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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you get messages from people with just a black silhouette, and no photos, asking to meet ?

I just can't understand what is going on in their heads.

If I had no photos, they wouldn't have messaged me.

It is so idiotic.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Their profile; their choice.

Just ignore if not for you..

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

And then say dont message them if you dont have face pics

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hello Kinky ......

Do you mean no pic on their profile or no pics at all ?

I won't send a pic ever. Never have.

I do cam before meeting though so people can see exactly who I am.

YOu know all those tits, cocks and fannies on profiles..... I don't think they are any more a representation of the profile owner than my silhouette is of me.

Operate the way you want to. I'm okay with pictureless profiles. It's a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to delete messages from people who have no profile picture.

But that’s part of my personal filtering system. If I answered everyone I’d never be off fab. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You can use message filters to stop people with no public pictures from contacting you. This means you won't get messages from the ones who attach a photo to their first message though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And then say dont message them if you dont have face pics "

Double standards on here? Never!!

I also don't get people that only have "Friends only" photos but don't accept friend requests until they've spoken to you. Personally I need to be attracted to someone so why would I chat to anyone properly without having any idea what they look like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Eeeerm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Quite funny when you get a wink from someone with no pics at all and not much of a write up, I mean come on who is going to wink back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well not everybody thinks the same as the next person do we. Thats what makes us individuals. Each to there own doesn't mean there's a right or wrong way of doing things . It's all just down to personal preference

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

When I message anyone I always add my face pics so they know who’s messaged them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite funny when you get a wink from someone with no pics at all and not much of a write up, I mean come on who is going to wink back lol "
ohh I bet you have had lots of guys winking over you ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

But I frequently see threads where nearly everyone says that personality is more important to them than looks. You can't photograph personality.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"But I frequently see threads where nearly everyone says that personality is more important to them than looks. You can't photograph personality. "

Precisely. I've had many a convo with people I've never seen.

I like some forum personalities that i've never laid eyes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I frequently see threads where nearly everyone says that personality is more important to them than looks. You can't photograph personality. "

That's Fab BS! Sorry but it needs saying.... some people just don't want to appear shallow on the forums by saying it but the vast majority value physical attraction over personality but just won't admit it!

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"How many of you get messages from people with just a black silhouette, and no photos, asking to meet ?

I just can't understand what is going on in their heads.

If I had no photos, they wouldn't have messaged me.

It is so idiotic."

Or the ones that have....dont message me unless you attach a face pic...and they have no photos on their profile

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You can use message filters to stop people with no public pictures from contacting you. This means you won't get messages from the ones who attach a photo to their first message though "

Except "make a picture public for a second, send, make picture private again" means people can get around it, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone can have their profile how they want.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"But I frequently see threads where nearly everyone says that personality is more important to them than looks. You can't photograph personality.

That's Fab BS! Sorry but it needs saying.... some people just don't want to appear shallow on the forums by saying it but the vast majority value physical attraction over personality but just won't admit it! "

I’ll be shallow, if I don’t fancy that person or couple I ain’t meeting. Have a wonderful personality and I’ll have a drink with you, but sex will be off the cards. It’s actually fair on them as I won’t be in the moment with them, just lying there waiting for it to be over isn’t the most attractive of meets, for either of us.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Also, OP, tbh I got heaps of messages before I had any pictures up. I honestly think they don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello Kinky ......

Do you mean no pic on their profile or no pics at all ?

I won't send a pic ever. Never have.

I do cam before meeting though so people can see exactly who I am.

YOu know all those tits, cocks and fannies on profiles..... I don't think they are any more a representation of the profile owner than my silhouette is of me.

Operate the way you want to. I'm okay with pictureless profiles. It's a start. "

There's a person behind every profile. I meet **people** not tits fannies and cocks.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s the cyber equivalent to a glory hole. You just never know what you’re going to get

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"But I frequently see threads where nearly everyone says that personality is more important to them than looks. You can't photograph personality.

That's Fab BS! Sorry but it needs saying.... some people just don't want to appear shallow on the forums by saying it but the vast majority value physical attraction over personality but just won't admit it! "

I know. I was being disingenuous .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I frequently see threads where nearly everyone says that personality is more important to them than looks. You can't photograph personality.

That's Fab BS! Sorry but it needs saying.... some people just don't want to appear shallow on the forums by saying it but the vast majority value physical attraction over personality but just won't admit it!

I’ll be shallow, if I don’t fancy that person or couple I ain’t meeting. Have a wonderful personality and I’ll have a drink with you, but sex will be off the cards. It’s actually fair on them as I won’t be in the moment with them, just lying there waiting for it to be over isn’t the most attractive of meets, for either of us. "

Exactly this. There are some amazing people out there who you just don't have a physical attraction to... I'm sure they're called "friends" And there are some hotties who are complete wankers so it's a definite no. Bit (or a lot) of both please is the perfect combo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I frequently see threads where nearly everyone says that personality is more important to them than looks. You can't photograph personality.

That's Fab BS! Sorry but it needs saying.... some people just don't want to appear shallow on the forums by saying it but the vast majority value physical attraction over personality but just won't admit it!

I know. I was being disingenuous . "

Definitely need a "sarcastic smilie" emoji on here!

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