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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Help needed not getting anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as well half the country is in lockdown I guess.

Personally I suggest a sat nav. That’ll help you find your way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left, right, left, right, one step at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are you hoping to get?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

When meeting is on the cards again, I would consider what you might be able to do to make you more attractive.

Remember that regardless of your message women will first check out your profile.

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Conversation would b start not looking to meet like theses guys above are saying

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Ok that makes sense im guessing mine isn't great

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Conversation would b start not looking to meet like theses guys above are saying "

I would struggle with messaging with you.

Lack of punctuation and proper words, can make meaning very unclear.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Help needed not getting anywhere "

What sort of help? Where do you want to get to? What are your expectations?

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I see what your saying... I'm not great in the typing department

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I dont really have any just to chat

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I see what your saying... I'm not great in the typing department "

See, that was loads better.

Now apply the same to other aspects of Fab... you may get better results... no promises, as many are not looking to make new friends at the moment.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You have to find your own path ..find what works .. and repeat

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm not talking friends.. more flirtation

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would look at a profile before deciding to even chat OP. If it doesn't attract me or say anything about the person on it, then I wouldn't bother.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm not talking friends.. more flirtation "

Try using reply and quote, so we know who you are replying to. Gets confusing otherwise.

I assume you are responding to me.

Many women will want a level of friendship, with anyone they are interested in enough to flirt with.

If you are leading with flattery / sex that may be part of the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Conversation would b start not looking to meet like theses guys above are saying "

I wouldn't take it personally because are not meeting they don't want to start chatting to anyone new.

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Ok that helps .. but just trying to b nice doesn't really work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok that helps .. but just trying to b nice doesn't really work "

Also if when your commenting on the forums and replying to a specific post use reply and quote it makes life a lot easier.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ok that helps .. but just trying to b nice doesn't really work "

Maybe just hang around the forums and forget about the flirting until the situation is better.

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Ok that helps .. but just trying to b nice doesn't really work

Also if when your commenting on the forums and replying to a specific post use reply and quote it makes life a lot easier."
haha maybe I'm just not cut out for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok that helps .. but just trying to b nice doesn't really work "

Your obviously trying to conversate with the wrong people then.Or your opening lines aren't the best....

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Ok that helps .. but just trying to b nice doesn't really work

Maybe just hang around the forums and forget about the flirting until the situation is better."
or maybe just stop for now an see how it works

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's very quiet on here for lots of people, it's just how it is.

Patience is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok that helps .. but just trying to b nice doesn't really work

Also if when your commenting on the forums and replying to a specific post use reply and quote it makes life a lot easier. haha maybe I'm just not cut out for this"

Yes im sure you are.

Hang about the forums for a while because it can be a great way to make connections.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Help needed not getting anywhere "

OP...you have been on Fab for over a year, and have had at least one meet. What's your problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nowhere to go just yet awhile, float about the forums like the rest of us.

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Help needed not getting anywhere

OP...you have been on Fab for over a year, and have had at least one meet. What's your problem?"
i don't have a problem....

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"There is nowhere to go just yet awhile, float about the forums like the rest of us. "
thats definitely what I need to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to stop with the chasing, don't leave but take your foot off the pedal and put your profile on ice

Many, many people don't want to meet at the minute or even talk about the realities of a meat

Flirty chat / conversation has short legs, it's usually a short term fix that won't go anywhere, especially in this climate

People are feeling genuinely unsexy, check the amount of threads in here about a lack of mojo or a loss of libido

So, bearing in mind that already as a single guy you have a limited audience and fall into the largest demographic on the site, balanced against this your chances are slim

Add in that your profile is lacking in content and you're in for an uphill struggle

Now, I'm not saying you won't have success here, but what you're looking for won't be an attractive proposition to many right now

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"My advice would be to stop with the chasing, don't leave but take your foot off the pedal and put your profile on ice

Many, many people don't want to meet at the minute or even talk about the realities of a meat

Flirty chat / conversation has short legs, it's usually a short term fix that won't go anywhere, especially in this climate

People are feeling genuinely unsexy, check the amount of threads in here about a lack of mojo or a loss of libido

So, bearing in mind that already as a single guy you have a limited audience and fall into the largest demographic on the site, balanced against this your chances are slim

Add in that your profile is lacking in content and you're in for an uphill struggle

Now, I'm not saying you won't have success here, but what you're looking for won't be an attractive proposition to many right now "
ok .. I see thsnk u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice would be to stop with the chasing, don't leave but take your foot off the pedal and put your profile on ice

Many, many people don't want to meet at the minute or even talk about the realities of a meat

Flirty chat / conversation has short legs, it's usually a short term fix that won't go anywhere, especially in this climate

People are feeling genuinely unsexy, check the amount of threads in here about a lack of mojo or a loss of libido

So, bearing in mind that already as a single guy you have a limited audience and fall into the largest demographic on the site, balanced against this your chances are slim

Add in that your profile is lacking in content and you're in for an uphill struggle

Now, I'm not saying you won't have success here, but what you're looking for won't be an attractive proposition to many right now "

I guess I could have just said 'wait it out like the rest of us'

That would have saved me 5 minutes

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

If you're pleasant and funny in the forums .. when people do get to meet you .. there's a chance they'll say ooo so you're that guy

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes thank u all ... its a massive help

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hi OP, good to see a new face in the forums.

As others have said it's a numbers game for single men on here and also we are in the middle of the Zombie Apocalypse so people aren't meeting or even up for chatting.

Don't take it personally, contribute positively on the forums and you may get noticed that way.

The biggie is not to take any of this seriously.

Good luck!

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By *ig red22 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Thank u minnie ... I'm taking this all on board.. I will b better at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice would be to stop with the chasing, don't leave but take your foot off the pedal and put your profile on ice

Many, many people don't want to meet at the minute or even talk about the realities of a meat

Flirty chat / conversation has short legs, it's usually a short term fix that won't go anywhere, especially in this climate

People are feeling genuinely unsexy, check the amount of threads in here about a lack of mojo or a loss of libido

So, bearing in mind that already as a single guy you have a limited audience and fall into the largest demographic on the site, balanced against this your chances are slim

Add in that your profile is lacking in content and you're in for an uphill struggle

Now, I'm not saying you won't have success here, but what you're looking for won't be an attractive proposition to many right now

I guess I could have just said 'wait it out like the rest of us'

That would have saved me 5 minutes "

Great advice

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