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"Yes, and I am in love & living with him. Her x" Ok so how did you recognise each other? | |||
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"Yes. Never ever again." This!! Absolutely.. and never again | |||
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"Yes, and I am in love & living with him. Her x Ok so how did you recognise each other?" I'm wondering this as well. | |||
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"I would never meet till I receive a face picture " same here | |||
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"Yes, and I am in love & living with him. Her x Ok so how did you recognise each other? I'm wondering this as well. " We met in a public place, both had chatted lots on the phone and said what vehicles we were driving, what we are wearing etc. He recognised me as I drove in to car park and he made his way over to my car to say hello. I recognised his voice and we chatted and the rest is private Her x | |||
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"I've asked because someone I'm chatting to said they met someone without seeing their face pic and I just can't get my head round it. Face is so important to me. " I am the same. But then just because you are meeting doesn’t mean it is going anywhere? | |||
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"I've asked because someone I'm chatting to said they met someone without seeing their face pic and I just can't get my head round it. Face is so important to me. " I've had lots of men ask me for a meet without seeing any pics of me at all. | |||
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"Yes, and I am in love & living with him. Her x" Awwwwwwwwwwww!!!! | |||
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"Lots of times! And met even more that have never seen a picture of me! The actual biggest disappointments have been not looking like their picture to be honest! But for me aesthetics is the smallest part of attraction ... it really is intelligence, humour and personality (laughter always wins). Obviously physical attraction has to be there but the rest is way more important and much more difficult to find!!! " I totally agree with you people write a person off sometimes and don't give them a chance to find out about who they are and what kind of personality they have and that is a really sad fact of today because we have so many ways to send a picture, that peoples personality doesn't stand a chance sadly these days, there would be a lot less single people if we learned about someone first, rather than picture drop and block like some of us we tend to do these days. | |||
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"You didn't see a face pic of them beforehand? " NO But I did go to a few where I didn't see the body shape, and "average" was actually "MAHOOOOSIVE" and the meet did not go well | |||
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"Lots of times! And met even more that have never seen a picture of me! The actual biggest disappointments have been not looking like their picture to be honest! But for me aesthetics is the smallest part of attraction ... it really is intelligence, humour and personality (laughter always wins). Obviously physical attraction has to be there but the rest is way more important and much more difficult to find!!! I totally agree with you people write a person off sometimes and don't give them a chance to find out about who they are and what kind of personality they have and that is a really sad fact of today because we have so many ways to send a picture, that peoples personality doesn't stand a chance sadly these days, there would be a lot less single people if we learned about someone first, rather than picture drop and block like some of us we tend to do these days. " Thing is, for most of us this is just a casual/one off encounter. Scintillating conversation, sparkling wit, kind to animals is not a prerequisite to meeting. Do they meet my individual definition of phoar? Are they able to say "hi" without their eyes coming out on stalks when they see my cleavage? They're not surrounded by a swarm of bluebottles: pretty much it for me. Partners and friends are "judged" differently. | |||
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"You didn't see a face pic of them beforehand? " Twice. One meet I was pleasantly surprised. The other not so. Won't be doing that again. | |||
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"Yes.. But i didn't see them during the meet either " kinky! D. | |||
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"Yes. Never ever again." Yep joined that club same result | |||
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"Yes, and I am in love & living with him. Her x Ok so how did you recognise each other?" M's very first meet neither had seen a face picture of each other. They agreed a place and a time to meet and let each other know what they'd be wearing. Simple. E | |||
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"You didn't see a face pic of them beforehand? " I’d meet you OP and I’ve not seen your face | |||
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"Yes, and I am in love & living with him. Her x" Awwwwww so sweet | |||
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"Yes a few times back in the early days of the Internet." God those days were so bad looking back! | |||
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"No never but sometime the pic u see is so old it's nothing like they look like at all x" This | |||
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"Never had a meet. Where have i gone wrong? " You joined during a pandemic x | |||
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"Lots of times! And met even more that have never seen a picture of me! The actual biggest disappointments have been not looking like their picture to be honest! But for me aesthetics is the smallest part of attraction ... it really is intelligence, humour and personality (laughter always wins). Obviously physical attraction has to be there but the rest is way more important and much more difficult to find!!! " Have to add all for socials only ... | |||
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"No but the pic was of them a few years younger though " So what did you do? | |||
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"I'd like to have a pic beforehand but if not then social only so no worry about being attracted to each other. As a single male I am asked always for a pic beforehand even if they have none themselves in which case I don't send one either, if I miss out on a meet then so be it " even for a social need to see a pic as otherwise awkward x | |||
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"You didn't see a face pic of them beforehand? " I think I did once,years ago | |||
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"How did you know them at the meet??" They wore a carboard box on their head and Whatsapped me all their conversation | |||
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"How did you know them at the meet?? They wore a carboard box on their head and Whatsapped me all their conversation" A cunning plan | |||
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"You didn't see a face pic of them beforehand? " We did once, we had chatted on here for a while and arranged to meet. It wasn't until we were sat in the pub car park that realised that we hadn't seen their face pics. We managed to find each other and had a lovely evening. We met them several more times and always had a great time. Cal | |||
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"Yes. Never ever again." Second this.. although there is some excitement of it being ‘blind’... I think I’ll stick to seeing one first from now on. | |||
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"No, but had one where the face was definitely not the person turning up. Bye bye! " Oh I’ve had that!! Sat for nearly 45mins waiting for them to show only to find they were already there, looking nothing like their pictures... and i mean “literally no resemblance!” | |||
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