, unfortunately the cons out weigh the pros at the moment,

So many guys who ruin it and don't get that swinging is not about anonymous sex and give you abuse when you don't want to meet someone who's just sent a dick pic 5 mins ago in the middle of a global pandemic x

I simply do not get this ??

No need to renew to remain,

No need for any cons just block everyone and enjoy the bits you hopefully like for example : forums, perving profiles. Maybe you could discover an amazing , articulate, funny attractive rare man and send him a message if you feel he is suitable obviously this will require you to read profiles but then you are in control

I have absolutely zero idea why some complain about messages from idiots when there are facilities and options that can avoid the alleged problem

Try being a single female on here then you will see what I mean, the filters just don't cut it its draining."

If I were a single female it would be simple and zero hassle and not draining

Oh and without being immodest I have my fair share of Male and non binary interest I'm fully aware of how men work

Why on earth anyone wants the entire world to send mind numbing messages is beyond me

If filters are open we know that's what will happen

Also the chances of the 1 in 1000 man chance messaging is very very remote

Me I'd set no access filters

I'd place an area search

Id block all those in the area I have zero interest

I'd read carefully the 2 profiles that might just maybe cut the mustard

I'd send them a simple message

The tools are there filters and block button I'd suggest that's more than sufficient

Iv noticed there is a female version of the impatient man

That man thinks this site it geared specifically so his cock will be hilt deep in clunge daily and is miffed if internet land and humans disagree

In the female version it seems they think an orderly queue of men meeting everyone of their exacting standards should be there perpetually to accommodate whatever their whim maybe and ONLY those men should send messages upon a public messaging service ????

If you wish to boost your ego and lazily expectantly not search yourself then it takes approx 5.4296 seconds to assess and press the block button if that simplicity is too draining then complaining as the men do will not achieve much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People join, discover that no one is meeting as we all want to live long enough to eat our Christmas chocolate and so they leave.

You haven't eaten all your Christmas chocolate yet

what's wrong with you should be gone by boxing day lol "

Boxing day????? You have good self control lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be renewing my membership when it runs out, unfortunately the cons out weigh the pros at the moment,

So many guys who ruin it and don't get that swinging is not about anonymous sex and give you abuse when you don't want to meet someone who's just sent a dick pic 5 mins ago in the middle of a global pandemic x

I simply do not get this ??

No need to renew to remain,

No need for any cons just block everyone and enjoy the bits you hopefully like for example : forums, perving profiles. Maybe you could discover an amazing , articulate, funny attractive rare man and send him a message if you feel he is suitable obviously this will require you to read profiles but then you are in control

I have absolutely zero idea why some complain about messages from idiots when there are facilities and options that can avoid the alleged problem

Try being a single female on here then you will see what I mean, the filters just don't cut it its draining.

If I were a single female it would be simple and zero hassle and not draining

Oh and without being immodest I have my fair share of Male and non binary interest I'm fully aware of how men work

Why on earth anyone wants the entire world to send mind numbing messages is beyond me

If filters are open we know that's what will happen

Also the chances of the 1 in 1000 man chance messaging is very very remote

Me I'd set no access filters

I'd place an area search

Id block all those in the area I have zero interest

I'd read carefully the 2 profiles that might just maybe cut the mustard

I'd send them a simple message

The tools are there filters and block button I'd suggest that's more than sufficient

Iv noticed there is a female version of the impatient man

That man thinks this site it geared specifically so his cock will be hilt deep in clunge daily and is miffed if internet land and humans disagree

In the female version it seems they think an orderly queue of men meeting everyone of their exacting standards should be there perpetually to accommodate whatever their whim maybe and ONLY those men should send messages upon a public messaging service ????

If you wish to boost your ego and lazily expectantly not search yourself then it takes approx 5.4296 seconds to assess and press the block button if that simplicity is too draining then complaining as the men do will not achieve much

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People join, discover that no one is meeting as we all want to live long enough to eat our Christmas chocolate and so they leave. "

I wanna live long enough to eat my Easter chocolate, too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve gotten over the increase in abuse on here for saying no to people. That was my only real gripe with the site. I’ve just started ignoring the vast amount of people who message me and engage with the friends I’ve already got and on chip in on the forums. It’s quite a pleasant place to kill some time when bored.

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