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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have 2.

1 - The lack of dis-respect some people have ( especially handling rejection )

2 - “Why doesn’t nobody meet?” Statuses ( considering we’re in the middle of a global pandemic! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are

Being asked how I am

it literally drives me INSANE

Being asked a question in text speak.

Being asked something that is clearly written on my profile.

Being asked to chat, then when I ask them what they would like to chat about they say 'anythihg you like'

.....well YOU asked to chat!! You must know what you want to chat about!!

There will be more, let me think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being pestered over and over again after I’ve said “not interested”.

More than one attempt after that you get blocked. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 2.

1 - The lack of dis-respect some people have ( especially handling rejection )

2 - “Why doesn’t nobody meet?” Statuses ( considering we’re in the middle of a global pandemic! )

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Commenting on how sexy/ great/etc my photos are when I never have any visible

People who start a thread to ask a question in the forum, then start another almost identical one days later.

Men who start a thread on the forum just so they can pm any women who reply.

People who start a thread, and sit back and watch it go off but never return to the thread to comment or answer questions.

People who tell you on their status how shit the site is and that they are leaving. This isn't an airport, your departure doesn't need announcing Hun!

For some odd reason, this one bothers me waaaaay more than it should as it has zero effect on me .....people who announce they are leaving then don't. How stupid do you look

People complaining nobody currently meets ....now lets think if there is a reason for that.....

Status' or profiles that make it clear the person doesn't know the difference between a sex site and a swingers site.

No doubt I will think of more, I've been here a very long time

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Profiles asking for a face pic in first message when they don’t have any pics at all on show themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance and rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 2.

1 - The lack of dis-respect some people have ( especially handling rejection )

2 - “Why doesn’t nobody meet?” Statuses ( considering we’re in the middle of a global pandemic! )

Commenting on how sexy/ great/etc my photos are when I never have any visible

People who start a thread to ask a question in the forum, then start another almost identical one days later.

Men who start a thread on the forum just so they can pm any women who reply.

People who start a thread, and sit back and watch it go off but never return to the thread to comment or answer questions.

People who tell you on their status how shit the site is and that they are leaving. This isn't an airport, your departure doesn't need announcing Hun!

For some odd reason, this one bothers me waaaaay more than it should as it has zero effect on me .....people who announce they are leaving then don't. How stupid do you look

People complaining nobody currently meets ....now lets think if there is a reason for that.....

Status' or profiles that make it clear the person doesn't know the difference between a sex site and a swingers site.

No doubt I will think of more, I've been here a very long time

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I totally get your long list...

However is a totally different list for men here.

To me the worst is someone who has Read a message and doesn’t say anything. Nor good, nor bad. What does it mean? If I reply again I’m pestering and if I don’t reply I don’t show enough interest...

I know women get 100s messages here but just two words like, no thanks, or not now, or maybe in the future... would help a lot

Just saying...

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Folk unable to read my profile

Single straight non Bi guy messaging for happy times now

Blocked profiles

Arseholes

Wankers

And

Cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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To me the worst is someone who has Read a message and doesn’t say anything. Nor good, nor bad. What does it mean? If I reply again I’m pestering and if I don’t reply I don’t show enough interest...

I know women get 100s messages here but just two words like, no thanks, or not now, or maybe in the future... would help a lot

Just saying...

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It means they are not interested. As per the site FAQs. If someone messages me and their profile or message catches my interest, I will reply. I don't have time to hand craft a response to every bit of junk mail that comes thru my door, it gets binned, same applies here on fab....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad spelling and grammar

Preachers

Look at me merchants

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Those absolutely ridiculous disclaimer type things about Sydney Uni and Fab being a publicly traded entity. Especially when the disclaimer is longer than the profile text itself.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Currently.... pretenders and photo thiefs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of messages in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who proceed to try and change my mind when I say no thanks. Especially when they start getting rude or nasty.

People who have been on the site for a long time, yet have zero pics or information about themselves (we've all seen the words... fill in later)

Pushy women and couples trying to get me to chat about playing with them when nowhere on my profile does it say I am bisexual or looking to meet anyone other than men

Being ghosted and realising I was just being used for a wank lol

Guys who talk about being able to accom and then when things get real, suddenly live with their brothers, mothers, aunts, etc etc

I'm sure there are more but I'm actually talking myself out of being here so I'll stop lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think whatever you write on your profile it doesn't matter, people will still send you a message and think to themselves that they have got a chance. The biggest pet hate is the same people over and over and over and over again creating a new profile everyday when you block them when you tell someone no it means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies who have age restrictions

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

All of the above ........

. &.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies who have age restrictions"

Says the man who has age restrictions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That stupid disclaimer on a profile threatening legal action. Even if it was enforceable, which it isn't, your taking nobody to court over your pictures!

Threads from men, mostly saying, people should reply to my messages as its rude, er no its not! says when you join no reply is your answer!

Messages from straight guy's who can't accommodate and are miles and miles away who are suddenly bi and can accommodate, but only at half three in the morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moany threads

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’ve read a few of all yr pet dislikes... crist, why are some of u on here ... the simple polite things u hate and then moan when it turns abusive ..

Jesus lighten up, it’s a swinging meeting site.. not a WI convention ... is asking are u ok and how’s things such a huge crime ?

Bet some of u would be pissed off if u got the first message of “fuck off” ... I can see many blocks... block away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bunnies. I hate the bunnies.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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The lack of people who worship me.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"The lack of people who worship me.

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I bow at your feet Meli

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be worshipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men asking to meet. Despite me being straight and covid safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)"

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

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What house are you? I’m definitely a Hufflepuff

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Photos taken over a toilet or loads of cock pics on a profile.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

What house are you? I’m definitely a Hufflepuff

"

Slytherin

Went to Studio tour for my 30th without the kids, got to open the doors to the Great Hall by myself

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

'Genuune'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

What house are you? I’m definitely a Hufflepuff

Slytherin

Went to Studio tour for my 30th without the kids, got to open the doors to the Great Hall by myself

"

Oh my goodness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random Friend Requests

& people not bringing snacks to meets haha! Good fucking can be tiring! We all gonna be hungry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. People that don't read profiles

2. Forum threads that deliberately exclude a section of forumites ie "Ladies only"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

What house are you? I’m definitely a Hufflepuff

Slytherin

Went to Studio tour for my 30th without the kids, got to open the doors to the Great Hall by myself

"

You are so blocked! (Well maybe you both look incredible)

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By *ilkChocManMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Sydney university band wagon jumpers who copy paste without a clue what they are doing.

Profiles that rant on for ages any random crap - it's not Facebook people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

"
have you seen harry trotter and the smelly old shoe brush on youtube? I laughed so hard at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1: Not being pestered

2: Women not realising that unsolicited pics of them in sexy lingerie will be tolerated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 women who wont answer my message

2 women who refuse to get pumped up the bum

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
over a year ago

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The dishonesty about sexuality, if you can't be honest on a place like this then where can you be.

Over sensitivity from people, who can't take a no reply as a no thank you, it's in the frequently asked questions section ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a message says something like

"I read your profile and I know I'm not what you're looking for, but I thought I'd try anyway"

Why? Just why?

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

What house are you? I’m definitely a Hufflepuff

Slytherin

Went to Studio tour for my 30th without the kids, got to open the doors to the Great Hall by myself

Oh my goodness!

"

Slytherin and Hufflepuff are a winning combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who cant handle rejection, who then offer you money- its still no!

Profiles with no veris demanding face pics in a first message

Hey how are you messages

Hidden agendas

Single men profiles asking to meet with their GF when they havent got a couples profile... pahhhh, jokers

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

The disclaimers that people use in their profiles

and the insert the secret word to prove you’ve bothered to of read their profile

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I have 2.

1 - The lack of dis-respect some people have ( especially handling rejection )

2 - “Why doesn’t nobody meet?” Statuses ( considering we’re in the middle of a global pandemic! )

"

I must be misunderstanding your first point!

A pet hate of yours is the lack of disrespect some people have, as in you want them to be more disrespectful such as when handling rejection?

Do you mean the lack of respect, or the amount of disrespect shown?

I would say that my biggest pet hate are the “look at me” forum posts.

Yes you have a penis. Yes you have boobs.

Make them do a trick and I may be impressed.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"Fill in later"

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By *obajxMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

People who start a thread with any minor thought that comes into their tiny mind

What brand of butter do you use on your toast?

Who on here really wants to know!

Anchor BTW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to say it but I can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much. I have one that I really do dislike but I could be accused of doing it if I mention it. Hypocrisy is such a fine line

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

1. People who dont read profiles

2. Men who cant take no for an answer and keep messaging after my polite "no thank you"

3. Copy and paste messages - come on guys it's so obvious

4. Text speak

5. A bit of a controversial one here - couples who think that every single woman on here must be bisexual and has to play with them!

6. Profiles that are over a year old but still say "fill in later"

7. Couple profiles that are obviously a single male

8. Guys with nicknames referencing 50 shades - anyone who is truly into D/s knows that film is about abuse!

9. Cock pics taken over dirty toilets

10. Profiles with 50 plus pics and they are all cock pics

Damn I'm surprised I'm still on here with that list!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Those who send a really cringe graphic 1st message, with no previous contact.

Also people still asking for meets at the moment or think you're immediately free for them.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"1 women who wont answer my message

2 women who refuse to get pumped up the bum"

So infuriating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who start a thread with any minor thought that comes into their tiny mind

What brand of butter do you use on your toast?

Who on here really wants to know!

Anchor BTW

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Salted or unsalted?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Oh and those who assume all women are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of people who have always come on here with no intention of meeting anyone but just for the attention they get.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

When folk assume you’re gagging for sex 24/7 365 days of the year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. People who dont read profiles

2. Men who cant take no for an answer and keep messaging after my polite "no thank you"

3. Copy and paste messages - come on guys it's so obvious

4. Text speak

5. A bit of a controversial one here - couples who think that every single woman on here must be bisexual and has to play with them!

6. Profiles that are over a year old but still say "fill in later"

7. Couple profiles that are obviously a single male

8. Guys with nicknames referencing 50 shades - anyone who is truly into D/s knows that film is about abuse!

9. Cock pics taken over dirty toilets

10. Profiles with 50 plus pics and they are all cock pics

Damn I'm surprised I'm still on here with that list!"

9. I always think this is because they are doing it behind a partners back and the toilet is the only place they can do it

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"The lack of people who worship me.

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But we worship you on the sly. We don’t wish to embarrass you or want you to get above yourself. Stay grounded your highness.

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

"1. People who dont read profiles

2. Men who cant take no for an answer and keep messaging after my polite "no thank you"

3. Copy and paste messages - come on guys it's so obvious

4. Text speak

5. A bit of a controversial one here - couples who think that every single woman on here must be bisexual and has to play with them!

6. Profiles that are over a year old but still say "fill in later"

7. Couple profiles that are obviously a single male

8. Guys with nicknames referencing 50 shades - anyone who is truly into D/s knows that film is about abuse!

9. Cock pics taken over dirty toilets

10. Profiles with 50 plus pics and they are all cock pics

Damn I'm surprised I'm still on here with that list!

9. I always think this is because they are doing it behind a partners back and the toilet is the only place they can do it"

I reckon so too

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

People messaging but being completely over consumed in the size of their cock and how magical it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. People who dont read profiles

2. Men who cant take no for an answer and keep messaging after my polite "no thank you"

3. Copy and paste messages - come on guys it's so obvious

4. Text speak

5. A bit of a controversial one here - couples who think that every single woman on here must be bisexual and has to play with them!

6. Profiles that are over a year old but still say "fill in later"

7. Couple profiles that are obviously a single male

8. Guys with nicknames referencing 50 shades - anyone who is truly into D/s knows that film is about abuse!

9. Cock pics taken over dirty toilets

10. Profiles with 50 plus pics and they are all cock pics

Damn I'm surprised I'm still on here with that list!"

Calm down, dear, it's only a thread! (Michael Winner)

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

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Calm down and drink tea dear, it's only a thread! (Michael Winner)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there is not massive gang bang been organised yet for after lockdown were everyone is invited no matter who you are

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

All the negativity on this site. It gets worse every day.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury

"All the negativity on this site. It gets worse every day. "

Agreed! Forget the negative stuff and celebrate the positive aspects of Fab, such as... It's brought me into all of you lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples that think men are no better than the shit on their shoe

Men in couples who slag the single lads off, but wouldn't get a look in here if they didn't have their wife to fall back on

Peacocking and grandstanding

Overtly flirty come ons, specifically in a thread that isn't sexual

Posting banal things veiled as humour - what I call the 'oooh I've stubbed my toe' threads

Snides - there are persistant offenders on this - throwing sly digs in, often passed off as 'humour' when often it is meant to demean the OP &/or the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the negativity on this site. It gets worse every day. "

This sounds a bit negative...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sanctimonious people in the forum,over opinionated sat on their pedestals and their morally high horse #youknowwhoyouare

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

The rabid behaviour of some pro vaxxers on here. Rabid to the point of aggression towards those advocating free choice. When they don't like the information given to them they resort to personal attacks on people. Unfortunately this isn't exclusive to here either.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Mine are

Being asked how I am

it literally drives me INSANE

Being asked a question in text speak.

Being asked something that is clearly written on my profile.

Being asked to chat, then when I ask them what they would like to chat about they say 'anythihg you like'

.....well YOU asked to chat!! You must know what you want to chat about!!

There will be more, let me think..."

So....how are you ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"The lack of people who worship me.

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I'm not worthy

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"All the negativity on this site. It gets worse every day.

This sounds a bit negative..."

It is positively negative. I’d be a terrible electrician!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

People who do this

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who start a thread with any minor thought that comes into their tiny mind

What brand of butter do you use on your toast?

Who on here really wants to know!

Anchor BTW "

Try the M&S Cornish butter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending abuse with the anonymity of being behind a screen (yep I know that happens online elsewhere)

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I hate it when my box turns yellow and I get all excited but when I open it you guessed its my site support running out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lack of people who worship me.

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I would if you were a bit closer

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Sanctimonious people in the forum,over opinionated sat on their pedestals and their morally high horse #youknowwhoyouare"

STAND on pedestals.

You forgot the pedants.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sanctimonious people in the forum,over opinionated sat on their pedestals and their morally high horse #youknowwhoyouare"

You've been in the virus forum again haven't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they’re trying to seduce you, but, the tone of their message and their entire profile is self centred.

Only cock shots on profile. If all I can see is dick then my only image of you is as a...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sanctimonious people in the forum,over opinionated sat on their pedestals and their morally high horse #youknowwhoyouare

You've been in the virus forum again haven't you

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Haha not really mary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That we can't use normal phone emojis. I could be appeased with even just a laughing face I don't need to type 4 letters for.

(and dont get me started on that wee guy being green!)

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

People that describe themselves as hot or beautiful

The normal, messaging us when they don't fit our profile and they don't fit ours

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By *ouple4funxxagainxxCouple
over a year ago

mold

People requesting face pictures with first message, who have no pictures in their public gallery.

Surely some pictures of yourself/yourselves allow an informed opinion of wether you want to chat and explore the possibility of wanting to know more, then exchange face pictures.

Being polite and nice is not a swinging site crime!

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of manners ...

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"That we can't use normal phone emojis. I could be appeased with even just a laughing face I don't need to type 4 letters for.

(and dont get me started on that wee guy being green!)"

Yes! Sometimes you just need to little winky tongue guy, or the hands covering face monkey,or mostly just the facepalm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People after freebies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single male profile asking to meet for a ffm no pics of said fem then act like you’re intrusive for asking for pics and details of invisible fem

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Lack or no congruence in their profile or communication(e.g dishonesty)

Asking questions that are answered on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That we can't use normal phone emojis. I could be appeased with even just a laughing face I don't need to type 4 letters for.

(and dont get me started on that wee guy being green!)

Yes! Sometimes you just need to little winky tongue guy, or the hands covering face monkey,or mostly just the facepalm..."

I miss the wee holding chin or raised eyebrow one too. I feel forced to either look like I'm being deadly serious (which I very rarely am) if going emoji-less or like a grinning maniac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like everything and everyone.

Oh look... a robin.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

[Removed by poster at 22/12/20 10:37:47]

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

Southwest

"I have 2.

1 - The lack of dis-respect some people have ( especially handling rejection )

2 - “Why doesn’t nobody meet?” Statuses ( considering we’re in the middle of a global pandemic! )

"
When you read the arrogance of some womans profiles, and then when they send a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily status updates informing how many single men I/we’ve blocked today...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deliberate vindictiveness.

I call these people out. They get upset. They cry the victim and scurry away with their tail between their legs.

Remember the saying, ‘when the fun stops, stop’.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

People friend requesting to see my pics when they have zero on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently.... pretenders and photo thiefs...

"

Same, boils my piss! Rach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack or no congruence in their profile or communication(e.g dishonesty)

Asking questions that are answered on our profile.

"

When they say ,"great profile" and you know full well they haven't read it, and you had the same paste and copy two weeks ago lol, Jokers! X

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over a year ago

"I have 2.

1 - The lack of dis-respect some people have ( especially handling rejection )

2 - “Why doesn’t nobody meet?” Statuses ( considering we’re in the middle of a global pandemic! )

Commenting on how sexy/ great/etc my photos are when I never have any visible

People who start a thread to ask a question in the forum, then start another almost identical one days later.

Men who start a thread on the forum just so they can pm any women who reply.

People who start a thread, and sit back and watch it go off but never return to the thread to comment or answer questions.

People who tell you on their status how shit the site is and that they are leaving. This isn't an airport, your departure doesn't need announcing Hun!

For some odd reason, this one bothers me waaaaay more than it should as it has zero effect on me .....people who announce they are leaving then don't. How stupid do you look

People complaining nobody currently meets ....now lets think if there is a reason for that.....

Status' or profiles that make it clear the person doesn't know the difference between a sex site and a swingers site.

No doubt I will think of more, I've been here a very long time

I totally get your long list...

However is a totally different list for men here.

To me the worst is someone who has Read a message and doesn’t say anything. Nor good, nor bad. What does it mean? If I reply again I’m pestering and if I don’t reply I don’t show enough interest...

I know women get 100s messages here but just two words like, no thanks, or not now, or maybe in the future... would help a lot

Just saying...

"

If you read the fab rules they say take no reply as a polite no that they are not interested. Guys need to realise fab is a swinging site abd not a sex hook up site. I think thats where guys get mixed up thinking that because they joined they are then guaranteed to get sex off a female. Do not take it personally as even us cpls get turned down by other cpls as we do not fill the criteria they are looking for. All of us get rejected on times on here. John.

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

Pestering when you decline them, Only so many times you can nicely say no

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Oh the crappy messages when you don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atm, wankers who seem to think covid restrictions dont apply on Fab

Like Fab is somehow exempt from risk

Thick as two short ones

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

People wanting to meet in the middle of a pandemic,

Moany statuses saying no one meets and that they will be coming off,

Statuses about needing a sugar daddy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who message me saying "hey" or "can I ask you anything?"

People who ask to meet during a global pandemic. I'm literally not seeing my mum this Christmas, but you think I'll come over and see you??

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

When I send cock pics and don’t get boobs in return. So rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that openly complain about folk chatting on third party messaging services but yet are active in numerous groups themselves

Ooooohhhhhh the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 2.

1 - The lack of dis-respect some people have ( especially handling rejection )

2 - “Why doesn’t nobody meet?” Statuses ( considering we’re in the middle of a global pandemic! )

"

1 - People who don’t understand the site rules (already seen several in this thread so there you go)

2 - The obnoxious types who become abusive when they don’t get their own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The singular of 'women' is 'woman'.

You want to meet a women? No, you want to meet a woman.

Grammatical idiocy is my biggest pet hate on here (I know). Your browser even tells you when you've made a mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men that have pics, especially public ones, featuring females.

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By *osebud6688Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Biggest pet hate at the moment is constantly being asked to meet during a pandemic.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Impatience

Limited advance search options

It should go without saying but any disrespect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest pet hate at the moment is constantly being asked to meet during a pandemic. "

Also this ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of interaction with the site designers is the most frustrating thing. We often offer up ideas, and all we get is new emojis and photos.

Sort it out admin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention seekers

Cliques

Arse lickers on the forums (rimming outside the forums is allowed

)

Fake profiles not being deleted

Troll profiles

"Sellers"

I'm sure I've missed plenty as well....

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

People who are incapable of holding a conservation and simply talk about themselves, though this isnt confined to fab.

Text speak is another..its so off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phrases like "needing release" "looking to unload"

"real man" "real dom"

But nothing annoys me as much as people assuming that all gay and bi men have anal sex.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

People looking for 'heavy cummers'

Is there a particular target or volume you need to meet?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"People looking for 'heavy cummers'

Is there a particular target or volume you need to meet?"
I knew a chap who claimed he could fill an egg cup impressive I thought let’s say I never had egg and soldiers at his place

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"People looking for 'heavy cummers'

Is there a particular target or volume you need to meet? I knew a chap who claimed he could fill an egg cup impressive I thought let’s say I never had egg and soldiers at his place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste messages

Straight profiles wanting to 'fuck me now'

shadow profiles that are years old with fill this in later

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By *fro-samuraiiMan
over a year ago

c

"I have 2.

1 - The lack of dis-respect some people have ( especially handling rejection )

2 - “Why doesn’t nobody meet?” Statuses ( considering we’re in the middle of a global pandemic! )

Commenting on how sexy/ great/etc my photos are when I never have any visible

People who start a thread to ask a question in the forum, then start another almost identical one days later.

Men who start a thread on the forum just so they can pm any women who reply.

People who start a thread, and sit back and watch it go off but never return to the thread to comment or answer questions.

People who tell you on their status how shit the site is and that they are leaving. This isn't an airport, your departure doesn't need announcing Hun!

For some odd reason, this one bothers me waaaaay more than it should as it has zero effect on me .....people who announce they are leaving then don't. How stupid do you look

People complaining nobody currently meets ....now lets think if there is a reason for that.....

Status' or profiles that make it clear the person doesn't know the difference between a sex site and a swingers site.

No doubt I will think of more, I've been here a very long time

I totally get your long list...

However is a totally different list for men here.

To me the worst is someone who has Read a message and doesn’t say anything. Nor good, nor bad. What does it mean? If I reply again I’m pestering and if I don’t reply I don’t show enough interest...

I know women get 100s messages here but just two words like, no thanks, or not now, or maybe in the future... would help a lot

Just saying...

"

Thank you! Hit the nail on the head there loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being sent a picture (without asking) and then demanding we send one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being sent a picture (without asking) and then demanding we send one back. "

Oh ffs! That’s such a wind up. Hate that, presumed consent, presumed that you give a fuck, or that photo swapping is your thing

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

People who say I don’t bite unless you want me to. Men running the couples profile like mentalists .

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Arrogance(and there's a lot of it on this site) & outright liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sanctimonious people in the forum,over opinionated sat on their pedestals and their morally high horse #youknowwhoyouare"

I resemble that comment. I’ve been accused of being sanctimonious on a number of occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The folks that insist on a face pic when you’ve barely exchanged hello’s are especially irritating.

I’m in the bi closet, I’m not going to risk exposing myself to some random stranger. If we don’t click personality wise then there will be no meet happening, regardless of how each of us look.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

People that point out spelling and grammar and people that make a status that is obviously aimed at someone.

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By *efthandMan
over a year ago

Halton, Cheshire

For me a couple of things frustrate me a little bit more than others.

** The majority of stuff I can deal with, normally because as a single man... I'm thankfully not on the receiving end of most of them.

But those people on statuses that spend day after day complaining. I get we all have the occasion off day and need a little status rant!

If you're that unhappy with the site / people? Then just consider if it's the right place for you.

And (not that I spend lots of time around the forum), but those people who just post the same subject when clearly two posts below is the same question with answers.

A difference to those ongoing chat topics that keep rolling over.

More the...

' I'm thinking of going to a club but too scared to go on my own, what advise do you have'.

Or

' Advice from successful people'.

Yes I get it's a little bit of 'come take a look at me'.

But just look down the forum page and you'll see the same question and answers half a dozen times.

Otherwise, I tend to ignore most little things that could frustrate.

I don't have the time or energy to bother with them! So I steer clear and just do what I want to (as such) on here.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Being pestered over and over again after I’ve said “not interested”.

More than one attempt after that you get blocked. X"

Same. And we are more patient than most who block the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

What house are you? I’m definitely a Hufflepuff

Slytherin

Went to Studio tour for my 30th without the kids, got to open the doors to the Great Hall by myself

Oh my goodness!

Slytherin and Hufflepuff are a winning combination

"

Would their offspring be ‘Slytherpuffs’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that people recieve loads of messages but in my eyes just a simple yes or no thamls wpuld be great to me

Just the fact im not everyones cup of tea probs by the age so just a yes or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Couples' where the guy has to meet you alone first.

50 shades references.

Grown ups who love Harry potter (ok that might not be a fab thing)

Rules me out... bloody love Harry Potter

What house are you? I’m definitely a Hufflepuff

Slytherin

Went to Studio tour for my 30th without the kids, got to open the doors to the Great Hall by myself

Oh my goodness!

Slytherin and Hufflepuff are a winning combination

Would their offspring be ‘Slytherpuffs’

"

No, You're thinking of what Death Eaters have for breakfast. Easily done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that people recieve loads of messages but in my eyes just a simple yes or no thamls wpuld be great to me

Just the fact im not everyones cup of tea probs by the age so just a yes or no "

You really don't get it I'm afraid.

It physically isn't possible to reply yes or no to every message, and approx 70% of the time, a no thank you prompts another message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The single accounts that message we are a couple and the messages like "How are you? Had any luck on here?" For example

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