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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?"

I doubt she cares about you being able to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a flat mate called Stanley.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She won't care that you hear mate or when the ladies are enjoying themselves they let it out some are diff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You having a mate at all is astounding! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?"
what does she say when she's talkin. Does she say ?? I need a man to come and fuk me ?? That would be your que if she does or if she moans sayin ..I need a real cock then again thats your que lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?"

What about her actions and behaviour makes you think she wants you? Sounds like she's doing what she wants in private, but walls are thin. I can hear next door discussing dinner arrangements but doesn't mean I'm invited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?

What about her actions and behaviour makes you think she wants you? Sounds like she's doing what she wants in private, but walls are thin. I can hear next door discussing dinner arrangements but doesn't mean I'm invited."

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Im sure you wank and she can probably hear you...

Just because you can hear does not mean she wants to play with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always raise it with her.

If she’s a bit exhibitionisty, then you might find she likes that you’ve heard her. Otherwise it might encourage her to keep it down

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"You could always raise it with her.

If she’s a bit exhibitionisty, then you might find she likes that you’ve heard her. Otherwise it might encourage her to keep it down "

I think that’s exactly what he’s doing when you say raise it

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I could hear my housemate singing Tom Jones songs last night, was I fuck joining in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?

What about her actions and behaviour makes you think she wants you? Sounds like she's doing what she wants in private, but walls are thin. I can hear next door discussing dinner arrangements but doesn't mean I'm invited."

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Put in CCTV

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?

What about her actions and behaviour makes you think she wants you? Sounds like she's doing what she wants in private, but walls are thin. I can hear next door discussing dinner arrangements but doesn't mean I'm invited."

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By *ANCLAD1993Man
over a year ago

Fallowfield


"Put in CCTV "

That’s a bit creepy isn’t it? ‘Oh let’s record someone getting off without their consent!’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think your flatmate has needs she's dealing with in private, and you should leave it alone.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Put in CCTV

That’s a bit creepy isn’t it? ‘Oh let’s record someone getting off without their consent!’ "
it's not a serious comment ...please

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I think your flatmate has needs she's dealing with in private, and you should leave it alone."

Very obviously this.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Put in CCTV

That’s a bit creepy isn’t it? ‘Oh let’s record someone getting off without their consent!’ it's not a serious comment ...please "

The problem is that some people don't realise things like this are jokes....

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Put in CCTV

That’s a bit creepy isn’t it? ‘Oh let’s record someone getting off without their consent!’ it's not a serious comment ...please

The problem is that some people don't realise things like this are jokes...."

Yes I saw it as a joke rather than a suggestion

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Put in CCTV

That’s a bit creepy isn’t it? ‘Oh let’s record someone getting off without their consent!’ it's not a serious comment ...please

The problem is that some people don't realise things like this are jokes...."

Yeah, I think we need to make it really clear. Alas.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Put a porn movie on when shes playing.

Turn it up enough so she can hear it as well.

This is so she gets the reference the walls are thin.

Wait for next time when you see her as she may blush when near you.

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By *9089Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?

What about her actions and behaviour makes you think she wants you? Sounds like she's doing what she wants in private, but walls are thin. I can hear next door discussing dinner arrangements but doesn't mean I'm invited."

Excellent

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Put a porn movie on when shes playing.

Turn it up enough so she can hear it as well.

This is so she gets the reference the walls are thin.

Wait for next time when you see her as she may blush when near you. "

Why make it a thing?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Put a porn movie on when shes playing.

Turn it up enough so she can hear it as well.

This is so she gets the reference the walls are thin.

Wait for next time when you see her as she may blush when near you. "
or turn off the sound and have her as your soundtrack

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?

What about her actions and behaviour makes you think she wants you? Sounds like she's doing what she wants in private, but walls are thin. I can hear next door discussing dinner arrangements but doesn't mean I'm invited."

Exactly!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Put in CCTV

That’s a bit creepy isn’t it? ‘Oh let’s record someone getting off without their consent!’ it's not a serious comment ...please

The problem is that some people don't realise things like this are jokes....

Yeah, I think we need to make it really clear. Alas."

Amateur - do it properly, set up proper seating (with covid screens), sell tickets, put an event notification on Facebook and get on Trip Adviser

4 stars, I could hear the wanking easily, but the camera crew got in the way of the vision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure if she want you she would have asked long time ago. Like leave the door open....

next time she do it again just leave the house...

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?"

Play your music loud. Simples.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think your flatmate has needs she's dealing with in private, and you should leave it alone."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you can hear her.

If it was a man loudly wanking furiously, people would be saying what a sick pervert he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put in CCTV

That’s a bit creepy isn’t it? ‘Oh let’s record someone getting off without their consent!’ it's not a serious comment ...please "

Next time get further like

Walk in and wank over her face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always raise it with her.

If she’s a bit exhibitionisty, then you might find she likes that you’ve heard her. Otherwise it might encourage her to keep it down

I think that’s exactly what he’s doing when you say raise it "

Boom boom

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It’s been on my mind for ages and I need to share....my flatmate (f) comes in boozy and plays....vibrator going breathy and she talks too....does she think I can’t hear or does she want me to!? It happens at least twice a week and it’s driving me mad! Advice please?"

I don't mean this sarcastically but how on earth do we know your flat mates mind?

Either ask her if she knows you can hear her or put ear phones in and ignore.

I'd be more concerned about her drinking habits to be fair

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Thank fuck I don't have to house share.......

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Put a porn movie on when shes playing.

Turn it up enough so she can hear it as well.

This is so she gets the reference the walls are thin.

Wait for next time when you see her as she may blush when near you.

Why make it a thing?"

Its not to make it a thing

Its to make her aware that the walls are thinner than she may think.

Ive made a few ladies blush by saying I can hear them through the walls.

Some go really quiet and try to avoid you after the convo.

There neighbours which talk and hopefully get on with each other.

There is other ways to make them aware after that its done knowingly.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Put a porn movie on when shes playing.

Turn it up enough so she can hear it as well.

This is so she gets the reference the walls are thin.

Wait for next time when you see her as she may blush when near you.

Why make it a thing?

Its not to make it a thing

Its to make her aware that the walls are thinner than she may think.

Ive made a few ladies blush by saying I can hear them through the walls.

Some go really quiet and try to avoid you after the convo.

There neighbours which talk and hopefully get on with each other.

There is other ways to make them aware after that its done knowingly. "

So either a) politely ignore (I have shared flats, and there were always certain things I just pretended didn't happen), or b) comment in general terms about the walls being thin and it's good we're all adults who can respect each other.

Blasting porn just seems passive aggressive

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Not sure what she thinks but I think it's none of your business.

If she's loud it's cos she's vocally aroused and not doing it deliberately so you can hear.

If she's enjoying her moment it's for her benefit and not yours.

If you've been flat sharing a long time and you have a good professional relationship and you know she won't take it completely out of context then tell her your aware of her actions if it genuinely bothers you.

If not then just let her have her time to herself and stop reading into a situation that isn't there.

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