FabSwingers.com forum: Not meeting

By *isAdventure69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

Nay

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As it's against site terms and conditions to arrange meets, my answer is a resounding "no"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not at all - the site is open to all and how they choose to use it (within site rules) is up to them entirely - anyone that has a problem with "your" way of using it, the problem is theirs not yours

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

Definitely not. As long as you're being honest and upfront about not meeting it's nobody else's business that you're on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nay, also sounds like that person needs a boot in their kiwis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has the right to say who should be on here and who shouldn't for reasons like that.

No doubt it was someone pissed off that you were sticking to the guidelines and refusing to meet those who don't so good for you for sticking to your guns

And anyway, how else are you going to find out who you would like to meet in future once the restrictions are relaxed and this is also a great place to find people who also enjoy this lifestyle....its not like you're going to meet them in Sainsbury's in a mask now is it

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"As it's against site terms and conditions to arrange meets, my answer is a resounding "no"

I think they have changed it to adhering to local rules. So even in tier 4 you could have an outside social with one other person.

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By *isAdventure69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"As it's against site terms and conditions to arrange meets, my answer is a resounding "no"

It did cross my mind that the memberships would be dwindling if all the non meeting were to leave ... exodus en masse

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"As it's against site terms and conditions to arrange meets, my answer is a resounding "no"

I think they have changed it to adhering to local rules. So even in tier 4 you could have an outside social with one other person."

I believe it’s outside exercise not socialise

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've been told that a few times.

My giveafuckometer didn't even twitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

I got told the same a few weeks ago, I simply told them to go fuck themselves

We're all here for our own reasons

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

If anything, it should be vice versa!!

It is against the site rules and for majority of us, are against government guidelines/laws to the meeting up at the moment.

People with an attitude that obviously don't understand swinging and think it's just a free sex site

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No and any messages like that I receive, just get an instant delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang in there . Covid wont be forever xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No and any messages like that I receive, just get an instant delete and block

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

Nay, last time I checked this was a lifestyle site! You don't have to be currently active to be part of the lifestyle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same messages.If your not meeting at the moment then I need to get off here.

Shouldn't it be if they are meeting at the moment then they need to start thinking with there brain for once x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told that a few times.

My giveafuckometer didn't even twitch "

This

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

You're here for your own reasons and no one elses. Could be curiosity, window shopping, forums or something else. It's your business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told that a few times.

My giveafuckometer didn't even twitch "

Well they never saw you coming trying to tell you that....dont ever change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been told that too.

If I had to get off the site I’d miss the pictures of all the pretty naked chicks.

So I’m saying nay.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

No but maybe an ability to filter by it.... Obviously when covid permits etc. Pen pals is all fine and dandy but some may be looking to meet physically.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I've been told that a few times.

My giveafuckometer didn't even twitch

Well they never saw you coming trying to tell you that....dont ever change

They never saw me going either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

No but maybe an ability to filter by it.... Obviously when covid permits etc. Pen pals is all fine and dandy but some may be looking to meet physically. "

If only people could be bothered to read profiles....

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By *isAdventure69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I think my profile is clear , I’m also not looking to chat to “new friends” as frankly after 9 months of maintaining conversations with existing pen pals that at this rate I’m not likely to meet til 2022 ... the enthusiasm is wearing thin .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to move home fully.

I can't meet friends.

I can't meet two people off here that I virtually lived with and I missing so much it hurts.

The government says i can't meet.

So I chat in the forums and to friends on here for giggles.

Yet the few fab fools say if I'm not meeting then I must GET OFFFFFFFFFFFF lol

I'm sorry but my common sense is wired to my brain not my sexual parts you wazuks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been told that too.

If I had to get off the site I’d miss the pictures of all the pretty naked chicks.

So I’m saying nay."

And we wouldn't get to see your willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think my profile is clear , I’m also not looking to chat to “new friends” as frankly after 9 months of maintaining conversations with existing pen pals that at this rate I’m not likely to meet til 2022 ... the enthusiasm is wearing thin .

I'm the same. I hate to be negative but I move to New York in April and I can't see any possibility of being able to meet by then....so I just don't see the point. If by some miracle we can meet, I'll gladly go to a club

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've had to move home fully.

I can't meet friends.

I can't meet two people off here that I virtually lived with and I missing so much it hurts.

The government says i can't meet.

So I chat in the forums and to friends on here for giggles.

Yet the few fab fools say if I'm not meeting then I must GET OFFFFFFFFFFFF lol

I'm sorry but my common sense is wired to my brain not my sexual parts you wazuks

x "

Wazuk

. Not heard that word in years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had to move home fully.

I can't meet friends.

I can't meet two people off here that I virtually lived with and I missing so much it hurts.

The government says i can't meet.

So I chat in the forums and to friends on here for giggles.

Yet the few fab fools say if I'm not meeting then I must GET OFFFFFFFFFFFF lol

I'm sorry but my common sense is wired to my brain not my sexual parts you wazuks

Wazuk

. Not heard that word in years "

I get called it on a daily basis lol x

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

Ffs what a ridiculous thing to say to you.

In the current world environment I'd be Questioning anyone who is meeting, they are at least 1 mince pie short of a full pack,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

Ffs what a ridiculous thing to say to you.

In the current world environment I'd be Questioning anyone who is meeting, they are at least 1 mince pie short of a full pack,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told that a few times.

My giveafuckometer didn't even twitch "

Love this

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

Ffs what a ridiculous thing to say to you.

In the current world environment I'd be Questioning anyone who is meeting, they are at least 1 mince pie short of a full pack,

Have a look at the updates section, you'll soon see that AI isn't that bad an option after all, coz humankind is fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some “swingers” can be so judgmental !!!! Definitely no !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

No no no

Block

Forget

Move on.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I've been told that a few times.

My giveafuckometer didn't even twitch

Love this

You can make your own out of an empty bog roll tube and flat battery. I highly recommend it, much better than reading a horoscope or rolling an 8 ball.

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Since Facebook belatedly started doing something about hate speech a lot of sites that value anonymity have been infested with incels who've (just) outgrown 8Chan. Fetlife being an example.

Looks like one of the shitheads has made it on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had messages about how I'm stupid to stick to rules and not meet etc.

I just delete them and forget about them. It's so easy done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to mind their own fucking business!!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tell them to mind their own fucking business!!!

Fuck sake J, that sounds well too polite. Must be fucking Xmas or something

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By *uncouple4u19Couple
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell them to mind their own fucking business!!!

Fuck sake J, that sounds well too polite. Must be fucking Xmas or something

Obviously I was dulling it down, it being the season of goodwill and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell them to mind their own fucking business!!!

Fuck sake J, that sounds well too polite. Must be fucking Xmas or something

Stop your pissing swearing and taking fucking liberties with our bastardised English language....twonk

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tell them to mind their own fucking business!!!

Fuck sake J, that sounds well too polite. Must be fucking Xmas or something

Obviously I was dulling it down, it being the season of goodwill and all that.

Sounds like an awful lot of cunting effort

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tell them to mind their own fucking business!!!

Fuck sake J, that sounds well too polite. Must be fucking Xmas or something

Stop your pissing swearing and taking fucking liberties with our bastardised English language....twonk

I didn't read that... I sang it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely NOT, anyone can join the site and should not be judged by what they want to do, or not to do

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

If anything, it's the people who *are* meeting that should be kicked off the site.

If they don't care about the health of others during the pandemic, they won't care about the health of others outside of it.

I am increasingly taking someone's attitude towards COVID as an indicator of their attitude towards other asymptomatically transmissible conditions. Let's face it: The people who try to get out of wearing a mask are the same people who try to get out of wearing a condom.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I've had the same messages.If your not meeting at the moment then I need to get off here.

Shouldn't it be if they are meeting at the moment then they need to start thinking with there brain for once x "
it's beyond that, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell them to mind their own fucking business!!!

Fuck sake J, that sounds well too polite. Must be fucking Xmas or something

Stop your pissing swearing and taking fucking liberties with our bastardised English language....twonk

Those aren't fucking swear words ya twonkmuffin!

They're cunting sentence enhancers

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

Ffs what a ridiculous thing to say to you.

In the current world environment I'd be Questioning anyone who is meeting, they are at least 1 mince pie short of a full pack,

Have a look at the updates section, you'll soon see that AI isn't that bad an option after all, coz humankind is fucked! "
lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

That's not happening

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I've had messages about how I'm stupid to stick to rules and not meet etc.

I just delete them and forget about them. It's so easy done. "
how is protecting yourself And others Stupid???

I'd be now asking the Question would these Fffktards actually meet if they knew thew were infected,, bet they would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told that a few times.

My giveafuckometer didn't even twitch "

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By *isAdventure69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I've had messages about how I'm stupid to stick to rules and not meet etc.

I just delete them and forget about them. It's so easy done. how is protecting yourself And others Stupid???

I'd be now asking the Question would these Fffktards actually meet if they knew thew were infected,, bet they would.

Yes I think so , if they were well enough ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nay rules are rules

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"As it's against site terms and conditions to arrange meets, my answer is a resounding "no"

It did cross my mind that the memberships would be dwindling if all the non meeting were to leave ... exodus en masse

Even without covid this assumption would still be correct though.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I've had messages about how I'm stupid to stick to rules and not meet etc.

I just delete them and forget about them. It's so easy done. how is protecting yourself And others Stupid???

I'd be now asking the Question would these Fffktards actually meet if they knew thew were infected,, bet they would.

Yes I think so , if they were well enough ...

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well enough but not well in the head lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been told that too.

If I had to get off the site I’d miss the pictures of all the pretty naked chicks.

So I’m saying nay.

And we wouldn't get to see your willy"

Plain white knickers are so underrated.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I haven’t met anyone for years but I’m still here

you don’t get rid of me that easy

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I’ve been told that too.

If I had to get off the site I’d miss the pictures of all the pretty naked chicks.

So I’m saying nay.

And we wouldn't get to see your willy"
happily show that to you..

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Sounds like a load of sour grapes to me.

Did they take their ball and go home as well?

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Well in that case the whole site should be closed as no one should be meeting outside there bubble but some will most won't

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, we should all be free to use fab as we wish.

Even when there isn't a pandemic.

If a profile states they're not meeting, it's rude of the sender to ask or tell them what to do.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"It has been suggested this morning that as I'm not currently meeting I should get off the site

Should people that opt not to meet for whatever reason ( covid or otherwise ) be barred?

Yay or Nay ?

We've had some very arsey messages along the same lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have anything on your 'looking for' list you show up on the searches of people looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Burn them

Burn them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nay from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told that a few times.

My giveafuckometer didn't even twitch "

Classic

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Apparently I'm a level 10 Karen for acting like a sissy over a hyped up cold!!

It's good to see people for what they are before you get too involved x

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