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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, it wouldn't.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists "

I would have thought it would at least reduce the numbers at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists "

I would of thought it may but the cost of a subscription time wasters will probably still pay it

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

No it wouldn't, a female colleague uses an expensive dating site and still has tales of woe

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Past experience on paid sites suggests not.

Anyway, what is timewasting these days? Most of the country can't meet.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists

I would of thought it may but the cost of a subscription time wasters will probably still pay it

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I doubt it ,swing heaven and stc don’t seem to have this problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do realise that fantasists have money too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists

I would of thought it may but the cost of a subscription time wasters will probably still pay it

I doubt it ,swing heaven and stc don’t seem to have this problem"

I remember SH a bit more friendlier people than this site but more people here definately

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists "

Depends on the monthly fee. Even a £5 a month would out quite a few but there would be plenty still left. So going higher say £15 a month would make a massive difference but also many genuine couples would seriously consider other sites that already charge but have far fewer fakes etc..

Mind you many time wasters are genuine people who pay already but just want the chase. Youlll never get rid of them and end up paying for it.

Tricky one to get the right balance. And non paying profiles have advertising which helps pay the bills so win win for fab whatever way it is.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"You do realise that fantasists have money too."
yea but a lot have to hide it from the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do realise that fantasists have money too."

Yeah, cause they’re millionaire astronaut cowboys.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists

Depends on the monthly fee. Even a £5 a month would out quite a few but there would be plenty still left. So going higher say £15 a month would make a massive difference but also many genuine couples would seriously consider other sites that already charge but have far fewer fakes etc..

Mind you many time wasters are genuine people who pay already but just want the chase. Youlll never get rid of them and end up paying for it.

Tricky one to get the right balance. And non paying profiles have advertising which helps pay the bills so win win for fab whatever way it is. "

Guess so and fab is the most recognised swing site with clubs etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't on other sites so I'd say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it would just crate the bot market

Lot off pay date sites have bots to bolster the numbers to make it look good to the opposite sex

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Doesn't on other sites so I'd say no"

I think it does

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Based on the various posts this year looking for refunds on site subscriptions as the meet function has been disabled during the pandemic, I think if people paid more it'd just increase the sense of entitlement that some seem to have.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Based on the various posts this year looking for refunds on site subscriptions as the meet function has been disabled during the pandemic, I think if people paid more it'd just increase the sense of entitlement that some seem to have. "
at the moment yes that’s understandable people are still using it to meet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists "

What makes you think fantasists don't have money?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

It would be far worse.

The entitlement that poisons the bad interactions would be sharper.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It might stop some time-wasters but it might also stop legitimate people who are good for the site.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No and with so many people either out of work or with job concerns, it would be unfair.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Judging by my experience on other pay sites, it won't help at all.

I find common sense protects against most time wasters, but not everyone seems to possess that these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the girls would get even more hateful mail from certain sections who view us sexworkers already and would feel entitled to something in return for their money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t meet anyway due to covid but still get abuse as a time waster if you politely decline a meet can’t win at the moment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the girls would get even more hateful mail from certain sections who view us sexworkers already and would feel entitled to something in return for their money "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists "

Surely everyone on the site should be a fantasist and not meeting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do you think if fab charged a monthly fee and it was compulsory it would stop the influx of time wasters joining? Some people Using it are complete fantasists "

set mail filters so that only paying members can contact you

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