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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I right in thinking that there’s a big divide on this site between forum people and others? The forums are lovely and I’ve met and chatted to some lovely people. But people not in the forums appear stand-offing and rarely reply to messages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk in here are out there and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Folk in here are out there and vice versa"

I guess they must be. But they seem to be two very distinct and separate crowds xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers. "

Hmm interesting theory and possibly true xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers. "

I am!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers.

I am! "

The stranger the better, which is a stroke of luck when you look on the forum

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers.

I am!

The stranger the better, which is a stroke of luck when you look on the forum "

I meant lovely. Not trawling.

Now I know why I got random messages.

Dohhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always pretty much treated it as two sites. I'm not really into flirting on the forum and I think having sex with forum people would spoil hanging out here a bit for me. Local chats are much more sexual and very much with a view to meeting. It's not a hard and fast rule though, I have exceptions to both.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Am I right in thinking that there’s a big divide on this site between forum people and others? The forums are lovely and I’ve met and chatted to some lovely people. But people not in the forums appear stand-offing and rarely reply to messages xx"

I’m on the forums and I don’t reply to most messages. You can call that stand-offish if you like. But posting in the forums doesn’t make someone more likely to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most people in forum don’t chat or cam on the cam site .

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I've found forums are a great way to find people with similar interest. Down side they're usually hundreds of miles away!

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Find at least in forum you get a reply as inbox message you maybe waiting a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers. "

Theres a place on the Internet to have sex with strangers!?!?

In the words of victor mannering... I DONT BELIEVE IT!

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I've found forums are a great way to find people with similar interest. Down side they're usually hundreds of miles away!"

Yes that's the case to far away the nice folk who you would want to actually meet

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers.

Theres a place on the Internet to have sex with strangers!?!?

In the words of victor mannering... I DONT BELIEVE IT! "

Surely that was Captain Meldrew?

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Even the UK forum doesn't exactly have a more local one for each main city so that way you would be able to meet if had a good connection

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By *luns1Man
over a year ago

Preston

I've only just started out in the forums and have enjoyed it. I have had a few folk look at my profile after I comment on things. I think of it as more of an introduction to people and if you like the look of each other then you can take it to the next stage then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s the reality of ratio between women n men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers.

Theres a place on the Internet to have sex with strangers!?!?

In the words of victor mannering... I DONT BELIEVE IT!

Surely that was Captain Meldrew? "

Hahaha bloody heck you're right!! I had dads army on and had a brain fart lol

Annotation to my previous statement *Meldrew

Good eye sir

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers. "

I can vouch for that... One of the biggest disappointments is the illusion that swingers are welcoming, open minded, friendly and tolerant. I've found more tolerance in the trump won it really website. There is sometimes a bit of fun too... So long as you don't express an opinion.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Am I right in thinking that there’s a big divide on this site between forum people and others? The forums are lovely and I’ve met and chatted to some lovely people. But people not in the forums appear stand-offing and rarely reply to messages xx"

naa, I have had equal luck out of the forums as I have had with them, each to their own,

Forums and chatrooms(another site) are off putting to many,

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think you'll find an awful lot of forum folk have learned the hard way that if you don't want aggro or drama, keep your meets on the hush hush or steer clear of other forum folk.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh


"I think you'll find an awful lot of forum folk have learned the hard way that if you don't want aggro or drama, keep your meets on the hush hush or steer clear of other forum folk."

This is the truest truth of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is.

It's a clique.

Post something some forum regular doesnt like and see how quick they go sneaking off to an admin to p.m them and tattle tale.(or they are admin and use their rather unsubstantial power)

A lot of forum regulars are mardier than teachers.

And that's saying something.

Standby for a ban....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes there is.

It's a clique.

Post something some forum regular doesnt like and see how quick they go sneaking off to an admin to p.m them and tattle tale.(or they are admin and use their rather unsubstantial power)

A lot of forum regulars are mardier than teachers.

And that's saying something.

Standby for a ban...."

Oh yeah ill second that hahaha, ive had some spectacular ban reasons hahaha

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Am I right in thinking that there’s a big divide on this site between forum people and others? The forums are lovely and I’ve met and chatted to some lovely people. But people not in the forums appear stand-offing and rarely reply to messages xx"

Having a conversation in open forum is very different to then taking it to private messages. Forum is just open friendly chat, not an invitation to an inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers.

Theres a place on the Internet to have sex with strangers!?!?

In the words of victor mannering... I DONT BELIEVE IT! "

Nah I said people were trawling for sex... not that they found it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum people aren't lovely.

The type of people who will chat on a forum aren't necessarily the same type of people trawling the internet for sex with strangers.

I can vouch for that... One of the biggest disappointments is the illusion that swingers are welcoming, open minded, friendly and tolerant. I've found more tolerance in the trump won it really website. There is sometimes a bit of fun too... So long as you don't express an opinion. "

Tolerant Trump fans. That made my day.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Yes there is.

It's a clique.

Post something some forum regular doesnt like and see how quick they go sneaking off to an admin to p.m them and tattle tale.(or they are admin and use their rather unsubstantial power)

A lot of forum regulars are mardier than teachers.

And that's saying something.

Standby for a ban....

Oh yeah ill second that hahaha, ive had some spectacular ban reasons hahaha"

Will third that! X

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By *uttycccMan
over a year ago

Weston super mare

I find people n forum are moe polite

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