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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??

Maybe talking and listening would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis more an accurate statement than a discussion. Lol.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tis more an accurate statement than a discussion. Lol.

J "

Yeh I guess your right..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a self proclaimed blowjob expert but I've been on the recieving end of disappointing oral many times, so I imagine men have the same issue with some women. Communication is key to teaching/learning, and practice makes perfect xx

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??

Maybe talking and listening would help "

I would not say they cannot do it, more they do it in a way you are not keen on.

However, I agree that communication is vital to a healthy dynamic and having a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn shame my veris arent showing lol

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

These women just need more practice, and I for one am willing to do my bit. Ladies, please form an orderly queue. Luke

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Us Tgirls who receive and give blow jobs are often pretty good at them

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

A lot of women claim to give the best blowjobs ever, but men do the same with saying they're the best at giving a woman oral. So it is what it is

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By *G999Man
over a year ago

Everywhere & Nowhere

Anything can be learnt with time, practice and communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything can be learnt with time, practice and communication. "

Very true, that’s how you perfect a skill , whether it’s oral or something else

I’ve become quite an expert girl myself

I think also the number one thing is... girls (and boys) you have to enjoy doing it otherwise it shows in the performance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about learning what the other person likes, rather than just doing your thing and expecting them to love it. I like to learn the little things that drive a guy wild, it's part of the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only met a few who can make me climax through a blowjob without help from me.

Im on the large scale so i dont expect her to get it in het mouth and i prefer to be licked than sucked which helps.

But i do agree people shouldn't talk a big game if they cant perform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a willing cock sucking pupil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In office for extra tuition young lady.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I get the feeling that no matter how good you are at giving a blow job ( and after all it's not rocket science)on occasions it just doesn't happen, this of course is also true with sex in general...

I think the key is enthusiasm and the desire to do it...Many people deep down just don't want to do it,so they fake it...

The best imho is when both parties want it, the cock sucker wants to suck and the guy wants his cock sucking without other agendas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a willing cock sucking pupil. "

show me what youve learnt so far and we can take it from there

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Thing is, like most things about sex it's not about being "the best" for every person, but about being "the best", at that moment in time, for the specific partner you're with which takes communication in both directions and includes both talking AND listening, and not just blindly expecting a partner to know how you like it, or accept the way you do it.

Now obviously you don't want to sit down and have a clinical conversation about it beforehand, so to an extent it comes down to listening and giving cues and guidance during, or discussing after - but at the same time on a site like this having a conversation before meeting about boundaries and likes/dislikes allows that discussion too.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Damn shame my veris arent showing lol"

Can you not show them for a short while???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a willing cock sucking pupil.

show me what youve learnt so far and we can take it from there "

Yes Sir

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a self proclaimed blowjob expert but I've been on the recieving end of disappointing oral many times, so I imagine men have the same issue with some women. Communication is key to teaching/learning, and practice makes perfect xx"

Couldn't of put it ant better.. I think some people lie to please... counter productive

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??

Maybe talking and listening would help "

Would you tell the person if they were not doing it to your liking OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a willing cock sucking pupil. "

What a shame your not a little closer.. you could practice all you wanted.. after school of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??

Maybe talking and listening would help

Would you tell the person if they were not doing it to your liking OP?"

No I would make suggestions in a tactful way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??

Maybe talking and listening would help

Would you tell the person if they were not doing it to your liking OP?

No I would make suggestions in a tactful way"

And as we are all different I'd encourage who ever I was playing with totally me what and how they like it

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??

Maybe talking and listening would help

Would you tell the person if they were not doing it to your liking OP?"

I'm more subtle than that; I usually say "I really need to fuck you now" if the oral technique is going nowhere

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Not had any complaints about mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go at it like the clappers

Is my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know what you mean ive had 2 women work their mouth crazily howver the others are just lazy or too giddy to have my in the stomach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am lucky enough to have received the worlds most incredible blowjob. I couldn’t remember my name.

Anyways happy to use that as a control in order to confirm if others are good, great or mind blowing.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You know what they say. Practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving and communication vital still learning so obviously open to more ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the best blowjobs 100% come from those who are in touch with your reactions and can read body language, noises and figure out what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving and communication vital still learning so obviously open to more ideas "

I love receiving but also it should be reciprocated by the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a willing cock sucking pupil.

show me what youve learnt so far and we can take it from there

Yes Sir "

....and we can incentivise / reward with a spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving a guy oral. I've been told I'm good and have a video to prove it.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"Tis more an accurate statement than a discussion. Lol.

J "

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Some women just have a knack for it.

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Everyone is different unfortunately/fortunately and so they enjoy different things. Don't think there's such a thing as a blowjob expert because of this IMO.

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"But the best blowjobs 100% come from those who are in touch with your reactions and can read body language, noises and figure out what works for you."

Bang on

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I find men like it done in different ways! My last fwb just liked the tip in my mouth and never his balls in my mouth or even touched others love their balls sucked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is key. I have a certain way I like to do it but I would ask my partner if he likes it a different way

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I find men like it done in different ways! My last fwb just liked the tip in my mouth and never his balls in my mouth or even touched others love their balls sucked x"

The tips the best bit ..the shafts just for show lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true this op half whom have said they are great at it have actually been the worst all about soft and gentle for me not something from a dodgy porno were her eyes are watering and sucking it like trying to get water through a hosepipe

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...

Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...

Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol"
I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn


"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...

Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol "

Absolutely... Got to be really careful the gun doesnt fire when its just the end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...

Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol

Absolutely... Got to be really careful the gun doesnt fire when its just the end! "
definitely pal lol had an ex who could have me spunking with one lubed up finger on the banjo string or the frenulum as it's known

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn


"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...

Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol

Absolutely... Got to be really careful the gun doesnt fire when its just the end! definitely pal lol had an ex who could have me spunking with one lubed up finger on the banjo string or the frenulum as it's known "

Thats a name im only too familier, after ripping it!!

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I think the problem with both situations is people think one technique suits all and it doesn't. I know guys who love deepthroating and others who hate it. Some who like a lot of focus on the head and vein. Some who like a little grazing with the teeth.

Balls are the same. Everyone likes different things. Its part of what I love, discovering what someone enjoys and what does nothing for them. Maybe thats just me...

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Like others have also said it depends on what the other person likes .I give my husband the best blowjobs but that don’t mean I’m a expert it’s because I know exactly what he likes and how he likes it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...

Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol

Absolutely... Got to be really careful the gun doesnt fire when its just the end! definitely pal lol had an ex who could have me spunking with one lubed up finger on the banjo string or the frenulum as it's known

Thats a name im only too familier, after ripping it!! "
ouch my mates lad did a few months back while i was in the house he was banging hes bird upstairs and ripped it honestly the blood coming out of it was not nice he ended up in A@E never seen so much blood from such a small tear

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

My poor husband had a terrible blowjob she used her teeth and I miss took his grimace and thought he was enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My poor husband had a terrible blowjob she used her teeth and I miss took his grimace and thought he was enjoying it "
lol poor bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral to a woman, those juicy lips are awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry its 2020 what's a blowjob?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had complaints from men or women when I give oral. I love giving it though, and sulk if he doesn’t let me suck him, haha. Luckily he’s very obliging. I like to see what people respond to and make it as enjoyable as I can. Love it when I suck and lick him to completion, or when a woman’s legs shake and she moans, as she cums again and again! such a buzz!! Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half of all people are below average at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love getting a blow Job however no matter how good it is I can never finish on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, very important is to know that the woman is really enjoying giving the blowjob, in that case I enjoy the most. Also, it should be a proper suction not just touching it with your lips. And I like when she is touching and tickling my balls during the blowjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having given both I feel it's definitely the person. Some like it rough some not some like the tougne action. I'm no pro but I could please some and disappoint others as we all could. I'm willing to be put to the test!!

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings


"For me, very important is to know that the woman is really enjoying giving the blowjob, in that case I enjoy the most. Also, it should be a proper suction not just touching it with your lips. And I like when she is touching and tickling my balls during the blowjob."

Agree if she is enjoying it much nicer. I love to give oral but communicate even if just a oh are when it's good ladies every little moan helps and we are not talking about the light bulb that neads changing that's just moaning

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I think the secret to the perfect bj is the giver has to enjoy giving them seems to have always worked in my favour anyway

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By *onnyh19Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I think the secret to the perfect bj is the giver has to enjoy giving them seems to have always worked in my favour anyway "
couldn't agree more

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"I think the secret to the perfect bj is the giver has to enjoy giving them seems to have always worked in my favour anyway "

Yep - you can’t beat genuine enthusiasm!

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Well i have never had any complaints from the ones iv given in the past

So much so they fuck off but then come back months later wanting to meet up agsin

But hey ho

Only get one chsnce with me tho

Fuck me fuck me off thrn come back for mor after seein people in relstionships n they split up

N msg me to meet thrm

Pity they fucked up first time

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By *ashgaMan
over a year ago

Berwick-upon-Tweed

I have never had a cock i could not make cum from my mouth love str8 blokes who will say that the gf/wife won't suck them off makes more for me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Never had any complaints but then that's because they can barely remember their name while I'm sucking them off

Lol all jokes aside I genuinely enjoy sucking a cock and have been complimented on my skills numerous times.

Oddly I hate porn with endless blowjob scenes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Willing for women to practice on me ha ha

Seriously though, I guess communicating is paramount in anything to do with sex or anything else for that matter.

Probably why I get frustrated on here when you get no response lol x

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