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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just chatting to someone on here and it came up. What kind of people does your profile attract? I get a lot of guys- some crazies, some rather odd, the rare gem- but also a fair share of TVs and women who just want to chat. I’m happy with my lot. You?

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

I can see why you attract such a varied fan base. I tend to get lots of "straight" men.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

All sorts but mostly guys who got distracted by the photos and forgot to read the text.

I have chatted with lots of lovely people though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know anymore ... I’m exasperated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no-one. But with no profile pic I'm not really surprised

Well over 90% of views are men , which isn't much help.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

It doesn't lol

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

If the "Who has looked at me" is any guide its 99% other men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can see why you attract such a varied fan base. I tend to get lots of "straight" men. "

Ah the famous Fab straight then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Floro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men really and the very rare couple.

Lots of apparently "straight" men. Dunno whether to take it as a compliment or just laugh sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attract no one hey just use me for cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All sorts but mostly guys who got distracted by the photos and forgot to read the text.

I have chatted with lots of lovely people though."

That’s good to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a mixed visitors. Rarely message which is the shame as I like to chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t know anymore ... I’m exasperated "

Can I help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know anymore ... I’m exasperated "

I stalk you everyday I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely no-one. But with no profile pic I'm not really surprised

Well over 90% of views are men , which isn't much help.

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Yep, you know why so get some pics perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get massages from gay men offering. Me suck my cock

How do I block revive massage from category of peoplek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit off the same as you get all sorts had some really lovely chats as well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't lol"

Is that how you like it?

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

It surprises me every day.....the individuals who appear to be attracted to my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the "Who has looked at me" is any guide its 99% other men. "

Bizarre huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Floro "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I attract no one hey just use me for cake "

You have cake?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men really and the very rare couple.

Lots of apparently "straight" men. Dunno whether to take it as a compliment or just laugh sometimes "

I’m an optimist so I’d take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont seem attract anyone.....except lately, men who want to be spanked?

This is not my target audience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I attract no one hey just use me for cake "

Is that your USP? Good luck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A seem to get a lot of single guys. No idea why when I'm not looking for them in the slightest haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete and utter weirdos.Boring penis picture senders with no social or conventional skills.Poo eaters,Cheats,Wazuks

But once every year someone normal messages me lol x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

An interesting mix of sexy women mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I attract no one hey just use me for cake

You have cake? "
see only my cake and I always have cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a mixed visitors. Rarely message which is the shame as I like to chat. "

Why don’t you send some messages then?

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Was just chatting to someone on here and it came up. What kind of people does your profile attract? I get a lot of guys- some crazies, some rather odd, the rare gem- but also a fair share of TVs and women who just want to chat. I’m happy with my lot. You? "

I mainly get messages from Guys. Followed by couples then a few single ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get massages from gay men offering. Me suck my cock

How do I block revive massage from category of peoplek

"

Go to your message filters and viola

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men really and the very rare couple.

Lots of apparently "straight" men. Dunno whether to take it as a compliment or just laugh sometimes

I’m an optimist so I’d take it as a compliment "

Haha I try to! But they must be blind because they certainly have not read the first couple of lines of my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit off the same as you get all sorts had some really lovely chats as well x"

Oh that’s good, you look lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It surprises me every day.....the individuals who appear to be attracted to my profile "

I am not surprised at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get no messages and 1 view every now and then

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oodles an oodles of straight men. Most of them couldn't think their way out of a paper bag. I have no interest in straight men.

What I'd like is more couples and women who'll chat with me but they never do.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

If lower my filters, it's 90% single men listed as straight and asking to shag a trans woman. With my usual filters it's either couples with the majority wanting a t-girl experience for the man, or trans with interests varying from looking for makeup advice to asking for being covered in spunk. There is a small background of couples and single women that are interested in me because apparently i can be an interesting person!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I get a few messages from very gym fit men, some from the older dom sorts who want a baby girl. Oh and the men who want a bit of exotic/posh and can be my bit of rough. Couples who are looking to dabble and I don't seem too daunting. Geeky couples who want a woman they can have a chin wag with and lots of orgasms. I think the latter is because I post in various gaming/nerd whatever threads.

Generally it's a mix but that's because my profile (boobs) gives an air of shaggability that the real me doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont seem attract anyone.....except lately, men who want to be spanked?

This is not my target audience "

Yeah I get a fair share of sissies....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have reverse polarity, I’m much better at repulsion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men mainly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A seem to get a lot of single guys. No idea why when I'm not looking for them in the slightest haha "

Yeah but I see the attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A seem to get a lot of single guys. No idea why when I'm not looking for them in the slightest haha

Yeah but I see the attraction "

Why thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Complete and utter weirdos.Boring penis picture senders with no social or conventional skills.Poo eaters,Cheats,Wazuks

But once every year someone normal messages me lol x "

Ah sweetness was that me- the normal message I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An interesting mix of sexy women mostly "

Shocker

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Viewing in this order, Men, Couples, TV/TS and occasionally women, as women generally view in stealth that doesn’t bother me.

I have a few people I really like on the forums and only a few I dislike.

Most of my messages are from guys though and quite a few down as ‘straight’ on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit off the same as you get all sorts had some really lovely chats as well x

Oh that’s good, you look lovely "

Well thanks and straight back at you ur very beautiful have grate taste in lingerie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was just chatting to someone on here and it came up. What kind of people does your profile attract? I get a lot of guys- some crazies, some rather odd, the rare gem- but also a fair share of TVs and women who just want to chat. I’m happy with my lot. You?

I mainly get messages from Guys. Followed by couples then a few single ladies.

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But that’s ok right?

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Just couple's as that's all we are interested in meeting up with!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men really and the very rare couple.

Lots of apparently "straight" men. Dunno whether to take it as a compliment or just laugh sometimes

I’m an optimist so I’d take it as a compliment

Haha I try to! But they must be blind because they certainly have not read the first couple of lines of my profile "

I think the “when your dick is in my mouth” bit just does it for them

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"An interesting mix of sexy women mostly

Shocker "

Tell me about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have took quiet a liken to older woman around there 40s, don’t get many messages but I seem to have a good amount of reply’s when I do message people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get no messages and 1 view every now and then "

More pics perhaps?

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

A nice varied mix of women and couples. Most are really nice but sometimes get the odd crazy one or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Complete and utter weirdos.Boring penis picture senders with no social or conventional skills.Poo eaters,Cheats,Wazuks

But once every year someone normal messages me lol x

Ah sweetness was that me- the normal message I mean "

You know you was with a bundle of hotness thrown in x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oodles an oodles of straight men. Most of them couldn't think their way out of a paper bag. I have no interest in straight men.

What I'd like is more couples and women who'll chat with me but they never do."

Hmmm I just read your profile. I get why straight men would try it with you

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I get a varied amount of views from all sexes

80% of messages are from guys or tv's even though my profile states I'm straight, 10% are from crazies and the last 10% are from lovely ladies that are always far away, never any couples unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TVs and men. I don't think women are into guys in frillies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If lower my filters, it's 90% single men listed as straight and asking to shag a trans woman. With my usual filters it's either couples with the majority wanting a t-girl experience for the man, or trans with interests varying from looking for makeup advice to asking for being covered in spunk. There is a small background of couples and single women that are interested in me because apparently i can be an interesting person!"

I know that you’re an interesting person Polly

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In terms of messages mostly either men or something off the back of a forum post or from existing friends made over the years - not really looking to attract anyone currently with all that is going on, so all that suits me just fine.

Generally speaking my level of interaction is minimal anyway, which again is just fine - I pick and choose when I interact with the site more and more these days anyway.

Oh and to the guys further up that said their "Looked at me" is mostly men - a lot of women look in stealth mode so you'd never know they looked, so "looked at me" is no guide

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I get a bit of everything/everyone. Pretty much a FAB pick and mix

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a few messages from very gym fit men, some from the older dom sorts who want a baby girl. Oh and the men who want a bit of exotic/posh and can be my bit of rough. Couples who are looking to dabble and I don't seem too daunting. Geeky couples who want a woman they can have a chin wag with and lots of orgasms. I think the latter is because I post in various gaming/nerd whatever threads.

Generally it's a mix but that's because my profile (boobs) gives an air of shaggability that the real me doesn't. "

Errrm. The real you doesn’t? WTF?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

A few crazies, a few judgmental, a few blokes and a select few gems

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have reverse polarity, I’m much better at repulsion."

So not true...

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Mostly couples. Used to get a lot of tvs and men before I changed my message filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3/4 cock which I’m not interested in but hey ho.

1/4 women of which 1/8th of that prick my senses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Viewing in this order, Men, Couples, TV/TS and occasionally women, as women generally view in stealth that doesn’t bother me.

I have a few people I really like on the forums and only a few I dislike.

Most of my messages are from guys though and quite a few down as ‘straight’ on their profiles "

I bet you cope with the straight guys just fine though

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie


"I can see why you attract such a varied fan base. I tend to get lots of "straight" men.

Ah the famous Fab straight then? "

Indeed so, had one a few years back who was 110% straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just couple's as that's all we are interested in meeting up with!"

So you must have a spot in profile then. Bravo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not attractive to anybody it seems as dont get any offers or replies.

Starting to think I'm not for fab people.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I get about the same very across the board some good friends from here just chat some of them alot ask me advise on things lol might b my age that one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have reverse polarity, I’m much better at repulsion.

So not true... "

Appearances can be deceptive. Even blokes don’t bother messaging me now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one.

I portray myself to be the antithesis of fab and its ridiculous "everyones amazing" mantra.

I message people constantly in whose parameters I'm nowhere near.

Especially those seeking black men.

I find this sporting and probably get far more replies than most men.

And blocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An interesting mix of sexy women mostly

Shocker

Tell me about it! "

Although the thought of you being pounded by a guy isn’t a bad one Chill

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie


"TVs and men. I don't think women are into guys in frillies!"

Sad isn't it it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have took quiet a liken to older woman around there 40s, don’t get many messages but I seem to have a good amount of reply’s when I do message people. "

Victory is yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A nice varied mix of women and couples. Most are really nice but sometimes get the odd crazy one or 2 "

Well you’re doing fine if it’s only a couple of crazies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Complete and utter weirdos.Boring penis picture senders with no social or conventional skills.Poo eaters,Cheats,Wazuks

But once every year someone normal messages me lol x

Ah sweetness was that me- the normal message I mean

You know you was with a bundle of hotness thrown in x "

But seriously I reckon a lot of people don’t realise that petite, young women can be absolute Amazons too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a varied amount of views from all sexes

80% of messages are from guys or tv's even though my profile states I'm straight, 10% are from crazies and the last 10% are from lovely ladies that are always far away, never any couples unfortunately "

You’re on a roll then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"TVs and men. I don't think women are into guys in frillies!"

Oh I wouldn’t say that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In terms of messages mostly either men or something off the back of a forum post or from existing friends made over the years - not really looking to attract anyone currently with all that is going on, so all that suits me just fine.

Generally speaking my level of interaction is minimal anyway, which again is just fine - I pick and choose when I interact with the site more and more these days anyway.

Oh and to the guys further up that said their "Looked at me" is mostly men - a lot of women look in stealth mode so you'd never know they looked, so "looked at me" is no guide "

I was more interested in messages tbh and your answer doesn’t surprise me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a bit of everything/everyone. Pretty much a FAB pick and mix "

Brilliant! Life’s never boring then is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few crazies, a few judgmental, a few blokes and a select few gems "

Sounds like a very good mix to keep things lively

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon


"A nice varied mix of women and couples. Most are really nice but sometimes get the odd crazy one or 2

Well you’re doing fine if it’s only a couple of crazies "

There's time for that number to rise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just chatting to someone on here and it came up. What kind of people does your profile attract? I get a lot of guys- some crazies, some rather odd, the rare gem- but also a fair share of TVs and women who just want to chat. I’m happy with my lot. You? "

All of the guys. It's still very nice and get quite a few compliments from them, sorry but I am straight.

I can hand in heart say i have not once received a message from a lady first. Which is also fine. I totally understand.

But if you have any advise for my profile then hit me with it. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mostly couples. Used to get a lot of tvs and men before I changed my message filters "

That’s part of the solution isn’t it? Message filters. Don’t know why more people don’t make use of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3/4 cock which I’m not interested in but hey ho.

1/4 women of which 1/8th of that prick my senses "

Well with that profile pic you can’t blame guys for trying...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can see why you attract such a varied fan base. I tend to get lots of "straight" men.

Ah the famous Fab straight then?

Indeed so, had one a few years back who was 110% straight. "

And?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I tend to attract men who chat to me regularly. Not even about sex 98% of the time. Fine with that. They check in if I’ve not been on for a few days to make sure I’m ok, if a status update sounds like I’m upset they check in to see if anything is wrong.

I’m very lucky - I mostly get lovely messages. Always have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely no-one. But with no profile pic I'm not really surprised

Well over 90% of views are men , which isn't much help.

Yep, you know why so get some pics perhaps? "

Nope. I'm fishing in a very small pond here. The population is very low and very close, so I, like others, don't lead with pics.

Happy to share when trust is established, not before, even if that is a significant obstacle.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"It doesn't lol

Is that how you like it? "

I don't moan about. My profile is what it is. I tend not to get first messages from women which is a shame but I do get replies when I make the first move.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not attractive to anybody it seems as dont get any offers or replies.

Starting to think I'm not for fab people. "

I strongly disagree- wow you’re pretty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get about the same very across the board some good friends from here just chat some of them alot ask me advise on things lol might b my age that one x"

You come across as being lovely so I get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far, I only attract people that are not what I am looking for here. Only guys and tgirls have been "attracted" to my profile, either giving a "fab" to my pictures or sending a wink/message my way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have reverse polarity, I’m much better at repulsion.

So not true...

Appearances can be deceptive. Even blokes don’t bother messaging me now. "

Is that what you want?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one.

I portray myself to be the antithesis of fab and its ridiculous "everyones amazing" mantra.

I message people constantly in whose parameters I'm nowhere near.

Especially those seeking black men.

I find this sporting and probably get far more replies than most men.

And blocks."

Well if that’s your thing and you’re successful... well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I reach my target audience. 90% of coulles/ladies who message have read my profile and have the same interests. I'm sure if we weren't in a pandemic most would of resulted in a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seem to attract a fair amount of fake couples & fairy god mothers , get chatting & puff they’ve disappeared

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

I mostly get single women over 40 and tv/ts. Very few couples and a few younger guys.

I would prefer to attract more couples though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A nice varied mix of women and couples. Most are really nice but sometimes get the odd crazy one or 2

Well you’re doing fine if it’s only a couple of crazies

There's time for that number to rise!"

Oh very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have reverse polarity, I’m much better at repulsion.

So not true...

Appearances can be deceptive. Even blokes don’t bother messaging me now.

Is that what you want? "

No that’s why they’re blocked now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide under a stone so I only get messages when I do a secret service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was just chatting to someone on here and it came up. What kind of people does your profile attract? I get a lot of guys- some crazies, some rather odd, the rare gem- but also a fair share of TVs and women who just want to chat. I’m happy with my lot. You?

All of the guys. It's still very nice and get quite a few compliments from them, sorry but I am straight.

I can hand in heart say i have not once received a message from a lady first. Which is also fine. I totally understand.

But if you have any advise for my profile then hit me with it. X"

I’m terrible at giving profile advice but come on people, help the poor guy out!

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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Mostly people that can't read lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to attract men who chat to me regularly. Not even about sex 98% of the time. Fine with that. They check in if I’ve not been on for a few days to make sure I’m ok, if a status update sounds like I’m upset they check in to see if anything is wrong.

I’m very lucky - I mostly get lovely messages. Always have."

Oh I get why

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By *ugofirstMan
over a year ago

livingston

None by the looks of things lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So far, I only attract people that are not what I am looking for here. Only guys and tgirls have been "attracted" to my profile, either giving a "fab" to my pictures or sending a wink/message my way.

"

Maybe more pics?

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Pretty much the same as you OP.

I am friends with a few a people I would never meet but am happy to chat with.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Wouldn’t like to say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair I reach my target audience. 90% of coulles/ladies who message have read my profile and have the same interests. I'm sure if we weren't in a pandemic most would of resulted in a social meet."

That hotdog pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to attract mostly people who's profiles I don't match

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seem to attract a fair amount of fake couples & fairy god mothers , get chatting & puff they’ve disappeared "

Really? That surprises me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mostly get single women over 40 and tv/ts. Very few couples and a few younger guys.

I would prefer to attract more couples though."

Maybe make that more prominent in your profile text?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends are single ladies but the majority of messages are from couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide under a stone so I only get messages when I do a secret service "

You need to put yourself out there more Lady...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a lot"

Why do you think that is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide under a stone so I only get messages when I do a secret service

You need to put yourself out there more Lady... "

Ha I would but my mojo is about as welcome as my shingles itches

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mostly people that can't read lol."

Just overwhelmed by your pics then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None by the looks of things lol"

Don’t give up, you’re relatively new

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretty much the same as you OP.

I am friends with a few a people I would never meet but am happy to chat with."

It’s great isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn’t like to say!"

Why? Watch ya hiding?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We get a mix of all sorts.

Single guys are only unblocked when we feel like hunting but a few regulars message.

80/20 couples to single girls I suppose.

Age range has changed a bit since I turned 50.

Difficult to explain that I’m still a teenager really.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Some nice guys

Some strange guys

At night the gremlins

Some women

Some people who just want to chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seem to attract mostly people who's profiles I don't match "

Must be your magnetic charm that draws them in...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of my friends are single ladies but the majority of messages are from couples "

Is that good?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"Straight " men 99.9% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide under a stone so I only get messages when I do a secret service

You need to put yourself out there more Lady...

Ha I would but my mojo is about as welcome as my shingles itches "

I don’t know what to do with you sometimes....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We get a mix of all sorts.

Single guys are only unblocked when we feel like hunting but a few regulars message.

80/20 couples to single girls I suppose.

Age range has changed a bit since I turned 50.

Difficult to explain that I’m still a teenager really. "

Not surprised at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you attracted to me and like my jacket happy to talk

Couples and lady's

That only way to go about

Does that sound rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the who visited thing is anything to go by mainly men, then couples and the occasional woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some nice guys

Some strange guys

At night the gremlins

Some women

Some people who just want to chat."

But at least your life isn’t boring is it? I’m taking it you love it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Straight " men 99.9% of the time."

Yeah well, that profile pic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get an eclectic mix....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the who visited thing is anything to go by mainly men, then couples and the occasional woman "

And messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide under a stone so I only get messages when I do a secret service

You need to put yourself out there more Lady...

Ha I would but my mojo is about as welcome as my shingles itches

I don’t know what to do with you sometimes.... "

Scratch her back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get an eclectic mix.... "

I bet you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide under a stone so I only get messages when I do a secret service

You need to put yourself out there more Lady...

Ha I would but my mojo is about as welcome as my shingles itches

I don’t know what to do with you sometimes....

Scratch her back?"

This is your chance man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I presently learnt to learn to read

Everybody should read

And no one should get upset if you

don't get massage back

Maby it's just that moment mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/40/10

TV's/Gents/Ladies

The first two, always happy to chatter but its not got much in the way of mileage and the latter, mostly 200+ miles away so they feel a safe distance between

Now and again a gem though xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Some nice guys

Some strange guys

At night the gremlins

Some women

Some people who just want to chat.

But at least your life isn’t boring is it? I’m taking it you love it? "

I love the Decent people

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

I’m not sure I would describe my two messages a week as “attract” (I give prizes for the best ones), but I would say I attract intelligent and usually funny fabsters so it’s kind of working for me...

I block all the guys though to save me deleting all that stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide under a stone so I only get messages when I do a secret service

You need to put yourself out there more Lady...

Ha I would but my mojo is about as welcome as my shingles itches

I don’t know what to do with you sometimes....

Scratch her back?

This is your chance man! "

I can lend out my back scratcher. It’s like Heineken, reaches the places other back scratchers never reach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I presently learnt to learn to read

Everybody should read

And no one should get upset if you

don't get massage back

Maby it's just that moment mood

"

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"50/40/10

TV's/Gents/Ladies

The first two, always happy to chatter but its not got much in the way of mileage and the latter, mostly 200+ miles away so they feel a safe distance between

Now and again a gem though xx"

And that gem makes it all worth while don’t they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't attract anyone thankfully.

I always hate being popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not sure I would describe my two messages a week as “attract” (I give prizes for the best ones), but I would say I attract intelligent and usually funny fabsters so it’s kind of working for me...

I block all the guys though to save me deleting all that stuff "

There you go, you’re happy so success is yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Protective, dominant types mainly.

I would like to attract more military/police types with amazing witty sense of humours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide under a stone so I only get messages when I do a secret service

You need to put yourself out there more Lady...

Ha I would but my mojo is about as welcome as my shingles itches

I don’t know what to do with you sometimes....

Scratch her back?

This is your chance man!

I can lend out my back scratcher. It’s like Heineken, reaches the places other back scratchers never reach."

Ach you. I’m not the one with the itchy back!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I get a few messages from very gym fit men, some from the older dom sorts who want a baby girl. Oh and the men who want a bit of exotic/posh and can be my bit of rough. Couples who are looking to dabble and I don't seem too daunting. Geeky couples who want a woman they can have a chin wag with and lots of orgasms. I think the latter is because I post in various gaming/nerd whatever threads.

Generally it's a mix but that's because my profile (boobs) gives an air of shaggability that the real me doesn't.

Errrm. The real you doesn’t? WTF? "

Shush; let me have the self deprecation. Being a tad more serious, it does tend to be those who enjoy talking or snobby arses and I don't mind that (ignoring the copy + paste messages). I'm not surprised you attract women who just want to chat - you're a friendly sort (more evident on the fora) and it's nice to have that isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't attract anyone thankfully.

I always hate being popular "

You’re cute though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Protective, dominant types mainly.

I would like to attract more military/police types with amazing witty sense of humours"

Put it on your update! It’ll draw out a lot of nut jobs though I’m sure

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Mainly people that I don't fancy...admittedly that's because I don't actually fancy many people Mainly nice people sending pleasant messages though, I very rarely got anything offensive or abusive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a few messages from very gym fit men, some from the older dom sorts who want a baby girl. Oh and the men who want a bit of exotic/posh and can be my bit of rough. Couples who are looking to dabble and I don't seem too daunting. Geeky couples who want a woman they can have a chin wag with and lots of orgasms. I think the latter is because I post in various gaming/nerd whatever threads.

Generally it's a mix but that's because my profile (boobs) gives an air of shaggability that the real me doesn't.

Errrm. The real you doesn’t? WTF?

Shush; let me have the self deprecation. Being a tad more serious, it does tend to be those who enjoy talking or snobby arses and I don't mind that (ignoring the copy + paste messages). I'm not surprised you attract women who just want to chat - you're a friendly sort (more evident on the fora) and it's nice to have that isn't it?"

Love it Meli

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads of messages asking if I’m on the pill or they want to make me pregnant or I’ve had a few asking if I will use them as a toilet .

None of the above is what I’m looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be more precise, 58/39/3, Men/Couples/Women

This is how bored I am this afternoon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mainly people that I don't fancy...admittedly that's because I don't actually fancy many people Mainly nice people sending pleasant messages though, I very rarely got anything offensive or abusive "

So everything is just as it should be then?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Mainly people that I don't fancy...admittedly that's because I don't actually fancy many people Mainly nice people sending pleasant messages though, I very rarely got anything offensive or abusive

So everything is just as it should be then? "

Exactly, and the filters come out to play if I'm not getting what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see why you attract such a varied fan base. I tend to get lots of "straight" men. "

I do not attract anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe more pics? "

Tried that...no amount of pictures of a crappy Toyota will get the attention of people who are looking for a Ferrari.

Besides the silly jokes, having more pictures just attracted more guys, hence why I reduced them.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Wouldn’t like to say!

Why? Watch ya hiding? "

Not a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of married straight men apparently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have loads of messages asking if I’m on the pill or they want to make me pregnant or I’ve had a few asking if I will use them as a toilet .

None of the above is what I’m looking for "

Hmmm. I don’t see why from your profile but thank god for the block button!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very few it seems "

Oh I doubt that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be more precise, 58/39/3, Men/Couples/Women

This is how bored I am this afternoon "

Thank god for fab then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get an eclectic mix....

I bet you do "

A bit like a box of Celebrations.

Some are the Galaxy bars .... Others are the Bounty bars

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can see why you attract such a varied fan base. I tend to get lots of "straight" men.

I do not attract anyone. "

Well.... what can I say...

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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

99% are men ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Maybe more pics?

Tried that...no amount of pictures of a crappy Toyota will get the attention of people who are looking for a Ferrari.

Besides the silly jokes, having more pictures just attracted more guys, hence why I reduced them."

Don’t give up. Post more on the fora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very few it seems

Oh I doubt that... "

I’ve attracted more tax rebates than fab admirers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no one I have a blank profile pic but have pics in private but still no messages lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of married straight men apparently "

And you’re ok with that?

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie


"I can see why you attract such a varied fan base. I tend to get lots of "straight" men.

Ah the famous Fab straight then?

Indeed so, had one a few years back who was 110% straight.

And? "

And he wanted me to suck his cock, fuck me bareback and pee in my hoke, because it "doesn't count as gay if I'm wearing lingerie". I said no thanks as I don't do bareback and he was rather rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome human beings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get an eclectic mix....

I bet you do

A bit like a box of Celebrations.

Some are the Galaxy bars .... Others are the Bounty bars

"

Love both. Can’t stand the fruit creams though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In over 2yrs I've made many good friends and had some wonderful experiences.

More than that though this year just when I needed them I gained 2 of the best life saving friends I could ever have wished for plus 1 lovely lady who I've known almost from the beginning and is becoming very dear to me, roll on next year

In short despite me just being an average guy only the best have gravitated themselves towards me and stayed for keeps and I love them for it...

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