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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone goin through a hard time or low point. I know iam ,and if anyone else is maybe we can chat and help each other out. Its good to talk sometimes and I dont think anyone should suffer in silence ..your not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need any inspiration buddy or an ear to bend then I'm here for you or anyone else...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Xxx

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Anyone goin through a hard time or low point. I know iam ,and if anyone else is maybe we can chat and help each other out. Its good to talk sometimes and I dont think anyone should suffer in silence ..your not alone "

Sorry to hear OP. It's certainly been a bloody hard year. Samaritans are good for anyone who needs to vent also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an ear too for anyone who needs one.

Put 'need an ear' in the subject box so your message stands out.

I'm online at various times through the night too

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I love this time of year but I am very aware that it is a really tough time for so many. Sending hugs to anyone who needs it and always happy to be a listening ear to someone who needs it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this time of year but I am very aware that it is a really tough time for so many. Sending hugs to anyone who needs it and always happy to be a listening ear to someone who needs it "

Your an angel darling x

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)


"Anyone goin through a hard time or low point. I know iam ,and if anyone else is maybe we can chat and help each other out. Its good to talk sometimes and I dont think anyone should suffer in silence ..your not alone "

Try and think of all the good things in your life.

This year has been a year like no other, but it can surely only get better.

Positive vibes sent your way. Xxx

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath


"Anyone goin through a hard time or low point. I know iam ,and if anyone else is maybe we can chat and help each other out. Its good to talk sometimes and I dont think anyone should suffer in silence ..your not alone "

I'm currently going through a tough time too (that's why my profile is hidden at the moment, only here to chat to friends and come on the forums). However OP if you or anyone else reading this need to chat please feel free to use the reply privately function on here. As you say, we can maybe help each other. Take care everyone xx

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I love this time of year but I am very aware that it is a really tough time for so many. Sending hugs to anyone who needs it and always happy to be a listening ear to someone who needs it

Your an angel darling x"

Aww right back at you! Hope you are keeping well

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Been alone the last couple of Christmas times and it’s hard. This year will be the same. I’m here if anyone wants a chat

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Anyone goin through a hard time or low point. I know iam ,and if anyone else is maybe we can chat and help each other out. Its good to talk sometimes and I dont think anyone should suffer in silence ..your not alone

I'm currently going through a tough time too (that's why my profile is hidden at the moment, only here to chat to friends and come on the forums). However OP if you or anyone else reading this need to chat please feel free to use the reply privately function on here. As you say, we can maybe help each other. Take care everyone xx"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Wow only advice is when you think your life has become difficult try thinking of others who maybe be in a worsening position not everyone has a choice but those who do now I can say this because just like many I have hit rock bottom and I mean badly and the thought of what we see around us doesn't help but I survived and still struggle but always light at the end of the tunnel and lonely being single 7 years was a choice but not as happy as I'd like to be but not as sad as I could've been

Keep your chin up your never alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need any inspiration buddy or an ear to bend then I'm here for you or anyone else... "
thanks its nice to know, I might have to take you up on that offer. Hope you got bendy ears lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone goin through a hard time or low point. I know iam ,and if anyone else is maybe we can chat and help each other out. Its good to talk sometimes and I dont think anyone should suffer in silence ..your not alone

Sorry to hear OP. It's certainly been a bloody hard year. Samaritans are good for anyone who needs to vent also.

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yeh its been the worst year of my life and iv had some hard 1s in my lifetime. Heres hoping 2021 is better..thanks for the message though , heres wishing you a happy Xmas and a happy new year xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm an ear too for anyone who needs one.

Put 'need an ear' in the subject box so your message stands out.

I'm online at various times through the night too "
Again thanks for reply and its nice to know there are genuine people who are wiling to listen to not just myself but anyone who's struggling at the min . Peace and love to you and your family x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love this time of year but I am very aware that it is a really tough time for so many. Sending hugs to anyone who needs it and always happy to be a listening ear to someone who needs it "
your right alot of people will be missing loved 1s this year. Those who have lost loved 1s and its there first Xmas without them. I lost my dad in summer and I thought id handled it well. But Xmas has come and made me realise iv not handled it at all. So to anyone else who's gone through loss its good to chat and there's good people like yourself who are here for us. Thanks and merry Xmas and I hope you and your family have a cracking Xmas and happy new year xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing that life has tought me is it's not perfect.

We look at other people and think there life is perfect.No it isnt.

We all have ups and downs.issues.problems.So your not alone or lower than anyone else.

Friends and someone to listen can be found if you look as everyone has experience in dealing with and being dealt issues.

Listering to others can help but the person that can help you the most is you.Christmas this year is different for everyone as it's been a different difficult year.But it's still Christmas the time you try to put your issues aside and try as hard as it is to concentrate on smiles and try to forget your issues.

Talk to people try to make light out of darkness and know others are also not living a life of perfection.Think of the good times and thoughts you have and remember life is for living loving and laughing no matter how hard things get.

Fight it for you with good thoughts x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone goin through a hard time or low point. I know iam ,and if anyone else is maybe we can chat and help each other out. Its good to talk sometimes and I dont think anyone should suffer in silence ..your not alone

I'm currently going through a tough time too (that's why my profile is hidden at the moment, only here to chat to friends and come on the forums). However OP if you or anyone else reading this need to chat please feel free to use the reply privately function on here. As you say, we can maybe help each other. Take care everyone xx"
aww I hope you get through your time of hardship and come out the other end a stronger person. Even though you yourself are struggling your still here for others, that in itself shows what a good person you are. Sending love and positive vibes your way and im here for you if you ever want a chat as so are many others x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One thing that life has tought me is it's not perfect.

We look at other people and think there life is perfect.No it isnt.

We all have ups and downs.issues.problems.So your not alone or lower than anyone else.

Friends and someone to listen can be found if you look as everyone has experience in dealing with and being dealt issues.

Listering to others can help but the person that can help you the most is you.Christmas this year is different for everyone as it's been a different difficult year.But it's still Christmas the time you try to put your issues aside and try as hard as it is to concentrate on smiles and try to forget your issues.

Talk to people try to make light out of darkness and know others are also not living a life of perfection.Think of the good times and thoughts you have and remember life is for living loving and laughing no matter how hard things get.

Fight it for you with good thoughts x "
what lovely and wise words, your beautiful not just on the outside but on the inside also, merry Xmas to your goodself and your lucky family xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow only advice is when you think your life has become difficult try thinking of others who maybe be in a worsening position not everyone has a choice but those who do now I can say this because just like many I have hit rock bottom and I mean badly and the thought of what we see around us doesn't help but I survived and still struggle but always light at the end of the tunnel and lonely being single 7 years was a choice but not as happy as I'd like to be but not as sad as I could've been

Keep your chin up your never alone "
thanks for your time and your words of wisdom. Glad your not as sad as you once were and hope you find true happiness and fulfillment in your future , merry Xmas to you kind sir x

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Not feeling it this Xmas either. This will be the first Xmas day in 15yrs not seeing my son on Xmas day opening presents and spending time with him. Even though I split with his mum 5yrs ago we always made Xmas about the kids. This year its just me home alone with the dog for company. Really not feeling the Xmas spirit and wish I could just bugger off on a plane somewhere and get away from it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need any inspiration buddy or an ear to bend then I'm here for you or anyone else... thanks its nice to know, I might have to take you up on that offer. Hope you got bendy ears lol"

Anytime you like mate,I've a wealth of experience in drama. Lost my son this year...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh I know how you feel mate, I got divorced at beggining of year. Iv not seen my little girl for 3 months properly and it was her bday yesterday aswell. Hard times but I can speak to her on phone and I know she's safe and sound and that's the important thing. Just think ?? some people have lost people who they won't see again ever. Thats hard to take ?? I know this cos I lost my dad . Chin up sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may well be here Xmas day.

Me and my daughters have decided to postpone Xmas. So instead of six of us I’ll be alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need any inspiration buddy or an ear to bend then I'm here for you or anyone else... thanks its nice to know, I might have to take you up on that offer. Hope you got bendy ears lol

Anytime you like mate,I've a wealth of experience in drama. Lost my son this year..."
oh no im so sorry for your loss ?? no parent should have to loose a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing that life has tought me is it's not perfect.

We look at other people and think there life is perfect.No it isnt.

We all have ups and downs.issues.problems.So your not alone or lower than anyone else.

Friends and someone to listen can be found if you look as everyone has experience in dealing with and being dealt issues.

Listering to others can help but the person that can help you the most is you.Christmas this year is different for everyone as it's been a different difficult year.But it's still Christmas the time you try to put your issues aside and try as hard as it is to concentrate on smiles and try to forget your issues.

Talk to people try to make light out of darkness and know others are also not living a life of perfection.Think of the good times and thoughts you have and remember life is for living loving and laughing no matter how hard things get.

Fight it for you with good thoughts x what lovely and wise words, your beautiful not just on the outside but on the inside also, merry Xmas to your goodself and your lucky family xx"

Merry Christmas to you too and remember huge smiles x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may well be here Xmas day.

Me and my daughters have decided to postpone Xmas. So instead of six of us I’ll be alone. "
oh no sad times , well look your never totally alone cos you got us lot to chat 2 x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One thing that life has tought me is it's not perfect.

We look at other people and think there life is perfect.No it isnt.

We all have ups and downs.issues.problems.So your not alone or lower than anyone else.

Friends and someone to listen can be found if you look as everyone has experience in dealing with and being dealt issues.

Listering to others can help but the person that can help you the most is you.Christmas this year is different for everyone as it's been a different difficult year.But it's still Christmas the time you try to put your issues aside and try as hard as it is to concentrate on smiles and try to forget your issues.

Talk to people try to make light out of darkness and know others are also not living a life of perfection.Think of the good times and thoughts you have and remember life is for living loving and laughing no matter how hard things get.

Fight it for you with good thoughts x what lovely and wise words, your beautiful not just on the outside but on the inside also, merry Xmas to your goodself and your lucky family xx

Merry Christmas to you too and remember huge smiles x "
I for 1 will try thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may well be here Xmas day.

Me and my daughters have decided to postpone Xmas. So instead of six of us I’ll be alone. oh no sad times , well look your never totally alone cos you got us lot to chat 2 x"

I guess it’ll be a mutual thing. I’ll be here for you lot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need any inspiration buddy or an ear to bend then I'm here for you or anyone else... thanks its nice to know, I might have to take you up on that offer. Hope you got bendy ears lol

Anytime you like mate,I've a wealth of experience in drama. Lost my son this year... oh no im so sorry for your loss ?? no parent should have to loose a child "

It was suicide through depression 5 months ago, he was only 27.

Thats why I know that its so important to keep talking and encourage anyone to message me if they feel like chatting with there problems.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may well be here Xmas day.

Me and my daughters have decided to postpone Xmas. So instead of six of us I’ll be alone. oh no sad times , well look your never totally alone cos you got us lot to chat 2 x

I guess it’ll be a mutual thing. I’ll be here for you lot too "
well this is good , this is all I wanted. If I could make a diffrence to just 1 person and help someone in anyway thats all I asked for. And look at us all here for each other. Puts a little bit of faith in mankind that not everyone is heartless. Your all a lovely bunch ??xx

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I’ll be alone this Christmas. My mom is in ling term care, my daughter is going out of town and my son’s in the Navy.

This has been a very strange, stressful, surreal year.

Thunderace, big virtual hug to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need any inspiration buddy or an ear to bend then I'm here for you or anyone else... thanks its nice to know, I might have to take you up on that offer. Hope you got bendy ears lol

Anytime you like mate,I've a wealth of experience in drama. Lost my son this year... oh no im so sorry for your loss ?? no parent should have to loose a child

It was suicide through depression 5 months ago, he was only 27.

Thats why I know that its so important to keep talking and encourage anyone to message me if they feel like chatting with there problems."
its sad I feel your pain. My mum killed herself when I was 5 she jumped infront of a train. I found out 7 years later she wasn't actually my mum she was my nan. I often wonder what she would be doing now if she hadn't done what she did. I would do anything to bring her bak for 1 day so I could tel her off for doin what she did ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll be alone this Christmas. My mom is in ling term care, my daughter is going out of town and my son’s in the Navy.

This has been a very strange, stressful, surreal year.

Thunderace, big virtual hug to you. "
welcome to our world Lorraine , anytime you want a chat just give 1 of us a message im sure we can all cheer each other up somehow. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suicide is so hard for loved ones to cope with...

Had my son died on his motorbike I could blame him or some other driver, an accident well its down to fate or bad luck.

Suicide is so pointless as its avoidable, we end up blaming ourselves. If only we'd have noticed the signs, past texts and conversations remembered now take on a new light as things we missed in ignorance suddenly become clear warning signs.

That said my sons depression i knew about, the addictions he used to self medicate his pain landed him on an icu ward 3 times over the last 14 months with his life hanging by a thread.

Its a story thats all too common sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll be alone this Christmas. My mom is in ling term care, my daughter is going out of town and my son’s in the Navy.

This has been a very strange, stressful, surreal year.

Thunderace, big virtual hug to you. "

Thank you darling, that means so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling bruv

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suicide is so hard for loved ones to cope with...

Had my son died on his motorbike I could blame him or some other driver, an accident well its down to fate or bad luck.

Suicide is so pointless as its avoidable, we end up blaming ourselves. If only we'd have noticed the signs, past texts and conversations remembered now take on a new light as things we missed in ignorance suddenly become clear warning signs.

That said my sons depression i knew about, the addictions he used to self medicate his pain landed him on an icu ward 3 times over the last 14 months with his life hanging by a thread.

Its a story thats all too common sadly."
yeh thats the blame game and guilty feeling that you didn't save them. Some people just don't want to be saved though and live in constant turmoil so even though its hard for us left behind. In a way at least they are at peace now, thats how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope your okay sweet. Its tough right now but you should never feel alone. Keep talking always! Love and hugs to you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'll definitely be wishing fabland a merry Christmas on Christmas Day

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

If anyone needs to chat call on me too. Had a rough few years fell down a very deep dark hole only just starting to climb out. Take a day at a time, there are good and bad days more bad than good but the fights still on to recovery.

I always find talking to people who are going through the same thing helps because they have empathy for you and understand what you are going through.

So anyone feel like a chat feel free to message any time you want I don't sleep much anyway.

Take care stay safe

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Wow only advice is when you think your life has become difficult try thinking of others who maybe be in a worsening position not everyone has a choice but those who do now I can say this because just like many I have hit rock bottom and I mean badly and the thought of what we see around us doesn't help but I survived and still struggle but always light at the end of the tunnel and lonely being single 7 years was a choice but not as happy as I'd like to be but not as sad as I could've been

Keep your chin up your never alone thanks for your time and your words of wisdom. Glad your not as sad as you once were and hope you find true happiness and fulfillment in your future , merry Xmas to you kind sir x"

Welcome buddy and very much appreciated with not only your views but your kind lovely words inner strength we all have and doing little things that cheers another individual Can also brighten not only theirs but yours.

Merry Christmas too you to hopefully year ahead is a promising one that's fulfilling with unexpected dreams of joy x

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Last Christmas was a very bad one for me for many reasons and talking to friends got me through it.

This Christmas I’m in a much better place and I’d like to repay the favour by being a good listener to anyone who needs or wants to talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow only advice is when you think your life has become difficult try thinking of others who maybe be in a worsening position not everyone has a choice but those who do now I can say this because just like many I have hit rock bottom and I mean badly and the thought of what we see around us doesn't help but I survived and still struggle but always light at the end of the tunnel and lonely being single 7 years was a choice but not as happy as I'd like to be but not as sad as I could've been

Keep your chin up your never alone thanks for your time and your words of wisdom. Glad your not as sad as you once were and hope you find true happiness and fulfillment in your future , merry Xmas to you kind sir x

Welcome buddy and very much appreciated with not only your views but your kind lovely words inner strength we all have and doing little things that cheers another individual Can also brighten not only theirs but yours.

Merry Christmas too you to hopefully year ahead is a promising one that's fulfilling with unexpected dreams of joy x"
thanks and who knows what is around the corner. Stay positive and be strong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If anyone needs to chat call on me too. Had a rough few years fell down a very deep dark hole only just starting to climb out. Take a day at a time, there are good and bad days more bad than good but the fights still on to recovery.

I always find talking to people who are going through the same thing helps because they have empathy for you and understand what you are going through.

So anyone feel like a chat feel free to message any time you want I don't sleep much anyway.

Take care stay safe "
your here and I take it everyday you are a little bit stronger than the day before ? We all go through times of hardship some more than others. Some people are stronger than others but at some point I think everyone needs someone. Its nice to hear other peoples struggles as sometimes it puts your own into perspective. Take care and I hope you have a merry Xmas and a happy new year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone goin through a hard time or low point. I know iam ,and if anyone else is maybe we can chat and help each other out. Its good to talk sometimes and I dont think anyone should suffer in silence ..your not alone "

Drop me a message, as this year has been hard on everyone. I will be spending Christmas alone but I will try and meet up with family and the odd friend social distant rules followed.

Remember you are not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another Christmas on my own. Can't help but think of Christmas past. Little traditions. I feel so alone.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Another Christmas on my own. Can't help but think of Christmas past. Little traditions. I feel so alone."

Awwww hugs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another Christmas on my own. Can't help but think of Christmas past. Little traditions. I feel so alone."
its supposed to be a happy time Xmas isnt it but for some its the complete opposite..just brings bak bad memories and stirs up those old feelings again. Stay strong and we are all here for each other x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don't know if anyone has ever tried spiritual healing especially when they have lost a loved one spiritual healing comes in many forms and it is a eye opener to venture you'll be surprised to hear what you only knew without anyone else knowing them including it's not costly nor would you need to continue going regularly because the first will open your eyes and realise but also remember if a person doesn't know you doesn't ask you anything but throws your entire life in front of you would you believe just from a palm reading I myself would as I have experienced this so hopefully this helps anyone else..... People are gifted just like anyone who is able to help another even though they were a sufferer or suffering

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By *an.thisMan
over a year ago

Torbay & Bournemouth


"Hope your okay sweet. Its tough right now but you should never feel alone. Keep talking always! Love and hugs to you "

I have a great idea i think we should all Zoom him on christmas day ! Who will join me ? No one should be alone on christmas day especially if they are feeling down !! If anyone else is also on their own please let me know we can arrange something for you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....and if you kill yourself, make sure it doesn't inconvenience me!!"

Somehow, when told that repeatedly, one begins to believe it's an invitation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""....and if you kill yourself, make sure it doesn't inconvenience me!!"

Somehow, when told that repeatedly, one begins to believe it's an invitation."
erm not sure where that's come from or how it is goin to help anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll come in on Christmas Day and post lots of threads for participation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""....and if you kill yourself, make sure it doesn't inconvenience me!!"

Somehow, when told that repeatedly, one begins to believe it's an invitation. erm not sure where that's come from or how it is goin to help

anyone "

I feel this way too, ive posted my feelings in "its ok not be ok.

Its an awful feeling of being cheerful to people but a feeling of dying inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll come in on Christmas Day and post lots of threads for participation

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I'll look forward to that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll come in on Christmas Day and post lots of threads for participation

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that will be nice ??

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I’ll come in on Christmas Day and post lots of threads for participation

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Oh santiclaus

X

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Bump for Ted4fun .......

Look @ this lot.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


""....and if you kill yourself, make sure it doesn't inconvenience me!!"

Somehow, when told that repeatedly, one begins to believe it's an invitation. erm not sure where that's come from or how it is goin to help

anyone

I feel this way too, ive posted my feelings in "its ok not be ok.

Its an awful feeling of being cheerful to people but a feeling of dying inside "

Oh ..... ffs....... he found you first

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral


"If anyone needs to chat call on me too. Had a rough few years fell down a very deep dark hole only just starting to climb out. Take a day at a time, there are good and bad days more bad than good but the fights still on to recovery.

I always find talking to people who are going through the same thing helps because they have empathy for you and understand what you are going through.

So anyone feel like a chat feel free to message any time you want I don't sleep much anyway.

Take care stay safe your here and I take it everyday you are a little bit stronger than the day before ? We all go through times of hardship some more than others. Some people are stronger than others but at some point I think everyone needs someone. Its nice to hear other peoples struggles as sometimes it puts your own into perspective. Take care and I hope you have a merry Xmas and a happy new year x"

Thank you for your kind words sir yes I think there is some relief (not in a bad way) knowing there are folk out there in the same boat. Good to know that we all come together in our time of need.

You too my friend have a lovely Xmas and New year and take care stay safe

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By *immy1986Man
over a year ago

Spalding

I'm alone for Xmas too, and I'm suffering with depression. it's been a strange hard year for us all. I'm off work with a bad ankle at the moment and have a lot of time on my hands. I'm always about if anyone wants a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling quite low after today's announcement. I wasn't planning on going nuts with the mixing, but I had hoped to be able to stay with my family for a few days and now I can only go for a few hours.

I feel bad for those in Tier 4 though. What a shit year this has been.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

As Covid deprived me of my chance to travel home to see my kids I can certainly relate to this.

My thoughts to everyone deprived of time with their loved ones due to our current circumstances...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling quite low after today's announcement. I wasn't planning on going nuts with the mixing, but I had hoped to be able to stay with my family for a few days and now I can only go for a few hours.

I feel bad for those in Tier 4 though. What a shit year this has been."

I feel the same way

I've been on my own for most of the year after losing my job and everything being as it is.

I had 5 days of plans over Christmas that are now cancelled as I am in tier 4 from tomorrow

I'll still spend Christmas Day with some family and will see a friend on Christmas Eve- so I guess I'm lucky compared to some.

I just want to go out though!

I'm so sick of being at home.

I want a reason to get dressed up!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ups and downs, hey? Keep strong.

It won't last forever, and holding our resolve will mean we get through this with minimal damage. Roll on the vaccines.

I'm just glad my family are safe. I'll celebrate with them once we all are and Australia reopens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading through this makes me realise I'm not alone in feeling alone this Christmas.

Merry Christmas to fellow singles this Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling quite low after today's announcement. I wasn't planning on going nuts with the mixing, but I had hoped to be able to stay with my family for a few days and now I can only go for a few hours.

I feel bad for those in Tier 4 though. What a shit year this has been."

I feel this so much, I've had to cancel alot of plans and now indefinitely going to be fully alone this Christmas.

If anyone wants some company through messages my inbox is always there. I'd be welcome to any conversation and not feel alone.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Reading through this makes me realise I'm not alone in feeling alone this Christmas.

Merry Christmas to fellow singles this Christmas. "

I've had a long time to get used to the idea, but... it's just another day and it can wait. I say that because knowing that helps me. I hope it might help you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well no choice now. Both my kids are in tier 4 areas

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well no choice now. Both my kids are in tier 4 areas "

I'm sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well no choice now. Both my kids are in tier 4 areas "

Yes I'm sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through this makes me realise I'm not alone in feeling alone this Christmas.

Merry Christmas to fellow singles this Christmas.

I've had a long time to get used to the idea, but... it's just another day and it can wait. I say that because knowing that helps me. I hope it might help you too"

That is great advice thank you so much I will try to look at it that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling quite low after today's announcement. I wasn't planning on going nuts with the mixing, but I had hoped to be able to stay with my family for a few days and now I can only go for a few hours.

I feel bad for those in Tier 4 though. What a shit year this has been.

I feel the same way

I've been on my own for most of the year after losing my job and everything being as it is.

I had 5 days of plans over Christmas that are now cancelled as I am in tier 4 from tomorrow

I'll still spend Christmas Day with some family and will see a friend on Christmas Eve- so I guess I'm lucky compared to some.

I just want to go out though!

I'm so sick of being at home.

I want a reason to get dressed up!"
get dressed up and have a cam party with someone. Preferably another person who is also feeling lonely . Infact can we not do something so everyone is not lonely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling quite low after today's announcement. I wasn't planning on going nuts with the mixing, but I had hoped to be able to stay with my family for a few days and now I can only go for a few hours.

I feel bad for those in Tier 4 though. What a shit year this has been."
yeh it most definitely is a shit year. Its a good job your hot pics have brightened alot of peoples day. Your always in the top 5 so your obviously bringing a lot of joy to a lot of people. Keep up the good work xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If anyone needs to chat call on me too. Had a rough few years fell down a very deep dark hole only just starting to climb out. Take a day at a time, there are good and bad days more bad than good but the fights still on to recovery.

I always find talking to people who are going through the same thing helps because they have empathy for you and understand what you are going through.

So anyone feel like a chat feel free to message any time you want I don't sleep much anyway.

Take care stay safe your here and I take it everyday you are a little bit stronger than the day before ? We all go through times of hardship some more than others. Some people are stronger than others but at some point I think everyone needs someone. Its nice to hear other peoples struggles as sometimes it puts your own into perspective. Take care and I hope you have a merry Xmas and a happy new year x

Thank you for your kind words sir yes I think there is some relief (not in a bad way) knowing there are folk out there in the same boat. Good to know that we all come together in our time of need.

You too my friend have a lovely Xmas and New year and take care stay safe "
well thank you kind sir and may I wish the same to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well no choice now. Both my kids are in tier 4 areas

Yes I'm sorry to hear that "

Thanks guys. I make a really big thing out of Christmas usually and this would have been the first one with the house complete rather than a building site. It’s up for sale post divorce, so this will be the last Christmas here.

We’ve set a provisional date in March to have a full on Christmas instead. Looking ahead and thinking positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well no choice now. Both my kids are in tier 4 areas

Yes I'm sorry to hear that

Thanks guys. I make a really big thing out of Christmas usually and this would have been the first one with the house complete rather than a building site. It’s up for sale post divorce, so this will be the last Christmas here.

We’ve set a provisional date in March to have a full on Christmas instead. Looking ahead and thinking positive "
I got divorced earlier this year and I too lost my home . Not good and now im living at my sisters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well no choice now. Both my kids are in tier 4 areas

Yes I'm sorry to hear that

Thanks guys. I make a really big thing out of Christmas usually and this would have been the first one with the house complete rather than a building site. It’s up for sale post divorce, so this will be the last Christmas here.

We’ve set a provisional date in March to have a full on Christmas instead. Looking ahead and thinking positive I got divorced earlier this year and I too lost my home . Not good and now im living at my sisters "

I’m sorry. It’s a crap time.

I was divorced in feb. I struck a settlement that gave me time to do major renovations, alterations and landscaping. Hopefully I’ve made back the money I’ve had to pay out in the settlement.

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Wishing you all the very best and hope 2020 is a turn around for all of us. Hope you all have your dreams and aspirations come true. Take a day at a time, one step at a time and keep moving forward.

This is what friendship is in this group when everyone reaches out to a total stranger to give their help and support.

A truly very rare gift which for me is very much appreciated.

Thanks guys love you all

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well no choice now. Both my kids are in tier 4 areas

Yes I'm sorry to hear that

Thanks guys. I make a really big thing out of Christmas usually and this would have been the first one with the house complete rather than a building site. It’s up for sale post divorce, so this will be the last Christmas here.

We’ve set a provisional date in March to have a full on Christmas instead. Looking ahead and thinking positive "

Absolutely x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I got involved in a cam party last night ..it's a great way to get chatting with your forum friends

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