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offering to pay for sex!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

had many such offers recently what the hell is going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them !!!!!!!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Some people think money will buy you anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes we have reported them its the insult that gets to us

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Only ever had one, I feel a bit left out now.

Reported him and moved on.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find it flattering and also a sad indictment on the number of people who don't get their eyes checked regularly. Then I report them.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I find it flattering and also a sad indictment on the number of people who don't get their eyes checked regularly. Then I report them. "

Should have gone to FabSavers

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By *ichelle and DaveCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We used to get the occasional offer but not recently now it’s more about people offering gifts for time spent with Michelle.....

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"We used to get the occasional offer but not recently now it’s more about people offering gifts for time spent with Michelle..... "

Gifts? Like the three wise men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

usually followed by ££££ signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some in the past but not reasont just repot and block

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Feeling really offended now. I've only had two in my whole time here

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I get this a lot. I don’t find it insulting as such, but it does piss me off as it’s such a double standard on here. Women selling pics are spoken about as if they’re the scum of the earth, but men actually soliciting doesn’t seem to get the same outcry.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Feeling really offended now. I've only had two in my whole time here "

I will give you the contents of my handbag in exchange for a date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

makes us feel dirty as they think its prostitution

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I will except chocolate and biscuits please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them on a daily basis.

I find it a insult to me and themselves.Not for all the money in the world would I sell my body and morals for money and they must be really desperate and can't get anyone interested in them to resort to having to pay people to meet them x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Feeling really offended now. I've only had two in my whole time here

I will give you the contents of my handbag in exchange for a date "

Woo hoo! I'm in!

Or am I meant to negotiate? I just don't know what to do now. I'm all a fluster!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its degrading

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Don't think ever.

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I get them on a daily basis.

I find it a insult to me and themselves.Not for all the money in the world would I sell my body and morals for money and they must be really desperate and can't get anyone interested in them to resort to having to pay people to meet them x "
to be fair tiny I think your priceless and golden x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get them on a daily basis.

I find it a insult to me and themselves.Not for all the money in the world would I sell my body and morals for money and they must be really desperate and can't get anyone interested in them to resort to having to pay people to meet them x to be fair tiny I think your priceless and golden x"

Thank you x

It is a insult though isn't it x

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Feeling really offended now. I've only had two in my whole time here

I will give you the contents of my handbag in exchange for a date

Woo hoo! I'm in!

Or am I meant to negotiate? I just don't know what to do now. I'm all a fluster! "

I’m not sure on the etiquette, I’ll give you the lot though. Congratulations on being the proud owner of 5 tic tacs, a pocket pack of tissues, 2 old train tickets, a go-outdoors members card, a sad looking lipstick, 56p and one of those tiny umbrellas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get it a lot because my profile said not meeting so I would get how many £££ to convince you to meet . One offered 2k once which I thought surely he good get better value else where

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I get them on a daily basis.

I find it a insult to me and themselves.Not for all the money in the world would I sell my body and morals for money and they must be really desperate and can't get anyone interested in them to resort to having to pay people to meet them x to be fair tiny I think your priceless and golden x

Thank you x

It is a insult though isn't it x "
definitely and sad for a guy that needs to offer ,never paid and never will .

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife


"its degrading"

I agree I tried it once more of trying out a kink it did nothing for me and felt sick afterwords and the guy was a right pig thinking just because he was paying he was able to do what he likes now I just block and report

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Feeling really offended now. I've only had two in my whole time here

I will give you the contents of my handbag in exchange for a date

Woo hoo! I'm in!

Or am I meant to negotiate? I just don't know what to do now. I'm all a fluster!

I’m not sure on the etiquette, I’ll give you the lot though. Congratulations on being the proud owner of 5 tic tacs, a pocket pack of tissues, 2 old train tickets, a go-outdoors members card, a sad looking lipstick, 56p and one of those tiny umbrellas. "

That's just at least doubled my net worth!

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Payment in respect, giggles, sticky patches and skittles should be all that's ever required

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I think that prostitution is okay though and bet some on here do get paid .

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Never been offered cash outright, but hotel stay and dinner, once or twice though. Not sure if that counts to be honest

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By *ichelle and DaveCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"We used to get the occasional offer but not recently now it’s more about people offering gifts for time spent with Michelle.....

Gifts? Like the three wise men?"

Lol no like shoes, clothing etc

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife


"Never been offered cash outright, but hotel stay and dinner, once or twice though. Not sure if that counts to be honest "
no I don't think that counts that's more of a 1st date thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get them on a daily basis.

I find it a insult to me and themselves.Not for all the money in the world would I sell my body and morals for money and they must be really desperate and can't get anyone interested in them to resort to having to pay people to meet them x to be fair tiny I think your priceless and golden x

Thank you x

It is a insult though isn't it x definitely and sad for a guy that needs to offer ,never paid and never will ."

Sex should be about wanting.it shouldn't come down to a cash exchange with desperate random strangers.That just makes my skin crawl.Vile empty robot feelingless sex so they can get rid of there frustration on you. (Sick) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get them on a daily basis.

I find it a insult to me and themselves.Not for all the money in the world would I sell my body and morals for money and they must be really desperate and can't get anyone interested in them to resort to having to pay people to meet them x to be fair tiny I think your priceless and golden x

Thank you x

It is a insult though isn't it x definitely and sad for a guy that needs to offer ,never paid and never will .

Sex should be about wanting.it shouldn't come down to a cash exchange with desperate random strangers.That just makes my skin crawl.Vile empty robot feelingless sex so they can get rid of there frustration on you. (Sick) x "
exactly

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I get them on a daily basis.

I find it a insult to me and themselves.Not for all the money in the world would I sell my body and morals for money and they must be really desperate and can't get anyone interested in them to resort to having to pay people to meet them x to be fair tiny I think your priceless and golden x

Thank you x

It is a insult though isn't it x definitely and sad for a guy that needs to offer ,never paid and never will .

Sex should be about wanting.it shouldn't come down to a cash exchange with desperate random strangers.That just makes my skin crawl.Vile empty robot feelingless sex so they can get rid of there frustration on you. (Sick) x "
I’m falling in love for you that is my gift lol

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford


"Feeling really offended now. I've only had two in my whole time here "

We’ve only had one, obviously need to try harder

Lily

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By *ilkChocManMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Just to check... Saying to a girl 'Heres 10p, go call your mum and tell her you won't be home tonight'.

That's Def not paying for sex right?

Asking for a friend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sex.........but if any one want to buy me I'm 240+vat per day based on 8 hours, i come with a digger, delivery is charged extra at 57 pence per mile,fuel is included.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just to check... Saying to a girl 'Heres 10p, go call your mum and tell her you won't be home tonight'.

That's Def not paying for sex right?

Asking for a friend..."
guess not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of offers to buy my dirty knickers

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

I've never been offered money.

That's what I find insulting....

E

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

in that case go for it

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By *exyredheadtattooCouple
over a year ago

Beaumont

Wish someone would offer money, I just might do it!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Wish someone would offer money, I just might do it!"

Be careful what you wish for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

who is selling man or wife???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a queue?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Funny enough I never had that problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there a queue? "
there is no queue for degradation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes we have reported them its the insult that gets to us"

Take it as a compliment. They really want to meet you.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

It happens here I just politely decline x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get offered money

These cunts want me to get covid for free!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"yes we have reported them its the insult that gets to us

Take it as a compliment. They really want to meet you. "

I don't think it's a compliment. In my view, people offering money like that would fuck anyone that agreed to it.

We've been offered money a few times - report, block, delete and move on

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I dont get offered money

These cunts want me to get covid for free!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t been offered money for sex yet, but people have offered money to do some other very strange things that I’m not sure would bring them much happiness or joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes we have reported them its the insult that gets to us

Take it as a compliment. They really want to meet you.

I don't think it's a compliment. In my view, people offering money like that would fuck anyone that agreed to it.

We've been offered money a few times - report, block, delete and move on "

I don't think it's a compliment either, but feeling shit isn't good. Changing how you feel about something makes life easier/ happier.

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I don’t pay but I love leaving a heavy deposit behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get them on a daily basis.

I find it a insult to me and themselves.Not for all the money in the world would I sell my body and morals for money and they must be really desperate and can't get anyone interested in them to resort to having to pay people to meet them x to be fair tiny I think your priceless and golden x

Thank you x

It is a insult though isn't it x definitely and sad for a guy that needs to offer ,never paid and never will .

Sex should be about wanting.it shouldn't come down to a cash exchange with desperate random strangers.That just makes my skin crawl.Vile empty robot feelingless sex so they can get rid of there frustration on you. (Sick) x I’m falling in love for you that is my gift lol "

Wow lol x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here."

I don't think its about sex worker shaming.

As theres a difference between those offering money for sex and those offering sex for money.

It's a matter of personal opinion not shaming just someone's opinion on it x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here."

Agreed x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Don't think ever. "

Me either

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

If needs must I deffo would and feel no shame x

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

How much is the going rate for a shag nowadays anyway .

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"had many such offers recently what the hell is going on"

Christmas bonus and either a perception that money motivates everyone or that money helps to skip the “boring getting to know you parts” and instead jump right into the “sexy sexy part”.

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By *ithintemptationsCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

And yet everyone with a site supporter badge has paid there fiver in there quest for the search of something sexually related....oh the irony...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here."

No shaming of sex workers at all people are discussing their personal experiences of being offered monetary incentives for sexual favours on this site and how it makes them feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here."

I agree. Sex work is legitimate for some people, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

I wouldn’t accept money for sex either, but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with people that do.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Had the odd one on here and other sites too

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Really I'm sorry to you all if I'd known it would offend I'd have offered chocolate instead seriously though why if there that despite there's plenty of people on the streets that want your money this site is getting worse should be reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report them !!!!!!!!"

The one I did is still on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And yet everyone with a site supporter badge has paid there fiver in there quest for the search of something sexually related....oh the irony... "
we pay to say we are real not wannabes or freeloaders and can upload more pics more cam access etc and help support a site that in most parts is free

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"had many such offers recently what the hell is going on"
perhaps some have got their Xmas bonus early

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I’ve thought about paying for it with escorts as I’d really like a threesome with two women, as the chance to get it any other way are very slim at best.

Don’t know if I would pay for it though.

Certainly never been offered money for it ??????

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"I’ve thought about paying for it with escorts as I’d really like a threesome with two women, as the chance to get it any other way are very slim at best.

Don’t know if I would pay for it though.

Certainly never been offered money for it ??????"

?? Where supposed to be laughing faces!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much is the going rate for a shag nowadays anyway ."

The never say it's usually a message with £££ attached.

I'm sure they could get a cheaper sex worker - I'll take no less than £1000

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I been offered sex for cash so many times, i still get that odd msg , when i ask why sex for money they always say because they have read my profile lol

They can't understand i just mean i like privacy because professional reason and my daily life

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

My eldest daughter she is 46 so we more like sisters knows I'm on here and jokingly says when I tell her people offer money well if u gonna do it for free u might as well get a bit of money lmfao! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here."

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day."

Very true and b doing something enjoyable! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been offered money for sex. But anyone with a spare couple of quid, I'm yours

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I've never been offered money for sex. But anyone with a spare couple of quid, I'm yours "

I’m fresh out of cash but I have a few quids worth of Christmas stamps if you’re interested.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Always being offered money. It’s a sad state of affairs that some people think that all it takes is a bit of cash.

There are websites for sex workers if that’s your thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only 2.

Both from guys.

One just wanted to suck me off and then put money in my pocket and run away.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

I've only had a couple, i don't find it degrading unless they don't put enough pound signs after the message

(I'm not soliciting, just being light hearted)

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day."

^^this

I don't think any job is more or less degrading than another, everyone chooses their own path, and sex work really shouldn't be seen as a bad thing

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By *ithintemptationsCouple
over a year ago

plymouth


"And yet everyone with a site supporter badge has paid there fiver in there quest for the search of something sexually related....oh the irony... we pay to say we are real not wannabes or freeloaders and can upload more pics more cam access etc and help support a site that in most parts is free "
true in part,but having a site badge dosn't guarantee the profile and person is real,i digress..

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I genuinely get these kind of offers every week i just politely decline

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day."

God yes, I’ve done my share of those jobs and I don’t see how sex work (that is done of a person’s own free will) could be more dehumanising than that.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

To those who are saying there’s no sex worker shaming going on, please understand that the many, many comments about how disgusting, insulting, degrading etc it is to be mistaken for or treated like a sex worker, is actually shaming because it heavily implies that you believe sex work is disgusting, insulting, degrading etc.

I get (or did before my profile got screwed up) roughly one offer of payment every two weeks or so. I report and move on - I don’t get insulted unless they mention a figure which is well below the going rate.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day.

God yes, I’ve done my share of those jobs and I don’t see how sex work (that is done of a person’s own free will) could be more dehumanising than that."

A very high proportion of sex workers certainly don’t do it of their own free will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its shocking,was meeting a couple and when i was near their house they texted to say they wanted €100,some nerve.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day.

God yes, I’ve done my share of those jobs and I don’t see how sex work (that is done of a person’s own free will) could be more dehumanising than that.

A very high proportion of sex workers certainly don’t do it of their own free will.

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Which is why I specifically stated when it is done of their own free will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day.

God yes, I’ve done my share of those jobs and I don’t see how sex work (that is done of a person’s own free will) could be more dehumanising than that."

Yep I've done those jobs too.

Painful, humiliating and soul destroying for pennies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day."

But in your job you are safe. Sex workers have been r*ped, murdered and at the least beaten badly by punters. Yoyr job maybe crap money wise but you are not risking your life. John.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day.

God yes, I’ve done my share of those jobs and I don’t see how sex work (that is done of a person’s own free will) could be more dehumanising than that.

A very high proportion of sex workers certainly don’t do it of their own free will.

Which is why I specifically stated when it is done of their own free will "

Well done you!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We don't think twice about paying to go to swingers clubs for sex yet the majority think its disgusting doing sex work, we don't think twice about having sex with someone we've just met yet act like we have high morals compared to sex workers lol.

Both the adult and swinging industry are a big money earner these days so who is morally right or wrong when profiting from sex, private swinging parties are regarded as living of immoral earnings and are technically illegal yet no one raises an eyebrow over these.

People shouldn't be allowed to ask for money for sex on FAB but equally we think payment for private parties shouldn't be advertised on here too.

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By *randMrsJones500Couple
over a year ago

edgware


"Not sex.........but if any one want to buy me I'm 240+vat per day based on 8 hours, i come with a digger, delivery is charged extra at 57 pence per mile,fuel is included."
brilliant

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"We don't think twice about paying to go to swingers clubs for sex yet the majority think its disgusting doing sex work, we don't think twice about having sex with someone we've just met yet act like we have high morals compared to sex workers lol.

Both the adult and swinging industry are a big money earner these days so who is morally right or wrong when profiting from sex, private swinging parties are regarded as living of immoral earnings and are technically illegal yet no one raises an eyebrow over these.

People shouldn't be allowed to ask for money for sex on FAB but equally we think payment for private parties shouldn't be advertised on here too.

"

Agreed. There are lots of gb parties where single fellas are charged to go. Usually organised by a sex worker.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Depressing how much sex worker shaming is going on here.

Everyone loves a bit of judgey behaviour on Fab

Personally I think working in a minimum wage job for a soulless corporation, for a minimum of 40hrs a week that barely covers your outgoings, with managers not even bothering to learn your name and being crippled at the end of a shift because you've been on your feet all day - is much more degrading than being a sex worker.

They probably earn more in an hour than the poor bastards on £8 per hour get in a day."

I agree Poppins.

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By *enhamhoopMan
over a year ago

Denham


"Don't think ever.

Me either "
Let's remedy that then I offer a Silver Jubilee Stamp collection and a box of After Eight mints(Be quick about this offer or there will be a few missing)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been offered money for sex. But anyone with a spare couple of quid, I'm yours

I’m fresh out of cash but I have a few quids worth of Christmas stamps if you’re interested. "

I do need some stamps...

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"We don't think twice about paying to go to swingers clubs for sex yet the majority think its disgusting doing sex work, we don't think twice about having sex with someone we've just met yet act like we have high morals compared to sex workers lol.

Both the adult and swinging industry are a big money earner these days so who is morally right or wrong when profiting from sex, private swinging parties are regarded as living of immoral earnings and are technically illegal yet no one raises an eyebrow over these.

People shouldn't be allowed to ask for money for sex on FAB but equally we think payment for private parties shouldn't be advertised on here too.

Agreed. There are lots of gb parties where single fellas are charged to go. Usually organised by a sex worker."

Yes GB parties and swinging parties exploiting guys for big bucks we know and people go on about sex workers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes us feel dirty as they think its prostitution"

That's because you are seeing you as a person

These people see your faceless fanny shots and the 'you' that you see becomes de-humanised and de-valued

You become a receptacle, a commodity and available

Commodities can be bought

I don't think you are right to feel insulted or dirty however, because their offers aren't directed at you the person, they are directed at a series of candid images on a Swingers site

The person behind images them doesn't really exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't think twice about paying to go to swingers clubs for sex yet the majority think its disgusting doing sex work, we don't think twice about having sex with someone we've just met yet act like we have high morals compared to sex workers lol.

Both the adult and swinging industry are a big money earner these days so who is morally right or wrong when profiting from sex, private swinging parties are regarded as living of immoral earnings and are technically illegal yet no one raises an eyebrow over these.

People shouldn't be allowed to ask for money for sex on FAB but equally we think payment for private parties shouldn't be advertised on here too.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes us feel dirty as they think its prostitution

That's because you are seeing you as a person

These people see your faceless fanny shots and the 'you' that you see becomes de-humanised and de-valued

You become a receptacle, a commodity and available

Commodities can be bought

I don't think you are right to feel insulted or dirty however, because their offers aren't directed at you the person, they are directed at a series of candid images on a Swingers site

The person behind images them doesn't really exist"

I don't know why more people don't understand this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had to offer cash really,

When I get turned down I usually get told "Go fuck yourself"...

So, once I'm done doing that I'm usually not horny any more...

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Maybe some people are desperate for money and will do whatever it takes to put food on the table.

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is more regarding the "buyers" rather than "sellers" if you catch my drift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes us feel dirty as they think its prostitution

That's because you are seeing you as a person

These people see your faceless fanny shots and the 'you' that you see becomes de-humanised and de-valued

You become a receptacle, a commodity and available

Commodities can be bought

I don't think you are right to feel insulted or dirty however, because their offers aren't directed at you the person, they are directed at a series of candid images on a Swingers site

The person behind images them doesn't really exist"

That's so depressing

But probably true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes us feel dirty as they think its prostitution

That's because you are seeing you as a person

These people see your faceless fanny shots and the 'you' that you see becomes de-humanised and de-valued

You become a receptacle, a commodity and available

Commodities can be bought

I don't think you are right to feel insulted or dirty however, because their offers aren't directed at you the person, they are directed at a series of candid images on a Swingers site

The person behind images them doesn't really exist"

Totally agree. Sadly much like most criminal activities too otherwise we wouldn't experience as much of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't think twice about paying to go to swingers clubs for sex yet the majority think its disgusting doing sex work, we don't think twice about having sex with someone we've just met yet act like we have high morals compared to sex workers lol.

Both the adult and swinging industry are a big money earner these days so who is morally right or wrong when profiting from sex, private swinging parties are regarded as living of immoral earnings and are technically illegal yet no one raises an eyebrow over these.

People shouldn't be allowed to ask for money for sex on FAB but equally we think payment for private parties shouldn't be advertised on here too.

Agreed. There are lots of gb parties where single fellas are charged to go. Usually organised by a sex worker.

Yes GB parties and swinging parties exploiting guys for big bucks we know and people go on about sex workers..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I get offered is my site supporter fee lol.

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By *edbull cplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Y people are offering money for sex . We had few offers recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y people are offering money for sex . We had few offers recently "

Report.

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By *9problemsMan
over a year ago

Winchester

They can pay as much as they like, mines not for sale!

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